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In this two-part episode, Jamie and Shelbs of Aya Within Podcast have an authentic conversation about childhood trauma, blended families, being a child of divorce, estrangement from parents, infidelity, self-love and more.   For more from Shelbs: Follow her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/sshelbs/ Listen to The Aya Within Podcast   Thanks To Our Sponsors This episode is sponsored by LMNT. Go to www.drinkLMNT.com/stepmom/ to get a free sample pack with a purchase   Cozy Earth - www.cozyearth.com and use code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off luxe bedding, pajamas and loungewear   NuCalm - www.nucalm.com use code JAMIE10 for 10% off   For More From Jamie For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide Work With Jamie: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook

In this two part episode, Jamie and Shelbs of Aya Within Podcast have an authentic converation about childhood trauma, blended families, being a child of divorce, estrangement from parents, infidelity, self love and more.   For more from Shelbs: follow her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/sshelbs/ Listen to The Aya Within Podcast   This episode is spnsored by LMNT. go to www.drinkLMNT.com to get a free sample pack with purchase   Check out Tonic Site Shop: www.jamiescrimgeor.com/tonic use code JAMIE15 for 15% off     For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide Work With Jamie: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook

Joslynn Flowers is a full-time mom of 4, (the older 3 being her stepkids) and a certified stepmom coach, who resides in California.   In her short time as a stepmom, she has experienced the many struggles that can come along with being a stepmom and blending a family. Within months of getting married, Joslynn found herself in the middle of a very high conflict co-parenting situation and custody battle which resulted in her husband being granted full physical and legal custody of the kids.   Talk about NOT what you signed up for.   In this episodes Joslynn shares her story, we talk about boundaries, the root of resentment, finding peace with the ex, explaining family dynamics to an ours baby and more…   Connect with Joslynn on instagram at www.instagram.com/dailystepmom. You can also listen to her podcast The Daily Stepmom Podcast     Join Redefine Stepmotherhood: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/mastermind   Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership   SHOW SPONSORS: This episode is sponsored by NuCalm. Use code JAMIE10 for 10% off your subscription at www.nucalm.com.   Check out Tonic Site Shop: www.jamiescrimgeor.com/tonic use code JAMIE15 for 15% off

Dr. Heidi Brocke is a Toxic Relationship Awareness & Healing Specialist. After spending 14 years in an extremely emotionally and narcissistically abusive relationship she broke the chains and turned her past into her passion; She left her 24 years career in healthcare to use her life experience and education to be the person she needed when she herself was trapped in the darkness of an unhealthy relationship to provide hope, healing, and freedom to those whose lives have been affected by toxic relationships, emotional abuse, and narcissistic behaviors.   Heidi shares her story with Jamie as well as strategies for women who are also affected by toxic relationships.   For more from Jamie For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community (formerly Exclusive Stepmom Community) www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide Book A Call With Jamie: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Join Redefine Stepmotherhood: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/mastermind     For more from Heidi: https://coachingwithdrheidi.com/ https://www.instagram.com/coachingwithdrheidi/   https://www.facebook.com/coachingwithdrheidi/   RESOURCES: The Toxic Profile Analysis - https://coachingwithdrheidi.com/toxicity-analysis The Break-Free Toxic Relationship Program - https://coachingwithdrheidi.com/break-free-from-toxic-relationships-healing-program   Thanks To Our Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by Better Help. Get 10% off your first month at www.betterhelp.com/stepmom   Cozy Earth - www.cozyearth.com COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off

Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. and Jamie rift on all the issues that come up with the legal system when Jamie is chatting with stepmoms.   Should a stepmom go to court? What do I think about spousal support? What's wrong with the child support system? Would I go after spousal support? When should you meet the kids? Why you shouldn't date before your divorce is final and more.   For more from Dennis: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drvlaw/ Website: https://www.drvetranolaw.com/   You can also follow him on TikTok.   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Join Redefine Stepmotherhood - www.jamiescrimgeour.com/mastermind Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide   This episode is sponsored by NuCalm. Use code JAMIE10 for 10% off your subscription at www.nucalm.com.

Jamie and her cousin Michelle ask eachother a bunch of random questions.   How do Jamie's stepkids feel when they travel without them? Was Michelle embarassed when she got divorced? How does Jamie deal with her anxiety? How did Michelle overcome feeling insecuire about academics. Does Jamie's age difference with Darren worry her?   And more...   For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The KICK-ASS Stepmom Community (formerly Exclusive Stepmom Community) www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide Book A Call With Jamie: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching     For More From Michelle Follow them on Instagram: @itsmichellepfile   Thanks to Our Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by NuCalm. Use code JAMIE10 for 10% off your subscription at www.nucalm.com.   Join the Life Edit via www.jamiescrimgeour.com/lifeedit and use the code JAMIE for 20% off.

