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The Power to Be You #p2bu
32 minutes | Sep 13, 2022
Surrender to Confusion
What kind of unconventional advice is this? We always want order, not confusion, so what do we mean by this? Guess you'll have to listen in to find out more! Go to P2BU.com for your free bodygraph and human design mini report!
22 minutes | Sep 6, 2022
How Excess Leads to Exhaustion - and What to Do About It
We live in such an abundant world, so much that it can be overwhelming and exhausting. Jim and Tanya talk in this episode about how this can be a detriment and how to feel sustained, and not drained.
33 minutes | Aug 30, 2022
Recipe for Freedom
Freedom is one of society's top values, but yet, we have no idea how to achieve it, or even what it looks like. The recipe for freedom may be different than what you think it is. Listen to find out what we believe it takes to be free. #p2bu #powertobeyou #fyfreedom
33 minutes | Aug 25, 2022
Redefining SMART Goals for the Feminine
In this episode we explore how goals are generally made to satisfy the masculine ideal. But what if goal setting doesn't resonate so much with the feminine ideal? Get your free human design bodygraph and human design mini-report! Just go to www.P2BU.com .
31 minutes | Aug 18, 2022
Commitment and the 4D Model
This episode is a loose conversation we had that started with commitment, or rather, the lack thereof. Are we committed to change? What is Jim's "4D Model?" (I'll give you a hint: Decision - Direction - Determination - and, well, I'll save the last D for the show.) Learn more about what you were designed for - go to www.P2BU.com to get your free bodygraph and mini-report. Trust me, this is really cool and incredibly accurate.
28 minutes | Aug 2, 2022
Surrender - The Power to Be You Podcast #p2bu - Ep. 51
A lot of us are really tightly grasping onto control - of what other people think of us and what's going to happen. There's a false sense of security that we get from being in control and it's really the exact opposite of what we need to be doing. Honestly, if you don't worry so much about being in control all the time and you're able to just release sometimes, and not to apply our reasoning to it. Jim tells an amazing story that happened to him that changed everything for him, and surrendering was the key element. If you're interested in learning more about you and your unique human design, please go to www.P2BU.com to get your free Body Graph and Human Design Mini-report.
27 minutes | Jul 26, 2022
In this episode, Jim & Tanya discuss our need for external validation, especially from our relationship partners - our wives, husbands, girl- and boyfriends, whomever. It's perfectly normal to take our need for validation and to take our core questions to our partners. After all, they know us the best, so they would - or should - know the answer to our core questions. What are those questions? There is a masculine core question, and a feminine core question. Listen to find out what they are, and how we need them answered, in part at least, by our partners.
30 minutes | Jun 28, 2022
Human Design and Shadows
In this episode Jim & Tanya talk about Human Design. Whether this is a new journey for you, or you have been into Human Design for a while, we think that there is always something new to learn or discover. We consider the Human Design journey to be a beautiful path of awareness, ultimately leading you to your most authentic self-expression. Human Design IS an ongoing experiment of deconditioning from all of the ways that you have been taught to “be”, and from all of the “shoulds”. It is your highest energetic expression and can help you to understand how best to work with your authentic flow and purpose. To get your free Human Design Bodygraph and Mini-Report, just go to www.P2BU.com .
27 minutes | Mar 22, 2022
In this episode, Jim & Tanya explore a concept that came to Jim in a dream, the night before recording this episode. This is a raw discussion about the idea of "Ghostkeeping," - when your reality doesn't match up with your perception of the way things should be, or when you are actively holding onto a memory that is holding you back. Jim & Tanya do their best to "flesh it out," (pun intended) in this show. Give it a listen! Let us know if you have an idea about what it means. Join our facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ThePowerToBeYou to join in the discussion, or find us on social media: IG: @jim_varley IG: @trvarley Twitter: @jhvarley Twitter: @TVarley921
31 minutes | Mar 15, 2022
Deconditioning with Human Design
When we speak of "deconditioning," we're talking about undoing, or unlearning embedded behaviors and belief systems that are within your sub- and unconscious minds. It's more thatn just behaviors, though, because conditioning is lso your paradigm. How we operate from our paradigm, under conditioning, can hamper our satisfaction, happiness, our freedom, and our sense of purpose. Learning your Human Design can be an essential tool for breaking your conditioning (deconditioning) and beginning to live your life to its fullest potential and purpose. You can get your Human Design chart for free by visiting either: www.geneticmatrix.com www.jovianarchive.com and if you would like a personal reading and interpretation of your chart, please reach out to Tanya at email@example.com or by joining our facebook page The Power to be You: www.facebook.com/groups/ThePowerToBeYou Credit: "Tea in the Sahara," music and lyrics by Sting, performed by The Police. Copyright 1983 G.M. Sumner The Top 5 Regrets of the Dying: A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing, by Bronnie Ware (2012)
32 minutes | Mar 1, 2022
Is it responsibility? Or is it response-Ability? We are all responsible for for our own ability to respond. How do you respond to stressors, and how do they manifest in your relationships? What do you do when you have a kid that's misbehaving, or getting into trouble at school? What do you do when you are married to a sociopathic narcissist? Show note: Tanya paraphrases a poem right around minute 29. The poem she is thinking about is called, "Autobiography in Five Chapters," by Portia Nelson.
