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Dr. Jess O'Reilly is an acclaimed international sex educator, author, and podcaster. This episode we talk about core erotic feelings, sexual values, "laziness" in relationships, and even why you shouldn't JIC (just in case) pee!   Dr. Jess: https://www.sexwithdrjess.com/   Book mentioned: https://www.amazon.com/Laziness-Exist-Devon-Price-Ph-D/dp/1982140100   Past episode on pelvic floor therapy: https://slutsscholars.libsyn.com/148-the-pelvic-whisperer-with-dr-sherine-aubert-pt-dpt-prpc   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Rachel Steele pioneered the MILF niche as America’s Mom. In this episode we talk about the popularity and taboo of incest porn, being a good Mommy (and a Mom), relational age disparities, grief, fantasies, ageism, and more. Happy Mother's Day!   Ads: 15% off and free shipping: www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS   Rachel Steele: https://rachel-steele.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode welcomes back Vanessa Marin, who has now teamed up with her awesome partner Xander to become the dream duo for partnered sex and relationship advice. The three of us talk about farting and pooping in front of partners (are you for or against?), mental loads, trying new things in the bedroom, how to come back to the moment when you get distracted during sex, and more. Check them out:https://vmtherapy.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com   Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Come learn about love tech with Lovewick app founder Ali Maggioncalda. We talk about how to work on your relationship by staying committed to curiosity. We even answer some of the questions on the Lovewick cards about our own sexual and relational preferences. Also included: sologamy, aftercare, and Zelda!   Ads: 15 % off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS   Lovewick: https://www.lovewick.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode feautures clinical sexologist, sex coach, and author Cyndi Darnell. We talk all about how to have more pleasure through erotic embodiment.   Ads: Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands   Cyndi: https://cyndidarnell.com/   Cyndi's Journal Articles: https://cyndidarnell.com/published-works/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week I am joined by Rachel Facio & Stacey Sherrell, the duo behind Decoding Couples. We talk about the silliest fights we’ve had with our partners (and what they were actually about), fighting fairly, best and worst things to do during a disagreement, initiating and declining sex, and some fun facts with Dino Nuggets and Petey Pablo (you’ll understand when you listen).    Ads: 15% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitten.com/SandS   Decoding Couples:  https://www.decodingcouples.com/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode features Dr. Mitchell Tepper- sexuality researcher, educator, filmmaker, and coach. We talk about his documentary Love After War: Saving Love, Saving Lives, which tells the stories of intimate partners who have won the battle for love. We also cover spinal cord injuries and pleasure as well PTSD, different kinds of disabilities and how they affect sex and relationships.   The Doc: https://www.loveafterwar.org/   Dr. Tepper: https://www.drmitchelltepper.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week I am joined by internationally renowned author, counselor, and speaker Michaela Boehm. We talk about erotic archetypes, listening to our bodies, and her Non-Linear Movement Method®, a somatic release modality which utilizes principles of trauma therapy, polyvagal theory and movement for nervous system regulation (with a demo!).   Ads: 15% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitten.com/sands   Michaela: https://www.michaelaboehm.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

In this episode, I co-host with burlesque icon and past guest Michelle L'amour! This episode is actually PART TWO of a bonus feature about pleasure in honor of our upcoming event InToPleasure (on April 2) and features 2022 Sexpert of the Year Amy Baldwin from the podcast Shameless Sex. You can catch part 1 on Shameless Sex wherever you get your podcasts.   event: https://intopleasure.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week The Funny Dom returns to answer listener questions. These questions range from tips for the beginner kinkster to ideas for the seasoned player. We cover how to meet kinky people, how to vet potential partners, how to get started into kink/ bdsm play, DDLG fun in public and private, getting in touch with your inner child, handling jealousy, and why jelly beans are hot. If somehow none of this sounds appealing, tune in for his Australian accent. InToPleasure: https://intopleasure.com/   Funny Dom: https://www.patreon.com/thefunnydom   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Did you want to hear more about Jessica‘s relationship from last weeks episode? I certainly did! This week features Jessica and her partner Lauren. They talk about how an accidental threesome turned into a beautiful polyamorous love story and shared business. We discuss how to negotiate threesomes in and out of the bedroom, how to manage multiple partners, jealousy, goddess retreats, loving women, and lots of other sexy goodness. Also, happy bday to Lauren!    