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In this episode, I share an announcement about the future of The Suzanne Venker Show.

Suzanne talks exclusively to men about how to be great husbands and outlines six ways to win their wives' hearts. Say what you mean, and mean what you say. Show up. Look her in the eyes with no distractions when you're having a serious conversation. Never stop romancing her. Listen and be open to anything she wants to say without being defensive. Don’t follow—lead.

Suzanne answers a listener question. 

There isn’t a person on this planet who can avoid relationship conflict (unless, of course, you remain single.) In fact, if you’re someone who hates confrontation, you're going to struggle to be in a marriage or relationship at all—until or unless you learn how to embrace conflict. Suzanne discusses why it's critical for couples to embrace conflict and offers six tips for having hard conversations with your spouse. ________ STUDY referenced in this episode: "Couples who argue together, stay together, study finds Dr. Warren Farrell's Couples' Communication Course: https://communication.warrenfarrell.com/role-mate-to-soul-mate-course/

Suzanne answers an email from a woman who asks how to explain to her bf that living together is a bad idea.

Suzanne explains what millennials get wrong when it comes to money and marriage. According to a 2021 Fidelity Investments Survey, one in five couples aged 25 and older who are either married or in a relationship identify money as their greatest relationship challenge. Over 50% of millennials don’t want to get married “until their finances are in order.” Suzanne discusses why this is the wrong approach. Why being a TEAM, as opposed to living like roommates, is the surefire path to financial success when you're married Why being equal partners doesn't have to mean performing the same tasks NEW STUDY: "Pooling finances and relationship satisfaction" concludes that couples who pool all of their money, compared to couples who keep some or all of their money separate, experience greater relationship satisfaction and are less likely to break up.

Suzanne reads Dennis Prager's recent column, "What the Left Has Done to Women's Desires," and adds a sixth example of how feminist ideology has undermined women's desires and even their common sense.

Suzanne discusses the advantages of women marrying earlier rather than later. Women's priorities change as they age The problem with the "finding oneself" argument Men's and women's different dating strategies Why whom to marry is the most important decision we'll ever make A new report shows almost half of young people want to marry on the younger side: "Is Marrying Later Always Better? New Report Says No." New research showing that after age 32, the odds of divorce increase by 5% per year: https://ifstudies.org/blog/want-to-avoid-divorce-wait-to-get-married-but-not-too-long

Hey Everyone, I will be taking a break from The Suzanne Venker Show while I build two online courses.  In the meantime, you can find me on YouTube, Facebook, and Instagram; and I will continue to correspond w my subscribers on a weekly basis. If you're not currently a subscriber, you can sign up here. I also am still offering marriage/relationship coaching for single sessions only. You can find more information here: https://www.suzannevenker.com/coaching/#marriage-coaching-how-it-works As always, I can be reached at suzanne@thesuzannevenkershow.com See you all soon!

Suzanne talks about how casual sex affects women drastically different than it affects men. IN THIS EPISODE: 1:20  Suzanne reads from Loose Girl, a book that analyzes in great detail the emotions that accompany what most young women experience when they engage in casual sex 2:27  The average guy who partakes in casual sex doesn't ruminate over who he has sex with or why he did it 3:00  Many young women have sex to feel attractive and desirable 4:30  Feeling used, or like a “booty call,” is the number one experience for women who have casual sex 5:00  Biology dictates that women carry the brunt of sexual risk while men wield the sexual power 5:25  The relationship between women and men took a nosedive when women (en masse) began having sex “like a man”— casually, with no commitment. 6:20  In generations past, commitment always preceded sex 8:10  Sex for women is NOT the same as it is for men 8:30  Even the most sexually liberal woman is surprised to learn she cannot detach the way men can 10:00  Suzanne reads stories from women who've had a lot of casual sex 17:25  A hookup doesn’t lead to the relationships women crave (MeToo movement) 18:50 - It's modern gender norms, not traditional ones, that have lead to the problems between men and women regarding casual sex 20:20  The MeToo Movement speaks to women's weakness to casual sex

