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This week, Raya is joined by Christina Kim - an LA-based sugar baby, entrepreneur, and founder of Agency LA. Christina and Raya discuss the misconceptions around sugaring and the importance of giving the right information for women interested in seeking arrangements. Christina explains why she decided to become a sugar baby herself, as well as how it has propelled her to live out her most authentic life - and become the CEO of a company. Christina and Raya also discuss the importance of knowing the risks involved and how to be confident and set boundaries in order to set yourself up for success in the world of sugaring. Check out Christina's agency for arrangements at agencyla.co and learn more on her TikTok channel here. For more Raya follow @rayacarmona & @wasthatgoodforyou on IG. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya is joined by LA-based comedian and podcast host Yamini Nambimadom. Yamini takes Raya through her almost year-long relationship that started during the pandemic and has been entirely had via Zoom, texting & FaceTime. They also chat about how quarantine has helped people learn to be more honest, set boundaries, and possibly may even lead to safer sex. Listen to Yamini's podcast here. Do you have suggestions for any future topics? Drop Raya an email at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your idea on the next episode!For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya is joined by Portia - the founder & creator of Froetic Sexology. Portia and Raya discuss the ways in which they were taught about sex as well as how it can be improved for generations going forward. Portia explains how to bring mindfulness and meditation practices into sexual experiences, and how it can lead to even better orgasms. Portia and Raya also dive deep into the importance of looking at sex as a co-creative experience versus a performance, which they find many women and femmes struggle with. Learn more from Portia here. Do you have suggestions for any future topics? Drop Raya an email at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your idea on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya is joined by Charles & Shelley Wininger. Over the past 20 years, Charley, 71 years old, and Shelley, 69 years old, have found MDMA to act as a kind of romantic glue for them. They've used it intentionally to enhance and deepen their bond, with its positive effects on their marriage accumulating over time. They explain that they’ve done MDMA carefully and responsibly together over 70 times. We chat through how the drug has rejuvenated them both emotionally and sexually as they’ve entered their senior years.  Get a copy of Listening To Ecstacy here.  Do you have suggestions for any future topics? Drop Raya an email at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your idea on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For the season 3 premiere of Was That Good For You?, Raya chats with porn collage artist Lisa Be and photographer Rina Mov to discuss what it means to be a "nasty woman." They debate the best time to start being open about bodily functions with a new partner as well as the standards women are held to when it comes to those things. They also discuss why men are uncomfortable around women who openly like sex and even swap stories of the times they've had to get "nasty" in front of their sexual partners. For more Lisa & Rina Do you have suggestions for any future topics? Drop Raya an email at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your idea on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya talks with BDSM educator & 24/7 collared submissive Lina Dune to dispel some myths surrounding BDSM and the kink community, including how safe it is, how it stresses consent and communication, and how aspects of kink can help with everyone's sexual experiences, even those not interested in BDSM. Check out Lina's Patreon here! Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya is joined by musician Bonavega to discuss coming from a religious background and breaking out of that shell. Bonavega details how he's found himself through his music, including not conforming to any gender or sexuality norms and even the subject matter he sings about, as well as how this personal exploration has actually led to healthier relationships. Listen to Bonavega's music here! Was That Good For You Merch Drop 1 is still available, but going fast! Support the show by visiting WasThatGoodForYou.co to grab limited edition pieces including tees, crewneck sweaters, one of a kind vintage and more! Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya is joined by musician almondmilkhunni to discuss her dating life and explosive career, the pressure she feels from being on social media, and how she became a de facto voice for dancers and sex workers. Almondmilkhunni also weighs in on the divide among OnlyFans users and she explains why she avoids dating men whose sign is cancer. Listen to almondmilkhunni's music here: https://open.spotify.com/artist/778bhPsYwr6sAELsBBX8MC?si=TRtIl2gaSG--bHqz-hBktw As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting betterhelp.com/goodforyou! Was That Good For You Merch Drop 1 is still available, but going fast! Support the show by visiting WasThatGoodForYou.co to grab limited edition pieces including tees, crewneck sweaters, one of a kind vintage and more! Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya talks with sex journalist and sex toy enthusiast Gabrielle Kassel to chat about masturbation, sex toys, and so much more. Gabrielle explains where and how a beginner user can start incorporating toys, and gives her recommendations for toys you may have never heard of. Gabrielle and Raya also discuss Doomsturbating, talking about sex outside of the bedroom, and how Covid may make conversations about STI testing easier in the future.  