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Whatever She Says
77 minutes | Feb 8, 2022
EP 29: Money and Fame Does Not Spare You From the Pain
In this week’s episode Carla and Wax discuss co-parenting woes of the rich/famous, how freedom of speech is not free, and leaving friends around your partner [5:29] Pet peeve of the week: your partner passing gas in their sleep [11:19] Topic of the day: coparenting in the era of social media [20:12] Spotify takes down some Joe Rogan episodes [27:04]Kiera Sheard says she no friend stay at her house around her husband [42:01] Listener Letters: [43:15]How did you convince Wax to do couples counseling? [46:21]Do you have any tips on dating a person with kids when you don’t have any? [48:25] How to deal with co-parenting with a young child out-of-state?[50:51] My friends boyfriend friend had a conversation with me about the relationship, should I tell me friend what was said?[1:00:28] I need help getting this man out my house [1:07:24] Pass Da Word: Colossians 2:6-7 “So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness” Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss Have a podcast you are ready to Grow & Monetize? Join the Elite Podcast Society
83 minutes | Feb 1, 2022
EP 28: Are you in Love or Lust?
In this week’s episode Carla and Wax discuss the response from last week’s episode, national compliment day, embarrassing “toy” stories, and love vs lust. [7:42] Pet peeve of the week: watching young girls being sexually exploited on social media by their parents [16:04] From the therapist couch: When your values change, you need a new life strategy. [34:04] Topic of the day: [38:21] National compliment day , [46:24] Toys being seen by children, [53:40] Lura Govan says she was never in love it was lust [58:17] Cryonics lab has 200 bodies frozen in hope to bring back to life. [1:03:22] Listener Letters: Husband/Fiancé got a new job in another state.financially this will be a good move for us but leaving my daughter with her father for 4 years I’m not so sure about …what should I do? [1:12:07] Pass Da Word: 1 Peter 3:8 Finally, all of you, be like-minded,be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.com and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss Enrollment is Open for Elite Podcast Society
96 minutes | Jan 25, 2022
EP 27: When Co-Parenting Gets Much Harder Than Expected
In this week’s episode Carla and Wax discuss responsibilities of a step parent, financial differences, and having your partner's best interests at all times. [3:18] Pet peeve of the week: Telling someone something for their benefit and them not following the advice [7:19]From the therapist couch: What is your responsibility as a step parent and how involved should you be in the different stages of the child’s life? [43:35]Topic of the day: does financial differences make a couple unevenly yoked, [53:07] woman donates kidney to boyfriend then he broke up with her, [57:39] man proposed to girlfriend with a receipt of student loan payoff [1:04:35] Listener Letters: We recently added a new baby to our family, my partner hasn’t been making the best decisions financially and it’s starting to affect my feelings toward him what should I do please help? [1:15:25] My girlfriend has a problem with my friend using my crib to have sex [1:19:37] Pass Da Word: Proverbs 14:21 It is a sin to despise one’s neighbor, but blessed is the one who is kind to the needy. Get your Gummies www.whoswax.com use code WSS for 10% off
71 minutes | Jan 4, 2022
EP 26: Can You Make Him Happier?
