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The J. B. Sisam Show | Learn How To Write Your Book | Publishing And Blogging Tips To Help You Find Your Voice And Succeed.

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38 minutes | a year ago
Creating an Attitude of Gratitude (Encore Episode)
This podcast episode was originally published, Wednesday, Jan 23, 2019. This has become one of my favorite episodes of this podcast. I know you’ll enjoy this encore episode. New episode next week. On a daily basis, we deal with stress and anger. But it’s how we handle the stress that determines our success in this life. The more we stress about life, the more we’ll fall into the temptation to become angry and disappointed with what life offers. Before we can understand what solutions we have in dealing with the daily stresses of life, we first must understand what causes stress. In this encore episode, I want to give you 5 secrets to develop an attitude of gratitude to help you get rid of stress and find peace. Life is hard and the stress life brings into our lives seems to outweigh the positivity we desire in our daily lives. So how do we develop an attitude of gratitude? Life happens and there’s not much we can do to ease the problems and stress that arise in our lives. But, it’s how we handle these moments of life that determine our mindset and what our outlook on life looks like. Psalm 34:19 King James Version (NKJV); Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the Lord delivers him out of them all. 1. Worry about Nothing. In the book of Philippians 4:6, we find Paul writing, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.” It’s easy to worry. When life gets tough and we’re not sure what the outcome will be, we worry. Worry borrows from the future, something that might not happen. It’s being afraid of something that happened that you couldn’t control or something that might never happen. Worry borrows from the future, something that might not happenClick To Tweet The definition of worry is to choke or strangle. Worry takes what’s left of your imagination and amps it up to allow fear and stress to consume our thought life. Worry is always thinking outside of the moment where we are borrowing from the future instead of in the NOW. Matthew 6:34; “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” As the wise Jedi Master, Yoda says, “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate, Hate leads to suffering.” Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday – but remember that when tomorrow arrives, it is God who brought you through. TAKEAWAY: Live ONE DAY at a time! Live for today! 2. Be content with everything. We like to compete with the Jones’. We look at what people have in their grocery cart and wish we could have that lobster for dinner too, and what’s worse, they may not look like they can afford that lobster. We covet and spend outside our means, just so we can save face with our friends. We tell stories that try to eclipse someone else’s situation. We try hard to be like everyone and everyone like us, and one-up everyone. It’s human nature. We. feel the need that something will make us happy. If you expect it to always be sunny and it rains, you lose faith and sight of what peace can look and feel like. Oh man! God, why isn’t it sunny! I thought you wanted the best for my life and this is happening! Why?! If you expect it to always be sunny and it rains, you lose faith and sight of what peace can look and feel likeClick To Tweet Philippians 4:12, “I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.” You cannot fall into the trap of wanting or craving more than what you have because you’ll become stressed. Maybe it’s time to slow it down and find peace. 3. Set realistic goals. I’ve learned that goal setting is a significant way to force your mind to focus on what’s important rather than on your current circumstances. It’s like a fighter who focuses on winning the battle and doing his best to succeed than looking at the size of the man in front of him. There are a ton of books out there dealing with goal setting, I won’t get into them here. But one thing is certain when you think forward and stop thinking about your current predicaments, you’ll find your stress levels decline. King Solomon wrote in Proverbs 16:9; We plan the way we want to live, but only God makes us able to live it. We plan the way we want to live, but only God makes us able to live it. So many people fail at New Year‘s Resolutions because they don’t make a cognitive decision on how to implement their goals. Michael Hyatt wrote a book called, “Your Best Year Ever.” In this book, he talks about the right way and the wrong way to set yearly goals. His template has proven to me that it’s easier than you think to set goals and see them succeed. It’s called the SMARTER template. Specific– The goal must be specific. “I will read 12 books this year.” Measurable– The goal must be measurable… “I will read 12 books this year.” Actionable– The goal must be actionable… “I will read 12 books this year by reading every day beginning January 1.” Risky– The goal must be risky. Maybe you should push to read 20 books? Time-bound– The goal must have an end date. “I will read 12 books by December 31 by reading every day beginning January 1.” Exciting– The goal must be exciting. If you’re not excited about the goal, have an exciting reward for when you accomplish that goal. Relevant– The goal must be relevant to where you are in your life. If you do this, you’ll find it harder to focus on the here and now, and focus on what you can accomplish this year. 4. Turn off the garbage. We go through difficulty after difficulty but we become so convinced of it because of what we listen to and allow into our spirit. Should we not spend more time in the Word of God instead of what the news says or what friends of Facebook say? It’s all gloom, despair, and agony on me! It’s time to change our mindset, go to God in prayer, read the Word of God, and allow godliness to flood your hearts and mind. We need to develop a new filter in our lives to keep the world’s pollution from affecting our lives. It’s one thing to pray, but we also need to get rid of the things that pollute the mind. Just turn on the news or social media. These are all highly toxic! They affect the mind, soul, and heart. The nightly news will tell you that the world will end tomorrow! Friends on Facebook pick sides and will defend it to the death. It is time to dump the toxic junk from our lives and focus on developing an attitude of gratitude. The Bible says, out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. It is time to dump the toxic junk from our lives and focus on developing an attitude of gratitude. 5. Journal your way to a thankful heart. My life shapes my thoughts. How we think is how we’ll act but writing our thoughts gives us something new to think about. I go out of my way to journal and plan my way out of life‘s stressors. I don’t want a problem without finding a solution to fix that said problem. It’s easy to worry about tomorrow, however, to live life for today takes thought and dedication. Therefore I’ve become a big fan of journaling. In fact, I’m releasing a new journal on the market called,“Thinking Forward: Developing an Attitude of Gratitude.” The whole goal of this journal is to help people think about the positive aspects of their day, document their wins, lessons learned, things read, and writing a positive affirmation paragraph. When we think positively, the more we will focus on the good things life has to offer. So, I’ve created a journal that asks 9 questions to help you discover what is good and positive and to help you dig down deep and find what it is you’re grateful for. When we think positively, the more we will focus on the good things life has to offer.Click To Tweet I will release this journal on January 29 and will give you the tools you need to develop a mindset of gratefulness. Whether you’re journaling for personal reasons or professional reasons, this journal will help you stay focused on what’s important by helping you gain the results you want out of life. THIS JOURNAL INCLUDES: 90 days of journaling pages. DAILY INDEX to help you easily find the day or month you’re looking for. HELP YOU SLOW DOWN so you can process your day and think through your biggest wins and discoveries. HELP YOU FIND WHAT YOU’RE MOST GRATEFUL FOR by asking you questions to connect with yourself on an emotional level and by building a daily habit of affirmation. HELP YOU RECONNECT WITH YOUR DAILY GOALS. BECOME CONSISTENT with a daily journaling habit by answering 9 carefully selected questions to focus on your biggest wins and leave a legacy for future generations. I break this journal up into THREE main sections: THINKING ABOUT TODAY – to help you connect with y AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE – to help you dig down deep and pull up something you’re grateful for and by writing some form of positive affirmation. THINKING ABOUT TOMORROW – to reconnect with your daily goals and make achieving them a habit. You can use this section to plan out your next day so you can get more done with a smile on your face. We design this journal by giving you a template to stay focused, get your ideas, goals, and thoughts written in one place. Taking a moment to reflect on each day by taking lessons learned will help you apply those wins to tomorrow by helping you take your life to the next level. You are meant for greatness. You are meant to be happy and positive. It is time to start thinking forward, stop looking back at negativity, and begin thinking about your life positively by developing a daily habit of affirmation. The post Creating an Attitude of Gratitude (Encore Episode) first appeared on Jason Sisam.
36 minutes | a year ago
How to be a Vision Driven Leader. (Ep. 149)
Whether you own a business, pastor a church, or are an entrepreneur, one thing is certain, we need a laser-like focused vision to succeed. As leaders, we should be to leading first with vision by creating a compelling future for our customers and/or teams. Vision-driven leaders focus first on what they see. Your vision should begin inside, deep within the recesses of your heart. Then, when you know where you believe you’re headed, it’s important to bring your team to the table and communicate what God’s placed on your heart. The goal, to communicate that vision and make it tangible. In this podcast episode, I talk about Michael Hyatt’s new book, The Vision Driven Leader. Here’s the review I wrote on Amazon: Michael Hyatt has crafted an easy to follow system to declutter the mind, distill down to the heart of a leader’s vision, and a simple to follow process for writing it down and how to leverage your team’s ideas and thoughts so you can place your church or business in a place to win. One of my favorite quotes in the book comes near the end – “Waiting feels safe, but waiting kills vision. Where will you take your team…?” In other words, don’t wait until you have crafted the perfect vision, start somewhere, start today, and leverage your future with a good plan today. General George Paton said, “A good plan executed today is better than a perfect plan executed next week.” I highly recommend this book to any pastor, church leader, business coach, leader, or CEO who is looking for a way to cultivate change today, so they can win tomorrow. I want to give you three ways this book will help you to craft a compelling vision and distill it down into something that will inspire. Why do we need a vision? What happens if we take the time to look inside? What will we see? 1. Vision Drives Everything First, vision is inspiring. It’s the driving force behind the why of any business or dream. It’s about being a part of something bigger than yourself. Sure, there are times when vision seems daunting and out of reach. But lifting your perspective to a higher elevation, vision gives you a three to five year view of where you desire to be. Second; the question you have to ask yourself: what is the change I want to make in this world? How will your vision of a better tomorrow inspire others to get beyond themselves and change the world? People want to be part of something bigger than themselves. How will the lives of others be changed by your vision? If you can discover that answer you’ll find people will jump on board and do what it takes. 2 questions every leader must answer in discovering their vision. Chapter 1 – Are you a leader or a manager? Chapter 2 – What difference does vision make? 2. Drafting your Vision Script. It’s easy to be short-sighted in crafting a vision. A lot of leaders look at vision as, “I would like to be…” or “I hope we’ll be…” By having this mindset, leaders set themselves up for failure. Instead of thinking the above, maybe we should write our vision out as if we’re living it right now. At Life Church, a few years ago we recrafted our vision and it has become the driving focus for our church. Here’s an example of our vision. “We see a church where people love God first in every area of their life through worship, the Word, and fellowship with other believers. We serve people in their areas of influence by showing the love of Jesus through their actions and using their spiritual gifts to minister to those who attend services and Life Groups. We have a church filled with individuals who take their love of God and take that love into the world for people to discover the hope Jesus has to offer.” Take time to flesh out your vision. If it can fit on a coffee cup, it’s too short-sighted. Vision is about crafting a future that you see. Sure, you can take your vision script and craft a mission statement from that to keep people focused on the task at hand. But taking the time to take your vision and craft a narrative around that, you’ll have a better idea of where you’re going. Once you do that, you can bring your team in and begin selling the vision God’s given you. To put this into practice, Micahel answers five questions: Chapter 3 – What do you want? Chapter 4 – Is it clear? Chapter 5 – Does it inspire? Chapter 6- Is it practical? Chapter 7 – Can you sell it? 3. The Challenge Ahead. Vision has to be visible. It needs to be attainable and inspiring for your team members to grasp. Vision with either make or break a company. There are multiple organizations that refused to change or innovate their vision and instead became comfortable with where they were at. Your vision should always be changing, just like a life plan. There will always be resistance to a new vision. Take Starbucks for instance. 1971, by three partners who met while they were students at the University of San Francisco: English teacher Jerry Baldwin, history teacher Zev Siegl, and writer Gordon Bowker were inspired to sell high-quality coffee beans and equipment by coffee roasting in their shop called, Starbucks. They became shortsighted when one of their employees came back from a trip to Europe. There Howard Schultz said their future was selling espresso. They laughed him out of the company. So, he started his own shop selling espresso drinks. It quickly gained strength and in 1984 his former employers sold him Starbucks because they were losing money. And the rest, as they say, is history. Why, because they didn’t change with the times and they didn’t zag. It’s never too late to change your vision, re-center your priorities and take your team to the next level. In the final section of the book, Michael asks these three questions: Chapter 8 – How should you face resistance? Chapter 9 – Is it too late? Chapter 10 – Are you ready? Let me close with a quote from Michael Hyatt’s blog: “As leaders, vision begins with us. If we’re not visionary, no one else on the team will be either. This is one responsibility we cannot delegate and dare not abdicate. Begin with a clear vision of the future. Then make it an inspiring, concrete, and practical tool, and communicate it relentlessly. People will follow.” Resources in this episode: The Vision Driven Leader by Michael Hyatt Full Focus Planner Awesome Bonuses for his book All my ebooks for sale – $.99 each for a limited time The post How to be a Vision Driven Leader. (Ep. 149) first appeared on Jason Sisam.
32 minutes | a year ago
Use Vision To Lead In Difficult Times! (Ep. 148)
Amidst the current COVID-19 pandemic that is sweeping the globe, people are looking for strong leadership and vision to help them see a brighter future–now more than ever. And your vision plays a large part in helping dispel anxiety and instill hope in scary times. When John F. Kennedy spoke to the nation on September 12, 1962. This was during the height of the Cold War. Tensions were tight, people were scared that nuclear war was imminent. But President Kennedy did something astounding, he gave a vision that told of a brighter future, one that all American’s could believe in. “We choose to go to the Moon in this decade and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard; because that goal will serve to organize and measure the best of our energies and skills, because that challenge is one that we are willing to accept, one we are unwilling to postpone, and one we intend to win…” His challenge was the backdrop to which we could embrace and embrace that vision is what American’s did. Though he never saw his vision become a reality, America latched onto it and on July 20, 1969, at 20:17 UTC, Commander Neil Armstrong and lunar module pilot Buzz Aldrin landed the Apollo Lunar Module Eagle on the surface of the moon. Armstrong became the first person to step onto the lunar surface six hours and 39 minutes later on July 21 at 02:56 UTC; Aldrin joined him 19 minutes later. Vision and leadership go hand-in-hand. When times are difficult and vision seems far off, people look to us to lead them out of the wilderness and into a brighter future. Whether you’re a writer, leader, entrepreneur, we should be learning to help people find their why by focusing on an inspiring what. In other words, if you have a clear vision, you will eventually find the right strategy to help people arrive at a desired destination. In this episode, I want to walk you the power of vision, your story, to lead people in unprecedented times–similar to the COVID-19 times we’re in right now. 1. Is your vision clear? I was given an advanced reader copy of Michael Hyatt’s forthcoming book, The Vision Driven Leader. In it, he distills down the importance of leading with laser-like focus by crafting a vision script to lead your organization, business, church, team into a brighter tomorrow. He writes, “Vision is the essential ingredient for successful leadership. There’s no substitute.” @michaelhyatt @jbsisamClick To Tweet He continues, “Unless you, as the leader, have a clear picture of the destination where you want your company to be…you’ve got nothing that will inspire people to follow you.” The single greatest thing a leader can do is cast a vision that’s inspiring and good enough to encourage people into action that drives results. So, is your vision clear? What motivates you to create content that excites individuals to find who God has created them to be? The single greatest thing a leader can do is cast a vision that’s inspiring.Click To Tweet As leaders, our goal should be to paint a picture of an irresistible future. John Kennedy shot for the moon. His speech created a clear story that sparked the imagination of those who’d make it happen. When the going gets tough and we’re not sure how to lead in the moments of life that seem out of our control, remember this saying from Michael’s new book, “Moon shots are about changing the world, or at least your sphere of influence.” Make it clear and make it memorable. Liken your vision as a blueprint or Google Maps. They outline a clear picture of where you’re going. 2. Respond when times are tough. It’s one thing to be like the strong individual in the room telling everyone that this too shall pass. But it’s a whole other thing when we’re the ones panicking when things become too difficult to handle. Like this episode? Never miss out again, subscribe today and you'll get a copy of my new ebook, That has become abundantly clear during the Coronavirus pandemic. Organizations, churches, restaurants, and business owners are scrambling to make due during this time. We couldn’ sit back and do nothing. As leaders, our job is to take action today, summerize the plan moving forward, then involve your teams. Times like this give us the opportunity to identify and leverage creativity and innovation. A good plan executed today is better than a great plan executed next week. In other words, do something now, and adjust as time moves forward. But we have to recognize and acknowledge the challenge and find a response to help people cope with today while telling them a story of a better tomorrow. We must have the honesty to face our current reality but have faith in tomorrow that we will prevail. People are looking for hope. If you’re a writer, tell your story of how you prevailed in perilous times. Focus on your own circle of control instead of your circle of concern. Do what you can to get where you want to be. Mitigate risks, keep your eyes on new opportunities, and then look to see how you’re uniquely positioned to serve those you lead. 3. Move Forward into a brighter future. Uncertainty breeds fear and lack of confidence in your team. Fear is reactive and will stifle creativity, ingenuity, and innovation goes out the window. The individuals in your church, business, or team, all look to you for the answers in uncertain times. The question we must face is this, “What is my response going to be?” Yes, there are things we simply cannot control and there are certain times that are more challenging than others, but it’s how we choose to lead in those moments that encourage those under our authority to rise to the occasion. Remember NASA. They rose to the occasion, even after the terrible loss of those in the Apollo 1 fire. They continued forward into a brighter future because they believed in JFK’s vision. Business coach and author, Robert Updegraff said, “A man should be grateful for his job each day. If there are no problems, you have zero challenges.” As you lead your organization, church, readers, customers through this crisis, share a compelling vision of a brighter tomorrow. Resist the temptation to resist by recognizing the moment, reassessing your abilities, and respond to inspire. Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsShare Leave a ReviewClammr ItListen in a New WindowDownloadSoundCloudStitcherSubscribe on AndroidSubscribe via RSSGoogle Play MusicAll EpisodesBuy Vision Driven Leader by Michael HyattThe post Use Vision To Lead In Difficult Times! (Ep. 148) first appeared on Jason Sisam.
