Relationship Red Flags
Looking for a new relationship, or experiencing the "getting to know each other" phase of a new relationship, can seem like a daunting prospect, especially since there are certain signals we should remain vigilant in spotting. But how best can we make sure that we're identifying these so-called "red flags" when it comes to people? In this episode, John talks about how best to make sure our relationship radar is functioning as it should. KEY TAKEAWAYS It's a sad fact that some people out there are looking for perceived flaws in your character so as to take advantage, or ways they can leverage in order to break a relationship. We can control the pace at which a relationship moves, as well as constructing boundaries that allow us to keep certain interactions and personalities at bay until we are fully sure of how we feel. When someone lacks consistency, it's easy to spot. We need to adhere to people whose actions best match their words and intentions. Listen to your instincts and your subconscious. It may be that it is picking up on an imbalance in your energy and that of a potential partner. BEST MOMENTS 'Unfortunately there are people out there who could just be looking for weaknesses' 'Set a better pace and set some boundaries' 'You are allowed to release these people from your life!' 'You need to be with a partner who wants to fortify a relationship with you through time, but understands that it's going to take some work' VALUABLE RESOURCES The Relationship Guy Podcast - https://omny.fm/shows/the-relationship-guy ABOUT THE HOST I am John Kenny, The Relationship Guy - Coaching people to experience healthy intimate relationships. John is an Author, Documentarian and public speaker. Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose. www.therelationshipguy.co.uk CONTACT METHOD Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/johnkennycoaching LinkedIn - https:www.linkedin.com/in/john-kenny-coaching Insta - https://www.instagram.com/johnkennycoaching/ Twitter - https://www.twitter.com/johnkennycoach} YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHTj9x6Tlo7lcIJITyx-tgQ Clubhouse - @relationshipguySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.