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Hello Lovers,  In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of splitting finances equally in relationships and explore the dynamics, challenges & benefits of adopting a 50/50 approach. With our guest Mr. Zulu Gold, we discuss the importance of open communication, financial compatibility, and trust when it comes to managing finances as a couple. Whether you're currently in a relationship, considering one, or simply interested in understanding the dynamics of financial harmony, this episode offers valuable and funny insights. Visit our website: https://linktr.ee/wtrelationship 

Welcome back Lovers. In this episode, we delve into the topic of self-introspection and relationships. We all know that relationships require work, and one of the most important aspects of that work is taking a good hard look at ourselves. When we are able to understand our own motivations, triggers, and patterns of behavior, we can approach our relationships with a greater level of awareness and compassion. Basically, we're asking ourselves whether we are or have been a red flag in relationships. Visit the WTR Website: https://linktr.ee/wtrelationship Show some love to Lulo Rugs: https://www.instagram.com/lulorugs/

Hello Lovers,  Parenting in the 21st century can be challenging, complex, and expensive. In this episode, we are joined by our new Podcast Manager Emile where we explore the various and unique challenges that parents face in today's world while also reflecting on our desires to be potential parents.  Do what lovers do, like, rate, and share the podcast. 

Hello Lovers,  There has been a lot of noise in the "manosphere" about femininity and masculinity in relationships. There has been a lot of noise about friends dating their best friends' partners. We are addressing these concerns in this episode with extra special guest @zulugoku.  Be sure to show some love to the episode.  Co-hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii Guest: @zulugoku  Watch our Podcast here: https://www.youtube.com/@WhatTheRelationship 

Hello Lovers,  Welcome to another episode of What The Relationship. On today's episode, we're discussing the pressure men experience when it comes to modern-day dating with our extra special guest Makhubo The Chef Sbu.  Do what lovers do: Listen & Share the episode!  Co-hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngiiN Special Guest: @makhubo_thechef 

Hello Lovers,  What a year 2022 has been! Lots and lots of lessons have been learned, especially in the love department.  We reflect on our own love journeys with our favorite girl: Bokang!  Be sure to do what lovers do: like & rate the podcast!  Co-hosts: Candice (@candice_chirwa) & Lungelo (@lunngii)  Guest: @sheisbokang Watch our Podcast on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship Follow us on socials:  IG: @wtrelationship TikTok: What The Relationship

Hello Lovers,  Ever wondered why men just choose to be a problem in relationships? Whether it's being confusing with their time and effort or switching up their behaviors, we unpack this crisis with the spokesperson for men: Lwazi Mandonsela.  Be sure to do what lovers do: like & rate the podcast!  Co-hosts: Candice (@candice_chirwa) & Lungelo (@lunngii)  Guest: @umsindisiwesiko  Watch our Podcast on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship  Follow us:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wtrelationship/  Tik-Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wtrpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc 

Hello Lovers,  When you did you realize that your ex was toxic? That's the question we tackle in this episode with sharing our stories about our past relationships. A lot of healing happened, but also a lot of venting, lots and lots of venting.  Be sure to do what lovers do like and rate the podcast.  Co-hosts: Candice (@candice_chirwa) & Lungelo (@lunngii) Guest: @thee_jesseekah  Watch our Podcast on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship 

Hello Lovers,  Do you pay attention to clothing when dating someone? Does your partner's fashion sense impact the way you see your partner? Dress sense is important when you want to attract a new partner. What you wear can make a difference when someone is weighing up their attraction to you.  So how do clothes affect our relationships and dating style is what we're chatting about on this episode with the world's biggest hater: Lwandle Shamase.  Be sure to do what lovers do like and rate the podcast. Co-hosts: Candice (@candice_chirwa) & Lungelo (@lunngii)  GUEST: @zulugoku  Want to watch our podcast? Catch us on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wtrelationship/ and Tik-Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wtrpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc 

Hello Lovers, We're back from our winter break. In the great words of RuPaul Charles: "If you can't love yourself, how in the hell are you going to love someone else?" And in this episode, It's all about self-love, particularly our relationship with our bodies. We sat down with our extra special guest, the founder of Wild Thots: Sisipho Gcanga to chat about our past and present relationships with our own bodies.  Be sure to do what lovers do like and rate the podcast.  Co-hosts: Candice (@candice_chirwa) & Lungelo (@lunngii)  Guest: @sisipho_gcanga  Want to watch our Podcast? Catch us on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship  Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wtrelationship/  and Tik-Tok: @wtrelationship

