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Intimate With Asti
45 minutes | May 12, 2022
#40. Two Ways Unworthiness Is Showing Up In Your Relationships.
The most common reason I see women not getting the love they want = THEY DON'T FEEL WORTHY. And this shows up as either a) settling or b) blocking out love. Tune in to see which one you most resonate with!!??? I also cover how a low sense of worth may be limiting you in other areas of your life, think: money, lifestyle, friendships, career (basically everything!) And then go on to share with you the correlation between the high number of women carrying shame, trauma and conditioning around their bodies and sexuality and the high number of women not feeling, worthy, enough or whole. This ep is a spicy one and sure to light a little fire in your heart! It's time to remember who you are queen!!! ... Claim your spot for the FREE 'Your Guide To Feminine Sexual Liberation' workshop HERE Enquire about 1:1 coaching HERE Use code 'MASTURBATIONMAY' to get 25% off Pleasure Treasures HERE A big thank you to my listener Pandora who shared her story with us this week. You can follow her HERE
51 minutes | May 5, 2022
#39. Free Workshop: 5 Steps To Becoming That Eloquent Boundary Setting Bitch
Hmm my loves. I'm so excited for this episode. It's basically a free workshop / coaching session where I break down for you the 5 steps to speaking your needs and boundaries. Boundaries is a theme that has been so alive for me at the moment, but I know it has been for you too! With so many of you DMing me questions like, 'how to I tell me partner XYZ'... I'll let you in on a little secret, it's not so much about the HOW (you know how), it's about the what (what's stopping you). So in this episode I'm going to guide you though gaining clarity on what those unspoken needs and boundaries are and what inside of you is holding back from expressing your truth. It's going to look something like this: 1. CLARITY - what are those unspoken needs / boundaries. 2. ADDRESSING THE BLOCK. What inside of you is afraid of speaking up, why? 3. ACKNOWLEDGING THE CONDITIONING. What were you taught you needed to do/ be in order to be loved, accepted and safe when you were a child? How is that impacting your ability to speak your needs / boundaries today? 4. YOUR WHY. What does your dream life / relationship look like? What are you doing today that isn't supportive of this (big clue to needs / boundaries that need to be expressed) 5. HOW. A process to practice boundary setting that will make it so god damn easy to do in real life. Hellllllloooo queen of not settling and getting everything that she wants - are you ready?????? ..... Claim on of 4 1:1 coaching spots - email firstname.lastname@example.org Follow Asti on Instagram Shop Pleasure Treasures here. Enquire now about 'A Night With A Sex Coach' and get Asti to host your next party - email@example.com Shop masterclasses and online courses - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE
79 minutes | Apr 27, 2022
#38. 10 Ways Sexual Reclamation Spiced Up My Life.
It's one of those 'the girls who get it, get it' things.. But since you're here listening, I figure you GET that.. Sexual reclamation/ embodiment/ healing.. whatever you want to call it, is key to finding a sense of wholeness, enoughness, worthiness, contentment, fulfilment.. all of the yummy things. Aaaaaaaand, it's so much more than just sex. Reclaiming your body allows you to reclaim you life! Reclaiming your power allows you to reclaim your pleasure! Reclaiming your turn on allows you to reclaim your zest for life! It's time to spice up your life baby! (This ep is full of spicy inspiration!) Asti shares how her journey of sexual reclamation allowed her to: Leave a toxic relationship Feel comfortable and free in her body. Call in soul sister friendships. Make mooooore money! Stop having sex to prove her worth and gain confidence with men. Become a bad (elegant and eloquent) bitch who speaks what’s on her mind (boundaries and needs) Call in deeper love and intimacy (and more yummy orgasms) Reclaim her zest for life and creative flow. Define success on her terms. Trust herself to listen to her intuition and go after what she wants! She then had a beautiful listener, Emily come on to share how her journey of sexual reclamation allowed her to reclaim her psychic abilities (meow, yes you read the right). Let's dive in baby... press play! (and don't forget to leave a review) xx ... THE PLAYLIST! Follow Asti on Instagram Follow Emily here Get 20% off Pleasure Treasures with code 'PLEASURE' here. Enquire now about 'A Night With A Sex Coach' and get Asti to host your next party - firstname.lastname@example.org Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Shop masterclasses and online courses - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE
49 minutes | Apr 21, 2022
#37. Hot Girl Reset. Bringing Sexy Back Through Embodiment.
Alright something a little different for you today babes.. We’re going to drop IN! Into the present. Into our bodies. Into pleasure. Into our most sexual, desirable and worthy selves.. I’m going to guide you through a little mini embodiment practice. Meow!!! It's time to take a moment for YOU! I wanted to talk all things embodiment to inspire you to reclaim your sexual self.. Buuuuuttt.. I could talk and talk and talk and get you to think and think and think.. But the thing is.. we don’t ‘think’ sexy.. we FEEL sexy.. You’re not going to think your way into FEELING sexy. Yah just got to feel it, feel me? So it’s time to FEEL! To wrap up this episode we have another incredible share from my podcast listener Miss Cass. You can follow her HERE. Go give her some love! .. THE PLAYLIST! Follow Asti on Instagram Enquire now about 'A Night With A Sex Coach' and get Asti to host your next party - email@example.com Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Shop masterclasses and online courses - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE
58 minutes | Apr 13, 2022
#36. Pick My Brain Q+A. A Mixed Bag Of Inspirational Nuggets.
