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Get Wyoh's sex/work updates on our FINAL Sex at Work episode before Sex Stories return/s next week! /// Wyoh answers her own set of Sex at Work questions and talks about Mission 69 [mission69.org] and catches up on her sexy work-related emails in this episode: (33:52) a Listener YAY re: talking to his 17-year-old son about sex! (37:22) how an arthritis diagnosis led to a big load (38:32) I want to explore this brave new sexy world…where should I start? (43:40) beyond vanilla explorations, threesomes & x-somes, with nice people who are also interesting in fucking her & (45:49) a parts poll response that includes a helicoptering dick mirror fantasy that is *delightful.* (52:45) Questions from Dante: what BDSM furniture would you be most excited to play with in a dungeon? And if you were a grownup but had no grownup responsibilities, what arts & crafts projects would you be most excited to work on for a couple months? Send 6-9 answers for each via mission69.org

Cake creates specialty lubes and is out to make sex fun –– this brand is a Mission 69 ally for sure, and there is even an on-pod surprise discount code offer*. Mitch and Wyoh talk small condoms, how specialty lube fits into the list of FDA-approved items helps with social platforms, the silly hint of shame that still sticks with him, his experience as a sex-related startup finding investors, snug vs small and what “magnum” actually means, what it’s like to product test, how starting a specialty lube company has improved his own Sex Life, and the in-depth responses Cake got from their awesome community when they asked about panty fetishes (and how to tiptoe vs. dive in). Wyoh gushes over Cake’s helpful website info, loves how they have get-it-right instead of be-right thinking, and definitely thinks you should check out their guide to butt stuff. Mitch Orkis, Co-Founder & Chief Marketing Officer of Cake. Join the mission: www.mission69.org Share a sex (at work!) story: www.sexstoriespodcast.com  By some lube & support Mission 69: *visit www.hellocake.com / code: SEXATWORK // @hellocake on insta & TikTok

SUBSCRIBE to the new Sex at Work feed! TW: extreme kink fantasies, Work-sexy is what sells, private-life-sexy is *very* kinky, and yes, there’s overlap. Mistress Venus, a full-service sex worker who has worked at a brothel and with private clients, gives their perspective on the sexiness of sex work, what they love about it, the eye-rolling offer they get from clients over and over, the thing people wanna do to their bellybutton, what it’s like to femme it up even though they’re non-binary, what happened when someone left printouts of their XXX online personae in their conservative religious family’s mailbox, and what it’s like to offer and receive feedback with lovers and the beauty of conversations without fear of rejection. 24 non-binary bi poly queer very kinky Australian Pro-Domme, DM, host of the pod What the Kink @WhatTheKinkPod // Sex at Work is a production of Wyoh Media  — submit your sex at work stories here: www.sexstoriespodcast.com 

Wyoh loves personal questions, but she wants to ask business people about sex, too. Sex at Work is a new series where she does just that (and hopes listeners will send in stories about personal coworker rendezvous, too) ///// SUBSCRIBE TO SEX AT WORK NOW \\\\\ Turns out, selling an after-sex cleanup tool is sexy, just not in the way you might think. Awkward Essentials isn’t talking about the pleasure parts, they’re talking about sticky, gooey, often embarrassing parts. Founder Frances Tang never expected to be the face of what’s known on TikTok as The Cum Sponge, but her personal displeasure at post-sex dribbling led her to found this hygiene company that’s doing awesome stuff like normalizing business conversations around anal sex and sparking more open, intimate conversations between lovers. She offers (surprising) insight on pitching to VC’s as a sex-adjacent company, and offers Wyoh advice on developing her PlayShip Mission // awkwardessentials.com / @awkwardessentials 

138 | Loves to be Hunted, Wrestled, & Caught: Sam’s Sex Stories     TW: assault/rape // Drawing kinky queer people having sex in consensual ways set Sam on a path of exploration and education and led them to create Shimpteeth, a place of sexy support. Sam and Wyoh talk Funishment Fridays, a monogamous first, the journey from corporate to learning & teaching about kinky/poly/sexy things, from juggling multiple partners to deepening satisfaction with one, a biting mishap, their brat streak, don’t-ask-don’t-tells, casual dating, more explicit poly dating, figuring out non-monogamy and kink, safer sex barrier faves, the difficulties of strapping, and the ways in which talking sex prefs ahead of time are hot and/or heavy. “I could see myself getting into a nice group of hot butches degrading me” -Sam / 28 gender fluid mono/poly queer kinky brat / host of Queer Pleasure by Shrimpteeth podcast / www.shrimpteeth.com //