28 minutes | a year ago
3 Secrets to Finding Peace in a Fearful World! (Ep. 147)
It’s obvious that people are scared and afraid of the unknown. There is a lot of fear in the air because of the Coronavirus. But, in these moments of adversity, there lies a better solution. We cannot allow fear to control our lives. People are afraid of the unknown and the media is perpetuating that fear. This episode, I talk about the three secrets to finding peace in a fearful world. 1. Be the presence of peace. The person in the room with the most peace is the person in the room with the most influence. It’s a fact. Our church just released a Coronavirus notice for our congregation. We wanted to let them know we’re taking things seriously, but not panicking either. We decided to be the focus of peace. The Bible tells us that there is peace in Jesus. “Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid,” John 14:27. What are you doing right now to spread love and peace in your area of influence? I’m not talking about belittling or making light of the fact that people have died, that’s sad, but taking the time to show up and be the person people look up to in times of uncertainty. If you want to have influence, YOU can be the Kryptonite that can dispel fear and anxiety. Remember, God has not given us a spirit of fear. Tha’s not his job, he loves to bring a sound mind, peace, and comfort to those who need a little distraction from what the media is spewing out daily. 2. Ignite the passion of the people around you. Do something today! Show up and allow yourself to bring a little passion. Passion irradicates panic. When people see how passionate you are about the peace that surpasses all understanding, they’ll want to follow. The media only spells doom, gloom, and despair. Don’t give in to what they’re selling. It’s disgusting and evil. Yes, this pandemic, as the CDC calls it is terrible. Yes, people are dying. But it’s also been said that it’s a relatively mild illness. I’m not trying to minimalize the facts, but oftentimes, when we show up as people who focus on something other than what the world expects, it often influences conversations that are healthy and full of peace, than filled with fear of tomorrow. What are you passionate about? What gets your buzzer going? As influencers, leaders, and writers, our goal is to inspire people to be the very best. We are designed to be influential in our spheres of relationships. People matter and how you approach these people, how you show up each day, will give them something healthy to think about. And if you can get a few individuals to follow you, or start making their own mark, even better. 3. Bring practical solutions. I would venture to say, the most common solutions that combat fear and anxiety are often the most simple. Take the Coronavirus, for example, the best means of combating the illness or avoiding it; wash your hands, be smart, limit contact with large groups of people, and for Pete’s sake, leave some gosh-darn toilet paper for the rest of us. People are looking for answers in this uncertain time. They’re looking for ways to combat the panic they’re undoubtedly feeling. But as leaders, our job is to have the answers, something they can grasp and run within their search for success. If you’re a writer, write the book God’s put on your heart. Use this opportunity when people are looking for a little hope. Light dies in the darkness when we turn off the switch. Remember, Jesus is your source of power, peace, and inspiration. If you’re a leader, teach people how to celebrate their wins. Focus on things that are above by helping people connect with your vision for a brighter tomorrow. When we work together for the greater good of mankind, by helping our fellow neighbors, we invite peace, even when things seem impossible. The inconvenient often becomes the vehicle through which the impossible becomes inevitable. If we want to see the impossible happen in our businesses and lives, we need a little vision, mixed with a little passion, to find that what stretches us brings the impossible a little closer. That, my friends, brings peace into the home. From a practical standpoint, if people are concerned about their money. Tell them now is the time to invest in the market. Everything is on sale in the market right now. Buy low, sell high. The Bible even tells us there are times to buy and build wealth in Ecclesiastes 3. Start investing into your future, whether you’re writing a book, casting vision for your company, starting a new business venture, or encouraging your congregation. Do something today. Show up and see that God will use you to dispel fear, anxiety, and bring peace into the lives of those around you. Remember, don’t celebrate the people who are sick. We’ll always have them. The media is selling panic for political reasons. We have the ultimate weapon against fear – peace, and Jesus. Be the beacon of peace! Resources in this episode: Write Now Masterclass Autographed books I’m on Tik-Tok The Daily Ray Podcastt Let’s Work Together: If you are ready to write your book, start that blog, or simply take your leadership to the next level, check out my Work With Me page to see how we can work together.The post 3 Secrets to Finding Peace in a Fearful World! (Ep. 147) first appeared on Jason Sisam.
67 minutes | a year ago
Avoid Writing Pitfalls by Setting SMARTER Goals (Ep. 146)
It’s no secret that time is limited. We all have the same amount of time–168 hours. But it’s not the fact that we have all this time, it’s how we use this time that will either help us achieve success or leave us scratching our heads wondering, where did all my time go this week? Read Full Transcript How many people struggle with getting their words written on a timely manner? How many of you struggle with balancing work your life and family and your writing? STORY: Talk about my writing history and by joining of the Minnesota Christian Writers Guild STORY: Talk about that I had no money and ended up writing my first book Our words are powerful. Words are sharp and they can cut deep. But words can also uplift and point the way to Jesus. The word of God is sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and the spirit…and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. Heb. 4:11. We commonly believe that it is separating soul from the spirit–like cutting an orange in half–but the Bible literally say the word of God is sharper than any two-edged sword it pierces of the Soul and Spirit. The difference is…stabbing the knife through the orange–passing through the rind into the flesh. Our writing is no different. Our writing is just as powerful. The goal is to help more people find true Life in Jesus Christ through the words and the stories that we tell. We have the ability to change the course and the direction of somebody's life simply because of words that we put to the page. But if we don't take the time the set our goals and get our priorities in the right order, our writing will struggle and somebody who needs to hear that message that God has placed on her heart will miss out on something beautiful, powerful, and life-changing. Tonight I want to talk about avoiding the procrastination pitfall of writing and put together a plan that actually works and will help you achieve unlimited success and immediate results in your writing. It’s no secret that time is limited. We all have the same amount of time–168 hours. But it’s not the fact that we have all this time, it’s how we use this time that will either help us achieve success or leave us scratching our heads wondering, where did all my time go this week? Procrastination is something all professionals face. Whether you’re working on a big project for your boss, trying to clean your house, or simply needing to make the time to write that darn book. It’s no wonder why so many writers tend to take 10-20 years to finally accomplish their lifelong goal of writing a book. It doesn’t have to be that way. The last novel I wrote, Vengeance at Purgatory, took me ten years to write. Why? Because I simply make excuses for not getting the work done. And tonight, I’m going to show you how you can write faster, get more done, and accomplish your goals by the end of this year. So, what do we need to do to take back time, triage our to-do lists, set SMARTER goals, and finally be free to focus on the one goal that’s been plaguing us, finishing that blasted book. 1. YOU MUST STOP! Remember the old Kindergarten game - Red light, Green light? It’s a game where you start running and before you get a few feet planted, the teacher yells out - RED LIGHT! And you’re goal was to stop. But if you had too much momentum against you, you’d fall flat on your face, and the floor would force you to stop. The same is true in our lives. If we don’t learn how to stop, our calendars and time will force us to stop, either by sheer exhaustion, or more likely, things start falling through the cracks and you have to give up on your goals and dreams for the year, because everything else vies for your attention. And the reason we don't Work on our goals is because we allowed too many other things to take its place. We procrastinate. On the one thing we want to accomplish. Procrastination does not mean you are sitting around and twiddling your thumbs. Procrastination is focusing your attention on everything else, but… We have an endless barrage of tasks and things on our never-ending to-do list that sometimes it feels as if we’ll never see the end. We just accept it and move forward, realizing there can never be any reprieve from everything we have to do. Remember the I Love Lucy episode where Lucy and Ethel are hired by a chocolate company. Their job was simple, wrap the truffles coming down the conveyor belt. They start okay but things go awry and the candies start coming by at a very fast pace. Lucy and Ethel start shoving them in their mouths and filling their hats. The manager finally comes back and sees how good they did…their reward, “Speed it up!” We all feel like Lucy and Ethel. It’s not chocolates that race by it’s emails, texts, phonically, reports, meetings, deadlines. It’s never ending. We download apps, try new hacks, and the barrage never ends. So, we try to wrap as much as we can as fast as we can. As Michael Hyatt says in his book, “Free to Focus," "True productivity starts when being clear on what we truly want…to formulate your own vision for productivity, that works for you instead of the manager shouting, ‘faster.’” He continues, “To get to the heart of the problem, we need to explore three common productivity objectives.” Let’s go through them; Objective 1: Efficiency Often we look at productivity as something that is more than accomplishing tasks, it’s trying to get MORE done as fast as we can. In other words, the more you get done, the more you have time for something else. However the real question we should be asking isn’t, Can I do this job faster, or easier? It’s, Should I be doing this job at all? This is a question we must get clear on. I have no issues with technology. It’s helped a lot of people in a lot of different areas. However, the portable computer in our hand vies for our attention and we get sucked into the latest and greatest app or hack to help us get more done by doing as much as humanly possible with the allotted time at our disposal. Our smartphones were promised as a solution to helping us free up time to do more things. But, has your phone or computer helped you free up your daily tasks, or has it done the opposite? I am a tech nerd. I love apps and task management systems. I love trying new pieces of software or new social media sites. I can use it to call, email, schedule appointments, manage my to-do list, even video-conference or create entire spreadsheets or write a letter using Microsoft Word or Google Docs. It’s impressive. Michael Hyatt also said, “New Tech solutions may enable us to work faster, but more significantly, that efficiency brings with it the temptation and expectation to work more.” Objective 2: Success I would venture to say, the main goal of productivity is success. We all desire to increase our success as writers. WE want to write more articles, more books, and maybe even help a floundering writer find a place to publish their work. The more productive we are, the greater success, right? Sort of. The problem most people face is the illusion of success or a vague understanding of what success is often leads to trouble. The problem, I never stop long enough to get clear on what success means me. If we don’t have a destination in mind, we’ll never find where we want to go. As far as American’s go - we buy into the SUPERSIZE myth. More is better, so we strive for more and more and more. So that very notion forces us into a never ending cycle of a bigger house, more toys, exotic vacations or simply more stuff. STORY: My wife and I are working on decluttering our home. Me: my office. We keep pushing and pushing, only to feel drained at the end of the day. We pull out our computer, try and write a few words, shove it back into its case only to repeat again tomorrow. According to Gallup, the average American workweek is over 50 hours. And one in five work close to 60 hours or more. It’s not the blue-collar/service worker that’s clocking in those hours - it’s professional, desk workers. So when you factor in the long commutes, family commitments, and other demands that vie for your attention, you realize you have very little time to write. This goes for those who don’t work a typical 9-5 job. If you’re a stay-at-home person, retired, or own your own business - you find that just as much time is being spent on busy work than deep-focused work to further your goals and get them accomplished. Objective 2: Freedom If productivity isn’t the goal of improving efficiency and increasing our success, then what is the goal? Why do we bother at all? “Productivity should free you to pursue what’s most important to you. The goal, the true objective of productivity, should be freedom. * Freedom to focus: If we want to master our schedule, increase our efficiency and output, we've go to learn how to focus. * How much time were you free to focus and concentrate on your writing? * How many distractions did you face? Texting, calling a friend, Facebook, emails, somebody dropping by your desk to say hi or ask you a question. * The average professional/employee faces a distraction every three minutes. Those distractions are time leaches - they suck away your time. * Freedom to be present: How often are you truly present when it comes to time away from work to be with your family and friends? * Maybe you’re on a date night and your mind wanders to what’s sitting on your desk or to-do list. * How often do you check your email or messages? * Are you able to truly unplug from your tasks and be present and living in the moment? * For me, I’m learning, is to not be efficient, but be productive. Which means, when I’m at work, that’s where I’m fully present. When I’m with my wife, that means I’m fully present with her. The important people in my life deserve the very best of me. * Freedom to be spontaneous. Sounds silly - but we should prioritize spontaneity into our daily lives. * We try to focus so hard and organizing every last minute, avoid interruptions or get frustrated when that task isn’t completed by the deadline we’ve set. * That doesn’t sound fun or exciting. * Imagine allowing your kids, grandkids to just walk in and say hello - you drop whatever you’re doing and spend quality time with them. * this only happens when you create margin in your life. * Freedom to do nothing. We live in an always on culture. We don’t know how to shut off our mind and do nothing. If we’re consistently doing something, we feel productive. But, it’s okay to sit back and do nothing. * We often feel guilty for doing nothing. * You feel unproductive in the middle of a non-task. * When we drop everything, do nothing, we put our mind into neutral. * And that’s when ideas flow, memories sort out, and we give ourselves the chance to rest and dream. 2. Get rid of Limiting Beliefs and install Liberating truths It’s hard to stop and evaluate our lives. It’s hard to discover that there is more to life than consistently being on the go. What we can do - change our thinking. This is the crux of learning to be free and learning to move forward with the dreams, plans, and desires God has placed on your heart. So often we struggle with our thought life. Our mindset drives our beliefs that we have about ourselves or our current situations. These are limiting beliefs, because they limit our potential and establish false boundaries the prevent us from accomplishing our goals. Here are some limiting beliefs I pulled from Michael Hyatt’s book - what resonates with you? * “I just don’t have enough time.” In other words, we’re consistently telling ourselves that we’re too busy. It’s true, we all feel too busy and feel we don’t have enough time for the things we want to do. If this is one of your struggles, that you feel you don’t have enough time to write, here is a liberating truth: I have all the time I need to accomplish what matters most. Remind yourself that you have the same 168 hours that everyone else does. You can accomplish great things in the same amount of time. * “I’m just not disciplined to sit down and write.” Maybe you feel overwhelmed with the prospect of finishing your goals or tasks, and taking the time to sit down for a long time seems daunting and you feel lost or distracted when you sit down to write. If that describes you, replace it with this liberating truth: Working in my desire zone doesn’t require much discipline. * “I’m not really in control of my time.” Not everyone is beholden to being self-employed, a CEO, or even in management, where you get to control your time. Your day very well could be dictated by your boss, or even family schedules. But we too often throw out the excuse, I can’t because I’m not in control of my time. Here’s a liberating truth: I have the ability to make better use of the time I do control. You have a say in how your day unfolds and how you live your life. There will be pockets of time under someone else's control, but you still control the rest. * “I’ve tried before, and it didn’t work.” It’s something we say when we realize we’re not productive enough to finish the book, or task we’re working on. Maybe you’ve tried writing your book, give up, try again, and realize it’s not working, so why do I even try? High achievers, like James Patterson or John Grisham, don’t have that problem - they push through until something works. Here’s the liberating truth: I can get better results by trying a different approach. * “My circumstances won’t allow me to write right now, but they’re only temporary.” This is the deadliest limiting belief. And we use it all the time. My circumstances are temporary. I’ll be able to write that book later, I’ll eventually finish writing that darn book. It seems hopeful, but it hinders and wreaks havoc on becoming productive and actually accomplishing your goal of getting your work done. Every season of life is daunting. There are commitments, activities, children’s events, church, bible studies, nothing is ever temporary. We just allow the busy seasons of life to redraw our boundary lines and things never go back to normal. If you don’t take control of your time, someone else or something else will. Embrace this liberating truth: I don’t have to wait until my circumstances change to get started and make progress. Make the shift and start making positive changes right now, regardless of circumstances. * DOWNLOAD A LIBEREATING TRUTH PDF AND HANG IT ON YOUR MIRROR: JASONSISAM.COM/BELIEFS 3. Set SMARTER goals Have you ever taken a road trip without a map or clear directions? Maybe you want to take your wife to a fancy 5 Star Restaurant but you failed to set the reservations. This is what happens in our life if we desire something but we never set a written goal with specific action steps to get us from point A to Victory. For years, I desire to write a book. The dream so realistic, I could taste it. However, I never put action steps in place to make it a reality. I would Flounder with the idea 4 months or years on end before writing the very first word. When the book was finally finished, I desired to write more and yet, it took 5 years to write another short book. Why? Because I never set an action-oriented goal. One of my favorite books by Michael Hyatt is, Your Best Year Ever. This book is designed to help us create a five-step plan for achieving our most important goals. Seth Godin said about the book; "Generous goals work if you write them down, and powerful books work if you read them. Michael Hyatt has created a fun, fast way to find your dreams and then turn them into reality." When you finally put an action plan together you hold yourself accountable and you won't want to fail those plans. I want to give you seven steps for creating an action plan this year to help you write more effectively and get the things done you want to see accomplished. These seven steps come from Michael's book and spell out the word SMARTER. SPECIFIC Goals need to be identified, and if we can put a face those goals they can be visualized. The purpose of smarter goals is to make sure that we create specific goals. If we're not specific, and we don't take the time to figure out how to be specific, will fail every time. In 2017 I set the goal finish writing Purgatory Creek. I wanted to make sure the goal was very specific so I knew exactly what I was to accomplish. That is a very specific goal. Michael Hyatt gives an example in his book; *"If I was to say learn photography. Is that specific? No. In other words, what aspect of Photography do you want to learn? A better go would be, complete Lynda.com photography 101 courses. That's specific."* MEASURABLE It's one thing to have a goal now, the question you have to ask yourself, is it measurable? In other words, how do I know when I have accomplished the goal? Take making money, for example, you want to make more money in 2018. The question you must wrestle with, how much more money? If you're not specific with your goal setting, you won't know when you have accomplished that goal. Maybe, your goal is, I want to make 10,000 more dollars this year. That is a realistic and measurable goal. When you write your goal down, make sure you are objective so that you can measure yourself against the goal. Set an objective Target so you know when you reach certain markers or Milestones along the way. ACTIONABLE Is easy with goal-setting to be passive. When we write our goals we tend to say something like, I want to be a better writer in 2020. That particular goal is not very actionable. You can't measure it and you can't take action to it. But if you say I want to write 12 short stories, an outline my first book, that is very specific and very actionable. Why? Because writing 12 stories and an outline for your book will make you a better writer. Michael Hyatt encourages the use of strong verbs when writing your goals. He says *"be clear and directive about the action."* He also says this, *"goals are fundamentally about what we're going to do"*, as a result, is essential to get "*clear on the primary action when formulating your goals."