Ads:  - 65% off Beducated’s annual pass: http://beducate.me/sands   - 15 % off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS   Jessica:  https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/   Lauren:  https://instagram.com/lolo_urbiztondo?utm_medium=copy_link   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week I am joined by Jessica Esfandiary, retreat leader and host of the Open Late podcast. We talk about how an accidental threesome turned into polyamory. We also discuss how to work through opening up your relationship, falling in love again (with yourself and others), hysterectomies, vaginal health, and more.    Ads:  65% off Beducated's yearly pass http://beducate.me/sands Extended 30 day free trial at Dipseastories.com/sands Jessica: https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Ifetayo Harvey of the POC Psychedelic Collective joins in for a conversation about psychedelic assisted therapies as well as her own experience with the war on drugs and plant medicine. We cover drug policy reform, cultural roots of psychedelic medicine, harm reduction, and Ifetayo's own healing experiences.   Ads: - Join me at my upcoming event IntoPleasure: https://intopleasure.com/ - Like A Kitten 20% off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS - 65% off Beducated's yearly pass with our code "sands" at http://beducate.me/sands     Ifetayo: https://www.ifetayo.me/ https://www.pocpc.org/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Bex Caputo is a sex educator, blogger, speaker, podcaster, and professional pervert. We talk about how to get more comfortable and confident with sexting, “dirty” talk, and erotica.   Ads: - Check out Lioness.io for some amazing technology! You can even enter to win a free Lioness on my Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tv/CaEEqgLF2iU/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link - Upcoming IntoPleasure: A Pleasure Positive Event https://intopleasure.com/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Goddexx Daphne (They/She/Daddy) is a Pro Dominatrix and FemDom clip creator in Portland, Oregon. As a queer Domme, Daphne enjoys embodying the role of a Femme Daddy and playing with submissives, or subs, of all genders. We talk about Daddy culture, different types of consensual non-consent (including something called coerced bisexual), using BDSM to work through sexual shame, and more.    Ads: - Like a Kitten, 20% off and free shipping: www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS - Buy a Lioness at lioness.io and enter to win one @slutsandscholars on Instagram. Check out the Lioness Giveaway post for info. Winner announced week of 2/28   My guest: Goddexx Daphne: https://goddexxdaphne.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Challenging the status quo of the media, medical field, and internal belief systems about the identities of those living with a sexually transmitted infection, Courtney and his organization Something Positive for Positive People are bringing awareness to the interconnectedness of mental health and sexual health. We talk about herpes and other STI’s, how to negotiate sexual play, and how to deal with shame and stigma.   Ads: - Lioness: Go to @slutsandscholars on insta for a chance to win a free Lioness or go buy one now at Lioness.io   - 65% off Beducated’s yearly pass at http://beducate.me/sands Courtney: https://www.spfpp.org/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Welcome back to a new season! This episode focuses on surrogate partner therapy, sexological body work, and somatic sex coaching.   Ads: - 20% off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS - Extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands   Court Vox: https://thebodyvox.com/   Back to the Body: https://backtothebody.org/   Squirm: https://www.everybodysquirm.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Ian Ferguson is a Master Trainer of the Erotic Blueprint™ Methodology and co-founder of Jaiya, Inc., a company dedicated to radically transforming how society discusses and experiences sex. You may have seen them on Sex, Love, and Goop. Tune in to learn more about your blueprint and bust the myth of sexual compatibility.  https://missjaiya.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week I am joined by sex educator, speaker, and coach Marla Renee Stewart. We talk about her new book An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy: Centering the Lives of Indigenous, Racialized, and People of Color. We also talk about her amazing events including Sex Down South and Dick Fest, as well as ways to heal through acts of self love.     Ads: - Go to GETQUIP.com/SANDS RIGHT NOW and on top of their holiday savings, you’ll get your first refill FREE. - Check out YourParade.com/sands and use code sands to get 20 % off your first order - 10% off and free shipping when you use my code sands at UberLube.com Marla Renee Stewart: https://www.velvetlipssexed.com/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode talks about a recent controversy in the news regarding Dr. Allyn Walker's research on minor attraction and childhood sexual abuse. I first share the importance of this topic and its nuanced complexities, then I interview a non-offending minor attracted person named Richard Kramer, who discusses what it is like to live with these highly stigmatized desires. Other topics covered: abuse prevention, academic freedom, and stigma related stress.      Ads:  - 10% off and free shipping at uberlube.com with code sands - 30% off any Satisfyer https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H - 30 day free extended trial dipseastories.com/sands   Jezebel article: https://jezebel.com/professor-on-leave-after-comments-about-people-attracte-1848089269   B4U-Act: https://www.b4uact.org/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.