Jamie and her husband Darren share how they would handle stressful stepfamily situations that you submitted on Instagram.   For more from Jamie: Website: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram @jamiescrimgeour and @kickassstepmompodcast Find me on Facebook Join The Membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life Book a coaching call: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Get 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom - www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook     Get Your Ticket To The Stepmom Summit: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/stepmomsummit   Join The Life Edit with Krista Williams of Almost 30 www.jamiescrimgeour.com/lifeedit and use the code JAMIE for 20% off   This episode is sponsored by NuCalm. Use code JAMIE10 for 10% off your subscription at www.nucalm.com.

Sleep Coach Alanna McGinn, founder of Goodnite Sleep Site is on the show to dive into all things sleep. In this episode, we talk about ways to manage stress so it doesn't impact your sleep, sleep hygiene, sleep debt and we also get into common sleep issues in co-parenting. Things like what do you do if bio mom is co-sleeping but you don't feel comfortable with it (or don't want to), how to handle when each home has different sleep routines, and how to set boundaries when it comes to your stepkids and sleep.   For more from Jamie: Website: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram @jamiescrimgeour and @kickassstepmompodcast Find me on Facebook Join The Membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life   To attend The Stepmom Summit head to www.jamiescrimgeour.com/stepmomsummit   For More From Alanna: Website: www.goodnightsleepsite.com Follow her on Instagram: www.instagram.com/gnsleepsite Find her on Facebook: www.facebook.com/goodnightsleepsite   Thanks to Our Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Use code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off your order at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/cozyearth This episode is sponsored by NuCalm. Use code JAMIE10 for 10% off your subscription at www.nucalm.com.

It's just me this week and we are switching things up and doing an assumptions episode. You submitted your assumptions about me or our stepfamily life, and I am confirming or debunking them.  In this episode I am exposing it all - from my stepkids, to our marriage, the ex, do we have a prenup and so much more!    For more from Jamie: Website: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram @jamiescrimgeour and @kickassstepmompodcast Find me on Facebook Join The Membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life   Thanks to Our Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by Better Help. Get 10% off your first month by heading to www.betterhelp.com/stepmom. Become a member of The Exclusive Stepmom Community for the stepmom support and resources you need for just $9.99/month or $99.99 a year: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership

Darren is back again and we are answering more questions about setting boundaries with the ex, your stepkids and what a stepmoms role should really be!   We cover things like how to stop the ex from coming into your home without permission, when should a stepmom take a step back from dealing with the ex, receiving pictures from the ex during her time (or vice versa), setting boundaries with your stepkids, handling the kids attitude towards you, dealing with teenagers and cell phones and SO much more.   This episode is loaded!     For more from Jamie: Website: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram @jamiescrimgeour and @kickassstepmompodcast Find me on Facebook Join The Membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life     Thanks to Our Sponsors:   This episode is sponsored by LMNT. Get a free sample pack with every purchase at www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom.   This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Use code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off your order at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/cozyearth   Become a member of The Exclusive Stepmom Community for the stepmom support and resources you need for just $9.99/month or $99.99 a year: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership

Darren is back on the show and we are diving into all things having an ours baby!   The episode kicks off with Darren reminding me of the worries I felt when it came time to having our daughter (some that I had forgotten I even had!) which reminded me that I was once in the same place a lot of you are.   We then dive into answering the questions you submitted and there are some good ones.   Things like whether the bio mom should take the ours baby on her time, how to deal with anxiety about how an ours baby will change the family dynamic, dealing with a high-conflict ex during pregnancy, handling different parenting styles, balancing schedules, raising them differently than your partner raised your stepkids with the ex, and SO much more!     For more from Jamie: Website: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram @jamiescrimgeour and @kickassstepmompodcast Find me on Facebook Join The Membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life     Thanks to Our Sponsors:   This episode is sponsored by LMNT. Get a free sample pack with every purchase at www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom.   This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Use code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off your order at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/cozyearth   Become a member of The Exclusive Stepmom Community for the stepmom support and resources you need for just $9.99/month or $99.99 a year: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership

