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30 minutes | Jun 18, 2021
Episode 145: The Third Pillar of Indomitable Self-Confidence
As we continue our month-long exploration of indomitable self-confidence, I pick up where I left off last week. When it comes to indomitable self-confidence, I describe it using three pillars. I like to use the analogy of an old Roman colosseum-style building that has three pillars. There’s a foundation that these pillars rest upon and a roof that goes on top. The roof or ceiling is the slab of self-knowledge; it is the truth. The foundation or the base is the primary principle, which is essentially that we are all perfect, the world is perfect. Everything is one and everything is love. With that foundation, we can build these three pillars of indomitable self-confidence. In the past episodes, I introduced you to the three pillars. The first pillar is the cognition pillar. There is a primary process where you separate your thoughts from facts so that you begin to understand where your beliefs are and what your conditioning is. You can even begin to choose new thoughts to create different results in your life. The second pillar is the emotion pillar. Thoughts are not you. Emotions themselves are also not you. They are neurotransmitters, they come from your brain, they’re tangible chemicals. The messages they’re sending is what the mind is thinking, telling the body to act. Before we get into the third pillar, the pillar of action, today, brothers, I would like to delve more deeply into these pillars, how they relate to each other, and their place on the foundation of the primary principle that everything is perfect. I want to introduce you to the idea that you are not your feelings. Your feelings are part of the universal truth that gives you a human experience, but you are not what you feel. I am not saying we should be robots or avoid our emotions. I want to emphasize that the human experience is an emotional one. Brothers, if we are here to do anything, it is to experience and we only experience through our emotions, but our emotions are not who we are any more than our thoughts are. The same is true for other people. We need to let them feel what they choose or what they think that they must feel in any given moment. When you let other people feel how they want to feel, you allow yourself to feel what you need to feel. Join me today as we continue the journey towards Indomitable Self-Confidence! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
28 minutes | Jun 11, 2021
Episode 144: The Second Pillar of Indomitable Self-Confidence
Welcome back brothers, today we continue our month-long exploration of indomitable self-confidence. Last week I introduced you to the three pillars of indomitable self-confidence and discussed the first of these pillars, the cognition pillar. In this episode, I discuss the second pillar which is the emotion pillar. I want to remind you all about the nature of emotions. Emotions exist in the realm of form and because they come from the brain, they are tangible chemicals and send messages to the body to act. This brings us back to the universal truth, that thoughts create feelings and those feelings drive action. Emotions exist as one of the three pillars that form indomitable self-confidence. In exploring this pillar I wish to introduce you, brothers, to the concept that you are not your feelings. It is true that feelings indeed form part of the universal truth that informs your human experience, but this does not mean you are what you feel. In no way does this mean that we should be robots. In fact, I wish to emphasize that emotions are an essential part of the human experience, if we are here on earth to do anything it is to experience life, and emotions are integral to our experiences. After all, when life is good it comes from an emotional experience where we feel good. Our emotions are not stagnant and as our language has grown and evolved so have our feelings. This is because of the simple fact that the more we increase our vocabulary to describe things and feelings, it grows our capacity for describing the specificity of our emotions, from its variation in form to different levels of intensity. As we come to better understand that our emotions are a product of the mind it is important to remember that you cannot control the emotions of others. You need to allow them to feel whatever they need to feel. We all have the capacity to be empathetic, but to be a true empath requires deep self-knowledge. Discovering this self-knowledge is integral to indomitable self-confidence. Join us today as we continue on that journey! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
30 minutes | Jun 4, 2021
Episode 143: The First Pillar of Indomitable Self-Confidence
As we kick things off in our month-long exploration of indomitable self-confidence, this first episode that I want to share with all of you, my brothers, is focused on the first of the three pillars. The three pillars of indomitable self-confidence are as follows: the cognitive pillar, the emotional pillar, and the pillar of action. These pillars are built on the foundation of the immutable truth and law, the primary principle that everything is perfect. Atop these pillars rests the ceiling, made up of the state of wisdom, one which allows the truth of indomitable self-confidence to wash over us. With all that being said, brothers, today's focus is our thoughts and how we can put them in their rightful place. When we can change the premise, our starting point, to the truth that everything in this world and universe is perfect, we allow ourselves to enter the state of indomitable self-confidence. This is the removal of the cloud that obscures our view of the truth. Immediately we are able to experience a renewed sense of gratitude and confidence when we accept this truth, and the cognitive mastery that we exercise over our thoughts and the internal story is revolutionary. These instinctual thoughts, if unchecked can steadfastly block our way to the truth. So what are our thoughts? Well, brothers, they are the results of our conditioning, and we need to begin to separate ourselves from these thoughts that can trick us. That is the sickness, the confusion that we experience when we conflate our true selves with our thoughts. We can remove the anxieties and fears we hold, around other people's thoughts and opinions too. None of us are our thoughts and the centering of them in our lives will always leave us in the beta condition. Indomitable self-confidence is a deep knowing, and it goes beyond the information in front of us. This is the first step of the journey! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