A new Gallup poll shows that America’s trust in media has dipped to second lowest on record. This is such a massive divide in our country that I don’t personally think is going to get better. People are so far apart in terms of their worldviews that there’s just no common ground anymore, I wish there was better news about the state of love and marriage, but there’s no question that marriage is on its way out as being the norm in America, which means countless relationships will continue to struggle as we move more and more away from a family first mentality, toward a more individualistic society. So that’s the bad news. The good news is that just bc other people are going to struggle in finding the love and security they seek doesn’t mean you have to as well. Here are ten of the most pressing reasons modern love is such a mess—and what you can do about it: #1: Your marriage mindset: Why your mindset is significant as to whether your relationship will stand the test of time. #2: Prioritizing money and career over love: People have been encouraged to pursue the wrong thing! What are the effects on dating, marriage and family? #3: The undeniable influence of feminism in our culture: Women have been taught to fight biology at every cost. #4: Believing you can have it all at once You have to accept each stage of life for what it is and you cannot have everything you want (high-powered career, family, marriage) all at once. #5: Not living near family: because we are a transient society, women don’t typically have family around when they have children and therefore, no help in raising them. #6: The decline in religion: People who attend church regularly marry at much higher rates. #7: How young people in particular think about money: Young people come to the table with a “his” and “hers” mentality. This is not marriage. #8: The proliferation of social media: You are inundated with temptations and comparisons all day long as a social media user. #9: Women's ridiculously high expectations:  Womens’ high expectations are impeding their ability to find and sustain love. #10: Our anti-male, anti-marriage culture

Merry Christmas, Everyone! Here are a couple of updates related to emails from readers/listeners, long-term coaching and more!

"King David" is a young man with a big dream: to burn down the $97 billion worldwide porn industry, one man at a time. King David is the world’s only Quit Porn Strategist. His history with porn dates to his teenage years and before; and though he's out of his teens now, every year more young men are still discovering the world of porn. David wants to help them find the exit. His website is https://enroll.quitpornstrategies.com/. IN THIS EPISODE: 3:25   David's story 19:30  Porn is a drug 21:00  Porn increases dopamine and is a super-stimulus, which is why it's so appealing 25:25  You don't watch porn because you're horny; you watch it because you're hurting 25:40  There's a difference between wanting to have sex and wanting to watch porn 28:20  Asking yourself why and getting to the root of it is crucial to get rid of any addiction 30:00  You have to actually VOCALIZE to yourself about why you want to watch porn 35:00  Young men growing up w/ porn do not realize that that's not what sex with a woman is truly like 35:40  How porn changes your view of sex and women 38:30  Women feel like they're being objectified when their man uses porn 39:40  How can a husband determine if he’s done w/ porn for good? And how will a woman know when he really is done watching porn? 42:00  Men and women need to understand what each other needs sexually 44:50  If you're married and you have to think about porn when you have sex, you have a problem! 46:10  It is NOT TRUE that porn is good for you and your relationship 47:00  38% of  millennial women (under 40) have experienced choking, gagging, or spitting during consensual intercourse 49:00  With porn you always need more “exciting” and “more extreme” 50:20  There's no communication in porn 51:50  One-third of all porn viewers are women 52:30  Women need to know that men don’t turn to porn because YOU as a woman lack something 56:40  Couples need to communicate about sex 59:00  David's 31-day Quit Porn Mastery Program

Suzanne talks to women who want to stay home with their babies and who have to convince their husbands that it's the right thing to do.

Suzanne makes an announcement about the new schedule for The Suzanne Venker Show. Make sure you subscribe to the YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SuzanneVenkerAuthor

Question #1 -  Suzanne reads an email from Mark who describes how women are mistaken to think having a diploma is enticing to men on its own and how that's not the issue with women having trouble finding high-status men. Question #2 - Suzanne answers questions from a young woman who is in a serious relationship, and they are looking to move in together. Both come from broken homes. - How do I get him to propose without nagging him? - My boyfriend’s family has a history with alcoholism. Am I right to worry about this and how it could affect our marriage in the future? - How do I bring up the fact I want to be a stay-at-home mom?