* RISKY Our fourth step of smarter goals is that they need to be a little bit risky. Most people think setting a goal should be realistic, and I agree, however setting a goal that's a little bit out of our reach, that stretches us, will produce a better go. We want to have some skin in the game. If we set the bar too low we're not dreaming big enough. Risk will drive the results that you want to see. Physiologist Edwin Locke says this about goal setting, there is a linear relationship between the degree of gold difficulty and performance. He concluded, the performance of participants with the highest goals was over 250% higher than those with the easiest. With a risky goal, you rise to the challenge but if we place a goal that's too easy we lay back and we won't finish the goals, why because they're safe. TIME KEYED One of the biggest frustrations people have in setting New Year's resolutions, is they don't set a specific time when they went to see their resolution completed. This is why most people give up their New Year's resolutions several weeks into the new year. They don't plan ahead. This year, I went back to a paper calendar and day planner. I can't tell you how much more effective I have been since the New Year began. I've accomplished more, I've set goals for the future, and I can the tribute a specific day and time I want to see these goals accomplished. When you set a time specific goal, you're setting the bar for you to meet that challenge and rise to the expectation that you set for yourself. If you don't set a time specific goal 2020 will come and go and you'll set a new resolution because you feel like you failed the previous year. And the cycle continues without any change or momentum in your life. I recommend setting no fewer than 5 but no more than 10 major goals you want to accomplish this year. But, set only two to three major deadlines to have each quarter. This way, you're not trying to jam all of your goals into the month of December. You can spread out your focus and be more effective. Don't settle your goals for December 31st, doing so you're only going to really effectively accomplish a couple goals. If you set quarterly goals, you will feel fulfilled and accomplished when the New Year arrives. EXCITING Face it, if you're not excited about your goal, you will never accomplish your goal. Set an exciting goal. If the goal is not exciting in itself, set an exciting reward. Alice Walton reported in the Chicago Booth review, "*this is not how most people typically choose their goals they choose ones that they feel are important. Don't use a New Year's resolution you don't enjoy doing you'll be setting yourself up for failure. Tap into your intrinsic motivation.*" If you don't find your goals exciting or motivating you're not going to have the motivation to push through when life grabs you by the horns. Ask yourself this question am I inspired and does my heart feel engaged in my goals? Are you willing to make it happen and are you willing to have fun along the way? Michael Hyatt says "*remember, we're setting risky goals.*" You're going to feel tempted to quit at some point. Only an exciting goal can access the internal motivation you need to stay the course and achieve your goal. RELEVANT This last point I believe is the most important. You want to choose goals that are going to be relevant to your life. Don't choose a goal for the sake of choosing involved. Choose a goal that is going to help you feel fulfilled and accomplished when the New Year rings in. You're going to feel all kinds of pressure outside of yourself they're going to push you to work against your goals. But remember The High Ground. Remember why you said that goal in the first place. Align your goals and set a to-do list. I know, if you follow the action plan here, you're going to have goals that you can feel proud of, excited about, and ready to tackle to take yourself to the next level. So, how do we put this into practice? 4. Act on your goals by prioritizing your tasks Entrepreneur Greg McKeown said, “If you don’t prioritize your life, someone else will.” We’re all busy. Things come up, vie for our attention and we have done everything we can to cut something somewhere. But we sit and look at this huge task list of responsibilities and wonder where we should start and what we should focus on today. We can all come up with endless lists of things that could be done. Here’s the question - Do they all have to be done right now? Just because something is important, doesn’t mean it’s important at this very moment. In other words, what deserves your attention right now? So, what should we do? ONE: Design your week by doing a weekly preview. When you look at your goals, and what big things you have coming up this quarter, what needs your immediate attention. Before you allow Monday to come and distract you for the week, what an you do to gain traction right away and focus on your goals? This is called the Weekly Preview. It’s how you can enable your tasks by prioritizing them into manageable system that works for freedom in your life. In other words, this is the process that will help you get your head above the chaos and line up your tasks and action items so they best fit into your schedule and responsibilities. STEP 1: List your biggest wins. Reflect on what you accomplished last week and where you won. Focus on the wins - this gives you a dopamine hit to give you a win. STEP 2: Review your prior week. Recall any lessons you learned and what adjustments you should make. How far did you get on your Weekly Big 3 - more in a moment. Second, ask yourself, what worked and what didn’t work? Third, finally ask, What will you keep, improve, start, or stop doing? based on the above? STEP 3: Review your lists and your notes. These can be a quick review. Read though your task lists, calendar, paper planner, and any notes. Use this as a time to focus on what still needs to get done from the previous week. * Eliminate what is no longer relevant. * Schedule want needs to happen later. * Prioritize want needs to happen and when. What’s neutral or a big priority for the week. (more in a moment.) * Defer. Is there something that can be pushed off but don’t have time for this week? STEP 4: Check your goals, projects, events, meetings, and deadlines. The biggest reason people stumble is they don’t ge clear on their most important goals and projects. You need a 30,000 foot view of your week. Hyatt says, This is about elevating your vantage point on your work. STEP 5: Designate your Weekly Big 3. These are the three most important things you need to accomplish in the coming week o keep making progress toward your goals. There are always more tasks and things you can do, but you need to figure out what’s important and what’s urgent. Not what others say, but what you consider urgent and important. Look at your goals, how much time is left to accomplish that goal? If you aren’t careful other people’s priorities will sneak in and supersede your own. So look at your lists and ask, is it important to me or urgent to me? TWO: Design your day by distilling down to your Daily Big 3! Great days don’t just happen, they are caused. For years, I struggled with this aspect of my day. I would flounder and often discover that I was consistently busy, but never accomplishing anything. This is why it would sometimes take 5-10 years for me to write a book. Most people set themselves up for failure by trying to tackle too many things in their day. Remember the limiting beliefs? Eventually I’ll write that book but I’m running out of time. That limiting belief is coming from the temporary overload of work. If we want to stop the bleeding and get clear on our goals, we ned to change and prioritize three and only three tasks in our day. Remember the Pereto principle - 80 percent of the results come form just 20 percent of action. It takes more effort to look at twelve or twenty things you could do and zero in on the three that really matters. But if you think, completing only three taks a day isn’t enough to win long term, consider the year long implications. We try to focus on too many things, then at the end of the day, our list seems just as long, if not longer. But by focusing on just three things a day, and work just 235 days a year, you’ll have 705 important things done. YOu’ll be that much closer to accomplishing your goals. Think of it this way. If you really want to write a book this year, set a SMARTER goal, find out how many days you’ll write in a week. Let’s say you choose to write just 235 days this year and make it one of your DAILY BIG 3 to write just 400 words, you’ll have 94,000 words written in just 235 days. You can honestly write, distraction free, 400 words, in about 1 hour of time. That’s it! And you’ll have more than enough words for a full-length novel. We all have 20 or more things on our to-do list, but when we eliminate what doesn’t matter, automate and delegate what we can off our lists, and distill down to the Big 3, it really becomes possible to regain control of your writing life. You’ll find peace and you’ll be able to design your days and live with freedom and avoid those pesky writing pitfalls and limiting beliefs. Proactively enforce your writing boundaries. Opting for delayed communication, you’re limiting other’s access to you. Remember time is fixed, so guard it like a precious resource. Don’t break focus, write for just 1 hour and you’ll be amazed at how much you can accomplish in a short amount of time. Procrastination is something all professionals face. Whether you’re working on a big project for your boss, trying to clean your house, or simply needing to make the time to write that darn book. It’s no wonder why so many writers tend to take 10-20 years to finally accomplish their lifelong goal of writing a book. It doesn’t have to be that way. The last novel I wrote, Vengeance at Purgatory, took me ten years to write. Why? Because I simply make excuses for not getting the work done. And tonight, I’m going to show you how you can write faster, get more done, and accomplish your goals by the end of this year. So, what do we need to do to take back time, triage our to-do lists, set SMARTER goals, and finally be free to focus on the one goal that’s been plaguing us, finishing that blasted book. On Monday, March 9, 2020, I spoke to the Minnesota Christain Writer’s Guild. This podcast episode is a recording of that keynote. 1. YOU MUST STOP! Remember the old Kindergarten game – Red light, Green light? It’s a game where you start running and before you get a few feet planted, the teacher yells out – RED LIGHT! And you’re goal was to stop. But if you had too much momentum against you, you’d fall flat on your face, and the floor would force you to stop. The same is true in our lives. If we don’t learn how to stop, our calendars and time will force us to stop, either by sheer exhaustion, or more likely, things start falling through the cracks and you have to give up on your goals and dreams for the year, because everything else vies for your attention. Three objectives we must answer to achieve success. Objective 1: Efficiency, Objective 2: Success, Objective 2: Freedom to focus. 2. Get rid of Limiting Beliefs and install Liberating truths It’s hard to stop and evaluate our lives. It’s hard to discover that there is more to life than consistently being on the go. What we can do – change our thinking. This is the crux of learning to be free and learning to move forward with the dreams, plans, and desires God has placed on your heart. So often we struggle with our thought life. Our mindset drives our beliefs that we have about ourselves or our current situations. These are limiting beliefs, because they limit our potential and establish false boundaries the prevent us from accomplishing our goals. I discuss some limiting beliefs I pulled from Michael Hyatt’s book – what resonates with you? 3. Set SMARTER goals Have you ever taken a road trip without a map or clear directions? Maybe you want to take your wife to a fancy 5 Star Restaurant but you failed to set the reservations. This is what happens in our life if we desire something but we never set a written goal with specific action steps to get us from point A to Victory. I want to give you seven steps for creating an action plan this year to help you write more effectively and get the things done you want to see accomplished. 4. Act on your goals by prioritizing your tasks Entrepreneur Greg McKeown said, “If you don’t prioritize your life, someone else will.” We’re all busy. Things come up, vie for our attention and we have done everything we can to cut something somewhere. But we sit and look at this huge task list of responsibilities and wonder where we should start and what we should focus on today. We can all come up with endless lists of things that could be done. Here’s the question – Do they all have to be done right now? Just because something is important, doesn’t mean it’s important at this very moment. In other words, what deserves your attention right now? So, what should we do? ONE: Design your week by doing a weekly preview. TWO: Design your day by distilling down to your Daily Big 3! RESOURCES MENTIONED: Free to Focus by Michael Hyatt Your Best Year Ever by Michael Hyatt Thinking Forward Journal Write Now with Scrivener Masterclass SMARTER GOALS Worksheet download Read Full Transcript How many people struggle with getting their words written on a timely manner? How many of you struggle with balancing work your life and family and your writing? STORY: Talk about my writing history and by joining of the Minnesota Christian Writers Guild STORY: Talk about that I had no money and ended up writing my first book Our words are powerful. Words are sharp and they can cut deep. But words can also uplift and point the way to Jesus. The word of God is sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and the spirit…and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. Heb. 4:11. We commonly believe that it is separating soul from the spirit–like cutting an orange in half–but the Bible literally say the word of God is sharper than any two-edged sword it pierces of the Soul and Spirit. The difference is…stabbing the knife through the orange–passing through the rind into the flesh. Our writing is no different. Our writing is just as powerful. The goal is to help more people find true Life in Jesus Christ through the words and the stories that we tell. We have the ability to change the course and the direction of somebody's life simply because of words that we put to the page. But if we don't take the time the set our goals and get our priorities in the right order, our writing will struggle and somebody who needs to hear that message that God has placed on her heart will miss out on something beautiful, powerful, and life-changing. Tonight I want to talk about avoiding the procrastination pitfall of writing and put together a plan that actually works and will help you achieve unlimited success and immediate results in your writing. It’s no secret that time is limited. We all have the same amount of time–168 hours. But it’s not the fact that we have all this time, it’s how we use this time that will either help us achieve success or leave us scratching our heads wondering, where did all my time go this week? Procrastination is something all professionals face. Whether you’re working on a big project for your boss, trying to clean your house, or simply needing to make the time to write that darn book. It’s no wonder why so many writers tend to take 10-20 years to finally accomplish their lifelong goal of writing a book. It doesn’t have to be that way. The last novel I wrote, Vengeance at Purgatory, took me ten years to write. Why? Because I simply make excuses for not getting the work done. And tonight, I’m going to show you how you can write faster, get more done, and accomplish your goals by the end of this year. So, what do we need to do to take back time, triage our to-do lists, set SMARTER goals, and finally be free to focus on the one goal that’s been plaguing us, finishing that blasted book. 1. YOU MUST STOP! Remember the old Kindergarten game - Red light, Green light? It’s a game where you start running and before you get a few feet planted, the teacher yells out - RED LIGHT! And you’re goal was to stop. But if you had too much momentum against you, you’d fall flat on your face, and the floor would force you to stop. The same is true in our lives. If we don’t learn how to stop, our calendars and time will force us to stop, either by sheer exhaustion, or more likely, things start falling through the cracks and you have to give up on your goals and dreams for the year, because everything else vies for your attention. And the reason we don't Work on our goals is because we allowed too many other things to take its place. We procrastinate. On the one thing we want to accomplish. Procrastination does not mean you are sitting around and twiddling your thumbs. Procrastination is focusing your attention on everything else, but… We have an endless barrage of tasks and things on our never-ending to-do list that sometimes it feels as if we’ll never see the end. We just accept it and move forward, realizing there can never be any reprieve from everything we have to do. Remember the I Love Lucy episode where Lucy and Ethel are hired by a chocolate company. Their job was simple, wrap the truffles coming down the conveyor belt. They start okay but things go awry and the candies start coming by at a very fast pace. Lucy and Ethel start shoving them in their mouths and filling their hats. The manager finally comes back and sees how good they did…their reward, “Speed it up!” We all feel like Lucy and Ethel. It’s not chocolates that race by it’s emails, texts, phonically, reports, meetings, deadlines. It’s never ending. We download apps, try new hacks, and the barrage never ends. So, we try to wrap as much as we can as fast as we can. As Michael Hyatt says in his book, “Free to Focus," "True productivity starts when being clear on what we truly want…to formulate your own vision for productivity, that works for you instead of the manager shouting, ‘faster.’” He continues, “To get to the heart of the problem, we need to explore three common productivity objectives.” Let’s go through them; Objective 1: Efficiency Often we look at productivity as something that is more than accomplishing tasks, it’s trying to get MORE done as fast as we can. In other words, the more you get done, the more you have time for something else. However the real question we should be asking isn’t, Can I do this job faster, or easier? It’s, Should I be doing this job at all? This is a question we must get clear on. I have no issues with technology. It’s helped a lot of people in a lot of different areas. However, the portable computer in our hand vies for our attention and we get sucked into the latest and greatest app or hack to help us get more done by doing as much as humanly possible with the allotted time at our disposal. Our smartphones were promised as a solution to helping us free up time to do more things. But, has your phone or computer helped you free up your daily tasks, or has it done the opposite? I am a tech nerd. I love apps and task management systems. I love trying new pieces of software or new social media sites. I can use it to call, email, schedule appointments, manage my to-do list, even video-conference or create entire spreadsheets or write a letter using Microsoft Word or Google Docs. It’s impressive. Michael Hyatt also said, “New Tech solutions may enable us to work faster, but more significantly, that efficiency brings with it the temptation and expectation to work more.” Objective 2: Success I would venture to say, the main goal of productivity is success. We all desire to increase our success as writers. WE want to write more articles, more books, and maybe even help a floundering writer find a place to publish their work. The more productive we are, the greater success, right? Sort of. The problem most people face is the illusion of success or a vague understanding of what success is often leads to trouble. The problem, I never stop long enough to get clear on what success means me. If we don’t have a destination in mind, we’ll never find where we want to go. As far as American’s go - we buy into the SUPERSIZE myth. More is better, so we strive for more and more and more. So that very notion forces us into a never ending cycle of a bigger house, more toys, exotic vacations or simply more stuff. STORY: My wife and I are working on decluttering our home. Me: my office. We keep pushing and pushing, only to feel drained at the end of the day. We pull out our computer, try and write a few words, shove it back into its case only to repeat again tomorrow. According to Gallup, the average American workweek is over 50 hours. And one in five work close to 60 hours or more. It’s not the blue-collar/service worker that’s clocking in those hours - it’s professional, desk workers. So when you factor in the long commutes, family commitments, and other demands that vie for your attention, you realize you have very little time to write. This goes for those who don’t work a typical 9-5 job. If you’re a stay-at-home person, retired, or own your own business - you find that just as much time is being spent on busy work than deep-focused work to further your goals and get them accomplished. Objective 2: Freedom If productivity isn’t the goal of improving efficiency and increasing our success, then what is the goal? Why do we bother at all? “Productivity should free you to pursue what’s most important to you. The goal, the true objective of productivity, should be freedom. * Freedom to focus: If we want to master our schedule, increase our efficiency and output, we've go to learn how to focus. * How much time were you free to focus and concentrate on your writing? * How many distractions did you face? Texting, calling a friend, Facebook, emails, somebody dropping by your desk to say hi or ask you a question. * The average professional/employee faces a distraction every three minutes. Those distractions are time leaches - they suck away your time. * Freedom to be present: How often are you truly present when it comes to time away from work to be with your family and friends? * Maybe you’re on a date night and your mind wanders to what’s sitting on your desk or to-do list. * How often do you check your email or messages? * Are you able to truly unplug from your tasks and be present and living in the moment? * For me, I’m learning, is to not be efficient, but be productive. Which means, when I’m at work, that’s where I’m fully present. When I’m with my wife, that means I’m fully present with her. The important people in my life deserve the very best of me. * Freedom to be spontaneous. Sounds silly - but we should prioritize spontaneity into our daily lives. * We try to focus so hard and organizing every last minute, avoid interruptions or get frustrated when that task isn’t completed by the deadline we’ve set. * That doesn’t sound fun or exciting. * Imagine allowing your kids, grandkids to just walk in and say hello - you drop whatever you’re doing and spend quality time with them. * this only happens when you create margin in your life. * Freedom to do nothing. We live in an always on culture. We don’t know how to shut off our mind and do nothing. If we’re consistently doing something, we feel productive. But, it’s okay to sit back and do nothing. * We often feel guilty for doing nothing. * You feel unproductive in the middle of a non-task. * When we drop everything, do nothing, we put our mind into neutral. * And that’s when ideas flow, memories sort out, and we give ourselves the chance to rest and dream. 