28 minutes | May 28, 2021
Episode 142: Relationships With Others
Welcome, brothers. In today’s episode, I'm going to be completing relationship month by discussing the topic of relationships with others. We will be continuing from last week’s episode, where we uncovered the truths of being in a relationship with yourself. This week, I’ll be diving into why it is not only beneficial to be in relationships with other people but also necessary and important. In this episode, I remind you, brothers of the universal truth of cause and effect, thoughts may come through the mind, but we must remember that they are not who we are. We must use our thoughts as a tool of the mind to make meaning of the human experience. What I wish to offer you in this episode is that the Alpha state is here to participate in duality. We are continuously living as both student and teacher, and we are all on a journey to self-awareness. Whether you choose to actively uncover self-knowledge is up to you. In our relationships with others, I encourage you to conceive of it as vulnerability because, when you are in your Alpha state, you are your true self. When you engage in relationships from your Alpha state, then there is no fear of what comes next, no fear of judgment from others or yourself, and no fear of rejection or failure. Listen today to gain a deeper understanding of the Alpha condition and how it frees you in your relationship with others! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
29 minutes | May 21, 2021
Episode 141: The Relationships With Your Self
As we move into a month focused on relationships, I wanted to share two episodes with you, brothers. This week we will be looking at the relationship with ourselves, and next week we will transfer this idea into the realm of other people. I want to be clear, this subject is not dealing with the ego and identity, but rather is me being bold and trying to explain something very difficult, something that is almost impossible to explain! There are many barriers to understanding this subject of relationships properly, and the chief among them is that this is something that has to be experienced and cannot just be told. The foundation of this episode is that relationships are thoughts, and are the way we think about and relate to the world and things around us. This is the way we perceive everything, through this lens. To help underline this message, I give you a quick reminder of the four layers of circumstance and how misunderstanding these can lead to disconnection and fear. The reality is one of connection and oneness, but it is easy to slip into a state of untruth and separation, this is part of being human! So ultimately we want to get back to love and truth, and this state is, yes, you guessed it, the alpha state! When we accept the alpha, we are able to be one with all in this way, despite the mind's tendency to separate. We can get to the bottom of the self, and address the feelings of imperfection and being flawed that arise out of the illusion of duality. These are the thoughts we have about ourselves, and thus are our relationship with the self. This episode can help you begin the process of freeing ourselves from the wrongful authority and enjoy true freedom! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
27 minutes | May 14, 2021
Episode 140: Attachment
Today, brothers, I am going to be talking about attachment, removing the connotations imposed on it, and working on deconditioning the beta condition. The beta condition is the conditioning of the outside upon the inside, it is mistakenly placing external authorities above your inner authority, so in this episode, I’m going to offer a perspective of how humans view dependence from the alpha state. This episode will aim to dispel some connotations created through external authorities. Looking at the words ‘codependent’ and ‘independent’, people often think there is a good way to be and a bad way to be. That’s erroneous! There is nothing ever wrong with any human being. Today we are going to be looking at the lack of self-knowledge as the only problem we have in relationships, the only problem we have in our lives and the root of all illusions. We judge and label our relationship behaviors because we don’t understand who we are individually or as a species. In this episode, I will explain how people are running a current of energy through their alpha state that is like a racetrack. We will examine the differences between humans with closed circuits and humans with open circuits, and how relationships play out between people with different types of circuits. The aim, my friends, is to discover who you are and understand who others are outside of the trained and erroneous beta condition, dispelling the lies created to judge ourselves and other people, and enabling real intimacy. Once you know who you are, once you elevate your alpha state, you will understand that there is nothing you need to do or change, so listen in today! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
34 minutes | May 7, 2021
Episode 139: Inner Authorities
