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Things that could be killing your sex life … Feeling unappreciated  Not being pursued outside the bedroom. (Not feeling pursued or desired.) Not talking about sex  Stress Menopause Medications (beta blockers, birth control, antidepressants, blood pressure meds) Depression  Tiredness Not feeling pursued or desired.  Busyness Getting stuck in a rut Poor health and poor hygiene ED and low Testosterone  Porn Not feeling emotionally safe  Letting your children sleep in your bed every night Physical limitations  Support the show

Sometimes "I love you" sounds exactly like ... "I love you." But other times, it sounds like... Be careful. Text me when you get there. I was just thinking of you. Remember that time we.....? I miss you. Love spending time with you. Can I do something to help? I'll be right there. I'm worried about you. I'm listening. Yes, I have time. I saw this and thought of you. I know this is your favorite. I want to hear all about it.  Keeps mouth shut. I'm so thankful for you. I'll always love you, no matter what. Support the show

1.    Have a relationship with God.  2.    Love God before your ___________________. 3.    Pray for one another.  4.    ____________________ together 5.    Go to Church together 6.    Read the Bible together. 7.    Be reminded you’re married to one of God’s kids 8.    Serve others (and one another) together 9.    _____________________ one another. Support the show

1. Focus on God more.2. Build your F__________________3. Date more.4. Improve _____________________5. Praise and Encourage more.6. Be more Open and Honest.7. Get _________________________Support the show

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10 WAYS TO PUT SOME SPARK BACK IN YOUR MARRIAGE: Go to _____________ at the same time. Start __________________ together. Be intentional about holding hands everyday. Make _____________________ something you give freely. Focus more on what your spouse does right than what your spouse does wrong. Give each other a 7 seconds ___________ as soon as you see each other after work. Say "I love you" every morning & every evening. Be ________________ about being sexually intimate. Check in on one another everyday and ask, "How are you?" or "How was your day?" Be __________________ to be _________________ with your spouse. Support the show

 Step 1 – Plan or schedule a meeting with your spouse. Agree on a time with your spouse. Step 2 – Lead with your _________________ for making your marriage better. Step 3 – Focus on one issue at a time. The one that is most important to you.  Step 4 – Don’t beat around the bush.  Step 5 - Don’t come across in a __________________________.  Step 6 – Talk about _________________________. Step 7 – Don’t expect things to _________________________ right away.  Step 8 - Praise the ProgressSupport the show

Most wives want to be pursued other than just sexually. If that is the only time they feel pursued, you’re doing it wrong.  1. Surprise her! This doesn’t have to be something major, but women love all types of surprises, anything from a special note or card to a specially planned date night.  2. Plan some quality time with her and let her know in advance. Project at the house she’s been wanting your help on.  3. Plan a date night and you make all the plans. Think of things that she would like to do or things you like doing together.  4. Tell her how you feel about her. Compliment her. You can never compliment her too much. You can do this in person, via text, over the phone, or even email. Just giving a genuine compliment goes a long way. Tell her often that you love her or that you miss her.   5. Text her when you are thinking about her. Just a “Hey, hun, was just thinking about you and wanted to check in and see how your day’s going!” is a sweet way to let her know you care. 6. Hug her. Kiss her. Wrap your arms around her. And even do it in public–she wants to know that she’s your woman and you’re not afraid to let other people know. Non-sexual touching.  7. Pursue her mind ... REALLY listen to her. conversation ... about things she likes.  8. Pray for her.   9. Learn her love language. Support the show

How to pursue your husband  1. Brag on him.  2. Do something with him that he likes to do. It makes him feel important.  3. Initiate sex. Wear something sexy bed.  4. Pray for him.  5. Flirt with him. 6. Dress up for him.  7. Make him a priority over job, kids, hobbies, friends, family ... everything but God.  8. Put a filter over your mouth. You don’t have to say everything you think. Focus on what he does right ... overlook some things you could be critical about. 9. Learn his love language. Support the show

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1. Because the busyness of your lives has weakened the priority of your marriage. 2. Because you’ve gotten a little bored or too comfortable 3. Because your kids want your marriage to succeed. It allows you to reconnect ...  sexually,  emotionally,  physically,  conversationally.  Support the show

What are the 5 Love Languages in a marriage? Words of Affirmation. Verbally affirming to your partner how much you love and care for them is the marriage Love Language ... Acts of Service. ... Affection. ... Quality Time. ... Gifts. Support the show

Don't let any of these 6 things kill your marriage. Support the show

We get so many questions about married sex, what it is and what it isn't. In this episode we want to touch on some VERY healthy things that will bless your married sex life. Support the show

1. YOU SHARING RESPONSIBILITIES:  2. YOU DATING:  3. YOU BEING AFFECTIONATE:  4. YOU PRAISING ONE ANOTHER:  5. YOU ARGUING IN A HEALTHY WAY:   6. YOU PRACTICING WHAT YOU PREACH:  7. YOU MAKING GOD A PRIORITY: Support the show

No one enters marriage thinking they will have an affair, yet how do so many slide into infidelity so easily?  93% of affairs begin with a simple friendship. Support the show

We are currently navigating a storm (tough time) in our marriage, and here are  some goals of ours. Support the show