I’ve never been much of one for writing memoir as I’ve always been more of a fiction writer. When my wife and I decided to adopt a little girl, then things got interesting. A neighbor asked me how far along we were in the process, to which I remarked “well, if there are one hundred and fifty steps, we’re currently on number six. And so my adoption blog, 150 Steps, was born. It wasn’t so much memoir as an almost real-time, long form public journal of the excitement, the frustration, the heartbreak, and finally, the life-changing result. Tonight’s piece, Disruption, was inspired by those events and triggered by a recent writing prompt, which read “If some things were different, other things would be otherwise,” from the "The Griffin and the Minor Canon" by Frank R. Stockton, published in 1885. If you or someone you know is interested in learning more about adoption, there are many great resources out there. A few to start with include: The National Council For Adoption: https://www.adoptioncouncil.org/ Adoption Learning Partners: http://www.adoptionlearningpartners.org/ Adoptive Families: www.adoptivefamilies.com Creating A Family: https://creatingafamily.org/adoption/resources/