Here on the podcast, I have to get wild sometimes, and this, brothers, is to jolt you into a new way of thinking, into resonating with the truth, and escaping our conditioning! This week I am building on the last episode, where I dealt with external authorities and turning this inward, looking at inner authorities and how to manage these. All of our alpha states are different, that is what makes us individuals, but there are so many misconceptions around unity and harmony that we have to free ourselves from. Today I will run through three different types of inner authorities and how you can identify yours and begin listening to it in the right way! The single, greatest fear, we as humans have, is around who we are. We ask ourselves, "Who am I?" and this question drives so much of what goes on inside us. The beta condition is clearly not who we are, and we need to get past it to access our alpha state, our inner authority, and then surrender to it. As I often say, we have to keep the mind in its appropriate place, as a tool, but not in control, and find a way to listen to the right forces, competing within each of us, in order to make the best decisions possible. When we are able to listen and understand our inner authority, we begin to gain a new sense of self-knowledge and the first part of this is identifying the different types. The first is our emotional authority, which means riding these emotional waves in healthy ways. When you deal with your emotions properly you can ride these waves all the way to clarity. You can understand, accept, and eventually transcend the ups and downs, and this means waiting, allowing, and processing. Another inner authority is the gut feelings we get. Again this will take time to master, but if this is your authority you can learn to listen to it in the right ways. The last one I want to touch on today is the intuitive or inner voice we all possess, something that can be quiet and overshadowed but can also be immensely powerful. When we start to understand the physiological feeling associated with intuition, we are able to make fast and spontaneous decisions that suit us. Listen in today to hear about discovering which of these you should be listening to and how to give it its deserved importance. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
29 minutes | Apr 30, 2021
Episode 138: External Authorities
Welcome back, my brothers! Since I’ve started teaching you about the universal truth and the law of cause and effect, I have constantly integrated my messaging methodology with more self-discovery while I have been pursuing a deeper understanding of the heart of nature and the essence of being human, which is why this episode is on the external authorities that have been trying to determine who you are since birth. Today’s episode is a reminder that your alpha state is both as teacher and student. You utilize your defined true self to teach and your undefined true self to learn from others and receive from the world. We must recognize the rigid story external authorities have constructed that informs the story you tell about yourself, which causes separation between yourself and your true self. These external authorities attempt to define what success is and how to achieve it, but this can’t possibly be the same for everyone! Each of us are unique individuals who should be guided by our true, inner selves. It is my belief that, if we were all to live according to our inner authority, there would be no need for the institutions that exist to be external guides, because we will be guided by our true alpha self. You need to uncover this guidance through self-knowledge and understanding who you are. Once you do that, you eliminate the need for external authorities telling you what to do. Tune in today in as I offer you the tools to help you unlock your inner authority and free yourself from external authorities! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
26 minutes | Apr 23, 2021
Episode 137: Gratitude
Welcome back, my brothers! Today we are rounding up the three-part series that started with 'surrender', moved into 'faith', and now ends with 'gratitude'. The 'surrender' piece of this puzzle is where we get into contact with the power of the alpha state, it means deconditioning the way we operate and letting go into an amazing sense of freedom! This new way of living leads us to and centers a different kind of faith. Not faith in the religious sense, but more about acceptance and trust in ourselves and the present moment. And this brings us to gratitude, its essence, and how it fits into our psychology. The judgmental beta condition that creates a false binary of good and bad is the most misleading of forces, and when we are able to surrender this way of being, we are able to put the mind in its proper place: as a passenger. The mind is then able to occupy itself with its true function and instead of trying to direct the course, it is able to observe and understand. We are then faithful to our inner authority and accept the truth of abundance. Faith is knowing through the knowledge of the true self, brothers! Gratitude is more than just a morning routine, and true gratitude can be present consistently in your life, following you through all moments and experiences. It is the awareness of this moment, its reality as a gift, and what it offers to us at every second. When we lead with this gratitude, we further solidify the mind in its place, using it to unpack the message of the world around us. The mantra is one of thanks, a constant 'Thank you', to the present! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
28 minutes | Apr 16, 2021
Episode 136: Faith
Today we are speaking about faith, brothers, but not the kind that you have always heard about. The types of faith that we have been exposed to most of our lives either leave room for uncertainty or are too religiously centered. True faith is all about belief in and connection to the alpha state, and if you can access this then you will be able to create your reality and not be held down by self-imposed limitations. The universe is infinitely abundant, meaning that when we feel fear, we are believing a lie. Feeling afraid is faith misplaced, it is having faith in lack, but there is no lack to speak of in our infinite universe, only unlimited abundance. Your true self is composed of the same substance as the universe, meaning that trusting the universe is the same thing as trusting your true self. When we allow the Alpha state to take its rightful place as the authority in our lives, faith acts through intuition, there are no limitations and we create what are viewed as miracles in our lives. So join me today bothers as I walk you through the connection between the infinite universe, your true selves, and how you can use faith to channel this energy and make it your true authority so that you can make the invisible substance of your truth into the visible realm of reality. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
28 minutes | Apr 9, 2021
Episode 135: Surrender
Today's episode is all about the future, brothers. I want to help you let go of the past and move into the new you, the real you, the you that you want to be! I will be discussing the idea of surrender, and the first point in this discussion is to remove this word's negative connotation. I want us to reposition our understanding of surrender as ceasing resistance to oneself. We all encounter the problems and fallacies of trying to be what we are not, and what we are not meant to be. When we can truly surrender to the truth, we enter a state of awareness, where we are able to seek self-knowledge and inner truth! The best way to understand this all, is through the analogy of a car. I want you to imagine that your body is the car, the passenger is your mind, and the driver is your spirit. When we listen to the mind, we are taking direction from the wrong authority. The mind is misleading, brothers, and although it wants to help us, we should be listening to the soul, the actual driver. The mind is not the enemy, it is a creative force that we can work with, it is a powerful part of you that you need to keep in context and use with purpose. I have spoken before about where this need of the mind to control comes from, and it is rooted in our past, our need for safety, and from a place of fear. Letting the mind make decisions for us leads to people-pleasing and the need for external validation, exactly what you do not want! We all experience the external pressures of the world, when what we really need is to get back to our true nature and see through to our true potential. When we surrender to this, we decondition ourselves and meet our real self. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
33 minutes | Apr 2, 2021
Episode 134: 4 Layers Of Circumstance
Welcome back to the podcast, my brothers. Today we are going deep and this episode might get a bit wild, so hang on for the ride! I want to help you get past the illusions we so often refer to, to find the truth under the four layers of circumstance. As we know, when there is a mismatch between our true selves and our conditioning, we suffer. This is often the case, a default position in which humans find themselves. It does not have to be like that! The first layer of circumstance is our experience as humans, and this means it is experienced through the senses that we have as people. The way we see, smell and touch the world around us. It is also how we are able to describe and name what we sense, so it is not as it is, only as it appears. If this layer is peeled back we get to direct experience; which is similar to the first layer, but without human language. Thus it is the removal of the human story and sense of the world. Below direct experience lies the quantum layer, a space that is not accessible to us through our human faculties but that we know exists. In this layer of circumstance, there are only amalgamations of cells, and if we are able to break through to this layer we can begin to escape our conditioning. The fourth and final layer is the field of neutrino; this is the subatomic nature of the universe, where everything is a sea of information that is flowing and passing through itself. This layer is the truth, and the truth is love, brothers. We are all immersed in a never-ending sea of love that we cannot escape, and it is when we are able to surrender to that truth, that we can end our suffering! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
24 minutes | Mar 26, 2021
Episode 133: Interrupting The Universal Truth
When traveling down the path to your elevated self, we need to remember that the only barriers to a new belief are the old ones you hold on to, and today I will be talking about breaking these down, on the way to your truth. This episode serves to conclude the series on barriers and new beliefs, following on from the episodes on correlation and causation, and confirmation bias. I wanted to tie it all together, and round out your understanding of how we are conditioned by many external forces in our lives, and map out the process of moving past these towards a greater personal purpose! We all have a great power within us that we can access with the right tools, and one of these is found in understanding the model of alignment and its five components: circumstance, thought, feeling, action, and result. When we unpack this model it can begin to illuminate our conditioning, and when we interrupt the model, we can begin to change our results! In this episode, I talk about getting past old thinking and the 'old self', and how it takes more than mere willpower to divert the direction of our universal truth. When we rely solely on willpower, we usually set ourselves up for some sort of failure or relapse. Real change only occurs when we tell ourselves a new story and fully adopt a new role in that narrative. Brothers, this is how you can properly alter the flow of your life's river, and this is what I want to share with you today! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
23 minutes | Mar 19, 2021
Episode 132: Confirmation Bias 2.0