2. Get rid of Limiting Beliefs and install Liberating truths It’s hard to stop and evaluate our lives. It’s hard to discover that there is more to life than consistently being on the go. What we can do - change our thinking. This is the crux of learning to be free and learning to move forward with the dreams, plans, and desires God has placed on your heart. So often we struggle with our thought life. Our mindset drives our beliefs that we have about ourselves or our current situations. These are limiting beliefs, because they limit our potential and establish false boundaries the prevent us from accomplishing our goals. Here are some limiting beliefs I pulled from Michael Hyatt’s book - what resonates with you? * “I just don’t have enough time.” In other words, we’re consistently telling ourselves that we’re too busy. It’s true, we all feel too busy and feel we don’t have enough time for the things we want to do. If this is one of your struggles, that you feel you don’t have enough time to write, here is a liberating truth: I have all the time I need to accomplish what matters most. Remind yourself that you have the same 168 hours that everyone else does. You can accomplish great things in the same amount of time. * “I’m just not disciplined to sit down and write.” Maybe you feel overwhelmed with the prospect of finishing your goals or tasks, and taking the time to sit down for a long time seems daunting and you feel lost or distracted when you sit down to write. If that describes you, replace it with this liberating truth: Working in my desire zone doesn’t require much discipline. * “I’m not really in control of my time.” Not everyone is beholden to being self-employed, a CEO, or even in management, where you get to control your time. Your day very well could be dictated by your boss, or even family schedules. But we too often throw out the excuse, I can’t because I’m not in control of my time. Here’s a liberating truth: I have the ability to make better use of the time I do control. You have a say in how your day unfolds and how you live your life. There will be pockets of time under someone else's control, but you still control the rest. * “I’ve tried before, and it didn’t work.” It’s something we say when we realize we’re not productive enough to finish the book, or task we’re working on. Maybe you’ve tried writing your book, give up, try again, and realize it’s not working, so why do I even try? High achievers, like James Patterson or John Grisham, don’t have that problem - they push through until something works. Here’s the liberating truth: I can get better results by trying a different approach. * “My circumstances won’t allow me to write right now, but they’re only temporary.” This is the deadliest limiting belief. And we use it all the time. My circumstances are temporary. I’ll be able to write that book later, I’ll eventually finish writing that darn book. It seems hopeful, but it hinders and wreaks havoc on becoming productive and actually accomplishing your goal of getting your work done. Every season of life is daunting. There are commitments, activities, children’s events, church, bible studies, nothing is ever temporary. We just allow the busy seasons of life to redraw our boundary lines and things never go back to normal. If you don’t take control of your time, someone else or something else will. Embrace this liberating truth: I don’t have to wait until my circumstances change to get started and make progress. Make the shift and start making positive changes right now, regardless of circumstances. * DOWNLOAD A LIBEREATING TRUTH PDF AND HANG IT ON YOUR MIRROR: JASONSISAM.COM/BELIEFS 3. Set SMARTER goals Have you ever taken a road trip without a map or clear directions? Maybe you want to take your wife to a fancy 5 Star Restaurant but you failed to set the reservations. This is what happens in our life if we desire something but we never set a written goal with specific action steps to get us from point A to Victory. For years, I desire to write a book. The dream so realistic, I could taste it. However, I never put action steps in place to make it a reality. I would Flounder with the idea 4 months or years on end before writing the very first word. When the book was finally finished, I desired to write more and yet, it took 5 years to write another short book. Why? Because I never set an action-oriented goal. One of my favorite books by Michael Hyatt is, Your Best Year Ever. This book is designed to help us create a five-step plan for achieving our most important goals. Seth Godin said about the book; "Generous goals work if you write them down, and powerful books work if you read them. Michael Hyatt has created a fun, fast way to find your dreams and then turn them into reality." When you finally put an action plan together you hold yourself accountable and you won't want to fail those plans. I want to give you seven steps for creating an action plan this year to help you write more effectively and get the things done you want to see accomplished. These seven steps come from Michael's book and spell out the word SMARTER. SPECIFIC Goals need to be identified, and if we can put a face those goals they can be visualized. The purpose of smarter goals is to make sure that we create specific goals. If we're not specific, and we don't take the time to figure out how to be specific, will fail every time. In 2017 I set the goal finish writing Purgatory Creek. I wanted to make sure the goal was very specific so I knew exactly what I was to accomplish. That is a very specific goal. Michael Hyatt gives an example in his book; *"If I was to say learn photography. Is that specific? No. In other words, what aspect of Photography do you want to learn? A better go would be, complete Lynda.com photography 101 courses. That's specific."* MEASURABLE It's one thing to have a goal now, the question you have to ask yourself, is it measurable? In other words, how do I know when I have accomplished the goal? Take making money, for example, you want to make more money in 2018. The question you must wrestle with, how much more money? If you're not specific with your goal setting, you won't know when you have accomplished that goal. Maybe, your goal is, I want to make 10,000 more dollars this year. That is a realistic and measurable goal. When you write your goal down, make sure you are objective so that you can measure yourself against the goal. Set an objective Target so you know when you reach certain markers or Milestones along the way. ACTIONABLE Is easy with goal-setting to be passive. When we write our goals we tend to say something like, I want to be a better writer in 2020. That particular goal is not very actionable. You can't measure it and you can't take action to it. But if you say I want to write 12 short stories, an outline my first book, that is very specific and very actionable. Why? Because writing 12 stories and an outline for your book will make you a better writer. Michael Hyatt encourages the use of strong verbs when writing your goals. He says *"be clear and directive about the action."* He also says this, *"goals are fundamentally about what we're going to do"*, as a result, is essential to get "*clear on the primary action when formulating your goals."* RISKY Our fourth step of smarter goals is that they need to be a little bit risky. Most people think setting a goal should be realistic, and I agree, however setting a goal that's a little bit out of our reach, that stretches us, will produce a better go. We want to have some skin in the game. If we set the bar too low we're not dreaming big enough. Risk will drive the results that you want to see. Physiologist Edwin Locke says this about goal setting, there is a linear relationship between the degree of gold difficulty and performance. He concluded, the performance of participants with the highest goals was over 250% higher than those with the easiest. With a risky goal, you rise to the challenge but if we place a goal that's too easy we lay back and we won't finish the goals, why because they're safe. TIME KEYED One of the biggest frustrations people have in setting New Year's resolutions, is they don't set a specific time when they went to see their resolution completed. This is why most people give up their New Year's resolutions several weeks into the new year. They don't plan ahead. This year, I went back to a paper calendar and day planner. I can't tell you how much more effective I have been since the New Year began. I've accomplished more, I've set goals for the future, and I can the tribute a specific day and time I want to see these goals accomplished. When you set a time specific goal, you're setting the bar for you to meet that challenge and rise to the expectation that you set for yourself. If you don't set a time specific goal 2020 will come and go and you'll set a new resolution because you feel like you failed the previous year. And the cycle continues without any change or momentum in your life. I recommend setting no fewer than 5 but no more than 10 major goals you want to accomplish this year. But, set only two to three major deadlines to have each quarter. This way, you're not trying to jam all of your goals into the month of December. You can spread out your focus and be more effective. Don't settle your goals for December 31st, doing so you're only going to really effectively accomplish a couple goals. If you set quarterly goals, you will feel fulfilled and accomplished when the New Year arrives. EXCITING Face it, if you're not excited about your goal, you will never accomplish your goal. Set an exciting goal. If the goal is not exciting in itself, set an exciting reward. Alice Walton reported in the Chicago Booth review, "*this is not how most people typically choose their goals they choose ones that they feel are important. Don't use a New Year's resolution you don't enjoy doing you'll be setting yourself up for failure. Tap into your intrinsic motivation.*" If you don't find your goals exciting or motivating you're not going to have the motivation to push through when life grabs you by the horns. Ask yourself this question am I inspired and does my heart feel engaged in my goals? Are you willing to make it happen and are you willing to have fun along the way? Michael Hyatt says "*remember, we're setting risky goals.*" You're going to feel tempted to quit at some point. Only an exciting goal can access the internal motivation you need to stay the course and achieve your goal. RELEVANT This last point I believe is the most important. You want to choose goals that are going to be relevant to your life. Don't choose a goal for the sake of choosing involved. Choose a goal that is going to help you feel fulfilled and accomplished when the New Year rings in. You're going to feel all kinds of pressure outside of yourself they're going to push you to work against your goals. But remember The High Ground. Remember why you said that goal in the first place. Align your goals and set a to-do list. I know, if you follow the action plan here, you're going to have goals that you can feel proud of, excited about, and ready to tackle to take yourself to the next level. So, how do we put this into practice? 4. Act on your goals by prioritizing your tasks Entrepreneur Greg McKeown said, “If you don’t prioritize your life, someone else will.” We’re all busy. Things come up, vie for our attention and we have done everything we can to cut something somewhere. But we sit and look at this huge task list of responsibilities and wonder where we should start and what we should focus on today. We can all come up with endless lists of things that could be done. Here’s the question - Do they all have to be done right now? Just because something is important, doesn’t mean it’s important at this very moment. In other words, what deserves your attention right now? So, what should we do? ONE: Design your week by doing a weekly preview. When you look at your goals, and what big things you have coming up this quarter, what needs your immediate attention. Before you allow Monday to come and distract you for the week, what an you do to gain traction right away and focus on your goals? This is called the Weekly Preview. It’s how you can enable your tasks by prioritizing them into manageable system that works for freedom in your life. In other words, this is the process that will help you get your head above the chaos and line up your tasks and action items so they best fit into your schedule and responsibilities. STEP 1: List your biggest wins. Reflect on what you accomplished last week and where you won. Focus on the wins - this gives you a dopamine hit to give you a win. STEP 2: Review your prior week. Recall any lessons you learned and what adjustments you should make. How far did you get on your Weekly Big 3 - more in a moment. Second, ask yourself, what worked and what didn’t work? Third, finally ask, What will you keep, improve, start, or stop doing? based on the above? STEP 3: Review your lists and your notes. These can be a quick review. Read though your task lists, calendar, paper planner, and any notes. Use this as a time to focus on what still needs to get done from the previous week. * Eliminate what is no longer relevant. * Schedule want needs to happen later. * Prioritize want needs to happen and when. What’s neutral or a big priority for the week. (more in a moment.) * Defer. Is there something that can be pushed off but don’t have time for this week? STEP 4: Check your goals, projects, events, meetings, and deadlines. The biggest reason people stumble is they don’t ge clear on their most important goals and projects. You need a 30,000 foot view of your week. Hyatt says, This is about elevating your vantage point on your work. STEP 5: Designate your Weekly Big 3. These are the three most important things you need to accomplish in the coming week o keep making progress toward your goals. There are always more tasks and things you can do, but you need to figure out what’s important and what’s urgent. Not what others say, but what you consider urgent and important. Look at your goals, how much time is left to accomplish that goal? If you aren’t careful other people’s priorities will sneak in and supersede your own. So look at your lists and ask, is it important to me or urgent to me? TWO: Design your day by distilling down to your Daily Big 3! Great days don’t just happen, they are caused. For years, I struggled with this aspect of my day. I would flounder and often discover that I was consistently busy, but never accomplishing anything. This is why it would sometimes take 5-10 years for me to write a book. Most people set themselves up for failure by trying to tackle too many things in their day. Remember the limiting beliefs? Eventually I’ll write that book but I’m running out of time. That limiting belief is coming from the temporary overload of work. If we want to stop the bleeding and get clear on our goals, we ned to change and prioritize three and only three tasks in our day. Remember the Pereto principle - 80 percent of the results come form just 20 percent of action. It takes more effort to look at twelve or twenty things you could do and zero in on the three that really matters. But if you think, completing only three taks a day isn’t enough to win long term, consider the year long implications. We try to focus on too many things, then at the end of the day, our list seems just as long, if not longer. But by focusing on just three things a day, and work just 235 days a year, you’ll have 705 important things done. YOu’ll be that much closer to accomplishing your goals. Think of it this way. If you really want to write a book this year, set a SMARTER goal, find out how many days you’ll write in a week. Let’s say you choose to write just 235 days this year and make it one of your DAILY BIG 3 to write just 400 words, you’ll have 94,000 words written in just 235 days. You can honestly write, distraction free, 400 words, in about 1 hour of time. That’s it! And you’ll have more than enough words for a full-length novel. We all have 20 or more things on our to-do list, but when we eliminate what doesn’t matter, automate and delegate what we can off our lists, and distill down to the Big 3, it really becomes possible to regain control of your writing life. You’ll find peace and you’ll be able to design your days and live with freedom and avoid those pesky writing pitfalls and limiting beliefs. Proactively enforce your writing boundaries. Opting for delayed communication, you’re limiting other’s access to you. Remember time is fixed, so guard it like a precious resource. Don’t break focus, write for just 1 hour and you’ll be amazed at how much you can accomplish in a short amount of time. The post Avoid Writing Pitfalls by Setting SMARTER Goals (Ep. 146) first appeared on Jason Sisam.
48 minutes | a year ago
5 Ways to Leverage Success in 2020 (Ep. 145)
When it comes to taking your life to the next level, one thing is certain, you must grow, learn, and change. Whether you’re leading, blogging, writing a book, or simply coaching, discovering your why and taking an inventory of your strengths is vital to success. I’ve been on a unique journey the past several years. It all started with a desire to create a blog to give my Small Group ministry at the church a place to connect and take their spiritual life to the next level. As time moved on, this blog has grown into a place where writers and leaders come to leverage their time, energy, and creativity so that they can succeed in their family, ministry, and life. Maybe you’re stuck in the same place and you’re looking for inspiration to help you succeed and find what it is that God has called you to accomplish in this world. I know the feeling because this is the journey that I’m currently on. Years ago, I made you a promise that this blog will be a testing ground of authenticity of where I am at in my own writing and leadership journey. This post is one of those times where I open up about the future, my dreams, vision, and fears of failure. I want to give you 5 things I’m doing right now to take the message God has given me to the next level. 1. Reading self-help books daily! It’s no secret that I love to read. But above everything I love to read, novels are at the top of the list. This year, I made a commitment to read 12 self-help books. I have made a dent in the number of books I want to read. Currently, I’ve read two and am reading three others right now. That puts me at 5 books nearly read this year, and it’s only the end of February. Reading these books has sparked something deep inside that is changing my focus and energy. In other words, my goal and aim is to find my zone of genius and take my knowledge and put it into practice. This simple act of reading helps leaders grow, change, and experience fresh ideas. It’s that simple spark that germinates into something worthwhile. Maybe you’ve felt stagnant in your life and wish you could pull yourself out of a situation that keeps you from moving forward. Reading eliminates stagnant thinking and elevates your mind to the next level. It simply makes you a better leader. This year, I plan to read 2 books per month. We’ll see what happens. 2. Listen to daily podcasts. If you were to ask me several years ago, you’d find me listening to audiobooks and not podcasts. Now, I still listen to a lot of audiobooks. But podcasts have allowed me to increase my knowledge on certain topics. It’s like my daily dose of inspiration. There are several podcasts I listen to in my area of business growth and coaching. Lead to Win with Michael Hyatt The Ray Edwards Show The Cliff Ravenscraft Show 48 Days Podcast The Self-Publishing Show The thing I love about podcasts, it gives me new ideas, inspiration to keep moving forward. I can discover where they’ve failed and do my best to avoid those same pitfalls in my own life. In other words, I’m learning from other’s mistakes. If you really want to take your business, ministry, or life to the next level, listening to successful individuals on their weekly podcasts is one way to figure out what makes you tick and how you can further your life goals. 3. Focus on goals to further success. The past twelve months have been the most fruitful and beneficial months I’ve had in years. I used to be a calendar guy. We’re talking paper calendars for years. I was the only guy in college with a day-planner. Around 2010 I started making the switch to online calendars. It worked for a while, but somewhere along the way, I got sidetracked and overwhelmed with my ever-growing to-do list. Things often would spiral out of control and I would have no more leverage to make time work for me instead of me working against time. In 2018, I switched back to a paper calendar, but I was lacking something greatly. I needed something to help me focus on my yearly goals; something I learned from Michael Hyatt. So, in July of last year, I found a 90-day goal planning calendar. This daily calendar helped me focus my energy and forced me to distill my goals down into bite-sized chunks. The end result, I’ve been using a 90-day calendar by [Michael Hyatt and it has revolutionized my life. The Full Focus Planner allows me to focus on the most important goals in my life, leverage my time, and help me figure out what I need to do each day to succeed. If you want to succeed in life focusing on your goals and leveraging your time will allow you the freedom to focus on what you need to get done on a daily basis. 4. Offer three different coaching products. It’s clear to me that there are people in my audience that believe in my message. I know, because they’ve paid me for my services. My passion is to help you truly discover what it is God has called you to do, by helping you discover your story. There are many ways to leverage your time and energy. This is why I’m planning on creating some coaching packages to help you get your book written, start that blog, or simply create a more productive lifestyle in helping you think forward and win at your goals and life. A 1-on-1 coaching program. This program would be an hourly or limited coaching experience, depending on your needs. Live Masterclass Seminars. These would be an all-day in-person class in the Twin Cities. Online Courses. These courses would be released periodically throughout the year. 5. Write and publish 2 – 3 more books. It’s no secret that writing is a huge passion of mine. What better way to teach and coach writers how to publish than to publish my own writing. This year alone I published 2 books. That alone was huge! My goal is to write and publish two to three more books next year. I have a dream of becoming the Christian indie version of James Patterson. I would love to be able to publish 7-8 books a year, and have co-writers help me get my stories written and out into the world. Without dreams and vision for the future, you’ll never be able to work toward those goals. When we make a commitment, write that commitment down, and tell someone about those commitments, we’re more likely to work toward seeing them fulfilled. What are your 2020 goals? Where do you see your family, business, and life in the next year? If you’re looking for coaching, simply contact me and mention you’d like some coaching on how to leverage your time and write your story. Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsShare Leave a ReviewClammr ItListen in a New WindowDownloadSoundCloudStitcherSubscribe on AndroidSubscribe via RSSGoogle Play MusicAll EpisodesThe post 5 Ways to Leverage Success in 2020 (Ep. 145) first appeared on Jason Sisam.