His shame-o-meter used to hover around an 8, these days it’s down to a 2—he used to feel like his desires were allowed, but post-14-year marriage and with the internet acting as an equalizer, he’s been able to welcome and even explore his kinkier side. We talk online dating successes and non-success, feeling safe enough to tell a new partner “everything,” BDSM, impact play, heavy metal and chains, psychological domination outweighing the physical, his need for connection with a partner (distinct from a desire for romantic relationship), his current very awesome partner and all their explorations—including a hotel orgy, the intersection between the dungeon and swinger crowds, the difference between his Dom, Daddy, and Sadist modes, immobilization, Saran Wrap, sensory deprivation, thought experiments, kinky duffel surprises, a steel whipping rod, piss play, outdoor sex, mutual vulnerability, tongues everywhere and getting turned on by tears. 53 cis het straight M into foreign accents, intelligence, D/s, former journalist from the Midwest, now lives in Boston area.   www.LikeAKitten.com/coupon/Lover // betterhelp.com/fantasy //  💛👇👇🏻👇🏼👇🏽👇🏾👇🏿🤎 Share *your* story with Wyoh, see transcripts & more:  sexstoriespodcast.com Wyoh’s questions, stories, secret kink & portraits: wyohlee.com/lover 

[TW: sexual assault // partners AND a stranger] “I wanna be spoiled, I wanna be fucked, I wanna be cared for” …but Rachel *also* gets wet if a cock or pussy is in her mouth and she’s giving. These days, her partners all love going down on her — but it’s been a journey from leaving behind life-size wall paintings of Jesus in a hyper-Catholic home (where abstinence was the only way), having an ideal virginity loss experience (followed by a backlash of shame and a Plan B), to going off to New York at age 15, finally having an orgasm with a partner, getting into an eight year relationship til she was 26, to exploring open relationships, the freedom of single-hood, she shares her journey of combating what she calls the *Holy Trinity of Hatred* with self-love. Today, she’s a fountain of love, creative beauty, and pussy wisdom, and has discovered the beauty of not-trying, while also fully stepping into both her giving and receiving energy. She tells us amazing details of her physical body feelings, how her erotic life is intertwined with her art, tells us about her experience auditioning at a BDSM palace (nipple clamps!), the effect Secret Diary of a Call Girl had on her, and demonstrates so many helpful how-she-does-it moments, including orgasm sounds // 30 cis F Queer Queen Art XXXhibitionist Double Scorpio Witch & co-host of the Basic Witches Podcast, Actor Writer Comedian Sensual Artist, a Sexual Assault Survivor: sexandthesynchronicity.com  Use the code LOVERS for 20% off manscaped.com And check out: wyohlee.com/lovers to see Wyoh’s new site. 

It’s not the size of Leo’s penis, it’s the way he feels when he uses his entire body to connect deeply with a lover. Controlling when he cums has been a struggle since his first partnered experience, but he spent 18 years with his wife with whom he still has a beautiful and daily relationship with, and the last few years have been a new era of exploration for him, and kink has been a way for him to experience powerful sensuality and sexuality without focusing so much on the timing of his orgasm. Tantra led him to a group of sex-positive lover-friends, and he’s discovered how rope feels like an extension of his sexual self (kinbaku and shibari), has played with his Dominant sides, and his explorations have led him to enjoy group sex, including MFM’s, sex club/party scenes, and he was even part of a gangbang crew for a bit. He prefers more intimate partnered connections but is happy in a non-monogamous lifestyle, and also reflects on the difference between talking to students about sex during the yearly sex week at school, and navigating what it means to be a supportive, loving parent and not pushing his own perspectives on his own kids. 45, hetero-flexible cis M, boarding school teacher in Denmark. Thanks BetterHelp.  Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/sexstories  💛👇👇🏻👇🏼👇🏽👇🏾👇🏿🤎 Share *your* story with Wyoh, see transcripts & more:  sexstoriespodcast.com   Join the mission: mission69.org 

