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Touch of Flavor | Relationships Outside the Box
29 minutes | Dec 9, 2022
It’s OK to Feel Jealous
Many people think jealousy is the cardinal sin of polyamory. But those feelings are normal. And when you use them the RIGHT way, jealousy can actually be the key to healing your relationship.
27 minutes | Dec 1, 2022
It Was Just Supposed to Be Sex
You and your partner agree to open your relationship under one condition: It’s JUST about sex. No feelings. And for a while that works out pretty well. But now it’s happened. Someone caught feelings. The other partner is feeling hurt and betrayed. And you’re both trying to figure out: what does a path forward even look like?
32 minutes | Nov 23, 2022
Does Your Spouse Want to Be Roommates? Here’s How to Fix It
When your spouse tells you they are no longer interested in being romantically involved with you, what do you do? It’s a tough situation. But you can get your spouse back. Here’s how.
30 minutes | Nov 17, 2022
Warning: Optimism Can Ruin Your Polyamorous Relationship
“Ya’lls can be a little negative about polyamory. Why can’t you talk about the positive things?” We got this question from a listener. So this week, we’re discussing why we don’t sugarcoat and the consequences that being overly optimistic can have for your relationships.
31 minutes | Nov 10, 2022
The Problem with Relationship Anarchy
Relationship Anarchy sounds great in theory. But the way most people practice it leads to confusion, hurt, and ruined relationships. In this episode, we discuss how you can build relationships that value freedom and autonomy while still allowing your partners to feel cared for.
21 minutes | Nov 3, 2022
5 Powerful Questions for Better Communication
If you’re in a polyamorous relationship, communication is key. Here are 5 powerful questions to help take your communication to the next level.
41 minutes | Oct 20, 2022
Why You Can’t Find Polyamorous Women
You’re in a polyamorous relationship. You’re a man. But you can’t find polyamorous women to date. It's frustrating. Not only that, but you might also be in a place where your partner is having ZERO trouble finding people. And that disparity is bringing a flood of jealousy and challenges. Here’s how you can find those amazing partners for yourself.
28 minutes | Oct 14, 2022
Vetoes in Polyamory
Veto power is a common agreement in polyamory. But do vetos WORK? The answer is an emphatic no. In this episode, we discuss how veto power undermines the very security you’re trying to create, and what you should do instead.
46 minutes | Sep 29, 2022
How To Choose A Polyamorous Coach or Therapist
When you’re polyamorous, it’s incredibly hard to find a good coach or counselor. And when your marriage and family are on the line, you can’t settle for anything less than the best. But how do you figure out WHO is the best? In order to be truly amazing, an expert needs to have paid the price in three different areas. Let’s break them down.
33 minutes | Sep 22, 2022
The Relationship Mirror
You may think that you can’t heal a polyamorous relationship on your own. But you have more power than you know. And when you embrace your power, you can transform your relationship. Even if your partner isn’t willing to do the work.
21 minutes | Sep 14, 2022
Why You Can’t Find a Unicorn
Are you polyamorous and having trouble finding your “unicorn?” The reason you’re having trouble finding a partner isn’t that they don’t exist. It’s because what you’re offering isn’t attractive. Here’s what couples do wrong when they’re looking for an incoming partner, and how you can attract the amazing humans you are looking for.
32 minutes | Aug 6, 2022
Separated? Here’s How to Fix It
If you and your partner have separated, is your relationship over? Here’s the process that our polyamorous clients use to heal a separation and bring the relationship back together. Even if their partner is hopeless and they’re the only one who is willing to try.
62 minutes | Jul 30, 2022
Our Poly Family Vacation
Our partner Amanda joins us to discuss our family vacation to Florida. Plus we reveal an awesome new project.
34 minutes | Jul 7, 2022
5 Ways To Spot A Clueless Therapist
Having relationship problems? Thinking about going to therapy? There are 5 clues you can use to weed out the experts who can help you from those you shouldn't give the time of day. Find out what they are in this episode.
43 minutes | Jun 16, 2022
5 Surprising Facts About Group Relationships
Triads and quads. Unicorns and dragons. Group relationships are something lots of polyamorous people want. And they can be beautiful when done well. But they’re VERY easy to do wrong. In this episode, we discuss 5 surprising facts you should know if you’re in (or considering) a group relationship.
44 minutes | Jun 9, 2022
Dancing Naked In The Kitchen
Rach and Chel were caught in a depressing cycle. They were arguing all the time. They were hardly intimate. There was no affection. Their 10-year relationship was close to done. So how did they get from the edge of disaster to dancing naked in the kitchen (and dating a triad) in a matter of weeks? We’ll let them tell you. 😎
43 minutes | Jun 2, 2022
What If You Only Had a Year Left To Live?
If you only had a year left to live, how would you be treating your partners? If you’re like most people, there’s a big difference between your answers and what you’re doing now. Why? Because we assume that we have time. But that’s not always the case. Today we’re talking about the dangers of pushing your relationships to the back burner, and what you should be doing instead.
32 minutes | May 26, 2022
ADHD and Polyamory
Folks who have ADHD are likely to find non-monogamy very satisfying. But ADHD brings a predictable set of challenges to any relationship. And if you're not careful, non-monogamy can drastically magnify those challenges. And to top it all off, the biggest challenge isn't what 99% of people think.
28 minutes | May 19, 2022
Casual Sex And Polyamory
Non-monogamy is all about custom designing our relationships. But lately, relationships that are purely sexual have gotten a bad rap. So, are you wrong for wanting a sexual relationship without a romantic connection? Are you just using people? And how can you have these casual relationships in a way that’s fun and fulfilling for everyone involved?
55 minutes | May 12, 2022
Opening Up Will NOT Fix Your Relationship
If you’re not getting what you want and need in your relationship, opening up will be tempting. But will polyamory actually fix your relationship? 95% of the time, the answer is NO. In fact, opening up at the wrong moment can destroy the relationship—and family—you already have. So how do you know when it’s the right time to open up?
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