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23 minutes | Jul 27, 2021
She Doesn't Love Me Anymore - Steps To Regain Love
Your wife is telling you she doesn’t love you anymore.What does that mean?She doesn’t want to share a life with you.She’s not sexually attracted to you.She doesn’t feel safe with you.In response, you’re trying to prove to her that she SHOULD love you…Which ALWAYS backfires.Learn how to start to REGAIN that love in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving man who is looking to save his marriage, join us in The Strong Man System. You’ll learn EXACTLY how to become the strongest and most attractive version of yourself, which is the MOST LIKELY thing to win your wife back. CLICK HERE to join now.
16 minutes | Jul 20, 2021
How To Work On Yourself... FAST
These days it’s popular to say “I’m working on myself.”Your wife might even be saying “You need to work on yourself.”But what does that even mean?To me, it’s about building up your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength.It’s also about building up your communication skills so you know how to get to win-win with your wife (and others).And, with your wife, learning how to create fun, flirting and passion.But what’s the fastest way to do that?Learn how to accelerate your progress and results in this episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving man who is looking to save his marriage, join us in The Strong Man System. You’ll learn EXACTLY how to become the strongest and most attractive version of yourself, which is the MOST LIKELY thing to win your wife back. CLICK HERE to join now. http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me
19 minutes | Jul 13, 2021
How To Show Your Wife You Are Changing
“Don’t tell me, SHOW me!”This is what your wife says when you tell her that you are going to change.Most men go about this the wrong way.They try to show their wife they are changing by doing more dishes, buying more gifts, or sending lots of text messages saying they’re sorry.NONE OF THESE WORK.Because they’re not addressing the CORE issues that drove your wife away.Learn what those core issues are…How to change them…And how to SHOW your wife those changes…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re ready to become the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself… which is the MOST LIKELY thing to win your wife back… join us in The Strong Man System. It will be the best $2500 you’ve ever invested.
16 minutes | Jul 6, 2021
When Your Wife Ignores Your Texts
A member of The Strong Man System recently asked what to do when your wife ignores your text messages.It is VERY difficult when this happens.But, it's also an OPPORTUNITY.Your response will show your TRUE COLORS as a man and a husband.Will you respond with ANGER? With DESPERATION?This will show her that she is RIGHT in creating more distance from you.That you are emotionally IMMATURE and UNSAFE.Or, will you respond with UNDERSTANDING and CALM?This will show her that you are an ATTRACTIVE man who is emotionally SAFE.Learn how to do this in today's episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. To learn the 3 FATAL MISTAKES high achieving men make when trying to save their marriage… and what to do instead… click here. P.P.S. If you're ready to become the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself... which is the MOST LIKELY thing to win your wife back.... enroll in The Strong Man System here.
19 minutes | Jun 29, 2021
How To Think About Sex
As a man, you think about sex a lot.But, the WAY you’re thinking about it is causing problems.Often men think that they can “earn” sex from their wife.They try to earn sex “helping out” around the house. Cooking, cleaning, taking care of kids.They try to earn sex by doing the love languages. Spending time with her, saying nice things to her, buying her gifts.Basically, they try to create a sort of “debt” for their wife.They think “I’ve done so much for you, now you should have sex with me.”This sense of OBLIGATION is COMMON… but NOT attractive.Your wife might have sex with you out of obligation…But it’s not the passionate, connected sex you want.Learn what to do instead in today’s episode.So you can bring FUN, FLIRTING and PASSION to your marriage…And make sex something that you BOTH look forward to.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. Today is the LAST DAY to get all the bonuses of The Strong Man System. If you enroll today, you’ll get:-LIFETIME access to the program materials (90 day access after today)-30 day access to mentors to help you through the process-30 day Unlimited Q&A with me so you’ll know EXACTLY how to apply the materials-30 day access to my 1 on 1 office hours to ask questions and practice difficult conversationsCLICK HERE to enroll today.