TW: details of top surgery, mention of non-consensual & boundary-pushing experiences. Charlie had to ask for a sex talk, was told masturbation could lead to hurt, and watched the same sex ed pancake video as Wyoh in school. They discovered a bratty side with their first boyfriend in high school, and got their heart broken by their girlfriend from writing camp so that college became about trying to fuck dudes who they weren’t super into, which led to some not-awesome experiences. We talk details of fingering, oral, fucking, how sensitive a clit gets on T, awesome threesomes and less-awesome partners who don’t go down on vulvas, an IUD horror story, the joy of being a shitty brat, the hotness of asking, the need for partners to understand they are not a girl, tenderness and getting thrown around, bruises, the power of the strap-on, rim jobs, squirting (not pee!), ethical porn, and long, hard orgasms. 26 W transmasc of center with he/they pronouns; polyamorous and partnered, a sub-leaning switch, filmmaker in Los Angeles. 💛👇👇🏻👇🏼👇🏽👇🏾👇🏿🤎 Share *your* story with Wyoh, see transcripts & more:  sexstoriespodcast.com   Join the mission: mission69.org 

No one ever told her to be ashamed by sex or nudity, so she wasn’t. Early sex ed included bitch.com and an enthusiastic teacher in Kentucky when she was 12 who talked about how amazing sex is, and that it should absolutely be avoided. She tells us why she’s currently playing with the label “autosexual” to describe herself, talks about the internet sex research she did that led her to oversell the greatness of her early sexual experiences, to sometimes traumatic results that ultimately led her to seek out a good therapist (hooray!). All the while, she remained a hopeful sex fiend, seeking out examples of hot, consensual, romantic sex. Explorations with her current partner have led her to discover her kinky side, including impact play, choking, and there’s so much more to come & cum. 26 bisexual cis F from India living in Europe in a 4 year LTR 💛👇👇🏻👇🏼👇🏽👇🏾👇🏿🤎 Share *your* story with Wyoh, see transcripts & more:  sexstoriespodcast.com   Join the mission: mission69.org 

When his first girlfriend cheated on him in high school, Sean started getting turned on and thought something was wrong with him—but he’d get off on it all the time. With internet came knowledge, and he’s happily into cuckoldry, small penis humiliation and chastity, and though he’s new to sharing details about these kinks, his stories and insights are wonderful, and offer an alternative to the commonly accepted idea that “jealousy = love.” His current partner knows that a whisper about fucking another dude — especially if he has a big cock — will trigger an instant explosion (“it’s my heroin”), and he shares how the idea of reclamation is so powerful for him. We get details on his cock cage, he explains his identity as a “stag” (he’s not into sissification or humiliation at the hands of another dude), and we talk penis size, cock comparison, and the changes he’s noticed in his dick over the years. We also talk porn detox, growing up in the 70’s without a mom, fantasizing about a Ken Doll type guy fucking his partner, future anal play explorations, having sex *literally* 15 times a day, keeping kinks from his shrink and more. 50/White/M/He, Him/Straight/LTR/Cuckoldry, Small Penis Humiliation, Chastity/Works in IT/rural Northwest 💛👇👇🏻👇🏼👇🏽👇🏾👇🏿🤎 Share *your* story with Wyoh, see transcripts & more:  sexstoriespodcast.com   Join the mission: mission69.org 

As promisted in Episode 121, she reached out to her first boyfriend 15 years later to ask why he never went down on her. And she and her husband have turned to the internet to look for play partners with some unexpected results so far.

What do you do if you grew up queer in a homophobic household with parents who got together via arranged marriage? Literally learn to fall in love with yourself, if you’re Andie. In her first partnership now, she has truly enjoyed navigating hookup culture, and her relational ease shines through the many juicy details in her episode, including: learning about scissoring from schoolmates, quiet, secret masturbation, a neck spoon, realizing she’s also into chicks, “studying” at the library and many firsts in the back of her car, her mom’s ideas on how to find a husband, going from being grossed out by making out to super loving sex and touching and spit, how oral sex feels more intimate than penetration, the power of rim jobs, talking about desire ahead of time and the difference between masc and femme partners, a little bit of anal, and she sheds some light on why some people might ghost (even though she doesn’t) with a recent experience. 22 cis bi F, teacher, Pakistani Muslim in Canada, big nude sender. 💛👇👇🏻👇🏼👇🏽👇🏾👇🏿🤎 Share *your* story or apply to be a guest or see/edit transcripts:  sexstoriespodcast.com   Join the mission: mission69.org 

Sex is complicated for Alex, a bisexual dude who grew up in an Orthodox Jewish household and had a traumatic predatory experience with a teacher in high school. Coming out and a felt sense of pressure to “choose” a sexual identity has been an ongoing struggle, but after a couple years of hookup culture, Alex realized he’s tired of objectifying himself and his partners, and with the help of therapy has done some sexual soul-searching to figure out what “healthy” means for him. We talk secret gay army sex, virginity loss with his BFF in the next room, what he discovered through spanking, a surprise monster cock, threesomes, lessons learned about using shampoo as lube, pubic lice (crabs), and his love of biting. 29 cis M social worker from Israel 💛👇👇🏻👇🏼👇🏽👇🏾👇🏿🤎 Share *your* story or apply to be a guest or see/edit transcripts:  sexstoriespodcast.com 🌍🚀🌏❤️🌎  Join the mission: mission69.org  Thanks, BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/sexstories 