21 minutes | a year ago
How to Write Your Book Backwards (Episode 144)
Have you ever thought about what it would be like to read a book backwards? What about writing your book backwards? I know, you’re sitting there scratching your head wondering what this post is all about. Remember the movie memento? It was a unique way to tell a story, the way the story was told was powerful and effective. It follows a man by the name of Leonard who is tracking down his wife’s killer. The only problem let her has is he cannot remember what happened more than 15 minutes ago. The movie starts at the end of the story and works its way backwards filling in the pieces until you have a complete story. It may be difficult to try to write a book in this fashion, but one of the most effective ways to start writing is to begin at the end. Knowing how to begin your book is great, but what about your book’s overall message? Would you write your book backwards before you start writing chapter one? I want to give you five ways on how you can not only find your why and know how to start your book knowing where you’re going to end up when you type the words, the end. 1. You must find your why. As with anything in life, knowing why we want to do something is half the battle. If you don’t understand why you want to write a book, you will never be able to write a single chapter let alone a single sentence. To discover your why you must dig down deep inside your soul and ask yourself the question, why should I write this book? In other words, what is the purpose behind your desire to write the book? Your why is what inspires you to take action and to clarify your understanding of the purpose behind your book. Take a minute and stop reading, pull out a piece of paper, and begin jotting down five of the reasons why this book should be written. 2. Who is your book for? I know, it seems like a cliche to even ask this question. But one thing I have learned is if I don’t know who my book is being written for, I’m going to be writing for nobody. Think about it this way, what sort of books do you like to read? When you pick up a book from the library or to purchase, you normally don’t think about the author thinking about you purchasing their book. However, the author did visualize you when they started writing their book. One good way to visualize who you are writing for is to imagine what kind of individual will be purchasing your book. This person is called your avatar. As you begin writing, you are aiming for that individual knowing they will one day buy your book. Go ahead, start visualizing and writing down who you want to buy your book. Once you know that, write it down, give them a name, and maybe even find a photograph of that individual to paste next to your computer. Have you checked out my new book, Vengeance at Purgatory? BUY HERE! 3. What is your goal or message for writing a book? When I write, I like to start with an overall message. What truth or concept am I trying to convey to the reader? For example, in my book Vengeance at Purgatory, my protagonist learned the lesson that vengeance belongs to the Lord. Ted Dekker, in his book Rise of the Mystics, his message is trying to convey my God loves all people oh, no matter who they are or what they have done. When you are writing you want to have a sense when the idea of what your overall goal and message is for your book. Without a goal or vision that you want the reader to walk away with, you’re just writing words into the wind. Take a minute and write down the message you want to convey in the pages of your manuscript. For example, I wrote; the goal of Vengeance at Purgatory is to help the reader know that God will fight their battles no matter the storms that come rocking their life. My desire is for the reader to learn to trust God, seek His face, and know that The Battle Belongs to the Lord. 4. Be relevant. It doesn’t matter if you are writing fiction or nonfiction, our goal is authors is to be relevant with our words so that the reader can understand. I encourage writers to be real and authentic so that the reader can identify with what the protagonist is going through or the message you are trying to convey. Readers want to identify and relate. This is why it is so important for us to choose our words wisely so that our message does not get lost. If you find yourself getting lost when you write, that means you are not identifying with what you have written. 5. Write from the end. Once we know our why, who our book is for, and what our message is, we can now begin the process of writing our story. This is where the fun begins. At this point, you probably have a good idea of what your book is going to be about. Think through how you want your book to end and write down that idea. It really is that simple. Once you know you’re ending, sit down and begin crafting and writing out that Final Chapter. Remember, it doesn’t matter if it’s perfect it just has to get done. If you are writing a nonfiction book, I encourage you to write your introduction first. This will give you an overall sense and feeling of how you want the message of your book to come across. Writing your book backwards is simply knowing your why, your purpose, who your book was for and knowing how your overall idea is going to end. When you know you’re ending you can begin at the top and move in that direction. Trust me, I just saved you years of fiddling around with a single idea.The post How to Write Your Book Backwards (Episode 144) first appeared on Jason Sisam.
37 minutes | 2 years ago
143: 3 Powerful Reasons Why Every Leader Should Blog
Do you run a church, ministry, or business? Do you consider yourself a thought leader in your area of influence? If so, you should be blogging. Having a simple blog can have great benefit and is something most leaders miss out on. It’s the best way to take your ministry to the next level. When I began blogging in 2009, I didn’t know I was venturing into something few did, now it seems as if everyone has a blog. Yet I know countless leaders and writers who say they don’t blog because they either don’t understand the need or say they don’t have the time. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard someone say about one of my posts, “Thank you for that, it’s just what I needed.” A well-thought blog has the ability to: Change lives. Encourage and uplift. Give new insight or perspective on a topic. And allows your followers to see a more transparent version of yourself. Blogging is more than writing for the sake of writing. Blogging is a place where you get to share your ideas, new book/sermon series, and it also gives you credibility on a deeper level with the people who trust you. The struggle is very real to commit to making time to blog, but if you put together a weekly newsletter for your congregation/business, you can make time to blog. It really isn’t any different…in-fact, you can just switch to blogging instead of sending out a printed newsletter. You know that monthly letter you write to your congregation? Use that, instead of/in-conjunction for/with a blog. This way, you’ll create multiple avenues for your message and vision for your church members to learn. The funny thing, when I didn’t blog, my number of readers went down and I wasn’t impacting anyone with my message. I get questions, “When are you going to write next?” The reverse is also true, the more consistent we become with our message, the more we can impact people with the message God has given you. We find in the Bible, “Write the vision and make it plain, so the reader who runs may read it on the fly! I want to give you 3 reasons–if you’re in ministry or business–why leaders should blog weekly. Even though this particular blog post is written to church leaders, the principles apply to any profession. When we blog, our words have the ability to generate user engagement. 1. IT CREATES ENGAGEMENT. As leaders in our communities, both online and offline, our heart’s desire should be to see people find their voice, succeed in life, and discover something new to help them in their life. But when we utilize a blogging platform, we can take that impact to another level. Our words have the ability to generate user engagement. Think of it this way. When you stand on-stage presenting, you’re giving a very two-dimensional way of engagement. People come, sit and afterward they go home until the next weekend service. Imagine if you had a blog that incorporated aspects of your current series. Now, you can engage people on a one-on-one basis. Your words, directly in their inbox. They can ask questions, comment, share, and interact with you in real time. I liken it to a mentoring relationship. Through a blog, we get to invest our knowledge into someone else’s time. They read your words, find a nugget of wisdom to help them, and they in-turn ask questions to take their mentoring to the next level. One of my favorite online mentors is, Michael Hyatt. Though I don’t know him personally, his products, services, and blog have challenged me to be a better leader. Here’s what Daniel Darling said on Michael’s blog in a guest post, “Mentoring relationships are valuable . . . and they aren’t complicated. They are simply friendships which have the potential to help shape your future.” So how do we create engagement? Ask questions. Give Tweet quotes. Be authentic and real. Allow your readers to see the real you. 2. IT ALLOWS YOU TO COMMUNICATE YOUR VISION. One of the hardest things for leaders to do is cultivate vision. We get stuck in the mundane of life and before we know it, it’s been several weeks since we’ve placed the vision of our organization before the people. However, this is what successful people do, they keep telling the vision. It’s like a never-ending story. The more we communicate the more people comprehend and take action. First, what is vision? I like how my Dad puts it: “Vision is seeing where you want to go, and mission is how you’re going to get there.” If we don’t know where we’re going, our churches, ministries, and businesses won’t know where we’re going either. With a blog, you can keep the vision before your followers on a weekly basis. King Solomon once wrote; “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” If you want greater buy-in, use your blog to sell the vision of your ministry. Vision is like a giant goal, it needs nourishing, constant attention, and follow-up. Most people in your church or business probably have no idea what your vision statement says. It takes engagement, celebrating your big wins, and encouraging your clients or team members with inspiration and tools to implement your vision. 3. IT GIVES YOU TANGIBLE IMPACT INTO PEOPLE’S LIVES. One thing I’ve learned in running this blog for the past ten years, people are looking for answers to the questions the plague them. I can honestly say that because of writing here, I’ve seen lives changed. Because people are looking for answers, I need to be real, tangible and available. That is exactly what I try and accomplish every blog post or podcast I publish. We have the answers to their questions. We just have to take the time to listen and learn. The more we learn, the more we know, and the more we know, the more we can impart knowledge to see lives changed. Writing and blogging are ways great ways to bring what God has placed on our heart and take it to the next level. It gives us the power to invest–on a deeper level–into people’s lives. We get the chance to take the vision we’re passionate about by creating an atmosphere of engagement with our congregation and ministry teams. So what are you waiting for, create a blog and begin writing what God has placed on your heart, share your vision and see lives changed? Why have you thought about starting a blog? Why or why not?The post 143: 3 Powerful Reasons Why Every Leader Should Blog first appeared on Jason Sisam.
34 minutes | 2 years ago
142: The Ultimate Book Cover Blueprint.
Have you ever heard that you judge a book by its cover? A cover either makes or breaks a book. It can be the best-written piece, but what’s on the inside will never be read if people can’t get past your cover. This doesn’t mean that what you’ve written or what someone else has written is bad writing, we tend to judge books by how they look. Seems juvenile, doesn’t it? Yet, we simply can’t help ourselves. It’s in the DNA of our subconscious. When I wrote and printed my first book in 2008–Christmas gift for my family–I happened to throw together a cover. It wasn’t pretty, and it certainly won’t win any awards. But I’m quite fond of the cover because it was my first attempt at putting one together. Fast forward to 2010. After getting the book edited and after searching for an agent and publisher, I decided to take the reins and publish the book myself. I ended up changing the name of the book and decided that I needed a better cover–one that would convey the story. So, why do you need a good cover for your book? What steps should you take to produce the best cover to better position your book to sell well? Here is my book cover blueprint that will answer all your questions in getting a professional book cover designed. Can I make the cover myself? This is a question I even asked myself, and the answer is… it depends. Are you a graphic designer with years of experience and are you ready to take up the challenge of designing one yourself? The answer is probably no. So many authors try and design their own covers. It’s a bad idea to even consider trying. Yes, there are tools in the marketplace to get one designed, and you can attempt, but I add my word of caution. Don’t expect to sell many books. Every cover I’ve designed myself–but that’s because I’m a graphic designer, with years of experience. But, I have not just slapped my own designed cover onto a book, I’ve always sought outside counsel from other published authors and readers alike by asking them this question: does it stand up against everything else on the market today? Stop using your own photographs! Before I get into some practicalities of cover design and what to look for, here’s a warning–stop using your own photos. I know you really love Aunt Betty’s house or that beautiful photograph of a flower you took while in college in 1997–don’t use them. There are a plethora of book covers on the market that use their prized family portrait or favorite photograph, but they make terrible covers. This is usually found in Memoirs – and theirs nothing wrong with that – as long as it’s done well and it’s not a pixelated image. Here’s a few I found rough: If you’re dead set on using your favorite photograph, contact a professional graphic designer, who specializes in cover design to let you know if it will work or not. Most of the time it won’t work. Hire a professional Cover Design artist. This is where the rubber really meets the road. When you’re using a professional, you know your cover it will be of a higher standard than if you attempted it yourself. I’ve had authors contact me to design their covers because they’ve seen my work and know what I can do with a Photoshop and Illustrator. Here’s a sampling of covers I’ve designed myself. Not a real cover - played around with ideas.COMING SOON!BUY NOW You can have a really great or really bad cover. I’ve learned, as a designer, to pay attention to the market, genre, and style most traditionally covers have as a design. Hiring someone to help you navigate the waters of book cover design, will pay off in dividends down the road. Be prepared to spend some money. Cover design isn’t cheap, but it also doesn’t need to be expensive. I’ve found that the average, professional design will cost you around 200-500 dollars. However, there are several options that will help you in getting the best possible cover for the money. 99designs.com: this is a great crowdsourcing company that will help you get a great cover. You will be expected to write a short brief for them, pick the dollar amount you’re willing to spend, then hit submit. Within hours or days, you’ll start receiving several potential cover designs to choose. Pick your favorite and pay. The more you bid, the better cover you’ll get. Stuart Bache at Books Covered: Stuart Bache is considered one of the best Indie book designers today. With designs for Stephen King, Mark Dawson, and John Le Carré, you’re sure to get a cover that will stand against the very best. However, be prepared to spend nearly $500. Buy Premade Covers: This is a cost-effective solution if you’re on a tight budget. You can get a premade book cover that will suit your books’ needs at a discount. You’ll still receive a high-value book cover and know that it will perform well against those on Amazon. Hire my services: If you’re wanting great ideas, multiple samples, and coaching through the whole process of cover design, I’d be more than happy to help you. And know this, I’ll be cheaper than most of the above. So, if you liked my covers above, let me know, send me an email and let’s get your cover designed. Do it yourself. I don’t recommend this option, but if you’re really strapped, let me give you a couple of places that will help you get a decent cover. I say decent because the heavy lifting is already done, you just change the title, author name, and perhaps an image. That’s it. Canva: This one free piece of online software is a God-send. I cannot tell you how handy it’s come in for creating blog images, ads, Powerpoint slides, and even simple logos. As a graphic designer who uses Photoshop and Illustrator, I have found many great uses for Canva. They have an extensive and ever-growing list of covers you can use to make a simple book cover.Here are some samples I pulled from Canva: Quick Covers by Adazing.com: As an author, I’m always looking for ways to improve my craft and how to market my books. That’s a whole other topic. But one thing that is fun to use is Photoshop; maybe that’s because I’m a graphic designer. If you’re looking to get quick covers that look amazing, or looking for something that will make your series shine, you need them all to look the same. C. J. McDaniel is an expert in the area of marketing your book for maximizing your success. He’s created a full suite of products, that I use, that will help you take your message to the next level. These quick covers are beautiful and fully versatile and changeable. Check them out. (I do not make a commission on this suggestion – I just believe in his products.) Whatever route you go in creating a cover that wows the competition and engages your reader, I know that you’ll be on the road to success if you follow this blueprint. And if you know any authors who are looking to take their message to the next level, give them this blueprint. They will thank you!The post 142: The Ultimate Book Cover Blueprint. first appeared on Jason Sisam.
