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After a little hiatus.....we are back!We will discuss being back, where we were and where we are going! And maybe a little discussion on space. Not like black holes and stuff. Just the regular kind--as in queer space.

Join us for a panel discussion with some of our favorite folks as we talk about polyamorous relationships from real people in loving, polyam relationships. We explore trust, communication, consent, and, above all, love in this extra-long episode. Come and listen--it's g-g-g-g-great. 

Well we are back for Season 2!Join us as we catch up on what we have been doing and what is next for the Podcast!Elvira News and ..... Is "they" only used as a  plural?p.s.  apparently there was a gnat flying around me before we started

It's a 4th of July inspired episode!  What does freedom mean to you?  Most of us have a feeling  and/or assumption about Freedom based on our life experiences (and where we live).  Is there one way to experience or define Freedom?  Where does your Freedom begin and/or end and is it based on someone else perception of their Freedom?

Join us and some friends for a a panel discussion on coming out as bi, bi-erasure, and what it’s like being in a long-term relationship with a person of the opposite sex as someone who is bi.Come for the serious talk and stay for the terrible references and shade that always gets thrown around.

Have you ever thought--I wish I didn't have to see THAT at Pride celebrations? Worried about your kids being exposed to THOSE people? Are you livid that these questions are being asked? Are you worried that our community is divided over modesty and "appropriateness" in a moment of what should be unabashed celebration? This episode is for you. Join us while we talk together about how and why we react the way we do to things (and people) who make us uncomfortable, while reflecting on the nature and purpose of Pride parades and celebrations. . 

To buy or not to buy...that is the question. Join as as we reminisce about the past in the queer community and talk about how that influences how we view the present in terms of the commercialization of Pride and queer culture. We also answer a few viewer questions in this patchouli-packed episode.

You do not want to miss this one! Have you ever felt like dating is the worst thing ever? Does it feel like it's only gotten worse over the past few years? You aren't alone!  We invited some friends to come and talk to us about the perils of dating in a post 2006 world, during the pandemic, and more. 

Have you noticed all of the folks who are obsessed with the recent coming-out announcements from some famous people? You ever wonder why it's such a thing? Still a thing? So did we. So we decided to talk about it. Stop by and have a listen as we muse about why coming out is still so relevant and important, as well as some of the impacts on the LGBTQIA community.

Sometimes it's a good idea to "cover the basics" because maybe they haven't become so basic anymore.  Come join our very informal conversation about things like "not outting people" & "why are we obsessed with knowing your gender".  Also, find out how we are bad at math.

Let's face it, we have all tried to be the "best," thinking it was the only way to be accepted.  When does carrying that burden become too much and what happens when we "stop playing the game"? Is there a middle ground where we aren’t either the good witch or the bad witch?  Can we ever really focus on just being exceptional on our own terms? 

Based on listener feedback, this episode is a rough draft of how you can be a better ally for those in your life.  The request was for classroom support, but it can apply to everyone. In short, how can we all lift each other up and show support in ways that maybe we aren't doing now? Let's face it, no matter where we are in the alphabet, it's always a good idea to make sure we are doing what we can to be supportive to others, especially when they come to us with their story.

In this episode..... we return!  Also we tackle the subject on your right to unfriend and block.  Is it an act of self preservation or are you giving up?  Join the discussion and see if you are making choices that are good for you or if you are being manipulated to continue unhealthy relationships. 

Gender norms are so last season...... Or at least we thought that they were. What is this obsession with masculine/feminine identity and why do we choose arbitrary things to personify it? We wont unlock any secrets of the universe, but we are gonna start the conversation ;) 

Complaining..... Complaining about anything and everything..... Complaining about the wrong things.  Its all the rage these days!  When is complaining cathartic and when is it just plain toxic?  How can we turn our complaining into helpful action? I don't know if we know, but we are gonna try and sort it out.  Join us.

How are you dealing with the looming election and all of the signs/ads/policies and general dumpster fires surrounding it?  Most days we aren't doing well, even though we are still laughing....often a bit hysterically.  Laugh (and cry) with us as we tackle the election anxiety plaguing us all and find out how flying frozen turkeys relate to it all .  

What happens when people stop being polite and start showing their real selves?  How do we come to terms with the fact that we are living in the "Age Of Disappointment"? In this episode we tackle the difficult subject of friends and family being less supportive than we previously thought and how to work through this. 

What happens when you've made a place at the table for everyone.... and you maybe start to wish you hadn't?  We discuss when its ok to be "with your people" and when its ok to mingle. Also, is it ok to question the motives of those around you and what they "bring to the table".

It's our first podcast.  You know, that one that's a throw away.  The one where we mindlessly talk about ourselves and lay out the plot and outline for what we hope to provide for all of y'all.  Please just get through this one and hopefully we will continue to grow and entertain you.  We hope you can find something really special in this and see it as an invitation to always come to "our table" and feel seen.