TW*** // A self-identified sex camel, Jensi introduces Wyoh to Shell Silverstein’s adult work, and then we proceed to talk about getting ostracized for calling herself “bi” at a young age, what it was like to be a stripper, why she loves strip clubs, and where to find the best thongs, there is intense stuff: ***molestation, rape, abuse and abortion, and stories of healing, sandy vagina fingering, difficulty receiving, angry vagina feels, tripling her income with anal play, deep-throating and firm neck grab loves, wanting to explore kink, and a magical porn fairy godfather who snagged her a perfectly romantic Italian lover. 38 white cis single F, a body worker in California.     💛👇👇🏻👇🏼👇🏽👇🏾👇🏿🤎 Share *your* story or apply to be a guest or see/edit transcripts:  sexstoriespodcast.com   Join the mission: mission69.org    Thanks Satisfyer. Get 30% off at Satisfyer.com with the code FANTASY30

This couple knows how to invite a lover into their relationship so a good time can be had by all, and they walk us through the specifics from app to date to bed to aftercare and their reconnection after, and share their sexual origin stories of confusion and underwhelm and desire that led them to their current relationship of connection and pleasure. We talk D/s dynamics, pain pleasure, role play, toys, teasing and dirty talk, exploration and very long sexual bucket lists.  Australian 21 bi cis F / 34 straight cis M / killyourinnerloser.com 💛👇👇🏻👇🏼👇🏽👇🏾👇🏿🤎 Share *your* story or apply to be a guest or see/edit transcripts:  sexstoriespodcast.com   Join the mission: mission69.org 

Why is her girlfriend the best sex of her life? How did she get more comfortable with her sexual self? How does she handle her sexual predator that comes out when she drinks? Lola tells us about everything from “shiners,” to first kisses at the bus stop and giving herself a “feeling” to a sex talk that consisted of germs, pregnancy, and a boiled egg. She’d always fancied Ellen, figured out she liked girls around age 14, and online chat rooms led to (sometimes aggressive) lesbian raves. We talk sucking balls, naughty sex, dirty talking, confidence, pain (esp spanking), and went through a liberation stage that included explorations with a male escort. And good news: she says it gets better as she gets older :) 40ish black British woman, maybe a lesbian maybe bi sexual, in a relationship of almost 3 years with a woman, into role play, BDSM, toys, voyeurism, and more. A teacher from London, England, welcome Lola. Thanks BetterHelp.  Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/sexstories  💛👇👇🏻👇🏼👇🏽👇🏾👇🏿🤎 Share *your* story or apply to be a guest or see/edit transcripts:  sexstoriespodcast.com   For more sex stories, become a Love Warrior and watch our weekly live-stream bonus episodes: https://www.patreon.com/wyohlee    Wyoh’s self-portraits: https://www.wyohlee.com/lookatthemoon    Step 1 to better sex: Know Thy Fucking Awesome Self https://www.wyohlee.com/fuckingawesome   

They like to call their partners things like kitten, pup, princess, sweetie, cutie, whore, slut, cumsleeve, cumslut, filth, garbage and waste of space—but once upon a time they thought they were asexual. Envi shares stories of porn in the woods, boys in literal dick competitions in the locker rooms, body dysmorphia, fat phobia, “luxury jerks,” discovering sex and kink and BDSM through the internet, ERP (erotic role play), pet play, exhibitionism and so much more. 28 w NB poly pansexual in Sweden. Thanks HelloFresh! Go to HelloFresh.com/12fantasy and use code 12fantasy for 12 free meals, including free shipping! Love yourself anytime, anywhere at www.femtasy.com.   Use code FANTASY to save 25% on an annual subscription.  

He loves sex, but not having it much isn’t a dealbreaker when it comes to relationships — which means he’s found some creative ways to explore. From naked hand stands to phone sex to actual full-body massages, Thomas is a curious spirit with a sexual mind that is wiiiide open. Straight W M from the Midwest 60’s into porn, phone sex & erotica   Love yourself anytime, anywhere at www.femtasy.com use code FANTASY to save 25% on an annual subscription