63 minutes | Jun 22, 2021
Save Your Marriage: The 3 FATAL MISTAKES High-Achieving Men Make... And What To Do Instead
You’re a high achieving man who is used to success in his life.But now, your marriage is on the brink of failure.Infidelity. Separation. Faith crisis. “I love you but I’m not in love with you.” Divorce talks or filing. Your wife’s interest in another man.You want to FIX this and WIN HER BACK!Unfortunately, this “get after it” approach... That has worked so well in many areas of your life…Does NOT work when it comes to winning your wife back.Learn why in this presentation.If you feel like you’re not making any progress on winning her back…You’re making at least 1, if not all 3, of the common mistakes high achieving men make.We’ll cover all 3 of those mistakes…And what to do instead…In this presentation.CLICK HERE to watch now. CLICK HERE to enroll in The Strong Man System.Dr. MikeP.S. There are 2,046 divorces EVERY DAY in the United States. That’s about 80 EVERY HOUR. And 80% of those are filed by the wife. Take the time NOW to start watching this training. You don’t have time to waste. CLICK HERE to watch now. CLICK HERE to enroll in The Strong Man System.
22 minutes | Jun 15, 2021
How To Listen Without Trying To Fix It
As high achieving men, we’re used to fixing problems. And we’re good at it.So, when our wife comes to us to talk about a problem, we naturally want to try and fix it.Unfortunately, this often backfires.She feels like we don’t really understand her.And we’re frustrated because she doesn’t want to hear our (expert) advice.Today you’ll learn what to do INSTEAD of trying to fix her problem.So that when she comes to you feeling frustrated or upset, you’ll know EXACTLY how to turn that frustration into MORE connection and attraction.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System officially opens next week. It’s the best it’s ever been and will help you learn EXACTLY how to become the strongest, most attractive version of yourself to give you the best shot of saving your marriage. Watch for it next week, and if you haven’t joined my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join now.
19 minutes | Jun 8, 2021
The Nice Guy, The Bad Boy and The Strong Man
In the book "The Noble Art of Seducing Women" by Kezia Noble, she identifies 3 types of men.The nice guy.The bad boy.And the good man.For us, we'll call the third the Strong Man.These same guys show up in marriages.The nice guy puts his wife above himself in ALL ways, hoping that someday she will return the favor with attention, appreciation and affection (sex).The nice guy gets walked on. And hopes someday he will be appreciated for it.The bad boy puts himself first in ALL ways. He knows what he wants, and he does what he wants. His wife or girlfriend doesn’t matter that much.The bad boy walks on his wife. It’s his way or the highway.The strong man, on the other hand, puts what he wants EQUALLY to what his wife wants. He works for solutions that are wins for BOTH him AND his wife.The strong man walks TOGETHER with his wife, in a marriage that feels amazing to both of them.Learn more about these three men, and how to become the strong man, in this episode.Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System will be coming out very soon. It’s new and improved with more and better benefits than ever before, including times to work with me 1 on 1. Watch for it in the next week or two, and if you’re not on my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join the list.P.P.S. If you don’t want to wait and want to join The Strong Man System RIGHT NOW, you can CLICK HERE to join. The finishing touches are still being applied, but the meat is there and if you are ready to act NOW, let’s get to work.
17 minutes | Jun 1, 2021
How To Create Emotional Safety In Marriage
Women typically want two things in a marriage: security and romance.Being an emotionally safe person provides security.It lets her know that you value her. That you will be there for her. That she matters to you.Learn how to provide this emotional safety and sense of security in today’s episode.Also, see why you can’t wait for your spouse to be perfectly “emotionally safe” before you bring up difficult issues.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System will be coming out very soon. It’s new and improved with more and better benefits than ever before, including times to work with me 1 on 1. Watch for it in the next few days, and if you’re not on my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join the list.