Today, I am diving into part two of the barriers to belief series and unpacking confirmation bias. Before I get started on this concept, I share some of the massive changes coming to the Alpha Academy. I want to give you the chance to get in on some of the action before everything goes live. Even though things may look different, the foundation of my training is the same; to help you see the world as it is and not through the lens of conditioning. Last week, I explored correlation and causation and the fact that we almost always confuse the two. We accept things as facts even though they are simply the stories we tell ourselves time and again. This is where confirmation bias, today’s topic, comes into play. It does not prove any truths but instead reaffirms the tales we believe are real. Even though we know that circumstance is neutral and the data is always there, once we relate it to confirmation bias, our circumstances are no longer objective but appear as a means to support pre-existing beliefs. When these paradigms and stories prevent us from seeing the world as it is, they act as a prison. While in many ways confirmation bias can hold us back, if we apply our elevated awareness, we can see it for what it is and move past it. We don’t have to accept stories as truth. It is possible to free yourself from the condition of the mind and the images that occur behind your eyes. Rather than having conditioning driving the vehicle that is your life, it is possible for you and the truth to take the driver’s seat once again! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
26 minutes | Mar 12, 2021
Episode 131: Correlation vs. Causation
Today, I want to discuss the barriers to creating new beliefs, and there are several barriers, of course. Essentially, the barriers to creating our new beliefs are our old beliefs that we have accepted as true. Sometimes we get to a point where we think our beliefs are true for everyone. When we get to this point, we move from beliefs to facts; and sometimes these are in the realm of politics or religion or, other times, it just means the beliefs we have about ourselves that we believe are true, and we've accepted them as unchangeable. Then there is the ever dream-killing belief statement: I can’t do that. Today we’re doing to dive into correlation versus causation, a concept used in both science and philosophy. I also want to shed new light on the process of confirmation bias so that you can see how it will always prevent you from changing what you believe from an unconscious conditioned function to a consciously intentional function. Make a note to tune in to next week’s episode, where I’ll be diving deeper into the concept of confirmation bias and how you can use confirmation bias to your advantage to create new beliefs, even though it can be and often is another barrier to believing new things. For today, I’ll leave you with this before we start: Ask yourself, does A cause B? Is B the effect of A? Or do A and B simply appear together and, through the use of repetition and acceptance, I have mistaken a thought for a fact? Have you mistaken a correlation for causation? Let’s find out. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
28 minutes | Mar 5, 2021
Episode 130: The Story We Tell Others
Welcome back to the show brothers! Today I will be expanding on last week's topic of the stories we tell ourselves, and getting into how these become the stories we tell others. The response to that episode was so enthusiastic that I thought it best to delve a bit deeper into this resonant issue. As you probably already know, everything in the physical world of form begins with a story, and so is central to how we live out our lives. To start off, we look at the important truths that make up the foundation of our realities, and this comes down to how stories constantly inform our existence. The universal truth, as I have said many times before, is based on the neutrality of all circumstances. While the human experience might be an emotional one, without our perception of it, the world is a blank canvas, neither positive nor negative. It is time to take this momentous leap, where we take control of our stories, and thus our reality! The story is always cognitive, and it is always about ourselves. Even our stories about others are about us, and likewise, the stories we tell others are not for them but are part of our interior world. Fitting these ideas into the model of alignment will unlock a power to express your true self and dreams, and live out the alpha life you have always wanted, or never even dared dream about! It thus becomes clear that any meaningful change in our lives starts with our own story. And here's the key brothers: if you want the actions of your 'movie' to be different you have to rewrite the script. You cannot make a movie that has not been written and does not have proper direction. Only then can it be acted out and become the reality of your everyday existence. So join me today, as we begin this powerful and metamorphic journey, starting from within. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
23 minutes | Feb 26, 2021
Episode 129: The Story You Tell Yourself
It is good to be back brothers, and it is even better that I have you with me on this incredible journey. Let’s cut to the chase: the matrix has you. Yes, the Matrix has you. This episode marks the end of our relationship theme, but let it be said: we cannot be in life without being in relation to something or someone, and that includes the Matrix. Where am I getting at with all this? We need to first understand what that Matrix is, which is the story you tell yourself about yourself. Friends, everything begins with an individual or collective story, and from there you find the evidence to support your story with a psychological term called confirmation bias. The important work that I do is to teach my students how to write their own story, and to escape conditioning where others are writing your story for you. In this episode, I talk about how this happens, and more specifically, how you can take your power back. Just remember, it’s the story that holds everything together, and it’s that same story that manifests our effect. Brothers, only you know who you are in expression of form; not me. But listen up. I’m here to tell you that you’re a creator; the most powerful organic being on this planet. Fish breathe underwater, birds fly in the sky, and you my friend, create the world we know as reality. So when you are creating your story, your reality, and you want to change its course, you have to start with a different input to get a different output. So I’m offering you a process that is split into four parts. Number one: bringing consciousness to unconsciousness. Number two: separate the story from the facts. Number three, ask: does the story serve me? Step five: change the story. Brothers, walk beside me as we follow the steps to write the story we each deserve. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