36 minutes | 2 years ago
141: Developing an Attitude of Gratitude
On a daily basis, we deal with stress and anger. But it’s how we handle stress that determines our success in this life. The more we stress about life, the more we’ll fall into the temptation to become angry and disappointed with what life offers. Before we can understand what solutions we have in dealing with the daily stresses of life, we first must understand what causes stress. In today’s podcast episode I want to give you 5 secrets to developing an attitude of gratitude that will help you get rid of stress and find the peace you’re looking for. Life is hard and the stress life brings into our lives seem to outweigh the positivity we desire in our daily lives. So how do we develop an attitude of gratitude? Life happens and there’s not much we can do to ease the problems and stress that arise in our lives. But, it’s how we handle these moments of life that determines our mindset and what our outlook on life looks like. Psalm 34:19 King James Version (NKJV); Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the Lord delivers him out of them all. 1. Worry about Nothing. In the book of Philippians 4:6 we find Paul writing, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.” It’s easy to worry. When life gets tough and we’re not sure what the outcome will be, we worry. Worry borrows from the future, something that might not happen. It’s being afraid of something that happened that you couldn’t control or something that might never happen. Worry borrows from the future, something that might not happenClick To Tweet The definition of worry is to choke or strangle. Worry takes what’s left of your imagination and amps it up to allow fear and stress to consume our thought life. Worry is always thinking outside of the moment where we are borrowing from the future instead of in the NOW. Matthew 6:34; “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” As the wise Jedi Master, Yoda says, “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate, Hate leads to suffering.” Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday – but remembering that when tomorrow arrives, it is God who brought you through. TAKEAWAY: Live ONE DAY at a time! Live for today! 2. Be content with everything. We like to compete with the Jones’. We look at what people have in their grocery cart and wish we could have that lobster for dinner too, and what’s worse, they may not look like they can afford that lobster. We covet and spend outside our means, just so we can save face with our friends. Our we tell stories that try to eclipse someone else’s situation. We try hard to be like everyone and everyone like us, and one up everyone. It’s human nature. We. feel the need that something will make us happy. If you expect it to always be sunny and it rains, you lose faith and sight of what peace can look and feel like. Oh man! God, why isn’t it sunny! I thought you wanted the best for my life and this is happening! Why?! If you expect it to always be sunny and it rains, you lose faith and sight of what peace can look and feel likeClick To Tweet Philippians 4:12;“I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.” You cannot fall into the trap of wanting or craving more than what you have because you’ll become stressed. Maybe it’s time to slow it down and find peace. 3. Set realistic goals. I’ve learned that goal setting is a significant way to force your mind to focus on what’s important rather than on your current circumstances. It’s like a fighter who focuses on winning the battle and doing his best to succeed than looking at the size of the man in front of him. There are a ton of books out there dealing with goal setting, I won’t get into them here. But one thing is certain when you think forward and stop thinking about your current predicaments, you’ll find your stress levels decline. King Solomon wrote in Proverbs 16:9; We plan the way we want to live, but only God makes us able to live it. We plan the way we want to live, but only God makes us able to live it. So many people fail at New Year‘s Resolutions because they don’t make a cognitive decision on how to implement their goals. Michael Hyatt wrote a book called, “Your Best Year Ever.” In this book, he talks about the right way and the wrong way to set yearly goals. His template has proven to me that it’s easier than you think to set goals and see them succeed. It’s called the SMARTER template. Specific– The goal must be specific. “I will read 12 books this year.” Measurable– The goal must be measurable… “I will read 12 books this year.” Actionable– The goal must be actionable… “I will read 12 books this year by reading every day beginning January 1.” Risky– The goal must be risky. Maybe you should push to read 20 books? Time-bound– The goal must have an end date. “I will read 12 books by December 31 by reading every day beginning January 1.” Exciting– The goal must be exciting. If you’re not excited about the goal, have an exciting reward for when you accomplish that goal. Relevant– The goal must be relevant to where you are in your life. If you do this, you’ll find it harder to focus on the here and now, and focus on what you can accomplish this year. 4. Turn off the garbage. We go through difficulty after difficulty but we become so convinced of it because of what we listen to and allow into our spirit. Should we not spend more time in the Word of God instead of what the news says or what friends of Facebook say? It’s all gloom, despair, and agony on me! It’s time to change our mindset, go to God in prayer, read the Word of God, and allow godliness to flood your hearts and mind. We need to develop a new filter in our lives to keep the world’s pollution from affecting our lives. It’s one thing to pray, but we also need to get rid of the things that pollute the mind. Just turn on the news or social media. These are all highly toxic! They affect the mind, soul, and heart. The nightly news will tell you that the world will end tomorrow! Friends on Facebook pick sides and will defend it to the death. It is time to dump the toxic junk from our lives and focus on developing an attitude of gratitude. The Bible says, out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. It is time to dump the toxic junk from our lives and focus on developing an attitude of gratitude. 5. Journal your way to a thankful heart. My life shapes by my thoughts. How we think is how we’ll act but writing our thoughts gives us something new to think about. I go out of my way to journal and plan my way out of life‘s stressors. I don’t want a problem without finding a solution to fix that said problem. It’s easy to worry about tomorrow, however, to live life for today takes thought and dedication. Therefore I’ve become a big fan of journaling. In fact, I’m releasing a new journal on the market called,“Thinking Forward: Developing an attitude of Gratitude.” The whole goal of this journal is to help people think about the positive aspects of their day, document their wins, lessons learned, things read, and writing a positive affirmation paragraph. When we think positive in our daily life, the more we will focus on the good things life has to offer. So, I’ve created a journal that asks 9 questions to help you discover what is good and positive and to help you dig down deep and find what it is you’re grateful for. When we think positive in our daily life, the more we will focus on the good things life has to offer.Click To Tweet I will release this journal on January 29 and will give you the tools you need to develop a mindset of gratefulness. Whether you’re journaling for personal reasons or professional reasons, this journal will help you stay focused on what’s important by helping you gain the results you want out of life. THIS JOURNAL INCLUDES: 90 days of journaling pages. DAILY INDEX to help you easily find the day or month you’re looking for. HELP YOU SLOW DOWN so you can process your day and think through your biggest wins and discoveries. HELP YOU FIND WHAT YOU’RE MOST GRATEFUL FOR by asking you questions to connect with yourself on an emotional level and by building a daily habit of affirmation. HELP YOU RECONNECT WITH YOUR DAILY GOALS. BECOME CONSISTENT with a daily journaling habit by answering 9 carefully selected questions to focus on your biggest wins and leave a legacy for future generations. I break this journal up into THREE main sections: THINKING ABOUT TODAY – to help you connect with your biggest wins. AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE – to help you dig down deep and pull up something you’re grateful for and by writing some form of positive affirmation. THINKING ABOUT TOMORROW – to reconnect with your daily goals and make achieving them a habit. You can use this section to plan out your next day so you can get more done with a smile on your face. We design this journal by giving you a template to stay focused, get your ideas, goals, and thoughts written in one place. Taking a moment to reflect on each day by taking lessons learned will help you apply those wins to tomorrow by helping you take your life to the next level. You are meant for greatness. You are meant to be happy and positive. It is time to start thinking forward, stop looking back at negativity, and begin thinking about your life positively by developing a daily habit of affirmation.The post 141: Developing an Attitude of Gratitude first appeared on Jason Sisam.
41 minutes | 2 years ago
140: The 10 Rules you need to write anything!
We all know about the rules of writing. So many rules! You’ve read blog post after post, book after book, and it all can become so convoluted. I’ve done the work for you. Now you don’t have to read/listen to anything else other than this post. In today’s episode, we’re talking about rules. I will be your referee in the murky waters of writing and guide you back toward the end zone. I’m going to give you 10 powerful rules of writing that will take you from novice to awesome in minutes! When I started writing, I winged it. I started writing, then I stopped when I thought my book was done. I don’t recommend this method. It’s messy and it usually doesn’t work and in fact, you’ll wish you never hit publish on an incomplete article or book. It doesn’t work. Over the past few years, I’ve become serious and have put out three books, hundreds of blog posts, and am working on book number 6. But one thing is certain, I follow a very select set of rules and every book gets better because of these rules. Let me be your referee and give you my top 10 powerful rules you need to write your book. 1. Know how your ending. One of the biggest frustrations a lot of writers face, they don’t know where they’re going when then pick up the pencil. I’ve heard John Grisham and Stephen King say that if you don’t know where your story will end up, you don’t have a book. Take a few minutes and discover how you want your book to end. I even encourage you to write your last couple of chapters, if you’re writing a novel. This will give you enough information as to where you’re headed. This goes for you pantsers! Lee Child says you need a roadmap, even if it’s just in your head. 2. Know your elevator pitch. It would be impossible to describe what your book is about if you can’t do so in one or two sentences. John Grisham says your story isn’t worth sharing with the world unless you can do this one thing. I failed at this when trying to pitch a book to an agent. That book will never see the light of day. My second attempt was for Divine Providence. Here was my pitch: “A young mother’s life is turned upside down when she learns her husband cheated and her son needs a new heart or he’ll be dead before Christmas. How does she trust God in the midst of tragedy?” An elevator pitch will save you time and headache. An elevator pitch will save you time and headache. It gives you the power to not only pitch your idea but how to write the back copy of your book. Here’s another example from the novel I’m currently writing: “A new preacher is threatened with losing everything for a debt his father owed to a local mining town tycoon.” It doesn’t have to be long. Work it through and come up with your own elevator pitch for your writing project. Remember it must be one to two sentences long. Listen to Podcast episode #139 for my way of writing a book synopsis/elevator pitch. It’s near the end of the podcast and show notes. 3. Outline like you mean it. I know, I know it’s the evil word no one wants to hear. It’s the one thing you shy away from as it makes you believe you’ll lose all creativity and the pantser style of writing you’re used to. Let me ask you this question, how long have you been writing your book? Writing is hard work, why make it any harder. I highly recommend you outline before you write anything. In fact, I outlined this blog post before I began. It doesn’t mean you have to spend more time outlining before you begin writing, but a good outline will keep your thoughts on the topic at hand. I find so many writers struggling with their scenes and stories, but if they would just simply outline, they’ll save hours and from popping aspirin. I listened to John Grisham on an interview for his book, Cameno Island. Grisham said he writes a 150-page outline before he begins. He makes sure his main story is cohesive and flows from beginning to end. There are several outlines you can use, I recommend the storyboard outline. This is perfect for those who like to write by the seat of their pants but allows you to remain grounded in your story without straying too far. An outline allows you to remain grounded in your story without straying too far. 4. Write for yourself. If you’ve been in the entrepreneurial world of blogging for any length of time, you’ll hear over and over, “write for your audience.” Now, I agree that our blogs should be about our audience but I also believe it should be about what we’re passionate about. If you don’t have the passion for what you’re writing, why are you writing it? Stephen King said, “When you write a story, you’re telling yourself the story.” In other words, our job isn’t to write for someone else, we’re telling the story to ourselves. Write for yourself, not just for your audience. They come later during the rewriting part. 5. Stop using Passive voice. This one is huge! When writing, keep the prose tight and active. Don’t use passive voice. Passive voice is safe. It also means you’re a timid writer. Passive voice is safe. It also means you’re a timid writer. Here’s an example: “Sally decided to go to the store to buy some Twizzlers for the party.” In other words, now you know what Sally’s desire is. We think we’re doing a service to our readers when we’re not. It’s timid and passive. Let’s fix it and stick skin in the game and put the sentence take charge. “Sally needs Twizzlers. She hurries to the store before the party.” Do you feel better? I do! 6. Kill your adverbs. We love adverbs. They’re our friend, right? Wrong! These little telling words slow down the prose. They are not your friends. Here’s a good example: “Jim slammed the door loudly.” Here’s the question, does “loudly” need to be there? What’s its point and context to the rest of the sentence? Does it reveal new information the reader is clueless about? It’s redundant, and it doesn’t tell us how he closed the door. Let’s fix this sentence. “Jim slammed the door.” Now we know! Adverbs usually end in ‘ly.’ See what I did there? The other rule is to avoid using adverbs after “he said” and “she said.” Stephen King said this, “while writing adverbs is human, to write ‘he said’ or ‘she said’ is divine.” You don’t need to write, “You’re a jerk!” She said rudely. Just say, “You’re a jerk!” She said. 7. Stop editing as you write. This one is huge! We love to perfect our writing as we go. I want to challenge you to finish your book before you ever lay an editing hand on it. Just write the darn book. You can edit later. The more you edit, the longer it takes to write the book. Just write, don’t edit until you’re done with the final word of the final page. 8. Kill all your little darlings. Off with their heads and kill them all. Trust me, your editor will thank you. We all have these little hang-ups that slow our writing. Passive voice, extra scenes, extra characters, and adverbs and adjectives. Kill them all. Anything that slows down the action should be killed. I don’t care if you like John the waiter in your story if he doesn’t need to be there kill him off. In other words, kill your little darlings. Anything that keeps the action slow and tedious, unless you’re J.R.R. Tolkien. Kill your little darlings. Anything that keeps the action slow and tedious, unless you’re J.R.R. Tolkien. 9. Write every day. If you really want to get your book written, write daily. If you write just 200 words a day, you’ll have nearly 75,000 words written in 1 year’s time. There’s no reason you can’t write every day. Take an hour before you go to bed and write part of your next chapter. This post is nearing 1,300 words and I’ve been writing for less than 1 hour. You can do it, and it won’t take long. 10. Read your work. Just read. Once your book is written, begin reading. Read as if you’re reading it for the first time. Dive into your writing and begin your eye of killing things that don’t belong. Be happy. Writing shouldn’t be tedious, it’s about enriching the lives around us and seeing their eyes light up with magic. Write, read, and edit. Do these three things and you’ll be one happy writer. [reminder]Which rule do you need to work on?[/reminder]The post 140: The 10 Rules you need to write anything! first appeared on Jason Sisam.
50 minutes | 3 years ago
139: Using Different Methods to Outline a Book.
If you’ve done any form of writing, you know we are bombarded with the rules of writing. Rules exist to give us boundaries in which we operate. What if there was one rule writers say you should always follow? That rule, outlining. In today’s episode, we’re talking about outlining a book and why this is the number one rule you should abide by. But there is more than one way to outline a book and I’ll show you my favorite way. Also, I have a special “free” gift for you, just for listening to this podcast. When I wrote, I did not use any form of outlining or story mapping. The reason, I had no clue what I was doing. Something magical happened, my novella wasn’t taking shape and I realized (that’s the magical part) I needed to help myself along. I ended up taking my story and writing down everything I wanted to happen before I wrote the final chapter. Without knowing what you’re up against in writing a book, will leave you feeling like a failure. If you don’t have a clue where you’re headed in writing your book, I encourage you to figure out who you are as a writer. This will be the crux in which you’ll navigate the book writing world. Two types of writers—Outliners and Pantsers. If you were to take a poll on any writing forum or group, you’ll quickly discover writers usually fall within two major camps: plotters/outliners and pantsers. But determining which writer you are, we need to see what the difference is between the two styles of writing. OUTLINERS: These individuals are meticulous in how they approach writing. They write and plot out each major detail that must be included in their Work in Progress. People like James Patterson and Stephenie Meyer fall into this category. Stephenie Meyer says this about outlines, “you really need an outline to work–to keep from getting lost.” Likewise, James Patterson says this about outlining, I’m a fanatic about outlining. It’s going to make whatever you’re writing better, you’ll have fewer false starts, and you’ll take a shorter amount of time. I write them repeatedly. You read my outline and it’s like reading a book.” You really need an outline to work–to keep from getting lost. PANTSERS: These individuals love to fly by the seat of their pants. They don’t dictate where the story is going, they allow the story to evolve as the characters get into trouble. They want a natural organic way of telling a story. It evolves much like life. Once you get to the end, they’ll know it. Stephen King famously threw gas on the writing fire when he said in his book, “On Writing” that he doesn’t use outlines and other writers shouldn’t either. King says to put characters into situations and see what happens. Don’t think, just write. Again, Stephen King says, “try to put interesting characters into difficult situations, then write to find our what happens.” Know your story to a point, but plotting is just an exercise to get you from point A to point B. Don’t allow the minute details to stop you from actually writing your story. In other words, stop over thinking your writing, and begin to actually write the story you were meant to write. Decide early on who you are. Pantsers struggle with sticking to structure while plotters struggle with bunny trails and they both get frustrated. It’s one thing to write an outline and stick to it but don’t become so rigid that you’re unwilling to give pantsing a try. You might even like it. Likewise, don’t be so dogmatic about throwing characters into situations that you forget why your even writing the story. You will discover who you are and you will find which form of writing best suits your taste and style. I know I did, and it took a few years to discover that I love outlining to a point and then it’s all panting from there. Learning to Outline: Now that we’ve discovered our two main methodologies to writing a book, let me say this, there are several methods when it comes to structuring your novel or book. The question you must answer is this, which method works best for you? 1. Traditional/Formal Outline. A traditional outline involves a linear thought process. You begin with the main idea (your big A) followed by several sub ideas and sub-sub ideas. Here’s what a traditional outline looks like: A. Main Scene 1. Sub idea a. sub-sub idea b. another sub-sub idea 1. taking the idea and breaking it down. B. Next Main Scene While this seems over the top, sometimes a very detailed outline is needed. This is especially true with writing a teaching book. An editor needs to see some kind of detailed outline from you. This is a classic, standing the test of time. 2. Simplified or Bullet Outline. This is about getting to the bones of your story/book down. You don’t need to be as detailed as the formal outline, you need enough information to get started. I like this outline and will often begin my thought process of a book as a bullet list. One of my favorite apps called Workflowy is a simple bullet point tool that helps you get your thoughts down. The nice thing about using a bullet point app like Workflowy is you can write paragraphs if you wanted. Basically, this outline method helps you keep the story flowing without getting too detailed. Main Scene Sub idea sub-sub idea another sub-sub idea taking the idea and breaking it down. Next Main Scene 3. The Snowflake Method. This way of outlining is a highly organized and systematic way of writing a book. It involves starting with a small or main idea and expanding outward, like a snowflake until you’re happy with each segment of your book. This method allows the writer to explore different ideas and find the parts of their story/book that work and those that seem to come to a dead end. The nice thing, no two snowflakes look the same. The warning with this style of outlining is, you can get too carried away that you lose sight of your original intent for writing your story. You can get too carried away that you lose sight of your original intent for writing your story with outlining. 4. The W – Three Act Outline. You’ve heard it said that every great story has three to four major acts. Look at TV, you have your opening act that sets up the story and concludes with a major problem – END ACT 1. Then you take your problem and that ends up moving your characters to a major conflict – END ACT 2. Once that happens it’s time to move that conflict to the main climax or final showdown which concludes with resolution and falling action – END ACT 3. This is the major story arc for all novels. You can use a similar idea for a non-fiction book. ACT 1, set up the problem you’re addressing. ACT 2 – Help the reader discover there is an answer by telling positive testimonies. ACT 3 – Show the reader steps to take their life to the next level so that they can succeed on their own. You can use bullet points or sentences or just a paragraph to describe your three-act outline. 5. The Plot Board Outline. This takes the W and marries it to your bullet point outline. This is my personal favorite outline and I now begin all of my major writing projects with this method. (see my picture below). I begin by writing ideas on post-it notes. I consider each note a scene in my book. Once I’ve written my story, I organize them into sequential order and place them onto a 3-way fold out science project board. I break the board into 25 squares. Each square is a chapter in the book. The thing I love about using this, I can visualize my outline and my story arcs. At the end of the first three rows, I set up the next arc. If you’re a visual person and hate writing outlines, this is a great way to pants your way through the book without committing to several thousand words you may end up throwing away. 6. The Chapter Synopsis Outline. This is the second style of outlining I do for each book. In fact, I use this for outlining my blog posts. I’m a huge fan of James Patterson, mainly I think my writing style is similar. I like fast action, short chapters, and want my story to skip all the fluff. This is his method for writing. Patterson sits down with a yellow legal pad and a pencil and write out a couple hundred words for each chapter. This is by far the second easiest form of outlining. I take my bullet points from the plot board and turn them into paragraphs. Each paragraph becomes half a page and concludes one chapter. By the end of the outline, I may have nearly 10,000 words written and 65 or more chapters detailed. This is where I throw on the pants and let the story fly. When outlining is done, I throw on the pants and let the story fly. 7: The Simplified Synopsis. This really isn’t much of an outline but more of a writing down your WHY for the book. Using this is helpful for the pantsers. It allows you to get an overarching idea of what your book is before you commit to writing. Here’s a simple outline for you to use: My book ____state the title_______ is about ______idea/character____ | alt will help _______target audience___________ to do/understand __________goal of writing the book____ so that ___desired transformation______. No matter what style of writer you are, the goal of writing is to write. Dean Koontz says this about writing; 1—Plunge your main character into terrible trouble as soon as possible. (That trouble will mean something different depending on your genre. For a thriller, it might be life-threatening. For a romance it might mean choosing between two suitors.) 2—Everything your character does to get out of the trouble makes it only worse. 3—Eventually things appear hopeless. 4—Finally, everything your character has learned through all that trouble gives him what he needs to personally conquer the opposition. That’s how you write. Make sure you follow Koontz advice and next time try one of these outline ideas, you never know how you may find a perfect way of writing that fits and meets your needs.The post 139: Using Different Methods to Outline a Book. first appeared on Jason Sisam.