It’s the first episode of the new year! In this week’s episode Carla and Wax discuss good/bad of being in business together, leaving thing behind in 2021, and how-to support your partner during a difficult time. [6:38] : Pet Peeve of the week - Double standards in the household in regards to passing gas [13:24] From the Therapist’s Couch: How involved are you and each other’s work lives, What are the consequences good and bad being in business together? [22:16] TOPIC OF THE DAY: Normalize Scratching the kitty ladies [28:14] Loss of attraction due to pandemic weight gain [34:12] one thing you want to leave behind in 2021 [37:18] supporting your partner during a difficult time [41:56] Listener Letters: Over the years I feel slighted with gift giving in my marriage, how to do I tell my wife I feel under appreciated ? [49:37] I want my friend’s husband because I know I can make him happier, what should I do [57:10] My sister in-law makes gagging noises whenever I kiss or complement my fiancé, this bothers me how to I set boundaries respectfully? [01:02:34] Pass Da Word: Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. www.whoswax.com Use code WSS for 10% off Join the Elite Podcast Society Free Vision Board Party Sign Up
61 minutes | Dec 31, 2021
EP 25: Ending 2021 with Omarion in the House
In this week’s episode Carla and Wax talk new Covid Variant,recap life over the holidays, and their upcoming New Years plans There is also a discussion on the children kitchen set debate and parenting the second time around [6:48] : Appreciation Shoutout - Carla gives Wax a shoutout for getting her what she needed [10:54] TOPIC OF THE DAY: Man in Louisiana pretends to be disabled/ paid a babysitter to change his diaper [12:45] fight break out during church service [18:59] little boy kitchen set debate [23:01] Dad daycare [28:55] New Year’s Eve plans [34:28] Lawerence and Issa are back! [39:45] Listener Letters: My mom announced that she was excited to be a grandmother for the first time because being a step grandma is not the same to my 6 year old step son. Should I cut my mother off? [49:32] Pass Da Word: Proverbs 21:5 The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty. Proverbs 21:25 The craving of a sluggard will be the death of him, because his hands refuse to work. Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss
95 minutes | Nov 23, 2021
EP 24: Done with Your ADHD & Depression! Can I Leave?
73 minutes | Nov 5, 2021
EP 23: Do you tell your partner how you want to be treated?
In this week’s episode Carla and Wax discuss The Mother/Daughter vs Father/Son affection love comparison, can love distract your goals? and parental lessons on marriage/relationship. There is also a discussion centered around communicating to your partner how you want to be treated in a relationship [2:18] Pet Peeve of the Week: Wax always wants Carla to give the kiss face when he comes around [7:13] From the Therapist’s Couch: The positives effects of therapy, has therapy helped you change your way of thinking on a certain subject [12:25] TOPIC OF THE DAY: The Mother/Daughter vs Father/Son affection and love comparison [26:40] should we tell people how to treat us? [32:57] Can love distract you from your goals? [36:57] what did you learn about marriage/relationship from your parents? [43:15] Listener Letters: I’m catching feelings for my co-worker who’s not single help [50:15] My husband and I had a fight 3 weeks ago reminiscent of my past childhood trauma, now we don’t talk at all what should I do? [1:01:50] Pass Da Word: Philippians 4:6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus “When David faced Goliath he didn’t talk about how dangerous Goliath was he talked about how great God is don’t talk fear talk faith” - T.D Jakes Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss
63 minutes | Oct 19, 2021
EP 22: The Perfectly Flawed Partner
Today's Show is brought to you by McDonalds. In this week’s episode Carla and Wax discuss Prioritizing date night, recap their most rent date night , and how there’s no such thing as a “perfect person” while dating There is also discussion about the dating question “what do you bring to the table” and how it can be viewed as degrading [3:08] Pet Peeve of the Week: Carla is over it because the dog has runaway three times this week [10:50] From the Therapist’s Couch: Dating Advice from a therapist: There is no such thing as a perfect person and some people have more flaws than you can tolerate, don’t deceive yourself into thing you can change what you don’t like long term relationship are built on liking your partner don’t people that a long list of things that you want to change [20:31] TOPIC OF THE DAY: Prioritizing date night [23:18]Recap story of last week date night [31:31] Tony Gaskins against the question “what do you bring to the table [35:44} Megan Trainer & husband purchase his and hers toilets [44:13] Listener Letters: I don’t want to marry my fiancé and I want to break up, what should I do? [50:23] together for 9 years my sex drive has spike after I stop taking birth control, it’s difficult for my husband to initiate sex after all the times I’ve told him. What can I do to help our sex life? [54:15] Pass Da Word: Colossians 3:13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss Today's Show is sponsored by AHA Sparkling Water!
81 minutes | Oct 6, 2021
EP 21: F*** Your Grief Therapy!