21 minutes | May 25, 2021
How To Stop Worrying About Your Marriage
Right now you’re worried about the future of your marriage.Will you get divorced?Will you get separated?Will your wife have another affair?You think your life will basically be over if these things happen.And that makes you try to STOP these things from happening… using EXTREME measures.Changing yourself. Doing the 5 love languages. Spying on her. However, these actions are motivated by FEAR. And FEAR is not ATTRACTIVE to your wife.It drives her AWAY. And makes all these negative outcomes MORE likely.Learn what to do INSTEAD in today’s episode.So you can approach these situations with CALM and CONFIDENCE… which are ATTRACTIVE to your wife.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System is being updated and will available very soon! In the meantime, I do have a few 1 on 1 spots available. You can schedule a consultation here.
29 minutes | May 18, 2021
When She Says She Needs Space
When your wife says she “needs space,” what does that actually mean?It means she needs space from your NEGATIVE and UNATTRACTIVE thoughts and behaviors.Learn the top 3 negative things she needs space from…And how to CHANGE them…In this episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary-DO NOT use the “no contact” rule, as this will create MORE distance between you and your wife-Be friendly and cordial-STOP one-up thinking and behaviors and realize how damaging they are-Stop being NEEDY and start being CONFIDENT -Stop PRESSURING her and start being a great CHOICE and understanding she has the FREEDOM to choose you or notDr. MikeP.S. Next week I’ll be opening my 30 day program to Win Your Wife Back. It’s a high intensity program for men who are ready to work hard to save their marriage. Watch for it next week. And if you’re interested in 1 on 1 work as an individual or couple, CLICK HERE to schedule a consult.
22 minutes | May 11, 2021
How To Sell Your Wife On The New You
You want to show your wife you’re changing.But you’re going about it all wrong.It’s not about maximizing the good and minimizing the bad.It’s not about making the “pros” outweigh the “cons.”It’s about DIAGNOSING your problems and TREATING them.It’s about being BRUTALLY HONEST about your shortcomings to yourself and your wife.ONLY then can she start to trust you…And have ANY belief or hope that things can change.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Which used car salesman do you trust more? The one who minimizes all the car defects, or the one who brings them to your attention… including the ones you didn’t notice yourself?-If you’re just about proving you’re a good choice, you’re showing you don’t really care about your wife. You just want to “make the sale.”-Instead, get CLEAR on your faults and why you are NOT a good choice for her-Then go about fixing them-Join The Strong Man System or work with me 1 on 1 to learn how to diagnose and fix those problems, so you can be a great choice and create an amazing marriage… no matter how bad things are right now.Dr. MikeP.S. Visit this page http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me to work with me to help save your marriage.
25 minutes | May 4, 2021
I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You
Women want two things in a marriage.Security and romance.If you’re hearing “I love you but I’m not in love with you,” she’s missing one or both of these things.Learn how to provide BOTH security AND romance in this episode.So you and your wife can both feel “in love” with each other again.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Security is provided by having a strong sense of self, being a man of your word, a man on a mission, being willing to stand up to and for your wife, and having the mental and emotional maturity to get to win-win-Romance is provided by owning your sexuality, and directing it towards your wife in a fun, playful and attractive way-You can learn how to do BOTH of these things-I can teach you how to do them in my courses and 1 on 1 workDr. MikeP.S. If you’d like to work with me to save your marriage, as an individual or a couple, schedule a 20 minute consultation. We’ll see where you are in your marriage, where you want to go, and whether I can help you get there. CLICK HERE to schedule.
