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What does your desk look like? We are discussing a weekly strategy to deal with the piles we create during the week in order to set ourselves up for a clear minded weekend by reducing the unnecessary stress the piles create. As for what or who the heck is an information slut...you'll just have to tune in. Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

Kimby's computer wont start and ALL of the thoughts start spinning. The problem? Let's just say there's a reoccurring issue with Kimby's technology... Also it's raining inside of Tracy's house. Just another day in The Midlife. Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

Sharing what we need and being vulnerable is  important to having a healthy relationship. Also knowing that not all people are safe and therefore not the right place to share your vulnerability. Even trickier when everyone else in your world thinks you should trust someone that YOU know is not a safe place for you. Tracy and Kimby discussing it all and unsurprisingly, it all comes back to understanding what's "My Ten Acres". Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

Why we are late to recording this morning plus our foray into The Tracy Anderson Method. We are not affiliated. Just an honest accounting... Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

Tracy made a new friend and was invited over for dinner. Listen to hear how that went. Suffice it to say Tracy may not be invited back and she's just fine with it. Hear why we think you absolutely can't betray yourself just to fit in. Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

It happens to everyone - you hit a slump and you have to get back on track. Kimby's mojo's been missing. We talk about it. Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

We have a special guest... Yael Rallis joins us to talk about The Midlife and her journey in it. Yael never stopped living her dream. She is an uber talented rock drummer who has toured the world and had endless creative endeavors. Yael was true to her path and calling but talks us through her world and validates how yes, we all end up in The Midlife.  Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

We start off with another episode of "why are we late to recording?"Today we discuss the layers of grieving.  And yes Tracy cries a lot while sharing which layer she is in with her Dad's passing. Kimby talks about her Mother-In-Laws' passing, and the gifts she got from her. Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

We are getting DEEP today. Let’s talk about the hard relationships. Do you have a relationship in which someone hands you 50 lbs of bad energy and you carry it? Tracy has found herself in one of these and is playing with not grabbing the energy being passed her way. One sided relationships feel heavy, but is the fear of loosing the relationship worse than the need to be the person you want to be today? Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

Why are we late to recording is back! Kimby is in a slump, Tracy is on an upswing (so annoying but also good when you are in a  partnership- one up and one down makes for a good relationship).  A lot of time we need to blow the whistle for ourselves, but do we ? Or do we let it all continue to pile up until we are underneath it all? Tracy calls it taking a pause, Kimby calls it the coach blowing the whistle.  Stop chasing the to do list and calendar. Can you stop thinking it will get better if you keep pushing? Value the reset. Changing our mindset to value the grounding of reprioritizing of our lives and to-do’s just might be the most valuable thing in your life. Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

Pamela Anderson is the Midlife example we all need. Really. Have a listen as we discuss her Netflix documentary. Throw out what you think you know of the pinup image. This very real woman has got serious grit. Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

This episode was posted out of sequence to tackle a current event. Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

How do we use our friends? Are our safe places for gossip and gang up energy or do we use them to be vulnerable to show in ways where we can grow and push each other to be better? Should we let our people wallow? Or do we jump in and have the hard talks with love? Vent? Or Advice? How do we show up for each other and how do we want to show up for others and have them show up for us? Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

In recording land it’s really Kimby’s birthday (in the real world her day in Jan 10) and it’s a doozy.  The old pictures came flying in - do we like seeing old pictures of us on our birthday in midlife? Or do we hate it?  Tracy is having a life lesson learning moment… you know those?  Where you feel like you might disappoint a whole bunch of people?   Are you expecting 100% satisfaction guaranteed? For you to be unflawed ? Hear Tracy’s human experience today!  Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

We shared what's working for us and answered AWESOME questions from the audience. If you want to in our audience on Wednesday Happy Hours, go to themidlife.co/happy-hour Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

Living with other humans is annoying. Come listen as we divulge some of our pet peeves. Do you have the same? Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

Tracy has found herself swimming in the muck of an old story. Do you ever find yourself in one of these self pity/self-shaming/self-doubting icky moments or days? What do you do when you find yourself there? Do you allow a pause?Sometimes these icky feelings and revisiting these old feelings and old stories is part of allowing your body to unravel the old feelings from inside of you for you to let go of them and heal.You have the power to set the energy of any situation. We'll show you how. You are the matrix. Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

Parenting expert and coach Randi Rubenstein joined us today to talk all things parenting. And in Midlife, that really means applying all the "reparenting" you've been doing of yourself to ALL relationships - humans smaller and larger than you, those birthed from your loins...or not. Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

Many of us got the message that is was not polite to discuss money. We think that does all of us a huge disservice. So today we're discussing everything from the thought that "money is the root of all evil", to the things we need to do as grown-ups to preserve, grow and protect our money, and even the possibility that the thoughts you have around money may be what's keeping you away from having the relationship with money you want.  Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co

How do you show up when you give yourself a reward? Do you hate it and rebel? Or do you get motivated by the process? And how do you show up for yourself when it all falls apart? Can you be kind to yourself when you don’t get a star? From habit trackers to thumb sucking… we don’t miss a thing. Follow us on IGRead the blog at The MidlifeShop the merch at the SHOPQuestions or comments? Email us at kimbyandtracy@themidlife.co