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Take a guided journey with Ché through an adventure of admiring the superpowers of a Man! Learn to enjoy some of the things that drive us crazy about men and turn them into deep appreciation, gratitude, and meditative practices for ourselves! In this broadcast, Ché revisits an older energy from her blog and brings, fresh, ad-libbed information to it about relationships, dialing up the spontaneity with your significant other, and news about the exciting, upcoming changes and developments on the horizon for The Way of the Courtesan.

Ché continúes the conversation from last week, giving more tools for your single woman’s toolbox. Learn the most effective way to leave your lover, How to determine whether or not you should take that booty call, the Cons of drunk sex, and whether or not you’re really a slut!!

Sex! Whether you’re having or your not, listen in and get a new take on being a single woman today. Drunken one-night-stands and awkward post-coital goodbyes are not for you. Neither is loneliness and shame! How do you make the first move when you are interested in a man, how do you ask a man out? What sort of outrageous things can you try on ladies night (The caucus, the Thumb point, Good Cop, Bad Cop, Exciting Careers) ? What are your inherent rights as a free, single, sexual woman in the world today. Own your sexuality and your desire to have it! Oh, and listen in to learn how to give proper Viking names to your friends, as well!

Tune in to here the second half of Ché’s laws of seduction. In this episode you’ll learn 7-12: Become The Ideal Woman, Your Dangerous Threads, Amused Indifference, Who Da Man?, Getting Down In The Sack Without Any Inhibitions, and the final tenet which will be revealed at the closing. With a special addendum detailing sexual technique (you know how Ché can digress) and the secret to the world’s best blow job- this podcast is packed with to the point, direct, information about seduction, power, confidence, and sexuality. Also, don’t forget to take Ché up on the special invitation she makes to you at the end! Do it with Ché and learn the Way Of The Courtesan!

Back from the scalding desert of Black Rock City, Ché throws down six of the Twelve Tenets of Bewitching A Man. This podcast includes the important laws of seduction: The Eyes Have It, The Humor/Hard Dick Equation, To Bone or Not to Bone, Walking Into A Room, Slow Surprises, and Dulcet Tones. Holed up in Reno with her friends (the founders of the incredible www.bohocrush.com– a must see site), resting and recovering from a week of celebration at the Burning Man festival, Ché volunteers “Seduction for Dummies” giving you the first half of your ever-growing toolbox. These six bullets will help add fuel to your growing seductive fire- tune in now to get started and tune in next week for the rest of these juicy, inside tips!

After a three week break (of endless traveling and plane rides), Ché is back and ready to share with you the way she not only survives a lot of traveling but makes it a pleasant, exciting, HEALTHY experience. Even if you’re not an avid traveler, these tips will help you appear as and feel like one when you’re ready for your vacation or work travel. If you are an avid traveler, ramp up your power and energy and your cool, calm, collectiveness when you’re on the road or in a plane. Learn tips on how to eat well, even in an airport, stay hydrated and health-full in the sky or on the bus, and energetically protected… and…maybe make strangers wonder if you’re famous.

Join Ché and her own ArgentineTango instructor, and long-time Tango aficionado, Brian Dunn of Dance of the Heart in Boulder, Colorado (with partner Deb Sclar). In this podcast Brian and Ché discuss the intimacy and metaphor of Argentine Tango and how it can truly be a spiritual practice. Are you looking to connect directly to the Divine? To the Divine Feminine? Are you seeking to explore masculine energies or the dynamic polarity between masculine and feminine or male and female? Would you like to be able to trust more, be held in grace, to share a sacred moment on the dance floor with your partner or a stranger? Perhaps you wish to excite your personal life or be able to be fully absorbed in the moment regardless of what is going on around you. Maybe you simply want to embrace feeling fully like a god or goddess. Tango is a sensual meditation and so much more than just a dance. Anyone can light the dance floor on fire, it only takes those first few steps! Find out how it can change your life, jumpstart and open your heart, and get your blood pumping in these 40 minutes of exclusive interview. Get hooked on Tango with Brian Dunn!

Stop Dieting, fall in love, eat beautiful! Ché discusses how our relationship with food prevents us from achieving our most ravishing selves. During this addition of The Way of the Courtesan she gives a basic launch pad for those who want to change the way they think about their body, their food, and their spiritual evolution. Ché also gives specific methods of how to attract and multiply Beauty in your home and and mind. This is a subject she will delve into often and, later, in more detail. Here is your introduction to Beauty Philosophy.

In this weeks addition Ché brings you into her girl talk when she introduces a new character from her life by interviewing friend and long-time BDSM (Bondage/Discipline/Sadism/Masochism) lifestyler, Ms. Brandi Q, over drinks at her woodland cabin. Together they tackle questions from you, the listeners (such as how to handle it when your new girlfriend likes it rough) and riff about the perils and solutions of internet dating, being friends with your ex, and the importance of trust, honest communication, eye-contact, safe-words, and not hitting the send button when you want to write that nasty email. The girls get candid and silly (and eventually plied with booze) as well as share personal stories of love and sex, speaking openly about their relationships (or re”label”ships, as Ché likes to call them). Get cozy, lets play and start Doin’ with Ché (And Brandi Q!).

This week, while visiting her circus friends in New England, Ché broadcasts to you from inside a Vermont graveyard… guess she figured it would be a good place from which to bring the hammer down on your wardrobe choices! In “Suspension of Disbelief, Mystery, and Blow Jobs” she discusses how we can gain more confidence and create a magical, mysterious aura about ourselves. Ché describes 10 changes you can make this week in your clothing choices that will get you on the path to looking like a woman of myth and legend. She also outlines some of the necessities to projecting grandeur and magnetism and tells you how to get a jump on thinking like a lady worthy of rock-star level attention. And, as a special addition, Ché lays down 10 more tips: secrets to making men happy on the quick.

Ready to start Doin’ it with Ché? Tune in to The Way of the Courtesan radio’s Premier broadcast. In this first podcast Ché M. Usher- creator of The Way of the Courtesan- gets you ready to explore her world by giving us 5 easy tips on how to get sensual now, reminding us that leisure and play are just as (if not more) important than work, especially in this crazy, goal-driven society! Start discovering your own world today and remaking it into a new, magical place where indulgence is free and easy. With these five simple tools you can open the many doors of realization and sultriness that are hidden in plain sight. Also in this show, get to know Ché as she launches into the world of radio, diving head long into a new medium and a new way of letting you into her private life. Every week Ché M. Usher will be getting busy reawakening your sensuality and spilling the beans on all kinds of topics, from the taboo to the is-it-too-obvious-to-ask. In this smooth and cool broadcast, Ché gets you relaxed and primed for the coming weeks- where she will surprise, inform, excite, and play with you. Get back to basics and jump on the ride that is Doin’ it with Ché.