36 minutes | 3 years ago
138: 5 Ways Reading Novels Will Make You A Better Writer.
I find there are usually two types of people, those who read fiction and those who read only non-fiction. But what if I told you that reading fiction will not only make you a better writer, but it will expand your mind to new ideas. In today’s episode, we’re talking about the art of reading and why we should be reading every day. Whether you enjoy a good beach book, like a James Patterson novel, or a thought-provoking true to life story, there is plenty to learn from those fiction books you might be ignoring. I love to read, in fact, I’ve read over 11 books since January 1. By December 31, my goal is to have read 10 more books for a total of 21 books in 2018. The more I read the more I find beauty in life and fresh ideas to infuse into my daily life. Out of all the books, I’ve read this year, three-quarters of them have been fiction. If you’re a writer, reading fiction will keep you energized to finish your work in progress. But whether you’re reading fiction or non-fiction, I want to give you 5 important reasons reading novels will make you a better writer. 1. Novels fire a dormant imagination. Have you sat down to write only to find your mind is blank and all ideas have vanished into thin air? I know I have and that’s when I sit down and grab a novel to reignite my missing imagination. In Monday’s blog post, I talked about finding a muse to get you thinking again. Nothing is worse than having nothing to write about, or maybe you’ve been trying to figure out a scene and your favorite author has already written something similar, pick up that book, find the scene and re-read it. You’ll be amazed at how simple it might be to figure out that one missing piece you’ve needed. 2. Novels can reveal our own character flaws. We all know that fiction is well, fiction. But how many times have you been watching a movie or reading a book that seems too legit to be considered fiction? In the writing world we call those stories, true to life fiction or even based on a true story. Sometimes in reading a novel, you can begin to look at your own life and see parallels. Best-selling author, Ted Dekker said this, “every story we write has to be about transformation. Your main character cannot be the same when the book ends, likewise, write your own story and bleed onto the page.” In other words, when we read fiction, where the author has left nothing back, our lives can be radically changed. I know several fiction books have altered my perception of God, helped me draw closer to my family, and allowed me to see my own flaws. Why? Because the author left nothing behind and bled out with their words. When we read fiction, where the author has left nothing back, our lives can be radically changed. 3. Daily reading helps you learn and grow. This point echoes the previous. When we decide to take up the daily habit of reading, we not only expand our horizon, we can actually influence our daily lives. Authors write to entertain, educate, and inspire the reader to take action. That action can come out in numerous ways. Since we’re writers, that action should be to take what we’ve learned from all our reading and apply it to the page we’re actively writing. Let me say this, you cannot be a writer if you are not first a reader. Writers must read before they are allowed to write effectively to change the lives of their readers. Your life must be changed first. When we take the time to read daily, we are altering our minds to accept things that can radically influence our writing. Remember that if you read garbage books, you’ll produce garbage books. But if you read something that is transformative and something that will stretch not only your imagination but stretch your thought life, you’ll be on the road to learning and growth. 4. Novels can teach you about society. This point rings true in today’s society. Most authors write what is happening now. If there’s civil unrest, a novelist may write something that shows that same unrest and how to be a better person in its midst. Society offers a plethora of ideas to write about. Novels bring those ideas to light. When you read something that’s current and relevant to the times in which we live, we may affect change in generations to come. Think, Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand. Read something that’s relevant to the times in which we live, we affect change for generations to come. 5. Reading books causes your desire to write to expand. Face it, as a writer, if I read a really good book, it’s going to inspire me to pull out my legal pad and start writing something. This is why I’ve started journaling, I want to be able to tap into how I’m feeling on a particular day because that could influence my story when I sit down to write. Reading allows you to not only be entertained, but it gives you the tools you need to fulfill your dream and perfect your craft. Any writer will tell you that writing is hard work, but taking the time to learn, grow, and expand the mind is worth its weight in gold. [reminder]What are you currently reading and how is it affecting your writing journey?[/reminder]The post 138: 5 Ways Reading Novels Will Make You A Better Writer. first appeared on Jason Sisam.
33 minutes | 3 years ago
137: Don’t Just Write Stories, Write Messages That Change Lives.
If you’re looking for last week’s episode, #136, click here. I made the mistake of calling last week’s episode 137. Who would you be today if you never learned to read? Would you be the same or would you lack the knowledge you’ve acquired over the years? As authors, our number one goal should be to educate, encourage and entertain through the use of words. In today’s episode, we’re looking at the power of our message and the impact it can have on our reader’s lives. How we can take simple sentences and structure them in a way that makes crystal clear the message that God has placed on our heart. Also, I have a great tip for you this week that should elevate your productivity to the next level and what it takes to make a decision and follow through. As a Christian, the number one priority in my writing is to convey the message of Jesus Christ. I don’t mince words, and I take seriously the message he has entrusted to my care. The world is falling apart at the seams and people are looking for something tangible and real, therefore, through our words, we can convey two things; the truth of Gods word and to reveal the human condition. I always desired to be a writer. The simple notion of trying to take a story and craft a lesson, like Jesus did with his parables, thrilled me. One of my favorite authors is Christian horror novelist, Frank Peretti. His use of imagination to convey spiritual truths astounds me even today. This is what I desired for my life. What about you? Today’s Christian Concept: Have you needed to make a choice and wondered if you made the right decision? Life is full of choices, deciding this or that and waiting to see the results of your course of action. Some decisions are easy to make; what sandwich do I want at Subway, what movie should we watch, do I repair the whole deck with new boards or just fix the rotten ones? Each action we take has either a positive or negative reaction. But what does Jesus say? Matthew 16:24-26; “Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul?” (ESV) Jesus is saying that when we follow him and die to our flesh, we find true life and success. But if we hold onto our lives, we end up losing it and forfeiting our soul. We love to be in control and make our own decisions but to decide means to kill off the other choice. The word Decide can be broken into two words: De = to strike and be firm and unbending Cide = to kill off and destroy. (example – Pesticide) The Lord is calling us to choose or decide him above all that life offers. We like control and to sit in the driver’s seat, yet, Jesus is asking us to take up the cross and follow him. If we follow Jesus to his death, we will be resurrected in mind, body, and spirit. He’s asking us to: Lay down our desires for this life in exchange for the life he offers. Be unbending in service to the King in all areas of life. To kill off our flesh and daily desires so we can be resolved. What are you willing to do? Paul says in Ephesians 4:29-32; “And never let ugly or hateful words come from your mouth, but instead let your words become beautiful gifts that encourage others; do this by speaking words of grace to help them. The Holy Spirit of God has sealed you in Jesus Christ until you experience your full salvation. So never grieve the Spirit of God or take for granted his holy influence in your life. Lay aside bitter words, temper tantrums, revenge, profanity, and insults. But instead be kind and affectionate toward one another. Has God graciously forgiven you? Then graciously forgive one another in the depths of Christ’s love.” (TPT) That’s what it means to lay down our life, decide to follow Christ and see him work in the lives of those we influence every day. Tip of the Week: Everyone agrees that writing is hard work. In fact, it’s harder than most would admit. But what if I were to tell you that a simple thing called planning what you’re going to write will help you immensely? Last week, I returned to Podcasting and blogging with the idea that using a paper planner will help you achieve your goals. Goals are the driving force behind your success and if you want success in your writing, you have to plan it out. Take the time and listen to last week’s episode to learn how to use a paper planner to get more done in less time. Trust me, you’ll love it. jbsisam.com/136 Don’t Just Write Stories, Write Messages That Change Lives. Let’s dive right into today’s topic about writing stories or books that can change lives. When I started writing my first book, it was going to be something simple, just for my family, but the more I wrote the more I realized that I had something I wanted to share with the World. I sat down and really hammered out what the overall message of the book would be. The message ended up becoming a message of trusting in the Lord with everything we have. You see, writing needs to contain some kind of a message. Here are some examples: Rocky movies: Being an overcomer and never giving up. Star Wars: Ordinary people doing extraordinary things. Avatar: Taking care of our planet. Ayn Rand’s, Atlas Shrugged: Standing up to a socialistic and a government that has become too large. Frank Peretti’s, This Present Darkness: The power of prayer to change the spiritual realm. Books, movies, and television all write within the confines of a message. Sometimes that message is simple, other times, like Atlas Shrugged, is a little more complex. But the fact remains, we need to be writing with a message, not just writing for the sake of writing. We should desire to change lives. 1. Your writing can shape lives and change hearts. This is especially true in the self-help area of writing. People are looking for answers and looking for a book to help them sort out their life problems and a book is the best solution they can find. Think of it as becoming a personal life coach without leaving the confines of your writing space. Using your own life examples and lessons learned will help you help others achieve the same success that you have found. One of my favorite examples of this is Michael Hyatt. He set out to help people start and establish their blogs. But the more they learned from his blog the more they wanted. So, Michael wrote a book called, “Platform”. This single book teaches you the strategies and tools needed for creating a thriving blog. He changed the lives of thousands of people. Then they started asking him how he maintains his blog while doing everything else needed in his business. He created a whole line of books and self-help tools to create leaders who are organized and goal driven. This has impacted my life significantly. I now use a paper planner in conjunction with my digital calendar and I am getting more done. 2. Helping readers discover their moment of truth. Books are powerful. They have the ability to change lives and allow us to see ourselves through a different lens. As writers, we have to learn to become stronger at what we’re not good at. It’s all about learning and growing to become a better writer. When I wrote, Divine Providence, I had a father contact me and say he appreciated my book. His words, that my book helped him connect with his family and children more, left me feeling filled and satisfied. After I wrote my book, “Grace”, an early reader of the book mentioned to me she learned more about grace in 5 weeks than in 20 years of being a Christian. This is the power of words. They impact and help draw the reader to their own moment of truth. Our job is to get them to the moment because this is the reason we wrote the story. 3. Finish your work strong. Goals, dreams and the future are things that we all want. They elude some, but those who keep their eyes on the prize will cross the finish line with success. But so many people are focusing on the wrong thing that their dream begins to die. Remember the craze of Pokémon Go? People would bury their heads in their phones and tablets trying to catch the rarest Pokémon. I downloaded the game and found it was not worth the hype. But all I saw were people with their heads down, staring at the wrong thing. They are not walking toward a successful future or goal. Stop focusing on the wrong things and begin looking at the message that God has placed in your heart. The message is there but you have to pull it out and call it forth. When I was a kid a former minister mentioned to me to pull up in the spirit and look at what God was saying. What is God saying to you? Where is your faith and where is your message? If we don’t actively pursue our dreams they will begin to decay like garbage thrown in a ditch. I mentioned in a blog post from 2016, that dreams don’t happen, they are born and created. But because so many focus on life circumstances and the struggles they face, their dreams seem like an impossibility. To see success, stop navel gazing and look up. Tell your story, write your message and see lives changed through your words. [reminder]What is your message? What are you willing to do to help change lives?[/reminder]The post 137: Don’t Just Write Stories, Write Messages That Change Lives. first appeared on Jason Sisam.
38 minutes | 3 years ago
136: Using Paper Planners Will Fail You
This is episode 136 – when you listen, you’ll find that it I mention episode 137… oops. 137 will be released next week.. One of the greatest blunders and wonders of our time is digital media. We use our smart devices for everything, but is that something we should be proud of or should we move back to simpler times and simpler ways? In today’s episode, we’re talking about paper planners and why they’re making a huge comeback and why I have started used them again. I recently have been feeling very overwhelmed. Life gets in the way and without something to help hold me accountable, I tend to ignore the issues sitting on my ever-growing to-do list. For this reason, my blog has been neglected, my podcast has had only a handful of episodes in 2018. It’s not that I haven’t wanted to, I’ve let life take control instead of me taking control of my life. This is why I’ve taken to looking at solutions in helping me stay organized, goal oriented, and forward focused. I recently purchased a new day planner. This planner is not a typical one that comes pre-determined with a calendar and daily pages. This planner helps you organize your goals into quarters, break them down by month, and by week, then by day. The planner I purchased, This is My Era. I’ve looked at all sorts of planners, even looked at getting Michael Hyatt’s, Full Focus Planner, but when the rubber hit the road, I didn’t want to part with a whole lot of cash on a system that I may or may not like. So, when I was told by my father about the “This is my Era” planner, I knew I should take a closer look. I liked what I saw. But what does using a planner cost you? Nothing but a few dollars and time. That’s it. I opened this post with a statement that paper planners will fail you. That seems illogical, people use them all the time, but paper planners will fail you if you don’t use them to further your goals and stay motivated to do something to take your goals and massive to-do list into your hands and make something happen. 1. Paper planners allow you to focus your attention on the here and now. My problem with life is it gets in the way of doing life. I tend to have an ever-growing to-do list that never seems to be quenched. I needed a system that would help me accomplish more. I needed to focus my attention on the here and now. Until the past week, I’ve been using a digital calendar. It’s not working. I go to use my calendar and get distracted by Facebook or YouTube. Not a good solution if you’re trying to get more done in less time. I began this year with a paper planner, a cheap daily calendar – but I stopped using it in February. Not a good start to a new years resolution. That’s when things started going downhill. And as a result, my weekly tasks got shoved to the side and things fell through the cracks. Utilizing a goal-oriented planner, not just the daily calendar, I’ve been able to be more focused and in fact, I’ve been impressed at how much I’ve accomplished this week. I’ve remained focused. 2. Goal planning doesn’t have to be hard, it needs to be worth it. Most people would say that goal planning is difficult. And for a lot of people, they’re right. Not because of how hard it is, but because they don’t have the drive to put together goals to accomplish within a year’s time. For the last several years I’ve been big about goal planning. Yearly, I sit down to plan out my annual goals. Sometimes I accomplish them, but a lot of the time, they end up stuck on a digital bookshelf, like Evernote and hardly visited. One great thing about using paper, you always carry it with you. I’ve been a fan of Moleskine notebooks, I have a few, they’re clean, sleek and look great. But using them for goal planning works great, and you can take it everywhere you go. Goal planning doesn’t have to be hard. It needs to be worth it. Whether you’re planning out your annual goals or monthly goals, take the time to write down each action step you need to do to accomplish that goal. Think through each step and make it a priority. 3. Yes, it’s okay to marry a paper planner and a digital calendar. I mentioned above that I was all digital and things got stuffed in the never-ending digital to-do list or calendar. One thing I’ve enjoyed about using this new paper planner, I can take my lists and digital calendar and use them together. In fact, I encourage using a hybrid system for helping you achieve your goals. I write my big goals down in the paper planner then I set dates on my calendar when those should be accomplished. Or if I have a meeting planned, I’ll put it into google calendar then transfer it into my paper planner on the monthly overview or individual day. This way, I can use both worlds, but the Paper is less distracting and I can access that anytime without looking at my digital calendar. This way, I can stay focused. 4. Paper planners give you the freedom to see your big wins, learn your lessons and keep you focused on what’s ahead. One of the benefits of using a planner like, “This is My Era”, is it helps you really think through each goal, win, and the lessons you learn each day. I begin each day by reflecting on what I’m thankful for and then write down a quick affirmation. It’s like your own personal affirmation coach. The more you look at how you’re doing each day and each week, the more excited you’ll be to see your wins and failures. Every week I’ll be sitting down and looking through each day and affirming my wins and noting my lessons learned. This will help me to look forward to the new week with gusto and begin fresh with new eyes to see my goals fulfilled. Sure, you can do a digital planner for all these same things, but there is something powerful to taking your pen and applying it to the paper. Seeing your handwriting does something to the brain. It fires the imagination and allows you to truly see where you’re life is headed. Then at the end of the quarter, you begin a new planner and move ahead in accomplishing your stated goals for the year. 5. My recommendations on planners you can use to achieve your biggest goals. Michael Hyatt’s Full Focus Planner This is My Era Whether you use a digital planner or a paper planner, make sure you’re consistent. I say this because I have not been consistent in my own goals for 2018. It’s been a tough year in that regards. I’ve tried, but now I’m on the straight and narrow and if I want to see more books written and be a better person, planning must take center stage each day. [reminder]How? By journaling and planning each day in my new paper planner. What do you say? Want to join me?[/reminder]The post 136: Using Paper Planners Will Fail You first appeared on Jason Sisam.
31 minutes | 3 years ago
135: Writing your story is about connecting with yourself.