59 minutes | Sep 28, 2021
EP 20: Marrying for Money, Tipping Etiquette, & Possible Swingers
This week Carla and Wax discuss the benefits of marriage, proper tipping etiquette, and swingers They also talk about surprise gift giving and get down to the bottom of why Carla doesn’t like flowers but also doesn’t mind flowers as gift. It’s her world… he just lives in it! Take a listen to this week’s episode [07:54] Pet Peeve of the Week: Wax hates that Carla drinks out of water bottles and put them back in the fridge. [09:50] Carla has an issue with the wine restrictions in New Jersey [13:26] From the Therapist’s Couch: What are the benefits of being married, do you marry for comfort or love? [24:58] TOPIC OF THE DAY: Are you supposed to tip when you pick-up food from a restaurant? [29:13] How often should you get your girl a surprise gift? [34:24] What is worst? a person who never acknowledges their wrong doing or a person that always says sorry but doesn’t change their behavior? [41:44] Listener Letters: My husband after 15 years decided to tell me he wants to try a “swingers” club with me after a show sparked his interest, how do I approach change and interests as the years go by? [50:48] Pass Da Word: Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss
85 minutes | Sep 23, 2021
EP 19: Individual Trauma, Opposite Sex Friends, & Worldly Sins
INNOVATE HER NOW Win a Free Trip to LA and VIP Tickets to the Podcast Summit This week’s Carla and Wax discuss dealing with individual trauma in a relationship, opposite sex friends and worldly sins. They also have a discussion about falling in love with potential and if people eventually grow out of cheating when they find “the right one” umm, let’s just say there are two different opinions. But at the end of it all the final word is “Whatever She Says” [04:15] Pet Peeve of the Week: People going to the bathroom and leave with washing their hand it’s disgusting. [12:50] From the Therapist’s Couch: dealing with past trauma in a relationship but individually [29:30] TOPIC OF THE DAY: How you change as a person when you find the right person [32:17] The feeling that you get when you find the right person [40:30] Opposite Sex Friends [48:00] Telling someone you’re not ready for a relationship but still expected a relationship [01:00:46] Listener Letters: I’m in one-hour long distance relationship, She I be ok with my boyfriend hangout with his female friend? [01:07:51] Step-parent boundaries, As a step mother how can I discipline my step child? [1:15:16] Pass Da Word: Proverbs 20:22 Do not say, “I’ll pay you back for this wrong!” Wait for the LORD, and he will avenge you. Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss
79 minutes | Sep 14, 2021
EP 18: Possible Polygamy, Ideal Coparenting, & Entrepreneurship Goals
This week’s Carla and Wax discuss doing things you don’t like out of love, Polygamy and Responsibilities of co-parenting. They also open a discussion about premarital counseling and what Wax really thinks about what happens at a bachelorette party! A compromise was made but... let’s just say Carla’s Island bachelorette party idea may require another conversation. [05:20]Pet Peeve of the Week: Cellphones At the dining room table, Dining room table should be a place where we spend uninterrupted time together [10:30] From the Therapist’s Couch: Getting compromise from a man’s perspective of being your protector [22:44] TOPIC OF THE DAY : Doing things you don’t like out of love for your partner [27:25] What does Polygamy look like? And do I want to be a polygamist? [31:31] Responsibilities of co-parenting [45:21] Listener Letters: I am unhappy at work, should I quit my job without knowing where/how income will flow to spend time with my kids and to be a happier me? [53:16] How do I tell my partner what I need sexually without hurting their feelings? and how do I give direction he will follow? [1:03:26] Pass Da Word: Proverbs 10:17 Whoever heeds discipline shows the way to life, but whoever ignores correction leads others astray. Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% OFF your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss
54 minutes | Sep 7, 2021
EP 17: Faking Orgasms for Way Too Long
Take the Innovater Her Now Survey to win a Flight and Free ticket to our Summit in LA! This week’s Carla and Wax chat about How long should couples wait to have another baby after the firstborn? And how social media beef in effects relationships. They also recap Wax’s birthday celebration. Wax explains the day’s events as only Wax can meanwhile, Carla gives the complete story from her POV its whatever she says! [07:08] Pet Peeve of the week: When Sexytime turns in to bedtime, Mama is tired [12:05] From the Therapist’s Couch: Having clear goals for your future [20:05] TOPIC OF THE DAY: How long should couples wait to have another baby after their first? [26:56] Social media beef in relationships [ 34:53] Listener Letters: how much privacy is appropriate between your partner and their kid’s parent like if they say what they talk about is none of your business. [37:26] if you're out at dinner and your partner asks for some food out of your plate and you say no is that selfish If he’s the one paying? [46:00] Pass Da Word: 1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss
56 minutes | Sep 3, 2021
EP 16: How to Adjust When the Relationship Dynamic Changes After a Baby
In this week's episode they chat about how relationship dynamic changes after kids, hormones, adjusting, and living apart for months after the baby was born. [02:39 ]Pet Peeve of the Week: Taking just to talk… saying things for no reason [04:52]From the Therapist Couch Shutting Down -Do you speak of the problem right away or keep it to yourself? [48:10 ]Pass Da Word: Psalm 91 : “He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty." Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss
68 minutes | Feb 23, 2021
EP 15: Mama Needs a Nap!