20 minutes | Apr 27, 2021
Why "Being One" In Marriage Is A Problem
The movies, church, and society teach us to “be one” in a marriage.But, we often misunderstand what this means.We become TOO blended with our wife.We become overly focused on “making her happy” and winning her approval (attention, appreciation and affection).A good marriage is like a good meal.Pasta and shrimp taste GREAT together.But if you put them in a blender and drink it…It doesn’t taste that great any more.Learn how to be TOGETHER in your marriage WITHOUT becoming overly blended in this episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/jprZYcdipl4Summary:-We become overly blended when our wife’s opinion becomes TOO important to us-Or when we seek TOO much for her approval (attention, appreciation, affection, sex)-Instead, we need to be our OWN man-AND learn how to work together with our wife-In ways that work for BOTH of us-You need the skills of confidence, communication, collaboration and intimacy to make that happen-You can learn ALL those skills in Marriage Basic TrainingCLICK HERE to join Marriage Basic Training.It CLOSES Friday, April 30th at Midnight pacific time.I’ll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. Marriage Basic Training will teach you EXACTLY how to have the confidence you need to have difficult conversations with your wife. You’ll learn how to get to where you are BOTH winning in money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, household work, and more. And I stand by my course. Do the work. If it’s not worth your investment, you get your investment back. CLICK HERE to join now.
22 minutes | Apr 20, 2021
How To End Resentment In Your Marriage
Resentment is a COMMON feeling in marriage.But, most people don’t know where it comes from or what to do about it.Overall, it comes from feeling like you are LOSING in your marriage…While your wife is WINNING.If you feel like you’re doing more than your fair share…Doing things you don’t really want to do…Or denying yourself things you really want…Resentment is sure to follow.Luckily, there’s a SIMPLE solution to completely ELIMINATE resentment in your marriage.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-If you’re feeling resentful in your marriage, you are either:--Doing things you don’t want to do--Denying yourself things you want to do--Doing things for your wife expecting her to do the same for you (without asking her clearly)-Overall, it feels like you’re losing and she’s winning-Instead, decide what’s a win for you-Understand what’s a win for your wife-And find a win for BOTH of youDr. MikeP.S. If you listen to the podcast, write a review on Apple Podcasts or wherever you’re listening. Let’s get to 100 reviews!P.P.S. If you’re ready to learn EXACTLY how to have a fun, happy and intimate marriage, let’s work together to get you there. Visit http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me to learn how.
22 minutes | Apr 13, 2021
How To Put The Past In The Past And Move Forward
A lot of men complain that their wife can’t seem to move past their mistakes.They just keep bringing up the past.Whether they’ve made big mistakes like an affair, or smaller mistakes like not listening to their wife…They just want to forget about it and move forward.They get frustrated when they make the changes their wife wants to see…But their wife doesn’t seem to appreciate those changes.This lack of appreciation can cause them to stop trying, which just makes things worse.Learn how to break out of this cycle once and for all in this episode…And put the past in the past once and for all.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Asking for forgiveness MINIMIZES the damage you’ve done-Stop trying to “dig yourself out of the hole” with good behavior-Instead, decide who YOU want to be as a man-And ask for your wife’s FEEDBACK to tell you when you’re not being that man-Asking for and being open to feedback shows EXTREME emotional strength-Which is very ATTRACTIVE to your wifeDr. MikeP.S. Want to work together in depth to build up your strength and create a happy, long-lasting and passionate marriage? Apply to join The Strong Man System here.
