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A voicemail from a husband with three questions about his marriage. An email from a newer into marriage couple asking for resources to help spice things up. An email from a wife whose husband has turned into a lazy lover since introducing some sex toys into their encounters together. On the Xtended version ... How to address the conflict and struggle that comes with being more intimate with your spouse. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Lazy Lover #503 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Registration for the 2021 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway is now open. Click here to learn more.  An email from a husband who married a woman who was married before but he married as a virgin in his 40s. What are our thoughts on the Purity Movements that many of us grew up in and its impact on our married lives as adults. On the Xtended version ... Dealing with roommate syndrome in marriage. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Hello Fresh: Visit https://HelloFresh.com/smr10 and use code smr10 for 10 free meals, including free shipping! The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Purity Movements #502 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

As we enter into 2021 - what are your 3 Words to help shape your year? An email from a husband, on behalf of his wife, asking about how to venture into the world of self-exploration and sex toys. On the Xtended version ... Perhaps there is a better definition for intimacy. And this definition could change everything. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The post Self Exploration #501 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Several members of the SMR Nation join Pam and I as we celebrate 500 episodes. Come enjoy the party! On the Xtended version ... What have we learned from hosting over 500 episodes of hosting SMR? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Hello Fresh: Visit HelloFresh.com/smr10 and use code smr10 for 10 free meals, including free shipping! The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Let’s Celebrate 500 Episodes #500 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A wife emails us to point out that we have missed the boat when it comes to husbands letting themselves go physically and how that impacts sex. An email from a newlywed with a couple of questions about how to last longer and how to change up the order of things when sex is happening. On the Xtended version ... What are some simple things we can do each and every day to increase our connection in marriage and life? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Simple Dailies #499 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr Stephen Snyder joins me again to talk about all things sex. Namely, what if we're doing it all wrong? To learn more about Dr Snyder check out his site https://www.sexualityresource.com/ On the Xtended version ... Stephen and I shift the conversation to the statement he's made before about how better communication can ruin sex. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Doing It Wrong? #498 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Tripp Lanier, the host of The New Man Podcast, joins me today to talk about how playing it safe in life will dampen, if not destroy passion and energy in life and marriage. Hear more from Tripp here https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ On the Xtended version ... Tripp and I continue the conversation about living a dangerous life and how this has played out in Tripp's personal life. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... AcornTV: Escape to Britain and beyond without leaving your seat. Try Acorn TV free for 30 days, by going to https://acorn.tv and use our promo code smr. Hello Fresh: Visit https://HelloFresh.com/smr90 and use code smr90 to get a total of $90 off, including free shipping on your first box. The post Being Dangerous #497 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Pam and I have a Coffee Shop Conversation about the question: How often are complaints by your spouse heard as a request? An email from a husband who repeatedly is looking for ways to get his wife interested in sex, yet is met with phrases like "All you ever think about is sex" or "Quit looking at me like a piece of meat." On the Xtended version ... What is it that makes us so afraid of being alone? Does the idea of sitting alone in a room with no distractions terrify you? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The post Complaint or Request #496 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr J.W. Freiberg, "Terry", joins me to discuss the epidemic of loneliness. It is a far too common issue and has negative results on our health and life. Learn more about Terry at his site http://thelonelinessbooks.com/ On the Xtended version ... Terry and I continue our conversation about loneliness - in particular the seasons of loneliness that we all will face. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr Story Worth: Give your loved ones the gift of spending time together, wherever you live. https://storyworth.com/smr The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Loneliness #495 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr Laurie Mintz joins me again to discuss the route to female orgasms as well as their importance. Learn more about Laurie here https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Don’t Be Ilcliterate #494 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Larry Hagner from Dad Edge Podcast joins me to discuss to role and importance men play in fatherhood, marriage and the world. Hear more from Larry here https://gooddadproject.com/podcast/ On the Xtended version ... Pam gives me her take on Larry and I's conversation about men. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... AcornTV: Escape to Britain and beyond without leaving your seat. Try Acorn TV free for 30 days, by going to https://acorn.tv and use our promo code smr. The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post The Dad Edge #493 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

We go through a marriage quiz to see how well we are handling the romantic side of our marriage. An email from a wife who is growing in self-confidence, yet it's really disrupting her husband and their marriage.  On the Xtended version ... There are 7 losing strategies we often use when we don't get our way. How many of these do you use? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Hello Fresh: Visit www.HelloFresh.com/smr90 and use code smr90 to get a total of $90 off, including free shipping on your first box. The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post When Was The Last Time… #492 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Do you spend money like a Millennial? An email from a wife who experiences orgasms only in her sleep, and is also married to a narcissist. On the Xtended version ... More questions to ask yourself when you are attempting to address the problems in life, not just alleviate the pain. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post I Only Orgasm In My Sleep #491 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

An email from a listener asking for our thoughts on if it's okay for her and her husband to film one of their sexual encounters. An email from a husband wanting to know how to find the middle ground between he and his wife's desire levels. A wife wants to know how to find sex positive friends. On the Xtended version ... What's the difference between seeking help and resources to alleviate the pain in life vs addressing the problems in life? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Filming Sex #490 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

On the Regular version of today's show ... Jessa Zimmerman joins me today to let the SMRNation know about our free webinar - How To Help Your Partner Want More Sex WITHOUT Feeling Pressure or Obligation  - on Tuesday, October 20, 2020 at 7 PM Central Time. Register for free by clicking here. Jessa also sticks around to answer some questions from the Nation. On the Xtended version (which is available to all today) ... Pam and I talk about the impact Dr David Schnarch has had our our marriage and my profession. Enjoy the show! The post Intimacy With Ease #489 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A conversation with Erin Ramachandran, who along with her husband have founded Mental Health Strong. A resource aimed to help married couples when one spouse suffers from a mental illness. Hear her story and what they've created to help lots of other marriages alongside their own. On the Xtended version ... Erin and I continue the conversation about what are some practical steps couples who face mental illnesses can take, alone and together. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Mental Illness and Marriage #488 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A husband who has struggled with his weight all his life emails to tell us about how his wife has told him she is not attracted to him physically and he's afraid his marriage may wind up sexless. A wife emails her surprise to hear how often other married couples have sex because in her marriage  it only happens a handful of times per year. On the Xtended version ... Why do we lie? Are we all liars? And how do you address the lies your spouse may tell or have told throughout your marriage? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union The post Are We All Liars? #487 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A caller asking how she can help her husband's performance anxiety issue. An email from a husband asking about the difference between telling your spouse vs asking. A wife is wondering if her perspective as the higher desire is wrong. On the Xtended version ... Indecisiveness in life and sex. Many people face it - how do you confront it better? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The post Indecisiveness #486 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr Marni Feuerman joins me as we discuss the times when couples may need discernment counseling. What is it and how does it work? Learn more about Dr Marni at her site https://thetalkingsolution.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Marni and I continue the conversation by talking about the things we see in couples seeking our help that will get in the way of successful therapy. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr Hello Fresh: Visit www.HelloFresh.com/smr80 and use code smr80 to get a total of $80 off, including free shipping on your first box. The post Discernment Counseling #485 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

An email from a listener concerned about some of the guests we have on our show and the fact that their values may go against the values of SMR. A follow up on the topic of swallowing with an email from a listener who wants us to explore another aspect of oral sex. On the Xtended version ... Let's face it, it's hard to escape the world of guilt and shame when it comes to sex. Today we talk about how to address it in your life and marriage.  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The post I Still Feel Guilt and Shame #484 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.