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Today on Session's with Steven brought to you by the Shy Man's Dating School.com, I speak to Colin Pomeroy about auditing yours and his life! We take a look at all the areas of his life that aren't working from the disheveled closet to the lackluster apartment to holding on to junk for no reason! We'll help you evaluate your mess and tell you how to clean it up!   Specifically we speak about:   -It ain't nothing until you call it something! Become a man and own your life. Don't let mediocre objects control you! - How to reshape your apartment and prioritise what's important to get done NOW and what you can tackle later. - And… on a totally different topic,  how the pick up artist movement can help you gain power in approaching groups of women! - Plus many more tips and ideas of getting your OWN life audit started!

Today on the Shy Man's Dating School Podcast Series, I speak with Art of Charm's founder and all round extraordinaire, Jordan Harbinger. A former finance attorney turned dating and social coach, he captains the Art of Charm podcast and interviews everything from relationship experts to entrepreneurs. The Art of Charm also runs week long Attraction Arts boot camps that take ordinary guys and teach them the charisma, art of persuasion and life skills needed to become an extraordinary man.   Specifically Jordan and I speak about:   -The Value of the Coach: - How information doesn't change who you are... training and feedback does - The Identity level shift: What it takes to completely shift your way of thinking - How the Art of Charm works on every aspect of your personality: non verbal - verbal communication, changing the way you sit, stand, walk and think. - The sensitivity factor and emotional intelligence - Persuasion skill sets and the know how you need - And he tells you the BIGGEST THING that is blocking you from attaining what you want out of your life!

It can be the same sad story without you even realizing it. So learn to identify when you're slipping back to your own predictable self. I coach Colin Pomeroy through his latest relationship dilemma. We explore the issues surrounding serial dating and the "open relationship" myth. Is there a double standard? I coach Colin to push past the guilt and uncover why he's feeling guilt-ridden… a sign he's slipping back into old habits.

Standing up to the critics! Part of Colin's 30 Day Challenge hasn't come without some resistance. Today on Session's with Steven brought to you by the Shy Man's Dating School Podcast Series,  Colin and I address the critics of the 30 Day - 30 Date Challenge, all of which are women.  I tell Colin: -To be his authentic self using radical honesty instead of trying to please the masses.  -That hiding your true motives and true intentions means you're being manipulative - That worrying about other's people emotions means you're trying to manage their reactions. - To stop being the Nice Guy, stop worrying about what people think! - And that he needs to feel that sense of urgency to get things done, because time is running out! - Plus we talk about the 30 Day - 30 Date Challenge and more!

Is she using sex as a weapon? Today on Sessions with Steven, I decode what a woman means when she says, "I'm just not feeling it tonight." I give Colin the guidelines on how to respond so that she doesn't use sex as a tool.

I coach my client Colin through his new 30 day challenge, the 30 date challenge. Giving Colin a dose of tough love, I shut down any and all of Colin's excuses as to why he has hasn't hit his goals in this challenge. Playing hardball, listen in as I squash Colin's insecurities and set him on a path of success, giving him tips to move forward. You can follow his challenges at colinpomeroy.com. COLIN AND I SPECIFICALLY SPEAK ABOUT: Taking the Hero's journey, the trials and tribulations of trying to mobolize yourself when you're freaking out. Not wallowing in self pity when things don't materialize and life gets you overwhelmed. Wallowing leads to more Wallowing. Real tips Colin and YOU can enact today to pump yourself up and get things DONE.

Stack the odds in your favor. I coach Colin on  how to stack the odds in his favor when meeting women. He'll set straight the myths of the after work party scene and tell you how to manifest greater odds so that you can get laid.  Colin and I speak about:  - Avoiding the upscale after-work drinking scene, where judgements run high - Crushing the pick up artist rep and going after what you want: women, at all times of the day - Squashing the insecurities of what people think about you. Breaking news, no one really cares what you're doing day to day, so stop worrying about what they perceive, and start living a fantastic life. - Locations for meeting women

Today on Sessions with Steven brought to you by Shy Man's Dating School Podcast Series, Colin and I decipher the signals women send. The signals are not what they seem! DURING THIS SESSION, COLIN AND I SPEAK ABOUT: Decoding text messages: timing does matter! Communication: What women mean versus what they say: it isn't literal! Understanding the relationship dynamic: taking as much space as you're given Taking a stand and outlining the relationship to her

Athol Kay from Married Man Sex Life is an author who has written The Mindful Attraction Plan, The Married Man Sex Life Primer and How to Answer "Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat" … And Get Laid Like Tile.  Funny, lighthearted and realistic,  Athol looks at what doesn't work and gives real world advice on how you can get results not only in your relationship, but how it can transfer into having a better career, a healthier lifestyle and ultimately, an entertaining life. Today on the Shy Man's Dating School Podcast Series, Athol tells you about the officer and first commander relationship, how to create the best possible positive energy flow to make your life better and he taps into how taking charge can actually take a low key approach and how instead of demanding submission, you can evoke it.

