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This week, Yancy sits down with old crush (now good friend) Naika to discuss types of intimacy, and check in on their friendship. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Feature in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Want to lube up your pleasure? SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillube Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow today's guest Instagram: @naikachampaigne Solo Album "Painted Imageries": https://linktr.ee/NaikaChampaigne Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Article mentioned: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-intimacy-in-a-relationship-5199766

That Sexciting is a year old! Dive with Yancy into the top moments of 2022. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Feature in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Want to lube up your pleasure? SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillube Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Follow Liv’s author journey! Instagram: @oliviapreyaauthor https://bit.ly/cuspofdarkness

What's the current dating pool like today? This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Rome Green Jr. to discuss the current dating market. Rome opens up about his dating experiences, the difference between relationships and connections, the lack of accountability and self-awareness of prospects and how his views on relationships evolved after his trip to Africa. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Want to lube up your pleasure? SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillube Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Follow today’s guest Instagram: @iromealot Podcast: @cthpodcast www.shadysideup.com Book Mentioned Game of Desire by Shan Boody https://www.thegameofdesire.com/workbook

So… who’s the man? This week, Yancy sits down with her partner to discuss what feminine and masculine energy are for them. They explore how they view their partnership, why Yancy views herself as more masculine and how they grew in love. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Want to lube up your pleasure? SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillube Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting

SHAME! It all affects us in unique ways in our sexuality. Navigating and unlearning these beliefs is a journey. This week, Eleanor Gershman, social work and sexual health scholar, shares her knowledge of purity culture. Yancy is joined by Kaci Mial to discuss what sexual shame is, how it is experienced and how one can start the healing journey. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Want to lube up your pleasure? SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillube Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Follow today’s guest  Instagram: @sexcoachkaci Website: www.sexcoachkaci.com.com Information mentioned: Sex Positive Families Instagram: @sexpositive_families Website: www.sexpositivefamilies.com

In our society, navigating sexuality can be one tricky experience… Exploring how sexual shame may have been internalized is one step towards shedding shame and approaching YOUR ideal sexuality. This week, Yancy models how to explore your internalized sexual shame through 5 questions. Grab your pen and paper, reflect and connect the dots looking backwards. This episode does not substitute seeking mental health services. If you need support, we encourage you to reach out to a professional or a recognized community group in your area. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co GoFundMe: GoFundMe Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting

When did you understand that patriarchy was the problem and not your body? This week, Yancy sits down with one of her favourite visual artists Miss Me Art. They talk about meeting our own patriarchal mindset, the sexual shame for people with vulvas, Miss Me’s art as therapy and she shares the emotional story of how she discovered that her body is not the problem.  Furthermore, Yancy explores with Andrea Cooks the power and benefits of art therapy. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co GoFundMe: thatsexciting.co/gofundme Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Follow today’s guests  Miss Me Instagram: @miss_me_art Instagram backup: @missmeart2  Twitter: @TheArtfulVandal www.miss-me-art.com/shop Andrea Cook Instagram: @intimagetherapie Facebook: @INTIMAGEtherapie Clinique Intimage la thérapie par les Arts

This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Jimanekia Eborn, a queer Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. They talk about the power of self-identifying, navigating sexuality as a survivor, how we can show up for ourselves and how we can support our peers.  Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Follow today’s guest  Website: www.traumaqueen.love  Instagram: @jimanekia Twitter: @jimanekia  Ressources mentioned:  Books: The Tao of Trauma by Alaine D. Duncan, Kathy L. Kain shorturl.at/qrUX2 What Happened to You? By Oprah Winfrey & Bruce D. Perry shorturl.at/kmPX8  The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. shorturl.at/dNRS3 TRE stretching exercices: Vagus Nerve Reset To Release Trauma Stored In The Body (Polyvagal Exercises) - YouTube TRE, Trauma Releasing Exercises - YouTube TRE® : Tension and Trauma Releasing Exercises, an Introduction with Jessica Schaffer - YouTube

Miss me yet? Yancy gives a little update on the... GoFundMe! But, don't worry. We're coming back next week with our regular long format/check-in program. GoFundMe: To this date, the podcast is funded, curated, produced, edited and marketed by your truly, one-woman-band Yancy. It goes without saying that podcast production is expensive, especially for a solopreneur... Help the project and our mission to create more discussions and content around intimacy, relationships and sexuality. The podcast is raising funds https://gofund.me/a762f582 Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co

We missed you! Yancy’s popping in for a check in episode and letting you know what she’s been up to for the last month. We’ll pick up the long format episodes later this year → follow us on Instagram to stay up to date Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Things mentioned: Listening line in Quebec https://www.211qc.ca/en/psychosocial-support/helplines-talklines  List of emotions https://www.courts.ca.gov/partners/documents/2011SRL3gNVC.pdf  The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck https://www.amazon.ca/dp/0062641549/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4VXM33RP60ZBM9778DYR