When was the last time you heard something positive in the media about men? It could be in the news, or in a commercial, or in a television program, or in a film. Yeah, that’s what I thought. And when was the last time you read a magazine article or a novel in which a man was not at the root of a woman’s problem? I’m guessing I’m hearing crickets right about now. Today I’m talking to CEO and entrepreneur Anthony Dream Johnson, aka President of the Manosphere. IN THIS EPISODE: 4:20  Feminism is the religion of modern women 7:00  What is the mission of “Make Women Great Again”? 9:00  What IS the Manosphere? 10:00  MRA’s + MGTOW + Pick up artists + Red Pill 15:00  Suzanne and Anthony find common ground by talking about the issues from a secular point of view 23:40  The general public need to start speaking up 25:40  Feminism has weakened both sexes and has destroyed the relationship between the sexes 28:50  Most women do not realize they're living according the feminist values 29:00  Universities, courts, governments, etc. are ruled by feminism 31:05  What's a good comeback when people say feminism is about “equal rights”? 36:50  Women are typically around 30 when they’re ready to hear “the truth” 44:50  What is 21 Studios? What is the 21 Convention? What is 21 University? 52:50  Who or what is the ideal man? 1:00:00  What happened with Good Morning Britain and Piers Morgan? 1:09:10  How did Anthony get the middle name of “DREAM”? 1:11:55  Infighting among men in the Manosphere: How to weed out the frauds

Hello Dear Listeners, We are taking a short break for Thanksgiving. We will be back with a new episode this Sunday, November 28th. This upcoming episode is a long-form interview with Anthony Dream Johnson, President of the Manosphere. Make sure you tune in. Become a supporter of The Suzanne Venker Show here: https://www.patreon.com/thesuzannevenkershow

Something is happening in the world of men: a global awakening, a time of rediscovery, a rebirth. Men around the world are drawing on the best of masculinity from all of time to redefine what it means to be a man—on their terms. Stanford grad Will Spencer is on a mission to help men learn what it means to be a man and to grab their masculinity with gusto "For thousands of years, men’s mutual improvement happened around a campfire. Tribal chiefs instructed the young men, who tested each other to build prestige and skill." Our society lost this long ago, says Will, and he's on a mission to bring it back. IN THIS EPISODE: 2:05  What is the “Renaissance of Men”? and the history of the Manosphere? 12:50  Women’s liberation had a lot of cascading effects we don’t realize 18:30  What does it mean to be a man? 19:15  Why did Will start The Renaissance of Men? 20:10  Our beliefs about ourselves shape the course of our lives 21:40  What is masculinity? 25:30  Victim ideology hurts no one more than the person who holds that mentality 26:30  People who remain in a victim mindset remain weak 27:10  Men are isolated, and male only spaces are few 29:00  Women have shaming power over men 30:50  Men will hide who they are to keep peace in the home 33:00  Women do not realize how much they are emasculating their husbands 40:40  What should men’s relationship standards be? 42:00  Will discusses his own previous long-term relationship 45:35  It's okay to NOT want to marry a career woman 48:15  You have to marry someone who has the same priorities 50:00  The culture is blatantly lying to men and women for political purposes 51:40  Why is physical fitness important for a man? 56:15  If men want to lead in their relationships they have to lead themselves 1:00:20  Men need to protect women from other women 1:06:00  The great reconciliation between men and women happens through Truth 1:08:45  Will and Suzanne talk about poetry 1:13:40  Iron John: Why was this book the beginning of The Renaissance of Men?

Suzanne discusses the uncomfortable reality of a giant earnings gap in which the woman is the higher earner by highlighting an article in The New York Times entitled, "How I Fell for an 'I'm the Man Man." IN THIS EPISODE: 2:35  Suzanne reads from an article in the NY Times entitled “How I Fell For an ‘I’m the Man' Man” 4:35  The relationship dynamics  described in the article are commonplace today 5:30  A seismic shift has happened in the dating world regarding this sexual dynamic 6:10  This dynamic makes most women miserable 8:25  Men have become emasculated 10:20  Once kids come along, things change 11:00  Women have the ability to get pregnant and give life, which makes her role in society immeasurable 12:20  When a man does not provide, he will not be happy 13:15  By saying women and men are the same, we set them up to fail by ignoring biological reality 16:40  Move with the biological tide and you will most likely succeed