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During the pandemic, a time in our world's existence that has been riddled with so much uncertainty, we found one key factor that allowed us to remain supportive of one another and even draw closer. That one thing was remembering why we started. 

Mindsets are the gateway to having a healthy and happy marriage or waking up to a nightmare every morning. This episode, we talk about the importance of having a growth mindset.

During our fourth year of marriage, we spent most of the year separated. We almost didn't make it. We could have filed it all away as irreconcilable differences and moved on.  Instead, we gave it one last shot to see if we could make it work.

Emotional intelligence is often discussed in the workplace but it's also a helpful guide in marriage.  In this episode, we discuss how emotional intelligence impacts the health of our marriage.

We are opposite in every imaginable away and while as cliché tells it, "opposites attract." Not much has been attractive about how we managed our differences. What has been game changer for us is learning to play to our strengths.

Along the journey of our first decade of marriage, we realize that if we were going to make it, we would need to find tools that would help us to make this work.  The Enneagram is just one tool we've found to help us understand one another better and get a glimpse into unique wiring and vantage point we each possess. 

In 10 years, a lot of life has happened.  We have learned so much. Most of it, through hard earned lessons.  This episode we share ten lessons that have been most pivotal in our relationship.