The podcast is starting the summer break sooner than announced. Stay tuned and follow us on Instagram to know when we’ll be coming back with the summer program (a.k.a check-in episodes). Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Music: Only 1 from Mel Pacifico Produced by Caulder Nash https://open.spotify.com/track/12FXn1PkW0M6UqTfilF5i3?si=281126847f4049bf

This week, Yancy sits down with Sara Hini, a Queer Algerian-Amazigh Photographer. They discuss Sara’s journey as a photographer, what is intimacy and have a raw conversation about fears and love.  Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Follow today’s guest  Instagram: @sara_hini Patreon: www.patreon.com/sarahini Mentions: The Four Horsemen: https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/ Esther Perel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P964sIANSWI&t=3s

Do you know what Ethically produced porn is? This week, Yancy virtually sit down with adult performer Mickey Mod. They explore the question of what is ethically produced pornography, the history of porn and the impact of porn on Mickey’s intimacy. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancy.chery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Follow today’s guest  Instagram: @themickeymod Twitter: @themickeymod OnlyFans: @themickeymod Source mentioned:  Your Guide To Ethical Porn: What Makes It Different & Where To Find It https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ethical-porn  **Correction: Cinematographic images dates from the late 1800s. Not early 1900s :-)!

When was the last time you reflected on your sexual desires? Specifically about the different pathways to sexual arousal? This week, Yancy passes the mic to Maya Glenn for a check-in episode. Maya invites you to ponder on what makes you feel turned on and to do so in an explorative and mind-expanding way. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Follow today’s guest  Instagram: @intimacywithmaya Twitter: @mayac_glenn

What did your caregivers tell you about sex? Did you ever have a sex talk at home? This week, Yancy and Preach talk about the Sex talk he had at home, his relationship with his sibling and how the sex talk goes down in his men group. Yancy was also joined by her cousin Mike Martial that shared his sex talk growing up, the one he had with his son and pornography. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Follow today’s guest  Instagram: @kingpreachthepetty YouTube: @abaandpreach Podcast: @abavspreach & @lesfallopes

What relationship structure do you adhere to? Monogamy? Open relationships? Polyamory? This week Yancy is joined by Carole to discuss Ethical Non-Monogamy. They explore what is Carole’s ideal relationship structure, how jealousy plays out and the importance of taking ownership of one’s emotions and healing. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Follow today’s guest Carole Instagram: @blackartbyme Books mentioned: The Ethical Slut https://www.amazon.ca/Ethical-Slut-Second-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379  Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy https://www.amazon.ca/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987  Ethical Non-Monogamous structures definitions.   https://shrimpteeth.com/structures

Is flirting selfish? This week, Yancy is joined with Jared Brady for an explicit discussion on flirting. Tune in to this raw and honest conversation on what is Jared’s definition of flirting, our flirting types as well as relationship styles and how to keep the spark alive in a marriage. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Follow today’s guest  @enjoyjaredbrady @enjoythepodcastofficial Enjoy The Podcast on YouTube www.youtube.com/c/Enjoy248

This week on That Sexciting, join Yancy and one of her role models, her cousin Nookie, for a raw and intimate conversation about coming out and exploring one’s sexual orientation. Listen to cousins of different generations speak about their online dating experiences, their coming out stories and the importance of having a community and a chosen family. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting

This week, Yancy is discussing STDs and STIs with sex-positive STI and STD researcher and physician, Dr. Ina Parks.  Awareness is key! While the stigma behind STDs and STIs might make you want to run away, Yancy and Dr. Park's discussion is the reason you should stay. They break down the misinformation and negative ideologies surrounding the topic, how often one should get tested, and how to have the “I got tested” conversation. Bonus, they play a game of True of False near the end of the episode. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Follow today’s guest  @inaparkmd Website: www.inapark.net Books mentioned: Strange Bedfellows: Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs https://www.amazon.ca/Strange-Bedfellows-Adventures-Science-Surprising/dp/1250206626

This week on That Sexciting Yancy discusses erotic literature with romance author Olivia Preya. Together they define the literary genre and discuss the elements that make erotic literature so different from other means of sexual expression and representation. Yancy and Olivia also delve into Tumblr’s significant role in the growth and exploration of the literary genre. In that spirit of exploration, we also placed an auditory surprise just for you in this episode! NSFW you've been advised! Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission! shorturl.at/beFIW Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode.  Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Follow today’s guest  Instagram: @olivia_preya Books mentioned: Princess Trap by Talia Hibbert Erotica Authors mentioned: Talia Hibbert Katee Robert Naima Simone