30 minutes | Apr 6, 2021
How To Put On The Armor Of God
Satan is attacking men, marriages and families CONSTANTLY.Every day, 130 people commit suicide. Of those, 90 are men.50% of marriages end in divorce. 40-80% of married people are unhappy in their marriage.42% of Americans are obese.The average savings for people age 20-40 is $2,000.Satan’s goal is to make us WEAK and MISERABLE.God wants us to be STRONG,JOYFUL and INDEPENDENT.We defend ourselves and defeat Satan by putting on the armor of God.Learn how to do that in practical, tactical ways in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Align yourself with God by being in integrity-Use your sexuality in ways that are consistent with who YOU want to be-Recognize there is right and wrong, and align yourself with right-Identify your purpose and mission and move towards that-Have the faith to do what is right and let the consequence follow (exposing your errors, fighting for win-win in your life and marriage)-Fill your thoughts with light and truth-Be in line with God’s Spirit and speak His words to influence othersDr. MikeP.S. Are you ready to be a leader in our army of principled men and build your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical, financial and sexual strength in practical, measurable ways? Visit MikeFrazierMD.com to apply to join us in The Strong Man System.Dr. Mike
63 minutes | Mar 30, 2021
Marriage Basic Training: The 5 Essential Skills For A Happy Marriage
You want a happy marriage. One where you wake up feeling like the luckiest man alive.Where you go to work feeling strong and confident, because you know your wife has your back.Where you come home to a wife who smiles and jumps into your arms when you come home.Where you sit down to a dinner of laughter and connection with your family.After dinner, you sit and talk with your wife about your hopes, dreams and fears, feeling more connected than ever.You head to bed for a night of passion and connection.You go to bed thinking “I can’t believe this is my life.”You CAN have this kind of marriage.You just have to master 5 skills to get there.In this episode I’ll show you what they are.And, how you can learn them in just 6 weeks through my Marriage Basic Training program.Dr. MikeP.S. Enrollment for Marriage Basic Training CLOSES Thursday, April 1st at Midnight Pacific Time. CLICK HERE to join us.
30 minutes | Mar 23, 2021
How Satan Is Trying To Destroy Your Marriage
Remember, Satan’s goal is to make us miserable.If you’re feeling miserable in your marriage right now, Satan is winning!Satan is on a mission to destroy your marriage, and he uses certain tactics to do it.The more we are aware of these tactics, the better we can combat them.Learn what some of them are, and how to counteract them, in this episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-If you’re feeling guilty or resentful in your marriage… it’s a clue that you need to be more honest-If you are upset you’re not getting enough attention, appreciation or affection… you need to see if you’re becoming codependent-If you often feel like you don’t understand your wife or that her opinions are dumb… you are likely becoming prideful and possibly narcissistic or sadistic-If you feel you don’t have time for your marriage… you need to get your priorities straight-If sex isn’t how you want it… you need to look at how you’re approaching it and whether you’re integrating it in a useful wayDr. MikeP.S. Watch for my new program, Basic Marriage Training: Essential Skills For A Happy Marriage, opening next week. Having a happy marriage isn’t a matter of chance, or even finding “the one.” It’s about learning to build trust, have fun, communicate clearly and enjoy great intimacy. And you’ll learn EXACTLY how to do that in this course. Take this survey to make sure you get YOUR questions answered in my free training next week. https://forms.gle/8QRiAHKHdUKTtk8GA.
36 minutes | Mar 18, 2021
Is Masturbation A Sin?
This is a big question for many members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.But, it's the wrong question.Today I'm joined by Daniel Burgess, DanielABurgess.com, a Marriage and Family Therapist and member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.We review some of the Church's teachings about sexuality and masturbation over time, which Daniel has studied extensively and reported about on his website.But, in our personal work and work with clients, we've discovered that the question "is masturbation a sin" leads you down the wrong path.Learn the better questions to ask in today's episode.Summary:-The question “is masturbation a sin” reflects rigid, black or white and somewhat immature thinking-The better questions to ask are “how do I want to use my sexuality?” and “is this thinking and behavior drawing me closer to God and my wife, or pulling me away?”-The law of chastity and scriptures do not specifically mention masturbation-Use personal revelation to see how masturbation fits (or doesn’t fit) into your life and marriageDr. MikeP.S. Watch for my new program, Essential Skills For A Happy Marriage, opening at the end of this month. Having a happy marriage isn’t a matter of chance, or even finding “the one.” It’s about learning to build trust, have fun, communicate clearly and enjoy great intimacy. And you’ll learn EXACTLY how to do that in this course. Watch for the course in 2 weeks. If you haven’t joined my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join so you can be notified when it opens.
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