Sex Toys & Companies mentioned on this episode: Cute Little Fuckers Fun Factory Le Wand Bow Stainless Steel Toy INTRODUCING: Was That Good For You Merch Drop 1! Support the show by visiting WasThatGoodForYou.co to grab limited edition pieces including tees, crewneck sweaters, one of a kind vintage and more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, writer and polyamory ethical non-monogamy resource Gabrielle Smith talks with Raya about how to navigate opening a relationship to polyamory and/or ethical non-monogamy and how to set appropriate boundaries to ensure success in your relationship. They discuss the issues that don't allow people to comprehend opening a relationship, including insecurity and pressure, and why we're conditioned societally to think that jealousy is just a part of being with someone. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting betterhelp.com/goodforyou! Resources on polyamory and ENM mentioned on this episode: Michelle AKA Polyamorous While Asian GabAlexa Shrimp Teeth Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya is joined by repeat (and very first!) podcast guest Kristi Beck to discuss the misrepresentation of sexuality, namely the female experience, in television and movies, and how we've all been negatively influenced by terrible sex cliches. They also talk about how the media has pressured everyone into thinking they have to constantly be a relationship and the standards we see every day can lead to performance issues for both men and women. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting betterhelp.com/goodforyou! Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya is joined by author and certified witch Gabriela Herstik to discuss Sex Magick (not to be confused with "magic") and how sexual energy is crucial in her work. They also explore how Magick can work for everyone in their everyday lives, no matter what your background or what you believe in, and how to get a handle on your energies to find success. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting betterhelp.com/goodforyou! Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya is joined by author filmmaker, and host of "The Sex Ed" Podcast, Liz Goldwyn and they discuss how there is no such thing as a late bloomer, the many short-comings of even modern sex education toward young people, and why most of the concepts around virginity are just social constructs. Plus, Liz answers some fan-submitted questions, including how to explore new avenues of sex with your partner & whether you should sleep with your ex (spoiler alert: you probably shouldn't). As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting betterhelp.com/goodforyou  Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya talks with Ryan Scott Graham, musician and all-around hot guy musician, to talk about how people fall for musicians, what that does to their egos and personalities, and Ryan's personal experiences on how his life completely changed when he became a musician, including how being left on read was a thing of the past. Follow Ryan: Instagram.com/ryanscottgraham Follow his band: instagram.com/statechampsny As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting betterhelp.com/goodforyou  Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya is joined by actress and musician Erika Heidewald to discuss the recent takeover of OnlyFans by millionaire celebrities (Bella Thorne, Cardi B) and why they're attempt to help is actually harming sex workers and adding to the stigma. Erika and Raya also discuss how just because she has an OnlyFans and posts pictures online, that doesn't mean she is less deserving of love and meaningful relationships. Follow Erika on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ErikaHeidewald Follow Erika on Twitter: twitter.com/ErikaHeidewald  Follow Erika on Instagram: Instagram.com/ErikaHeidewald  Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya is joined by journalist and author of two sex & cannabis books, "The Little Book of CBD for Self-Care" & "Finding Your Higher Self: Your Guide to Cannabis for Self-Care", Sophie Saint Thomas, and they discuss the many benefits of introducing weed into your sexual relationships, including anal and vaginal suppositories, enhancing your orgasms, and reducing pain during sex. They also give tips on how to introduce pot to others who might be nervous about it, and they explore the stigmas against people who use marijuana for medical reasons versus recreational uses, and why both should be generally de-stigmatized. Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya is joined by Morgan Grimes who was married (and divorced) at a young age. She discusses how people, both older relatives and peers, view marriage and divorce and explains why it's not much different than people getting together and breaking up, as well as the stigma behind multiple marriages and how it's time we rethink these prejudices. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/GoodForYou. Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya is joined by Shani Long to discuss the double standards when it comes to owning your sexuality with men versus women. They discuss how society has set expectations for how men can flaunt their sexuality, but when women do it, they're put into a certain category, and how Kim Kardashian's status and perceptions made people ignore the fact that her sex tape was nothing more than revenge porn. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/GoodForYou. Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya talks with writer Ashleigh Gray to discuss how taboo industries, which already dealt with struggles before the pandemic, are dealing with physical restrictions that they relied on. Ashleigh sheds some light on how OnlyFans and other services like it are now rising during quarantine and she also offers up advice on how to navigate dating and physical relationships when being physical is not allowed. Plus, Raya and Ashleigh discuss the troubles with posting sexy content that could possibly cost you a job later. Read Ashleigh's article on Refinery29 here! As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/GoodForYou. Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Raya is joined by Astrologer Colin Bedell AKA QueerCosmos to discuss how no two signs are ever incompatible when it comes to relationships, sometimes you just need to work on yourself first. Colin also brings astrology into the 21st century by explaining how gender and sexuality shouldn't factor into your readings and how only finding "compatible" signs could actually land you in a terrible relationship. Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices