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People treat courtships like a day at the buffet. Some people are able to go through five relationships in a year. This carries on to marriages today and we can see it from the outstanding number of divorces that occur. People are so quick to leave when they don’t like something without trying to work things out. Why?! Because it’s always been easy to move on to the next thing.The post WHY MODERN RELATIONSHIPS ARE SO FRAGILE appeared first on The African Blogger.

What’s my life’s purpose? This question has been on everyone’s mind at some point in time. As kids, we often got asked, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” And just like we did not have a definite answer when we were kids, most of us still don’t know what our life’s purpose is.The post HOW DO YOU CHOOSE YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE? appeared first on The African Blogger.

Breaking up or walking away from any relationship is tough. And it is even tougher if you were really invested in the relationship. Most likely, you put a lot of energy into building it up and planned your future together with this ex. And suddenly all the planning and effort goes down the drain. I went through a similar situation and here is what I did to permanently get over my breakup.The post What I did after my breakup (Podcast) appeared first on The African Blogger.

Would leave if your partner got into an accident and became disabled? Yes and no! If your relationship was rocky prior to the accident and it still is after the accident then sympathy won’t heal the relationship.The post Question Game – Would you leave if? appeared first on The African Blogger.

I had just moved to a new country and eventually a new city where I was on my own. I only knew one person in the whole school and I had a “funny” accent, which I was shy about (in hindsight, this was a very silly excuse)...The post Going from a D-Student to A-Student appeared first on The African Blogger.

First and foremost, we want to congratulate you on making it through 2016. 2016 was full of its ups and downs. Despite how last year went for you, you want this year to be even better and that’s you create New Year’s resolutions. But before you create your resolutions, here’s what you should know:The post 5 Things You Need To Know Before Starting A New Year’s Resolution appeared first on The African Blogger.

It is essential to block out the noise in your relationship. Relationships in themselves are not easy; they require a lot of work, dedication, and compromise. It is even more difficult to be in a relationship if there is a lot of noise and distraction from the outside.The post How To Block Out The Noise In Your Relationship appeared first on The African Blogger.

It is hard to hear or talk about this but while family will always be family, they won’t always be around for you. I know a lot of friends who have lost their parents this year and I know families who have lost their children to some tragedy. No one is promised tomorrow...The post STOP AND SMELL THE ROSES appeared first on The African Blogger.

Is it right for a girl to ask a guy out first? This has long been a controversial issue, especially in the African community. Most Africans believe it is wrong for a girl to ask a guy out while a few people support it. In our latest podcast, we explored both sides of this argument and here is what we think about this matter.The post Is it okay for her to ask a guy out? appeared first on The African Blogger.

Have you ever watched the show, “Catfish?” If so, then you know what I’m talking about. The funniest stories I've seen on Catfish are the ones where the victim thinks he is talking to a 20-year old hottie but it turns out to be a 50-year old man (lol)...The post Deception on social media and self-evaluation appeared first on The African Blogger.