39 minutes | Apr 9, 2021

What it actually feels like to put yourself out there

What is it like to put yourself out there, and how do you feel when you're considering doing something new?  I've noticed a pattern for people when they start to put themselves out there. I've noticed people talk about self confidence first, and we talk about developing self confidence, in a vacuum as though it happens on its own. What happens is we wait for that self-confidence or the perfect timing, or a certain threshold of expertise or that perfect moment. We wait for these things first, before we decide to speak or own our expertise, or create an experiment, or decide to make an impact, or tell our story ,or show up, or put ourselves out there. We're waiting for confidence first. And we have decided that confidence shows up a somehow on its own, and when it does that that will be the right moment to start putting ourselves out there. Spoiler alert: It doesn't quite work this way. Read the full show notes here. Subscribe & Rate the Show iTunes Stitcher Spotify One of the best ways to support the show is to leave a rating and review. It's the best way to spread the word and help more people find the podcast. Leave your review on iTunes, send me an email (to christy@christytending.com) letting me know you did it, and I'll send you a free gift worth $20!
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