30 minutes | Feb 19, 2021
Episode 128: Love Languages 2.0
Love and relationships are a central part of what we work with here at the Alpha Male Coach podcast, and no matter where you are in your relationship journey, understanding how to navigate these spaces is of vital importance to the elevation of your alpha. I have spoken about the love languages before, and am returning to this topic today to do things a little differently. What I really want for you, brother, is to find freedom, love, and self-confidence! I start off today's exploration by differentiating between love and lust so that we can get clear on what we are really talking about. Lust is an excessive fixation on the external, which is clearly an illusion. Remember blood, the external world is perfect and lust exists only in the realm of form, the illusion is the idea of the form and possessing it. As I have often said, you cannot possess people and things, so we need to separate a desire for sex and the imagery of lust. This illusion is a false reality, it does not exist, it a distraction and the ghost of prior generations. This brings us to the five love languages, namely physical touch, words of affirmation, gift-giving, acts of service, and quality time. I want you to look at these a little differently and start to think about how you can give as much of each of these as possible without any expectation. Remember my brothers, we are the first men, and as an Alpha Man, we need to master ourselves and step out of the illusions of lust, wealth, and power! Love is the knowledge of oneness, understanding the perfection of reality, and by living through the laws of love you can bring peace to the world and yourself. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
27 minutes | Feb 12, 2021
Episode 127: Trust 2.0
One of the foundation elements of relationships is trust. And since relationships are a foundational aspect of life, we can see the importance that trust has in living meaningfully and truthfully. We are always in relationships, whether it be with other things and people, or more importantly, with ourselves. These two facts of the concept of trust are what I will be exploring today, and how trust in ourselves contributes to that all-important indomitable self-confidence. There is a counterintuitive quality to the way we trust others. Like so many things related to the universal truth, trust in others has nothing to do with them, and everything to do with ourselves! In the end, the trust we have in others is a subjective story we tell others, and is begging us to remember the universal truth, brothers! These stories we tell ourselves about others' words and actions become a prison for them, and when they want to break free from this, we call it a betrayal. The true value of trust, and how it can be used in healthy and aligned ways is through self-discovery and personal evolution. If there is a person that you can actually have a firm belief in it is most definitely yourself, brother. This again comes back to self-confidence and that trust in self is what will help you build that! We need to avoid the confirmation biases that emerge from our conditioning and inform how we interpret others, this leads to fear and pain and is not in line with the universal truth. What I am saying here brothers, is not that you should not trust anyone. In fact, I want you to trust everyone, but that trust is in the universal truth and not in the stories you create about others. The events that occur in relationships are not outcomes, they are experiences, and we need to use boundaries and the reality of existence to live in harmony with others. When we do not do this, we live in fear of what our thoughts about something will make us feel, which is a classic behavior of the beta mind. The only way to make permanent change is through a real shift in thinking, and that starts here! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
25 minutes | Feb 5, 2021
Episode 126: Alpha Male Tenets 3 & 4
Welcome back, my brother! Today I continue my exploration of the alpha male tenets, looking at tenets number three and four. Both of these have to do with circumstance and mastering these will, in essence, aid you in finding abundant goodness and letting go of what does not exist! In order to break through our limitations and make actual progress, we need to get into a more open system, and these tenets are what allow us to do that. There are many more than just the four tenets I am focussing on in this mini-series of shows. But if you can take the lessons from this episode and the previous one, you will be on the right path to seeing things more clearly. Tenet number three states that we see things as we are and not as they are. This has to do with perception and reality, and the reality is that we live in a world made up of cells and molecules that our senses allow us to interpret and make meaning from. Our interpretation is not reality and is conditioned by our past, when in fact there is no separation in the way that we usually perceive. Tenet four can be quite a challenging one to internalize as it deals with the truth of the past and present. The truth is that everything that has happened, happened as it should have, and the proof of this is in the fact that it happened in that way! I know this can be tricky, but realizing the past is perfect is a profound form of acceptance and empowerment. Resistance to this will always cause suffering, and letting our perception get in the way of the gift of the present is a tragedy. These tenets come down to the choice to accept perfection and the universal truth. It means taking control of your subjective experience and getting away from a life ruled by fear and worry. So listen in today with me, brother, as I break it down! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
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