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Knowing the dance of seductions   Basically you understand that there is a process for hooking up with a women that I like to relate to a light switch vs as dimmer knob. Knowing how to touch her in the right way. Knowing how to meet the girl and get them out on a date, or have sex with them. Taking them straight home, to taking things at the right pace and rhythm. Using humor. Knowing how to back off when you’ve taken things too far, so things don’t become a big deal (Story about vegetarian). Knowing how to flirt and conveying that you’ve been there before. You’re making the experience better for her through the way you touch her and the way in which you interact with her. And again this conveys social proof. For instance if you get back to your place, or her place and you don’t touch her in the right way she’s going to question whether or not you are the cool guy you have been conveying (Story about hot bartender). Avoiding the phrase - “Do you want to go back to my place” - Makes her feel slutty. (Story about crazy stupid love). As opposed to saying I’m really enjoying hanging out with you. I’d love to have one more drink with you in a place that’s a little more quieter, so we can really get to know each other. Because you didn’t illicit ASD by saying “my place” conveys you understand a women’s psychology and what they respond to and allows her to have a good experience without feeling slutty. 1) It enhances her experience with you and 2) It conveys that you’ve been there before and it conveys that you’ve had positive feedback which makes her more comfortable and secure in her decision. So re

Sponsor: Private Calculator Chris from Unstoppable Dating Skills unstoppabledatingskills.com/schedule Phone number (free 20 minute call) - (917) 382-4202   Introduction   “Chris has been studying and practicing seduction for the last 17 years and has been a dating coach over 10 years. In 2005 Chris decided to dedicate his life to understanding women and mastering the art of seduction. Reading books and watching videos on psychology and pickup wasn’t enough. Chris spent 5 years to going out 6 nights a week for 5 hours a night practicing and perfecting everything he learned. After approaching over 10,000 women Chris learned inner game is what separates real permanent success with women and temporary results. The most powerful tool any guy can have in his seduction arsenal is strong inner game. If you have bulletproof inner game you no longer rely on lines or routines you feel comfortable in any situation never second guessing yourself about what to do or say. Chris focuses on building inner game in every student so he could feel comfortable in any situation regardless of what women throw at him.”   What is the best way to build your inner game?   The first thing you need to do is be brutally honest with yourself with the areas in which you lack and where you can improve. And whatever that is you need to push your comfort zone in that particular area. Become comfortable with doing whatever you’re weakest at.   What are some ways to develop inner game outside of pickup?   Apply the same concepts, but with coworkers, friends, people at the grocery store, etc… Pay attention to each interaction and try to continually improve yourself. Be co

Sponsor: Private Calculator Why day game? (Part 1) A lot of times the girl you want doesn’t go to bars and clubs all that often. When you list the qualities of a girl you look for do you list their qualities like gets drunk every night, smokes cigarettes, etc, etc. The best high quality girls don’t spend a lot of times in the club. Day game is the best. It’s the purest form of game because there’s no distractions such as music, dj’s friends to distract you, cock blocks. It’s just you and the girl. Day game vs night game (Part 1) Most guys do night game and it’s on a specific duration of time to “hit on girls” Day game is basically open to you 24/7. Every time you leave the house, go to the office, go to the gym, etc. In a way this is awesome because you have an unlimited amount of opportunities throughout your day. But in a way it can be very difficult for guys because they’re used to getting themselves revved up and putting on their “Pickup ha.t” Day game is going to force you to really instill positive characteristics in your personality and in order to be successful you MUST have the correct mindset. Which will benefit you in the long run. Night game is great for creating momentum and using that to build up during the night whereas day game you may not have that. So in day game you kind of have to be mentally tough because one bad set may really destroy your confidence.

Sponsor: Private Calculator   Why day game? (Part 1) A lot of times the girl you want doesn’t go to bars and clubs all that often. When you list the qualities of a girl you look for do you list their qualities like gets drunk every night, smokes cigarettes, etc, etc. The best high quality girls don’t spend a lot of times in the club. Day game is the best. It’s the purest form of game because there’s no distractions such as music, dj’s friends to distract you, cock blocks. It’s just you and the girl. Day game vs night game (Part 1) Most guys do night game and it’s on a specific duration of time to “hit on girls” Day game is basically open to you 24/7. Every time you leave the house, go to the office, go to the gym, etc. In a way this is awesome because you have an unlimited amount of opportunities throughout your day. But in a way it can be very difficult for guys because they’re used to getting themselves revved up and putting on their “Pickup ha.t” Day game is going to force you to really instill positive characteristics in your personality and in order to be successful you MUST have the correct mindset. Which will benefit you in the long run. Night game is great for creating momentum and using that to build up during the night whereas day game you may not have that. So in day game you kind of have to be mentally tough because one bad set may really destroy your confidence.

Sponsor: Private Calculator Why day game?   A lot of times the girl you want doesn’t go to bars and clubs all that often. When you list the qualities of a girl you look for do you list their qualities like gets drunk every night, smokes cigarettes, etc, etc. The best high quality girls don’t spend a lot of times in the club. Day game is the best. It’s the purest form of game because there’s no distractions such as music, dj’s friends to distract you, cock blocks. It’s just you and the girl.   Day game vs night game   Most guys do night game and it’s on a specific duration of time to “hit on girls” Day game is basically open to you 24/7. Every time you leave the house, go to the office, go to the gym, etc. In a way this is awesome because you have an unlimited amount of opportunities throughout your day. But in a way it can be very difficult for guys because they’re used to getting themselves revved up and putting on their “Pickup ha.t” Day game is going to force you to really instill positive characteristics in your personality and in order to be successful you MUST have the correct mindset. Which will benefit you in the long run. Night game is great for creating momentum and using that to build up during the night whereas day game you may not have that. So in day game you kind of have to be mentally tough because one bad set may really destroy your confidence.