Today on Session's with Steven, brought to you by Shy Man's Dating School Podcast Series, Colin is midway through his 30 day rejection challenge! He shares his story about his charge in the bedroom and guiding the girl into doing what he wants her to do. It's a concrete changing point! SPECIFICALLY, COLIN AND I TALK ABOUT: How to take the lead in the bedroom, the easy ways to let her know what you want Establishing boundaries… avoid awkwardness. I'll tell you one great tip on an easy way to open up communication in sex Being real and honest with her if you want to play the field. How to get that conversation going… tip, be upfront right away And the surprising thing that can happen when you tell her you're not looking for anything serious… watch as your attractive value increases

Mark Zolo is the Naughty Nomad. Having traveled to over 90 countries, he's authored the bestselling book, The Naughty Nomad, where he shares his insane adventures, including wild sex in foreign places, drug smuggling, incarceration in Siberia and border jumping in Sudan. He's the travel expert in getting laid.   DURING THIS EPISODE, MARK AND I COVER:   -American women vs foreign women: which ones are easier to date, relate to and have sex with? -How to get the balls to book that ticket overseas and start traveling, so you can meet the foreign women who will blow your mind. -The best language to learn to impress women overseas. -The top 3 jobs you should do if you want to meet women. -How hanging with guys that have the same goals will help you achieve yours. -The importance of Neil Strauss's "The Game" and the game of "flagging". -And the shocking thing you should stop doing if you want to increase your libido… warning, this will be hard to do!

Take the leap and be brutally honest! Today on Sessions with Steven, Colin recaps his first week of the 30 Day Rejection Challenge. Out of 5 attempts, he gets 1 phone number. As a result, he's been out dating women! Listen in to hear what works and what doesn't work in getting a number from a woman. SPECIFICALLY, COLIN AND I SPEAK ABOUT: Colin's recounts of his adventure in "straight up" honesty and directness in entering no-strings attached dates How to take the lead with women and its simplicity (like grabbing her hand!) What to do when given the "side cheek" kiss at the end of the date His insights on feeling OK with the girls who say no (rejection is comfortable!) Pushing through insecure moments, facing your fears and diving in His experience of a woman expressing to him, "assertiveness is attractive"

I speak with Roy Sheppard about the warning signs of women you find to be just too good to be true. Roy is an ex BBC presenter, an expert conference and business moderator and author of many books including the controversial "That Bitch: Protect Yourself Against Women with Malicious Intent". His YouTube channel, The Dangerous Women, has attracted more than 500,000 hits from topics on working with dangerous women to the tricks they use and personality disorders. He also gives couples advice and has a due diligence checklist available for free at www.royspeaks.com/DD.  His most recent books, aimed at 15-25 year olds, are designed to give youth practical, no-nonsense advice on everything from self esteem, relationships and what it  means to be you.

Kick start your fitness goals, build muscle and create habits with James Clear. He is an entrepreneur, weightlifter and travel photographer who founded jamesclear.com, where he shares his well researched insights on ways to build muscle, reverse injury and transform your habits. In this episode you can learn how to set realistic goals, what James learned from training with Olympic weightlifters, the 3 by 5 morning routine, and more.

The time has arrived! With the 30 day rejection challenge being only one day away and before Colin's big breakthrough, listen in as he faces his fears and anxieties. Listen as he tries to convince me to back out and bail, and hear how I turn it around and give him the support he needs to put himself out there.  We also talk about how the unconscious mind works in trying to protect you by throwing out anxious thoughts and fears and physical aspects, like weak knees, clammy hands, increased heart rate, etc. We learn how to break through the anxiety and challenge your own self

Get off the couch, go out and do it! That's how Andrew Ferebee went from sitting there, thinking about meeting women, to actually going out and getting dates. He left that corporate job and followed his passion so that he could create his own happiness. He traveled off the beaten path and became successful! How? Practice, practice, practice.  Today on Shy Man's Dating School Podcast, I talk to Andrew Ferebee who not only left the corporate ladder, but took a 30 day rejection challenge and started knowledgeformen.com. He shares his insights on what he's learned from taking the Art of Charm coaching course and how advancement only comes from understanding the fundamentals at a deeper level. 

Colin and I devise the ultimate challenge for Colin to get over his break up and to kickstart not only his dating and sex life, but his career too. Colin will undertake the scariest of Shy Guy challenges...asking AT LEAST 5 girls for their number, each and every day for 30 days! The ultimate test in rejection, listen in as I coach Colin through his initial fears and anxieties of putting yourself out there to the whole world to see and better yet, Colin's documenting his journey each and every day! Not only will you hear the roller coaster of Colin's emotions that any guy can relate to when facing a daunting challenge, but I will give tips on how to build body mass with protein in the second half of the episode. 

A consultant who has written the Male Style Guide and is the star of the Alpha M Dating Guide DVD series, Aaron Marino speaks with me about becoming THE Alpha Male. We discuss what that exactly means in this new day and age. His system, the Alpha M, compares this new Alpha to a Renaissance Man; a man that is an expert in many different areas of life and not just one. 

The moment you've been dreading your life happens... now what? Is it really that bad? Or were you just playing it up in your mind? Today on Sessions with Steven, I follow as Colin's deadline to find a new place in his dream neighborhood comes and goes. What ends up happening? Is he on the street? Did he manifest a new place? Has he been putting himself out there? And is he really in that bad of a situation?

The way that we look at modern day relationships is failing. With over 50 percent of marriages ending in divorce, high rates of infidelity in our fenced-in relationships and general unhappiness, something needs to shift. J.J. Roberts is the author of Sex 3.0: A Sexual Revolution Manual, that details the history of human sexual relationships before property or marriage even existed. Our outdated 2.0 sex life lifestyle, creates problems and duress that we can't handle, as evident in our high divorce rates. Today on the Shy Man's Dating School Podcast series, we talk to J.J. Roberts about creating a world of mutual understanding between men and women. Replacing our culture of fear, deception and need to control, with love, honesty and freedom of choice. In a Sex 3.0 world we have  a higher consciousness that allows us to choose a fenced or unfenced relationship.