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Today we talk about sexting. What is sexting? What are the laws on sexting, especially when people under 18 are involved?  How has sexting evolved and where is it going? We touch on revenge porn and other ways sexting can get you in trouble with the law.

I introduce Jess to "The Rules of the Game". A how to book written by Neil Strauss (2007) which helps men of all ages get a date in 30 days by completing tasks and putting themselves in uncomfortable situations. Jess and I talk about this book and find SOME useful tips that can be used. This book will most definitely divide people. Jess was on fire in this episode.

Jess and I revisit conspiracy theories  In this episode Jess gives an update on the #freebritney movement and I talk about MK Ultra, the secret CIA mind control program. Enjoy!

Sex robots have come a long way over the last 20 years or so. The more modern ones use AI so they can interact with the user to create a more realistic experience. In todays episode we talk about one of the latest sex robots, Harmony 3.0. Harmony uses AI, has a self lubricating vagina and can orgasm on her own. Jess and I discuss whether or not is considered cheating if you were to use one of these dolls while in a committed relationship. Jess explains how the attitude towards woman using sex toys has changed over time. From a negative to a positive, woman now are amongst some of the leader in sex toy production.

Ever wonder what it's like to live in prison? In this episode, Tim describes the unique environment inside San Pedro Prison, Bolivia. Jess takes us inside the grim prison world of Black Dolphin, Russia, and 'concentration camp' style prison Camp 22 in North Korea. 

This week we discuss many stories of how people ended up in the ER with some interesting things in some interesting places... Torn stomach lining, internal bleeding, and perforated organs are the result of some of these stories.

Ever wondered how long a human can stay awake for? Did you know that in the early stages of development inside the womb your anus is the first thing to form? What is exploding head syndrome? Jess and I take turns in sharing random facts about the body. We also share random stories and get completely sidetracked. Enjoy!  

Jess and I talk about ex-boyfriends/girlfriends. What is it like meeting your partner's ex? Why do we sometimes get nervous around our ex? Do you think it's ok to date a friend's ex? Jess shares some crazy ex stories she found online including a story where this girl's mum was sleeping with her daughter's boyfriend. This ended in the parents getting a divorce when nude photos of the affair were leaked. Join us for a laugh!

Does this sound insane to you...? Heroin-laced aspirin marketed towards children suffering from sore throats, coughs, and cold. Cocaine marketed as a treatment for toothaches and depression. Methamphetamine prescribed for people suffering from obesity and depression. Yep, this was happening from 1800 onwards. Jess and I discuss and laugh in disbelief.

Are monogamous relationships a thing of the past....? We discuss the major difference in both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. Can you love more than one person at a time? Does one style of relationship have a greater chance of love? Could you be in a non-monogamous relationship?

What are the benefits of microdosing psychedelics? Could microdosing psychedelics be a safer alternative to addictive pharmaceutical drugs? If weed is legal, why are so many people still being arrested and locked up for it? What was the outcome of Portugal decriminalising the use of ALL drugs in 2001? Should other countries adopt this drug policy? We talk about all this and more.  

Jess and I talk all things conspiracy theories. We go into detail on the #freebritney movement, the Mandela effect and Bob Lazar's work on UFO's inside Area 51 known as S4. Do you believe......?

In this first episode as a team, Jess and I dive into the BDSM world. Underground dungeons, sex slaves, pets, and more is exactly what you will learn about. We both researched and learned quite a bit about this hidden world. You probably didn't know there's a large chance you're already participating in some way or another. We can't wait for you to have a listen.

Jess and I revisit all things dating apps, sex, and relationships from episode 5 (Dating apps kill people, but we survived). Additional things we mention are why people fail at maintaining a fuck buddy, why people act/lie when first dating, robot sex dolls, how long should it be before having the "what are we chat" and the fact that a lot of guys like to be fingered but won't admit it. Enjoy! 

Is your plus one hiding something from you? Are you both on the same page when it comes to cheating? Jess and I talk about cheating, strippers and brothels. What happens when you mix them both.......

In this episode I catch up with a close friend from primary school. We were inseparable when we were younger. 15 years later, we catch up for a chat. We talk growing up together as well as Nath's 15 year career as a Paramedic in Sydney.

How experiences (positive/negative) throughout your life shape your moral compass and general outlook in life. A few random funnies in there as well.

In this episode Jess and I discuss the idea of guys having to get a vasectomy when they turn 18. How would this benefit both men and women? We try and look at this from both sexes point of view. How do you feel about this?

In this episode I take my listeners behind the scene. I explain to them why I started this podcast, why I chose the name Should You Say That, What value I hope to give my listeners and whats next.

Chris hijacks episode 6 as a punishment for not giving him enough notice to record. He steers me through some stand out fights I had while living with Dad, run ins I had with our step mum, getting dumped under the Eiffel tower and reminds me of the famous Club Med belting dad gave me for getting kicked out of kids club.