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In this episode we explore whether anger has a place in Dom-sub dynamics.

In private candid sexual conversations between two consenting adults the term 'Rape' is used. In this podcast, two different subs share their use of the word that is not quite in line with its standard social definition. 

The conversation between the Dom and Sub continue in this third instalment. 

This is a continuation of a chat on the dating app Scruff between a Dom top and sub, discussing the dynamics of relationships.

A short while ago I had a fascinating conversation with Jay, a contact over the dating app Scruff. The ins and outs of our banter was quite fascinating as we talked about how actives and passives connect. I share the conversation with you, with his agreement. 

The third in the series examining the nature of the passive gay man. 

The Path to full sexual actualisation is being able to embrace your default. Most of us begin our journey into our sexuality with a lot of experimentation, trying to figure out where we naturally fit. Sometimes, we believe that what we naturally are is not good enough and so we try to be someone or something else. In this podcast, Shongo shares his own journey to self acceptance which allowed him to blossom and connect freely with those who are compatible to him. This is a theme that This Is SiHq will return time again, where the Dominant Top male has not only the opportunity to achieve his own place, but to assist his partners to also accept themselves so as to be more fulfilled receptive partners.  Be sure to check out our picture album: http://thisissihq.tumblr.com/

In our last podcast, Shongo expressed a particular perspective that naturally passive guys are hard-wired to please. In this new recording, Shongo challenges his own previous theory as to whether this is actually true. Are those who are naturally made to be penetrated also naturally submissive or is that the result of environmental conditioning. Check out our visual narrative blog: thisissihq.tumblr.com

A baker needs to know dough better than dough knows itself. In this episode of This Is SiHq, Shongo shares an excerpt from his profile which in essence is the inspiration for this podcast due to the interest it raised as it explored the true nature of the sexually passive male. 

Shongo continues the exploration of the third principles of the ideal dominant active man, 'Be Love Articulate', that is to be expressive both in an orchestrated way and also improvised in the moment. 

We continue our exploration into what makes a good dominant top lover by looking at the second core principle of 'Never Humiliate'

Being sexually dominant comes with it some key principles of responsibility when dealing with one's partner: 1. Always Keep Safe 2. Never Humiliate 3. Be Love Articulate. In this first of a three part series we explore the first principle and its extensive reach.

The host of This Is SiHq begins the podcast channel with an overview of the inspiration behind the Sexual Intelligence Headquarters (SiHq), to explore the sexuality of the dominant sexually active male regardless of his gender preferences when it comes to sexual partners. Check out our visual narrative too at www.thisissihq.tumblr.com