38 minutes | Feb 15, 2022
Importance of Self-Awareness in Relationships
So, we are talking about relationships a lot, and the podcast is called the power to be you. And how curious is that? And part of the reason is that you can't be your best in any relationship without YOU. YOU are the main ingredient in every relationship that you have. You probably didn't know how important it is to know yourself, to be aware of yourself, and how self-knowledge and self-awareness is to every relationship. But think about it - when you bring your best YOU, the best version of yourself, you make your relationships better. We can tell the difference of quality ingredients in the kitchen, can't we? We can tell when the cook or baker has used inferior ingredients, so why ould a relationship be any different? Learn how to improve your relationship by improving yourself! Self-awareness is the first step. To take the personality assessment mentioned in the episode, go to: www.go.fyimprovement.com/personality If you are interested in a Human Design evaluation and reading, contact us directly at Tanya@fyimprovement.com or James@fyimprovement.com .
30 minutes | Feb 8, 2022
One Secret for Happy Relationships
There's one secret that ALL happy couples know. This secret is a pretty simple one, and one that you can implement right away. We've got that secret here for you. Lean in close, and listen to what we have to tell you. This can be woven into the tapestry of your marriage/relationship, and the more you practice it, the stronger your relationship becomes - the tighter the weave, so to speak. The tighter the weave of the fabric, the stronger it is, and can withstand the storms and stresses that will eventually come.
24 minutes | Feb 1, 2022
Six Relationship Myths - Part 2
Part 2 of 2. Jim & Tanya explore different relationship myths that MAY BE SABOTAGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP! Your relationship may be suffering, and you're not even sure why. Could it be that you are believing one or more of these myths? Not only are the myths explored, but Jim & Tanya talk about how to handle them when the shadows of these myths appear in your marriage/relationship. Tanya is a marriage therapist, and Jim is a relationship coach, and they've seen the shadows of these myths appear over and over. In this episode, you'll learn: -What the Beatles have to do with your marriage -Early Dating Behavior (EDB) is great for you when you're first dating, but what do you need for the long term? -Why "never going to bed angry" can be soe of the worst advice you can hear -Your partner is your "world" and is not your "world" at the same time -How to disagree with each other and meet your partner's deepest needs AT THE SAME TIME.
26 minutes | Jan 25, 2022
Six Relationship Myths - Part 1
Part 1 of 2. Jim & Tanya explore different relationship myths THAT MAY BE SABOTAGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP! Your relationship may be suffering, and you're not even sure why. Could it be that you are believing one or more of these myths? Not only are the myths explored, but Jim & Tanya talk about how to handle them when the shadows of these myths appear in your marriage/relationship. Tanya is a marriage therapist, and Jim is a relationship coach, and they've seen the shadows of these myths appear over and over. In this episode, you'll learn: -the role of therapy before your marriage is broken beyond repair -Marriage is much more than 50/50, and keeping score that way will have you bound for failure -Relationship "Contracts" should be avoided at all costs -How to disagree with each other and meet your partner's deepest needs AT THE SAME TIME.
23 minutes | Sep 7, 2021
Episode 40 - Keeping Score to Lose
Knowing this ONE THING can save your relationship! We always want life to be fair and balanced but it never is. Why is it that we expect the same things from our relationships? In this episode, you will learn: Relationships are never balanced - or fair How to release the idea of scorekeeping Please join us in our Facebook Group, The Power to Be You
26 minutes | Aug 31, 2021
Power2BU Podcast - Episode 39 - 2 Factors That can Make or Break Your Marriage
There are 2 factors that can make or break your relationship: Bids and Betrayals. A betrayal may not be exactly what you're thinking of, like cheating or lying. These kind of betrayals are like "death by a thousand pin pricks." In this episode, you will learn: What is a bid What is a betrayal How to recognize them, How to avoid the "one-word shutdown answer" 3 ways to improve bids and reduce betrayals
29 minutes | Aug 24, 2021
P2BU Podcast - Episode 38 - 5 Steps for More and Better Sex
MEN: What is YOUR ROLE in your marriage? What can YOU DO to make your marriage better, and what can YOU do that will translate into MORE and BETTER SEX with your wife? We'll give you 5 steps you can take that will do just that. In fact, these steps can improve almost every relationship you have, whether it is parenting your kids or relating to co-workers. Listen to this episode and you'll find out what they are! What you'll learn in this episode: 2 Biggest Complaints that Women have about men; 2 Biggest Complaints that Men have about Women; 5 Steps to Tuning up your marriage that will translate into MORE and BETTER SEX with your wife; Perform a powerful exercise in empathy. References and links: "The Man's Guide to Women: Scientifically Proven Secrets from the 'Love Lab' About What Women Really Want," by John Gottman, PhD, Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD, Douglas Abrams, and Rachel Carlton Abrams "The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Pesonal Freedom," by Don Miguel Ruiz
24 minutes | Aug 20, 2021
Power2BU Podcast - Episode 37: Is It Too Late For Your Marriage?
Is it too late for your marriage/relationship? If you wait too long for marriage therapy, it might be. But there are things you can do to turn it around. Jim and Tanya discuss the health of their marriage, what they do to keep it healthy, and their past failed marriages. (*hint - they learned from their mistakes.) In this episode you will learn: Can your partner "complete you?" Values in your relationship Self-Awareness and how it is so important to the survival of your relationship
23 minutes | Aug 10, 2021
Power2BU Podcast - Episode 36 - Intentions & Goals
Intentions and Goals are a part of all of our lives, whether we accept that or not. In this "Coffee Conversation," Jim & Tanya started talking about the general topic of intentions and the influence of the divine. This conversation was so good,they recorded this conversation as they sat at their breakfast table on a phone. In this episode, you will learn: How to set the direction and tone for an action; How God the Divine orchestrates; Ensure your goals and intentions are "positively charged" with focus and appropriate action Join us in our facebook group, Power to Be You Thanks for listening! Share our message with a friend!
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