Carla & Wax have a very dynamic schedule. With a new born and two ambitious hustlers in the household there is a likely chance of feeling overwhelmed. In this week's episode they chat about the frustration and teamwork it takes to transition into their busy and unpredictable traveling schedule. Pet Peeve of the Week: @WaxKyng tries to butter Carla up by flipping the pet peeve of the week on himself. He thinks he did it successfully, tell us what you think? 12:00: From the Therapist Couch: We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss 53:00 - Pass Da Word James 2:14 : What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them?" ——————————————————— Connect with us: firstname.lastname@example.org @whatevershesayspod @carlawilmaris @waxkyng @WhosWax
43 minutes | Feb 13, 2021
Ep 14: Sex is NOT a gift
Pet peeve of the week : Not reading the manual or instruction guide while building or putting something together! Tune in to see how Wax almost… well, just tune in… I don’t want to write anything incriminating lol. Therapist Couch: Seeing a future with someone is important. Not in a crazy “omg are we getting married” on the first date kind of way. Wax & Carla talk about how alignment is the foundation of a long-term relationship. Valentine’s Day Virtual date Ideas: If you are dating someone but cannot be with them on Valentine’s Day, we give you some pretty cool ideas to still enjoy this man made holiday. Also, you'll get to hear the story about Wax sending his teacher to the hospital Pass Da Word: Luke 18:1 Then Jesus told his disciplines a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up. In this segment we explore the power of persistence. Are you persistent about the outcomes that you want in your life? Are you seeking the things that give your joy and make you feel aligned? Connect with us: email@example.com @whatevershesayspod @carlawilmaris @waxkyng @WhosWax
46 minutes | Jan 26, 2021
EP 13: Baby Psalm Is Finally Here!
This episode is very special to us because we are finally welcoming Baby Pslam to our Whatever She Says, family! Thank you for all of your support and warm wishes, we have been showered with love daily. This week we catch you up on the craziness of Psalm’s birth. Remember when the doctor told us Psalm would be here in February? Yeah, looks like the little man had his own agenda. [5:00] Pet Peeve of the week: TV infidelity ! [24:00] We also talk to you about ABO incompatibility and provide you all with updates about Psalms ‘Jaundice status. Stay tuned because even insert audio footage from the car ride to the hospital after Carla’s water broke. [40:00] Pass Da' Word Psalm 55:22 Cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken. “The Wait Defines The Weight of your relationship.“ Pastor JJ Links Mentioned: “Stretch Marks” Journey Church https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=krh-GZ0_HDI Connect with us: @Whatevershesayspod @CarlaWilmaris @IdeaToLaunch @Waxkyng @WhosWax
67 minutes | Jan 12, 2021
EP 12: Is Work Life Balance Even Possible?