Sponsor: Private Calculator Intent vs outcome independence   There’s always a balancing act between freedom of outcome vs having intent. Intent is the idea that you are going after something, a goal of some kind that you are going after it and are willing to accept some social awkwardness. Which is a great thing to have because too many guys are too platonic and never make a move. It’s one of the biggest mistakes in game. On the other hand you want to be free from outcome about getting the girl. If you’re too needy, too clingy, if you’re too worried about what the girl is thinking about you it’s going to hold you back, it’s going to put you in your head, etc… So how do you have intent while at the same time being free from outcome? Change your criteria of success from result oriented to action oriented. Meaning if you made a certain amount of approaches and did your absolute best, then you should be proud of yourself. Your goals should be focused on things you can control. The way I deal with this is actually a little bit different. I am extremely outcome dependent. I’m a very competitive person and expect the best from myself. I want to win. But here’s the thing - I change how I view a win. What is my criteria for a win? It’s not did she fuck me, it’s not did I get a number, It’s did I go over in the best way that I know I could without hesitation and bring the best self I had in that moment. Now if the best self I had in that moment is a stuttering idiot, then that’s fine. I accept that. I will consider it a success because I stepped up in did that best I could in that moment because I know that if I do the best I can over and over again, I will continue to get better and better and

Sponsor: Private Calculator   Why day game?   A lot of times the girl you want doesn’t go to bars and clubs all that often. When you list the qualities of a girl you look for do you list their qualities like gets drunk every night, smokes cigarettes, etc, etc. The best high quality girls don’t spend a lot of times in the club. Day game is the best. It’s the purest form of game because there’s no distractions such as music, dj’s friends to distract you, cock blocks. It’s just you and the girl.   Day game vs night game   Most guys do night game and it’s on a specific duration of time to “hit on girls” Day game is basically open to you 24/7. Every time you leave the house, go to the office, go to the gym, etc. In a way this is awesome because you have an unlimited amount of opportunities throughout your day. But in a way it can be very difficult for guys because they’re used to getting themselves revved up and putting on their “Pickup ha.t” Day game is going to force you to really instill positive characteristics in your personality and in order to be successful you MUST have the correct mindset. Which will benefit you in the long run. Night game is great for creating momentum and using that to build up during the night whereas day game you may not have that. So in day game you kind of have to be mentally tough because one bad set may really destroy your confidence.

In this episode Neeko discusses the characteristics of an alpha male and the concept of how one decision impacts all your other decisions. Sponsor: Private Calculator

Sponsor - Privatecalculator.com Mix fun with skill (Women force us to have fun) As soon as pickup stop being fun you’re going to have a problem You still must go out A LOT to improve your skills And when you do that a lot of times you can lose the fun factor. Have you ever said to yourself “okay I’m done with pickup” and all of a sudden your results skyrocket? - That’s because you started to have fun again and stopped identifying yourself as this pickup guy. Find validation in many other things besides pickup. Think of pickup like an experiment. Don’t attach your self image and ego to your results. Don’t be invested in results. Make your schedule and stick to it.

In this episode Neeko describes how to pull a girl home from a nightclub Sponsor: Privatecalculator.com

In this episode Neeko describes how to pull a girl home from a nightclub Sponsor: Privatecalculator.com

In this episode Neeko describes how to pull a girl home from a nightclub Sponsor: Privatecalculator.com

In this episode Neeko discusses the different phases of pickup. Sponsor: Privatecalculator.com

Game is not complicated when you really think about it. If you see a cute girl, go up and talk to her, be authentic and non supplicating, chat for a bit, lead the interaction, add some physicality, and boom that’s it. Okay that may be an oversimplified version, but still… The main issue when it comes to being successful with women comes down to all of the bullshit advice that has been beaten in your head since you were a little boy. So for today’s episode we’re going to go through them one by one in no particular order. You should pay for everything. Treat a girl special. Don’t sleep with the girl too soon because “she’s not that type of girl.” Be confident. When the time is right the right girl will come into your life. “You'll find someone when you stop looking.” Be nice to the girl. Take the girl out on a romantic date. (wooo the girl) “Just be yourself” The 3 day rule (Texting) Call instead of texting “Girls Like Jerks” “It Takes Time to Build Attraction” Kiss Her At The End Of The Date Wait At Least 3 Dates To Have Sex With Her Don’t Tell Her That You Like Her

Game is not complicated when you really think about it. If you see a cute girl, go up and talk to her, be authentic and non supplicating, chat for a bit, lead the interaction, add some physicality, and boom that’s it. Okay that may be an oversimplified version, but still… The main issue when it comes to being successful with women comes down to all of the bullshit advice that has been beaten in your head since you were a little boy. So for today’s episode we’re going to go through them one by one in no particular order.   You should pay for everything. Treat a girl special. Don’t sleep with the girl too soon because “she’s not that type of girl.” Be confident. When the time is right the right girl will come into your life. “You'll find someone when you stop looking.” Be nice to the girl. Taker the girl out on a romantic date. (wooo the girl) “Just be yourself” The 3 day rule (Texting) Call instead of texting “Girls Like Jerks” “It Takes Time to Build Attraction” Kiss Her At The End Of The Date Wait At Least 3 Dates To Have Sex With Her Don’t Tell Her That You Like Her

Sponsor: Privatecalculator.com In this episode Neeko talks about who should pay when out on a date.