This week I am chatting with Leah Marie Mazur who is a Divorce Recovery Coach for women, and the founder of Mindfully Ready. Leah helps women release the guilt, shame and feelings of failure so they can thrive after divorce.   In this episode we are diving into the stigma around divorce, the importance of changing the conversation around what divorce really means and why she and her ex let their daughter choose her own custody schedule.   Leah also shares how a stepmom can respond when the ex is struggling post divorce.   For more from Jamie: Website: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram @jamiescrimgeour and @kickassstepmompodcast Find me on Facebook Join The Membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life     For More From Leah: Website: https://www.mindfullyready.com/ IG: www.instagram.com/mindfullyready/   Thanks to Our Sponsors:   This episode is sponsored by LMNT. Get a free sample pack with every purchase at www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom.   Ready to level up your website? Head to www.jamiescrimgeour.com/tonic and use the code JAMIE15 to get 15% off your template.   If you have a digital platform, a coaching business or are thinking of starting one, I highly recommend using Kajabi. Head to www.jamiescrimgeour.com/Kajabi for a discount and all the details!   Become a member of The Exclusive Stepmom Community for the stepmom support and resources you need for just $9.99/month or $99.99 a year: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership

If you are thinking that we have been talking A LOT about sex this year on the podcast, you are right. But as part of my goals for 2023, I wanted to amp up the intimacy game in my own marriage and so here we are.   This week I am chatting with Dr. Kelly Casperson about you guessed it, sex. Kelly wants to reach the large majority of women who feel shame and broken and uneducated about their bodies, specifically their sexuality and pelvic health.   In this episode Kelly and I dive into confidence in sex, the shame related to sex that women often feel, the ways men and women are treated differently when it comes to sex, why the penis just sometimes doesn't work, things to amp it up in the bedroom, talking to your kids about sex and SO much more!     For more from Jamie: Website: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram @jamiescrimgeour and @kickassstepmompodcast Find me on Facebook Join The Membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life     For More From Kelly: Website: www.kellycaspersonmd.com IG: www.instagram.com/kellycaspersonmd FB: www.facebook.com/youarentbroken   Thanks to Our Sponsors:   This episode is sponsored by LMNT. Get a free sample pack with every purchase at www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom.   This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Use code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off your order at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/cozyearth   This episode is sponsored by Better Help. Head to www.betterhelp.com/stepmom for 10% off your first month.    

This episode has been highly requested in the past but I never had the experience to talk about it. That is until I met Michelle Wolfe. Michelle's stepmom experience is a little different because her stepdaughters bio mom has passed away.  In this episode Michelle shares all about her experience being a stepmom to a child who has lost their mom. We dive into her experience dating a man with kids and how that changed when his ex passed away, what it was like moving into the house they lived in together, how she has cultivated a positive relationship with her daughter while still honouring her mom and how she has found her place in her family.   For more from Jamie: Website: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram @jamiescrimgeour and @kickassstepmompodcast Find me on Facebook Join The Membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life   For More From Michelle: Follow her on Instagram: @themichellewolfe Website: www.themichellewolfe.com Listen to The MUVE Forward Podcast here   Ready to level up your website? Head to www.jamiescrimgeour.com/tonic and use the code JAMIE15 to get 15% off your template. Become a member of The Exclusive Stepmom Community for the stepmom support and resources you need for just $9.99/month or $99.99 a year: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership

You guys, LeAnn Rimes is on the show! In this episode LeAnn and I talk about her experience as a stepmom. We dive into the healing that it forced her to do, how she dealt with her personal life being blasted in the media, the narratives that it created, boundaries, personal values and the feeling of being an outsider (which is so common in stepmom life). Today is a good reminder that the real human experience is similar for everyone, famous or not.   For more from Jamie: Website: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram @jamiescrimgeour and @kickassstepmompodcast Find me on Facebook Join The Membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life   For More From LeAnn: Follow her on Instagram: @leannrimes Website: www.leannrimes.com Listen to my episode on Wholly Human here.   This episode is sponsored by LMNT. Get a free sample pack with every purchase at www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom. This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Use code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off your order at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/cozyearth   Become a member of The Exclusive Stepmom Community for the stepmom support and resources you need for just $9.99/month or $99.99 a year: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership

This is part 2 of this two part series with Ashleigh Renard. If you haven't listened to the first part yet, go back and listen to episode 173 where we dive into Ashleigh's experience swinging with her husband and how she fell in love with another man and almost ruined her marriage. In this episode we pick up where we left off and Ashleigh shares how she rebuilt her marriage after she almost got a divorce, how she stopped being a martyr mom, her tips for keeping monogamy hot, what she learned about herself during the swinging process and so much more!   Listen to Pt. 1 Sex Clubs + A Failed Attempt At Swinging with Ashleigh Renard here.   Take the disengaging quiz at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/shouldidisengage   For more from Jamie: Website: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram @jamiescrimgeour and @kickassstepmompodcast Find me on Facebook Join The Membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life   For More From Ashleigh: Follow her on Instagram: @ashleighrenard Website: www.ashleighrenard.com   This episode is sponsored by LMNT. Get a free sample pack with every purchase at www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom. This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Use code COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off your order at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/cozyearth

Today's convo is hot! In fact, it is just wow. This week I am chatting with the creator of the viral How To Keep Monogamy Hot video series and author of Swing, Ashleigh Renard. In this episode, we dive into what happened with Ashleigh and her husband when they decided to go to a sex club to explore swinging and how this was actually the catalyst for change in their marriage. Stay tuned for part 2 which will be released next Monday!   Take the disengaging quiz at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/shouldidisengage   For more from Jamie: Website: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram @jamiescrimgeour and @kickassstepmompodcast Find me on Facebook Join The Membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life   For More From Ashleigh: Follow her on Instagram: @ashleighrenard Website: www.ashleighrenard.com   This episode is sponsored by LMNT. Get a free sample pack with every purchase at www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom.

This week we are going deep with Balkanina aka Nina Caviggiola. In this episode, we dive into Nina's past and her childhood experience as a refugee. We talk about how her mother saved her and what her life was like living without a father. We also chat about mental health and anxiety and how her childhood experience affected her as an adult and what she has done to heal those wounds while also being a mom. This episode is a reminder that everyone has their story. Everyone has their trauma and there is so much that we don't see on social media.   For more from Jamie: Website: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram @jamiescrimgeour and @kickassstepmompodcast Find me on Facebook Join The Membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life   For More From Nina: Follow her on Instagram: @balkanina Website: www.balkanina.com   This episode is sponsored by Porta. Chef-made Italian classics delivered right to your door. Head to www.jamiescrimgeour.com/porta and use JAMIE30 for 30% off your order. (Canada only). This episode is sponsored by LMNT. Get a free sample pack with every purchase at www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom.

This week it’s just me and I am going off the stepmom script and diving into the questions you submitted on Instagram. The truth is, being a good stepmom and living a KICK-ASS life is so much more than just seeking Stepmom support. It all starts with you.   So in this episode, I am sharing how I take care of myself. I cover everything from skincare, botox and cosmetic procedures, to dealing with PMS, healthy habits and finding your style. This episode is jam packed with all things stepmom self care.    Plus, I share why it is so important for me to pull myself together in the morning even if it just means 5 minutes and some tinted moisturizer, leggings and a cute sweater.       This episode is sponsored by Porta. Chef-made Italian classics delivered right to your door. Head to www.jamiescrimgeour.com/porta and use JAMIE30 for 30% off your order. (Canada only).   Is it time to disengage? Take the disengaging quiz and find out in under 60-seconds!    Get all the links mentioned here and don't forget to check out this page for links to all my favorite things.     For more from Jamie:   Website: www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram @jamiescrimgeour and @kickassstepmompodcast Find me on Facebook Join The Membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life

We are talking about sex! Yep, we're going there. Sex, porn, masturbation, and more! Perhaps a taboo or too personal subject to some, but Dr. Jessica O'Reilly aka Sex With Dr. Jess and I are diving into it all by answering the questions that you submitted on Instagram. And you guys didn't hold back! In this episode: Sex when your stepkids are around How to recover when someone has cheated Finding porn on your kids phone Masturbation Doing something that your partner wants in the bedroom but you are just not really into Fear around fantasies Communication We also talk about what to do when you can't stop thinking about the ex during sex (and it's more common than you think!)     For more from Jamie Scrimgeour visit www.jamiescrimgeour.com Follow along on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jamiescrimgeour Follow along on Facebook: www.facebook.com/scrimgeourjamie   Join The Exclusive Stepmom Community: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/membership Download The Secret To Improving Your Stepfamily Life: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freeguide     For More From Dr. Jess: Follow her on Instagram: www.instagram.com/sexwithdrjess Visit her website: www.sexwithdrjess.com Watch her on YouTube: www.youtube.com/user/SexWithDrJess Listen to her podcast: www.sexwithdrjess.com/podcast   Thanks to Our Sponsors: Cozy Earth www.jamiescrimgeour.com/cozyearth COZYJAMIE40 for 40% off site wide   Porta www.eatporta.com JAMIE30 for 30% off your order