Life can be revealed in so many ways. Books tell those stories and people, who have stories, read them and see life. In today’s episode, we’re talking about telling our story by digging deep into our memories and pulling on life experiences. People think that writing fiction is better than real life and that real life gets a big thumbs down. But writing one’s journey by finding a message of hope can bring healing and hope to those who lack faith. As a pastor, I find that telling real-life stories connects the listener to the message you’re bringing from the pulpit. There are countless people looking for hope and healing in the storms of life. They feel life has brought them to the ground and they’re drowning in the fear of the unknown. Remember the story of the disciples crossing the Sea of Galilee? Jesus told them to cross the sea from Tiberias to Capernaum. A mighty storm rose up and tossed their boat. Fearing they would all drown, they cried out to Jesus, who slept in the boat, to do something. He rose up, rebuked the storm and it calmed. The disciples feared they would die and Jesus asked them why so little faith existed in their hearts. So many people live life fearing what will happen. The storms of this life fill their hearts with dread without hope for tomorrow. This is why writing our story is so vitally important. We get to inspire and show our readers something that can help calm the storm. As a Christian, I desire to use the Word of God and my story to help people discover their own faith and bring them closer to God. I want to show you 5 things to help you connect with your story so you can write your memoir or article. 1. Be full of yourself. I know that sounds contrite and well, stuck on yourself. But the reality is, if you don’t know who you are or know your message, you will not be able to articulate that message in a way that people will be able to understand. The message that God has placed on your heart is calling to you and desires to be shared. If you don’t know your story, you can’t share your story. There truly is something special about being full of the message that God has given you. Your story is unique. The storms, trials, and fears you’ve experienced in this life can bring hope and joy to those who are seeking answers for their own storms. 2. Be Vulnerable. It’s one thing to determine what part of your story needs to be shared with the world, but it’s another to make it feel real and connected. Too often I’ve read articles that feel contrived and hallow because the writer didn’t want to be vulnerable or real. People want authenticity and it’s up to you as a writer to pull upon the emotion you felt in those moments of life and make it feel real again. It might be difficult, but if you can bring that moment into the now, your readers will be able to connect on a very real level. Maybe your depressed and in a dark place. Trying to write something that’s upbeat and positive will be a chore. It might come across as dry and emotionless. But, if you write from that darkness and that pit of despair, your words will grow and blossom. I remember when I finally opened up about my foreclosure. I felt as if I was putting myself out there saying, I’m a failure and I don’t have it all figured out. As a pastor, that’s a hard pill to swallow. But when that one person comes up to you asking for advice on how to get out of debt and live a better life, it makes that story even better. Why? Because I was real and they were blessed by that authenticity and vulnerability. 3. Connect with your story. This is where the rubber begins hitting the road. Take a moment, close your eyes and allow your mind to drift back in time and revisit that event. Focus on the details and connect emotionally with the story and think about the details in your mind’s eye. Focus on the details and connect emotionally with your story. Coming home one evening, after spending the day with my then fiancé only to find that my front door lock was changed by the bank. The utter feeling of hopelessness. The ray of hope that the garage door opened. The heaviness of my heart that I failed. The feeling of relief that I could get into my home. The feeling of anger as I slammed my fist into the counter, because it was obvious I still lived there. The sheer shock that someone stole money from my bedroom before changing the locks. The anger and frustration that I had to change the locks back the next day. Even as I write this, I can feel those same emotions rise to the surface and I can connect with that moment. Become connected with your inner self and find that story to connect with the reader. Help them discover that there is hope even though the storm rages. 4. Have an outline before you begin. I know I probably sound like a broken record, but make sure you have an outline. It’s one thing to be full of yourself, to know your story, but it’s another to write with a structure in place. A good structure will allow you to write with focus and be able to unleash your creativity. A good structure will allow you to write with focus and be able to unleash your creativity. A lot of writers have a lot of varying opinions regarding how to structure their writing. If you’re writing fiction, you can be a little looser, but if you’re writing a non-fiction book or article, an editor will want to see a fully fleshed out outline. Take time to write out everything you want to include. You can always change and alter your outline later, but start somewhere. If you are a fan of Scrivener, use their outline view to write down your outline. The nice thing about Scrivener, you can change and move your items around. But start somewhere and allow your message to flow from your mind and onto the paper. 5. Write, write, write, and write some more. This is truly where the rubber meets the road. This is where you take your structured outline and begin writing. Dig down deep and pull from the recesses of your heart and mind and write. People won’t know your heart or your story unless you write. As writers, our goal is to help people see through their storms of life and find the stillness and peace that they desire. So, sit down and write. You are the only one who can write your story and you are the only one who can release your story into the world. [reminder]Have you ever written your story for others to read? How did it make you feel?[/reminder]The post 135: Writing your story is about connecting with yourself. first appeared on Jason Sisam.
30 minutes | 3 years ago
134: Write through the heart or you’re to blame.
If you’re a writer, more than likely you have a story you want to tell. Whether you are writing fiction or nonfiction, a story is what connects your words to your reader’s heart. In today’s episode, we’re talking about connecting with our readers on an emotional level. If we’re writing to just write and not tell a story that conveys the truth, we should set down the pencil and walk away. When I began this blog, I had a lot of passion. But it’s time went on I began to feel it as more of an obligation than something I was enjoying. You may have noticed that over the past two months I have hardly published on this blog. The reason, I’ve been needing to get my head in the right place. As somebody who teaches about writing, I begin to notice I was writing for the sake of writing. I was producing content simply for the sake of producing content. Writers, write, and if we’re simply writing without passion without art we’re just writing to fill pages with mindless words. Maybe you’re sitting on the couch thinking, I don’t know what I want to write or I don’t think I have something valuable to say. Let me tell you the dig down deep and ask yourself one question, what message has God put on my heart? I want to give you three things to think about today. 1. Writing is about soul-searching. Remember the Bon Jovi song, “You Gave Love a Bad Name?” I titled this article Write Through the Heart or You Are to Blame. It’s a nice play on words but the truth of the matter is if we don’t dig down deep and discover what makes us tick, or words will be written in vain. Writers need to soul search. It’s the one thing we can do to navigate a world in which are words live. King David wrote this song in Psalm 139:23; “Search me O God and know my heart, try me and know my thoughts.” This is where soul-searching begins, it begins by asking ourselves the question; what’s in your heart? Because if you’re going to communicate your message to the world who needs to hear the Gospel of Jesus Christ, you need to know who your heart belongs to. Take a moment, dig down deep, and ask God to Search Your Heart. 2. Writing is about connecting emotionally with your words. One of the things that I believe sets me apart is the fact that I don’t talk a lot about the mechanics of writing. My focus is to talk about the heart or the mindset of writing. However, if we don’t connect emotionally with what we write, our readers won’t either. It’s one thing to write a story and be okay with it, it’s another to fall in love with that same story and feel their pain or emotions. I recently watched an episode of the* Good Doctor.* Surgical resident, Shaun Murphy, learns and a good friend of his is dying. Distraught, Sean goes out of his way to try to help his friend. This was an emotionally-charged episode that brought tears to my eyes. Are writing needs to have and invoke the same kind of emotions within our readers. They need to draw app on their own human understanding of life and discover Something Beautiful in the process. 3. Writing needs to be all about your readers and you. One thing you will commonly hear in the entrepreneurial podcast and blog world is this, don’t write what you want to write, write for your readers. While I agree, I also believe you have to be invested in what you write and being love with what you write. Mainly, this blog has been about writers and writing. And while this will remain the focus of the blog, there is a segment of my readers who are looking for something a little more. Now, I don’t believe in catering but I also believe in appealing to the masses. People have asked me the focus some of my writing on more devotional and teaching content. At the same time, I’ve had a lot of writers ask me how do I write using Scrivener. Those are in two very different camps and I’m going to be catering to both parties. What is to come for the blog? All of what I mentioned above is where I’m aiming to sit for this block. In other words, my goal is to both cater to you as the reader and to my own desires as a writer. Moving forward here is what you’re going to see a JBSISAM.com. An online learning course to help writers focus on what they do best, write. The continuation of the J-B sisam show. The Edition of more spiritual and gospel-centered devotionals. And down the road, a brand new website. Keep listening to their show or reading this blog for more updates.The post 134: Write through the heart or you’re to blame. first appeared on Jason Sisam.
29 minutes | 3 years ago
133: Editing Your Book To Save Your Life!
Most people would say the hardest part of writing is figuring out what the write. While that may be true, one aspect of writing, a lot of writers miss, is the editing. When I think about the work that I have done, the blaring item that stares me down, and gives me shivers, is publishing something I never edited. In today’s episode, I want to talk about the art of editing and what I do to go through my manuscript before handing them off to a professional copy editor. The past month has been a busy one for me. I’ve been outlining a new book, editing a previous manuscript, and putting together a seminar that I held two weeks ago. The seminar I held was on using the software, Scrivener. One of the most powerful features of Scrivener is its ability to keep track of your editing. This one piece will set you apart from the pack and make you look and appear more professional. Would you ever consider giving somebody your work without first going through and making the necessary edits? I know I try not to do that. I want to give you the three ways that I edit my manuscripts. I hope you find these tips useful and can use them to tighten your prose by creating a document you can be proud to say you wrote. 1. Before you do any editing, do a complete read through. It’s easy to want to roll up your sleeves and begin rewriting and editing your work. My encouragement to you is to avoid the temptation of making any major changes to your manuscript. Before I do anything, before I start fixing grammatical mistakes, I want to read my manuscript and see if I am getting my main point across to the reader. This is the most crucial step to beginning any editing of your work. Without knowing if your writing is conveying its full intended message, how are you going to make the necessary structural changes to what you wrote? Give yourself a day break from when you finished writing and then sit down to begin reading your manuscript. Don’t linger or delay, and if you need to make any changes jot them down as a note, and continue reading. Don’t skip this first step. You will thank me in the next couple of steps. 2. Begin your major rewrite and fix grammatical errors. This is where the rubber meets the road in the editing process. When you begin your major rewrite, this is where I encourage you to begin tracking new changes if using Microsoft Word or using the revision modes if you’re using Scrivener. This is where you begin structuring your novel, tightening your prose, and fixing any major or minor mistakes. Look at the big picture of each chapter and each scene. Go line-by-line fix your mistakes first, then adding in your rewrite. Remember, rewriting is about making your work sing without filling in words just to pad out the book. Here is my word of caution, do not scrutinize over every word or comma. You can fiddle with words all day long just to find the perfect word or phrase. I recommend keeping your big picture in mind and move through your manuscript without stopping for a second rewrite. Remember, when you wrote your book you wanted to write from beginning to end without stopping, now that we’ve done our rewrite without stopping, we can move on to the third part of our editing phase. 3. Reread your book beginning to end and fixing any minor changes along the way without stopping. This is going to be the hardest part of editing. As writers, we are incredibly unhappy with what we’ve written. We are always scrutinizing and wanting to make sure we have the perfect word and/or phrase. Don’t fall into the trap of perfection. I’m not saying you’re not going to have a mistake, I am saying you want to make sure you get through your editing phase so that you can give your book to a Copy Editor to help you finish what you started. This is what is going to set you apart because you will be cranking out more work instead of scrutinizing over every dot or tittle. Writing a book is hard work, but staying the course and getting the job done is what publishes books. The goal of writing a book is to get it into the hands of readers, but if we stop and Fiddle with our books for months on end or years on end, we will never see the satisfaction of somebody enjoying the fruits of our labor. Take a moment, read your book and fix my mistakes, then move to your major rewrite without stopping, then we read your book from beginning to end and fix any minor mistakes. Once you do these three things then, and only then, give your book to a copy editor.The post 133: Editing Your Book To Save Your Life! first appeared on Jason Sisam.
30 minutes | 3 years ago
132: Using Your Words to Tell Your Story!
In the world of social media, we all believe and feel we have a voice that should be heard. But with all the noise and screaming how do you stand out from the crowd? In today’s episode, I want to talk about social media and using our platform to inspire, educate, encourage, and entertain. Our readers don’t want fluff, they desire authenticity. They want the real you. Our interactions on social media will either make or break us. I’m a part of several online writers groups. The majority of writers within these groups are asking questions on how to be a better writer or how to even write their books. The one common thread that I see creeping around are people who think they know better than everybody else. You know these people. They’re loud, condescending, and try to prop themselves up as if they know something that you don’t. However, most people can call their bluff and call them out and they disappear or remain quiet. I want to give you three reasons why you should stop pretending and start being the real you on social media. 1. It’s about authenticity. How many times do you scroll through your newsfeed and you see all these angry posts that are so political it turns you off and you don’t want to touch the platform for a few weeks? People don’t like to be vulnerable. They don’t like sharing what’s really happening in their life. They put on a mask and hide behind their social media smiles or anger in hopes that people will click like or that wow or love emoji. The more you connect with your readers, the more you will be respected. Here’s the reality, people desire authenticity. The more you are able to connect with your readers on a personal level, the more you will be respected. People desire relatable individuals who can identify with where they are at in life. The more relatable we become the more people trust us. 2. It’s all about the story. Writers write. It’s what we do best. And the number one goal of writing is to tell a compelling story that draws the reader in. Whether you are writing a book, blog post, or your next social media post if you take just one moment and think about the needs of those you are writing for the more you’ll connect with them on a personal level. It’s all about inviting people into your life and your story. So take a moment and breathe deep and allow your story to come to your mind and use that as a catalyst to connect on a personal level with your readers. So give them the real you. Give your readers the REAL you! 3. It’s all about your reader. A recent post on a Facebook group I belong to was a very condescending and told authors that their work, writing, content, does not matter. And the real kicker, they basically said that your reader doesn’t care. So stop trying to make them care. Truth to tell, it does matter. You’re writing matters. But, your reader matters more. This is why the power of story is so incredible. The more we can tap into our own psyche and our own experiences the more the reader can identify with what’s happening in their own life. It’s about connecting on a personal and a very real level. Tell the story of your life and allow your readers to get to know you. This is why using social media can be so powerful and can be used to your advantage. Tell the story of your life and allow your readers to get to know you. Not the fake and facade you, but the real you. Let them know your dreams, your fears, your failures, and your successes. Invite them into your home and into your family. Let them see you for you. That’s what will give you the most power to influence the lives of those around you. Don’t masquerade your life on social media, but be vulnerable, authentic, and use it to encourage, inspire, educate, and entertain the lives of your readers. And when you begin to write your next book, they will happily reward you with a buy. Join me for a ONE DAY seminar on how to write, edit, and publish your book in Scrivener. I’ll help you get up and running fast, so you can write fast. [button href="/write-now" primary="true" centered="true" newwindow="true"]LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS CLASS![/button]The post 132: Using Your Words to Tell Your Story! first appeared on Jason Sisam.
34 minutes | 3 years ago
131: Why Switching To Scrivener Will Save Your Sanity.
If you’re an author, writer, or somebody who simply wants to write a book one piece of software we always gravitate toward is Microsoft Word. But what if there’s a piece of software that will ensure you never touch Microsoft Word again? In today’s episode, I’m talking about a writing software called Scrivener. This one piece of software has changed my writing life. No longer do I have to have multiple folders and windows open, everything can be neatly nestled into one document using Scrivener. The very first book I ever wrote, I used Microsoft Word. Nothing wrong with using Word, but I quickly became frustrated and would lose pieces of my work without even trying hard. There were times I would be working on a complex scene where I had to refer to my research. My computer screen would quickly become stuffed with open windows and tabs. Join me for a 1-day seminar on how to use Scrivener. You’ll learn how to go from an idea to published manuscript. Details below! CLICK HERE! This is when I learned about Scrivener. A writing software designed and developed by writers for writers. When I started using the software, I can change it to maintain multiple windows and files. But I quickly learned that’s Scrivener allows me to store all my research, all of my outlines, even website links that can open the within the software. I want to give you 10 reasons why I never looked back and Microsoft Word. 1. Scrivener gives you a one document system. Gone are the days of multiple windows, files, bookmarks, and handwritten character notes. Everything you need in your research and in your writing can be used within one window. Scrivener gives you the ability to write without losing time searching. 2. Scrivener has a built-in outlining tool. One of the benefits of using this piece of software is you can outline your book with ease. If you don’t like a current scene move it to another part of the book. You can break up your outline in the scenes or chapters or both. 3. Scrivener has built-in character templates. One of the hardest aspects of writing is developing unique and realistic characters. I always hated having to create a template that I could work with. Scrivener allows me to not only create in-depth characters, but I can post images and website links within my character sketch. If you need to add a character to your book it’s a click of a button to add a template to your character folder. 4. Scrivener is broken up into folders and notes. Similar to Microsoft OneNote, Scrivener allows you to categorize everything in the folders. The best part, each folder can have a unique icon designating what that folder is about. This not only allows you to remain organized with notes and folders and nestled into each other but, you can access all of your files without leaving the Comforts of Scrivener. 5. Scrivener allows you to work in a linear format or a grid format. One of the best features I find in Scrivener is I can take a look at all of my notes at a single glance. This single glance allows me to see what each scene or chapter has written. The best part, it honestly looks like a cork board with 3 by 5 cards. You can write on them and reorganize them as you see fit. The other option I can look at my entire document in one linear format. That way I can read from beginning to end. 6. Scrivener allows me to write with zero distractions. There are two places you can write within Scrivener. One, it is very similar to Microsoft Word. You click on the document you want to write and all of your tools are right there. The problem with that, you can still see your desktop all of your menu options, and all of your book options. The second is a customizable black window with just a single sheet of paper. This one feature allows me to write without distractions. It blackens my entire screen and the only thing I’m focusing on is exactly what I’m writing. 7. Scrivener stores all of my web research and websites. No longer do you have to open up Internet Explorer, click on your bookmarks, click on Research, click on your book title, and then the website. Scrivener allows you to search for a website Within the software and save it as its own note. What I love about this, I click on the note and the website appears. I don’t have to leave Scrivener. 8. Scrivener has an exporting feature to Microsoft Word. We all work with that it or is it some point or another, but most editors don’t use Scrivener. Many of them still use Microsoft Word and require your manuscript in Microsoft Word. The beauty of Scrivener, it allows you to compile your manuscript in the exact format an editor requires. This way, you and your editor can be happy. Your editor can make their notes using words powerful feature, and you can be happy knowing that all of your work is safe within Scrivener. 9. Scrivener allows you to designate what parts of your book are in different draft formats. With a single glance, you can see what parts are in the first draft versus final draft stage. Everything in Scrivener is color-coded to make it easy to see at a glance where you’re at. 10. Scrivener has a powerful ebook exporting tool. This is one of my favorite features. Once your book is written, you can export it into ebook format and upload it straight to Amazon. Or, you can drop it right into your Kindle and read your book as a reader. Whatever you choose to do, I encourage you to try Scrivener. They have a free 30-day trial in using the software. After that, it’s $45 to purchase. I recommend purchasing the software, I don’t believe you will ever look back and Microsoft Word again. On March 10th I am holding a live seminar, in the Twin Cities, where I’m going to teach you the ins and outs of using Scrivener. I’m going to walk you through from an idea to a published manuscript in one day. I WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THE SEMINAR! I encourage you to join me for this seminar head over to the seminar page at jbsisam.com/write-now. And let me teach you the one piece of software that will change your writing life.The post 131: Why Switching To Scrivener Will Save Your Sanity. first appeared on Jason Sisam.
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