Carla is officially 9 months pregnant this week!! Can you guess when the baby is going to come?! [5:00] Apple Podcast Review Thank you for leaving a podcast review to help grow our show. We get a lot of DM’s and people who have emailed us to show their support. It would help the show immensely if you go leave that 5 star review :). We even learn from the reviews, for example Wax is learning how to say: “Callate La Boca. Por Favor” [7:00] Pet Peeve of the week Garbage Etiquette When do you take the initiative to take out the trash? Are you the type of person to [11:00] From the Therapist Couch Trust is a choice regardless of your past conditioning. [16:06] Work Life Balance: Is work life balance a real thing? Carla & Wax discuss how they can both work and still keep things balanced in the relationship. [28:00] Listener Letters: I found messages in my husbands phone and need advice on how I should take it. My brother doesn’t like my new boyfriend & he said something that made me raise an eyebrow and reevaluate our relationship. I need help [47:00] 50/50 Court: Plaintiff bring defendant to court because he does not drink enough water. Tune in to find out the benefits of having a water dick! [1:02] Pass Da Word Pslam 27:11 Teach me your way, LORD; lead me in a straight path because of my oppressors. Connect With Us: @Whatevershesayspod @carlawilmaris @waxkyng --------------------------- Need therapy? Try Better Help therapy and 10% off your first month at: www.trybetterhelp.com/30
68 minutes | Jan 5, 2021
Ep 11: Vulnerability is a Superpower
Cheers to the New Year! [2:30] Pet Peeve of the week: This week Carla and Wax dive into proper phone etiquette! Is it wrong for a person to put you on speaker phone without letting you know? [10:00] Therapist Couch: Wax and Carla started going back to therapy and continue to strengthen their communication and unpack patterns that cause conflict in their lives. Aside from drinking tea and telling the therapist that she’s wasting her time… Wax is learning a lot and this week he teaches Carla something in therapy! [24:00] Black Men and their Relationship To Vulnerability: The world has manipulated our society into thinking that vulnerability is “soft” or "weak" when in fact it's a very brave act. This week Carla encourages Wax to lean into being vulnerability and challenges him to “feel” his feelings instead of suppressing them. Wax in return challenges Carla to adopt multiple views of “vulnerability” and to not expect him to react in the same ways that she would to a situation. [37:00] Listener letters: 37:21 If you would like to seek advice fro Carla & Wax email us at WhateverSheSaysPodcast@gmail.com [51:02] 50/50 Court: This week we have a special 50/50 episode! Let us know what you think! [54:00] Pass Da’ Word: Malachi 3: 10 Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the Lord Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it. Amen! Who’s Wax Care Package Give Away: The first 10 people who email us at firstname.lastname@example.org gets a chance to win The Who’s Wax care package. We are selecting: 10 people from CA 10 people from everywhere else Make sure to hashtag #WSSpod #WhosWax when you recieve your package Post on your social media and tag us to let us know you emailed us ——————————————————— Connect with us: email@example.com @whatevershesayspod @carlawilmaris @waxkyng @WhosWax ————
70 minutes | Dec 29, 2020
Ep 10 Goodbye 2020!
ATTENTION: We are Looking for a destination wedding planner! Please reach out or refer anyone you think will be great! We are specifically looking to support a black business! [3:00] Pet Peeve of the week: Unannounced Visitors! It might’ve been okay as a teenager to show up unannounced at a neighbor’s house but as an adult, it is inappropriate. This week Carla & Wax talk about unwarranted guest etiquette where they both agree and disagree on the proper decorum. Tell us what you think! [7:50] From The Therapist Couch: Don’t confront situations while processing them, AKA I didn’t listen! [16:00] Yearly Wrap- Up/ Reflection: This episode Carla & Wax reflect on major events during 2020. They discuss pivotal cultural moments, along with personal/ professional accomplishments. In just one year they were able to start a multiple businesses separately & together, convince a child, and get engaged! Woah… [34:00] Listener Letter’s [48:00] 50/50 Court: Plaintiff V is bringing defendant Nicole to court because she is tired of being silenced about her poops. Defendant counter argues Plaintiff has no boundaries and talks about pooping at the wrong times! [1hr] Pass Da Word: Psalm 51:2 Wash away all my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin.
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