How Writing Can Transform Your Life - The Marketing Nerdz Podcast
Growing up, I was a BIG time introvert. I HATED not being able to express myself.
The only way I could communicate with the world back then was via Sports.
I was a district level player in Cricket and Table Tennis. I won a lot of awards for my school.
And I was also a part of the music-band in my school.
So sports and music is how I got all the attention back then.
But my inability to express myself always pinched me.
And after school, when my parents did not support my career in sports and wanted me to do Engineering first and then MBA... I felt as if someone had taken away one of my legs.
It felt like a ruthless cut out of the Blue.
And I wasn't able to fight or take a stand for myself back then. Else, who knows, maybe, you would have seen me in one of the IPL teams. A left hand opening batsman for Mumbai Indians, eh?
With sports gone. The music aspirations were gone too.
Everyone in my band moved to different cities.
To compensate, during my Engineering, I found another way to express myself. The Gym.
So you see, when I look back now, the pattern is pretty self-evident.
Everything I did in my life was a way to compensate for my inability to communicate or to be able to express myself.
My passion, my interests were all around things that could help me get attention. Since I got very little of it.
No wonder, I wanted to become an Actor after I got done with my Engineering. It seemed like the easiest way to get attention.
In fact, I pursued a career in acting for at least a couple of years. From doing Theater to acting in a couple of shows for UTV back then.
Things looked good. I could have done well as an actor if I had pursued it for long.
But after a point, while I was going through some health issues, I just lost interest. I decided that I don't want to pursue my passion for acting any longer. I just quit.
To me, wanting to become an actor was a way to learn how to express myself freely. And although I did that as the characters I was asked to play.
But the REAL me, the REAL Karan still was an introvert.
As soon as I was done acting.As soon as I heard the word CUT from my director - I would be back to who I was all my life - An INTROVERT.
So becoming an actor did not help me become who I thought I would.
And in between all of this, I now had to think about making money, building a career... I did not realize that I had become an Adult.
So I kept dabbling from one thing to another.
And stumbled upon writing one fine day thanks to Sandhya Valecha.
At that point, learning how to write was just a way to make money and make ends meet.
I did not really think of writing as a way to resolve and overcome something that I had been fighting all my life.
But surprisingly, the more I wrote, the better I got at writing - the better I got at communicating. The better I got at expressing myself.
When I was researching about the connection between writing, thinking, and communication - I was surprised to know that writing is also used as a modality by therapists to help people transform their lives, personalities, and self-image.
No wonder, I become a better communicator.
Thanks to learning how to write, I can now express myself freely. I was able to overcome years of my inhibitions. And make a lot of money and build a fairly successful career on my own terms.
Learning how to write changed my life, it can change your life too. Listen to this podcast episode for more details.