Hello Lovers,  If you have been in a serious relationship and are thinking of ways of introducing your partner to your parents, have you ever considered that WHO you are dating might not live up to your parents' expectations? Have you ever spoken to your parents about your dating life? Have you realized that you might be an image of your parents in your relationships? I hope you get the hint, in this episode, we discuss our own dating experiences and parents with our extra special guest: Digital Content Queen Bokang.  Be sure to do what lovers do like, and rate the podcast.  Co-hosts: Candice (@candice_chirwa) & Lungelo (@lunngii)  Guest: @sheisbokang  Subscribe to our Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship  Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wtrelationship/ 

Hello Lovers,  Did you know that June is Men's Mental Health Month? Did you also know that men are less likely than women to seek help for depression, substance abuse, and stressful life events due to social norms?! We discuss about the real damaging impact it takes to be the Ultimate man with our extra special guest: Lwandle “The Ultimate” Shamase.  Be sure to do what lovers do, like & rate the podcast.  Co-hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii  Guest: @TheUltimate_ZA Subscribe to our Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatTheRelationship Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wtrelationship/ 

Hello Lovers,  It's common to be attracted to other people, however, it becomes a problem when you're using those thoughts to escape the reality of your relationship. Even worse if you're taking steps towards actually doing it. In this episode, we chat about different scenarios we've been tempted and let's just say that this episode gets lit.  Co-hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii  Extra Special Guest: @silverback_domingos Do what lovers do and subscribe to & rate the podcast!  _____________________ Lovers, want your love story* to be featured? Send us an email at hello.wtrpodcast@gmail.com.  *Love stories will be anonymously read* 

Hi Lovers, After all of the hype from the Netflix Series, The Ultimatum, we reflect on the most shocking things from the show and dive into whether or not an ultimatum is necessary with our male perspective guest Kopano.  Do what lovers do, like & subscribe to the podcast.  Hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii  Guest: @mrkopano

It is our 50th EPISODE. FIFTY! We reflect on our life journeys from episode one till now and we are venting & reflecting on what happens when finding out that you're dating a person who is a walking red flag. 🚩    Hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii    Do What Lovers Do: Like, Subscribe & Leave a Rating! 

Hello Lovers 💜,  Everyone loves doing the deed. But when it comes to practicing it safely, well... that is another conversation which we are having with our eXXXtra special guest and super fan of the podcast: Lindo. In this episode, we chat about safe sex practices and also vent about a very very interesting STD story.  Do what lovers do: Like, Comment & Rate the episode!  Co-hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii  Guest: @lindo_king 

Hello Lovers,  We get it. Talking about money is the LEAST sexy thing to talk about whilst dating. But the truth is Money TALKS.  And when it comes to Mjolo, well, the dynamics can change when you start having real and honest conversations about goals, dreams, and who gonna pay for the bill? We chat about our money anxieties in relationships.  Do what lovers do: like, share & rate the episode. K. Thanks!  Co-hosts: @lunngii & @candice_chirwa 

Hey Lovers,  Gender Roles. We've heard a lot about them. But we wonder what role they play in our interpersonal relationships. In this episode we're joined by our very own Kevin Hart look alike (Mthobisi), to share the male perspective. It gets a bit tense.  Do what lovers do, like, comment & share the episode!  Co-hosts @candice_chirwa & @lunngii  Extra Special Guest: Kevin Mthobisi Hart. 

Hey Lovers,  Ever thought about why sex is always seen as a taboo subject, especially in our relationships? Ever wondered why we can't talk openly about sex? And what's the tea about giving ratings In this episode, we're talking about ALL the GOOD things about sex and ALL the INTERESTING things about sex with our fave sexologist Tii.  Do what lovers do and like, subscribe & leave a rating.  Cohosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii Exxxtra special guest: @goddess_mbeketeli

This week we are joined by Ayanda. We talk about the building of a relationship. What are the tools needed? Money? Communication? Looks? A relationship is like building a boat and each person need to bring the right tools in order to set the sails for your voyage. Be sure to Subscribe, Comment & Share.