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So you want to go to a professional Domme, visit a cam site, order some hot custom videos, or go to strip club. But ah shit. Not really sure what's the right way to handle being respectful and appropriate with sex workers. This week in honor of International End Violence Against Sex Workers Day, Miss Kay explains the general rules of interaction with different kinds of sex workers and how to go about it in a way that is respectful for all parties involved.

Having spent a week moving house, Miss Kay spent the week unpacking and answering questions submitted anonymously from all you lovely viewers. Unfortunately there were so many, this may end up being a two-parter (or more!) Thanks for listening as always

CW: Mention of consensual use of knives and medical tools, blood, and urine. So maybe you've been jerking off to humiliation piss porn or consensual blood play for a while. It's been rattling around in your head but the idea of acting it out seems scary. Well hey, it can be! And good for you for being cautious. But this week Miss Kay explains the cautions and basic safety of working with blood and piss as a sexual fetish and how you can make sure to do dumb shit in the safest way possible. No opening song credit this week as it's been crazy, but it definitely would have been "I Ain't Gonna Piss In No Jar" by Mojo Nixon so here's his credit anyway. For contact: facebook.com/thatsgrosspodcast ThatsGrossPodcast.Sarahah.com MissKayChallis@gmail.com Don't forget to send them anon questions for next week and to subscribe on Stitcher, Soundcloud, or Spotify! Thanks for listening

If it's one thing that almost everyone wants to try...it's anal. But whether you're using your natural appendage or a toy, sometimes it's pretty hard to know how to safely get things going without making a huge mess and causing a lot of bum-hurt. So this week, Miss Kay is going to walk you through the steps of having a great anal experience while explaining why words like "clean" vs. "dirty" as comparative terms just don't help anyone. You can contact Miss Kay or give feedback about the episode at: facebook.com/ThatsGrossPodcast or misskaychallis@gmail.com And don't forget to rate us, like us, and share the love around! Opening song credit this week goes to: "Pull Up To The Bumper" by Grace Jones.

Dirty Talk! Maybe you feel like you suck at it. Maybe you don't feel confident that you have the right words to make it sexy. Maybe everything that you've heard just sounds hella cringey. Miss Challis is here to address those concerns, help you find what makes you and your partner hot (and comfortable,) and remind you that dirty talk isn't a thing that needs to go perfectly every time. If you have personal questions, feedback, or just want someone to vent about your sexuality or kinks to without judgement, you can contact Miss Challis on: Facebook: facebook.com/thatsgrosspodcast Email: MissKayChallis@gmail.com Opening song credit: "Stroker Ace" by Lovage

YOU SHOULD FEEL ASHAMED OF YOURSELF YOU! is probably what you hear in your head a lot when you think about some of your fetishes whether you're playing solo or with someone else. Luckily, Miss Kay Challis is here for a little reminder that while shame is common, it doesn't mean you're really that bad.