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This is the context to my disagreement with the “don’t ask God to take away battles, ask him for strength to fight them instead”. I was not put on earth to spend my life fighting battles, there’s better things to do. And I will ask God for those better things.

A fun episode about cultural differences that show up in how we greet Caucasians and why that might be a problem with hilarious consequences.

This is to those of you who allow others to shake your faith. Others who themselves didn’t take their own advice but don’t want you to even try.

Just my thoughts on why some backwards movement in life isn’t always a sign of stagnancy or retrogression. I mean, cars have a reverse gear for a reason.

This draws from a teachable moment that proves you should not act believing that you will never be found out but rather, act in a way that you can justify WHEN (not if) it comes out.

No matter how well intended, nobody will give you enough knowledge to enable you challenge their control over you. Don’t celebrate crumbs when you deserve loaves of bread for the value you are bringing your said “mentors” and “superiors”. Get exposure and find your true self worth, because whether you do or you don’t, life keeps moving ahead and it is your own time being wasted.

I read an article on whether society really need gender equality or just equitable treatment? I found it fascinating as you can hear from my breathless summary. The overarching question is: “has gender equality killed chivalry?” You tell me!

Everybody wants to remember Jesus as the sweet and kind healer and provides. He was also the one who scattered the temple, insulted the clergy, cavorted with a prostitute and tax payer and generally refused to conform to the society of his time. He was the original table shaker.

This is to explain the concept of serving jail term by proxy as alleged by Femi Falana and why it MUST end.

Akak mi idighe ekpri mfinemi

This is the context for my tweet this morning. I’m sick of Nigerians selfish no boundaries and honestly won’t tolerate it any more. Your self inflicted inconvenience does not constitute a real emergency and you have no right to inconvenience others.

Following from the blog post on stereotyping young Nigerian men and the trauma that it brings, I caught up with music superstar SHNEVS for his experience on the issue.

Knowing when to fold up your business is as critical as other business decisions. This is my take on taking a step back to evaluate your business instead of swimming in despair because you want to “just keep going”

This is my take on the debate around strangers right to call people by their first names even when they object to it. My view on why this is a generational debate and what you should do going forward.

This is my sombre appeal against suicide. Don’t let anyone exaggerate your issues and make you think that the only way out is suicide. There’s nothing new under the sun and all your issues can be solved with time.

This is in response to @PetitUdy who asked “how do I charge my friends for service I used to provide for free now their business is profitable, without jeopardising our friendship?”. Simple answer: You charge them with a straight face! LOL!

In this episode I’m responding to a question on which parts of our daily lives can benefit from having written documentation or contracts.

I finally found an example of why I insist that emotional conversations are useless and I do not know how to have them. What you say must be grounded in logic and reality or I will inject a dose of it for you. Either that or don’t let me see or hear it.

Here’s a quick run down on why some say Rinu’s Twitter Spaces with Bukola Saraki is hypocritical. A bit of recent history and putting the bigger picture together for you. Let me knows which side of the argument you fall under.

Countless times couples face avoidable lifelong issues that a pre-wedding medical clearance would have highlighted. Should people check their ability to have kids as a prerequisite for marriage? Or just follow love wherever it may lead?