Alright, so last week I held an epic free live Q+A. Many of you signed up and missed out.. but that's ok, you can still get some of the juicy and yummy inspirational nuggets from this replay. This is a bit of a mumble jumble mix up of all of the thangs.. But here's an idea of what you're in for: - Embodiment and getting out of your head during sex. - Pleasure, orgasm, desire. - Self-pleasure. - Knowing your needs. - Emotional maturity. - Intentional celibacy. - Getting over an ex / healing from betrayal. Offft it's a goodie! Be sure to keep an eye out for when I'm hosting the next live Q+A and hot seat coaching. I would love to meet you all!! Enjoy!! ... Follow Asti on Instagram and DM her to become a 'close friend'. Follow Caitlin (host of the stripper event Asti was talking about) HERE Enquire now about 'A Night With A Sex Coach' and get Asti to host your next party - firstname.lastname@example.org Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Shop masterclasses and online courses - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE
43 minutes | Apr 7, 2022
#35. Men + Money. Is He Cockblocking Your Cash Flow?
Buckle up bitches and prepare for the convo you didn't know you needed today. Ok so men and money (or cock and cash as I prefer) are two things we all want and desire, am I right? (And let's be real, probably two things that bring us the most stress and worry) No wonder so many coaches are now creating one stop stop offers where you can work on both you love life and your bank account, but do they really correlate? Is it really that simple? Is your relationship with money really a reflection of your relationship with men (and vice versa)??? That's the question we be diving into in this ep. Pluuuuuuussssss - Are you limiting your abundance and money making potential in fear of what he might think? - Are you throwing yourself into your business to avoid issues that may be coming up in your relationship? - Do you believe men are emasculated by a women who makes 'too much' money? - Do you feel you need to hide your big wins (and sexy purchases) from him? (oh hell no girl) - Are you unconsciously taking on his shitting money stories and limiting beliefs? - Are your values around money aligned? Enjoy queens!!!! ... Follow Asti on Instagram Enquire now about 'A Night With A Sex Coach' and get Asti to host your next party - email@example.com Save your seat at tonights FREE LIVE Q+A call - HERE Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Shop masterclasses and online courses - HERE Sign up to Asti's email newsletters - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE
53 minutes | Mar 31, 2022
#34. Q+A Sessions: Pick The Brains Of An Intimacy And Dating Coach
Mixing it up with something a little different this week. I answer your burning questions about sex, love, relationships (and myself).. But before all of that, I had a listener on sharing with you her inspirational love story and what it took to go from situationship after situationship to dreamy, out of this world relationship. HINT: Doing 'the work' works! ... Follow Asti on Instagram or email her at firstname.lastname@example.org Save your seat at next weeks FREE LIVE Q+A call - HERE Shop 50% off Quickie - HERE Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Shop masterclasses and online courses - HERE Sign up to Asti's love notes / dear diary email newsletters - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE
40 minutes | Mar 23, 2022
#33. How To Become The Most Sexually Empowered You.
We're in an age of sexual empowerment.. but WHAT IS sexual empowerment exactly? Is it really all about showing a lot of skin and having a lot of sex? Well, it could be.. or it could NOT be.. That's the thing, sexual empowerment doesn't look a certain way. It's not one size fits all. It's not about WHAT you are doing but more so about the energy and the intention behind it, the WHY... It's about knowing what YOU want and what serves YOU and following that unique desire, expression or flavour. In this ep I share my seasons of sexual empowerment from stripping + one night stands > celibacy > monogamy. I also share listeners thoughts and what YOU ALL consider 'sexual empowerment', as well as a little riff on what being sexual empowered gets to feel like. Remember: someones expression of 'empowerment' on instagram is just a small glimpse but the REAL MAGIC of working on your sexuality is often found bts or felt in private... it's a FEELING of wholeness and enoughness, it's deep connection to self, others and the divine, it's a certain type of magic and aliveness. MEeeeeeeeeow to that!!! Ohhh and I also had a special guest on!!! One Intimate With Asti listener came on to share her beautiful love story with a reminder that love doesn't take LUCK it takes WERRRK! ... Follow Asti on Instagram or email her at email@example.com Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Get 50% off masterclasses and online courses - HERE Sign up to Asti's love notes / dear diary email newsletters - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE Shop the hottest sex toys - HERE
52 minutes | Mar 16, 2022
#32. My Love Story: How We Met And Fell In Love.
Asti finally shares her own love story. And how she went from breakup (and heartbroken) - celibate - in a new dreamy relationship in a year and a half. Not much more to share here. Press play to hear the juicy details ❤️🔥❤️🔥 .. Follow Asti on Instagram or email her at firstname.lastname@example.org Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Claim your spot in the free Q+A workshop - HERE Sign up to Asti's love notes / dear diary email newsletters - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE Buy 1 'Quickie' get one free - HERE
42 minutes | Mar 9, 2022
#31. Green Flags. Red Flags (And Compromise)
Hey my loves. I'm back and I'm diving back into that conversation we had last week about 'bare minimum' behaviours. >>> Giving you more clarity on behaviour that SHOULD and SHOULDN'T be celebrated. Behaviours that are a sign that you're onto something good vs letting said good behaviour convince you you should lock him in.. like now! I then share a big fat list of red flags + one of green flags.. (bring a note pad and pen) ..and carried on to explain why relationships, love, dating, sex, human psychology isn't black and white and how finding a dreamy man and landing a dreamy relationship is so much more than avoiding red flags and ticking boxes. It helps as a guideline YES, but we've got to leave room for him to be human, baby! What this means is leave room for him to grow and to learn how to be a better lover for you. Nobody is perfect! (but in the same breath, be mindful of what you choose to settle on). Compromise is important, but make sure you're not turning a blind eye to things you know are going to get on your nerves later down the track. This isn't going to be fun for you or for him. Ohhh juicy, juicy stuff! If you're loving the podcast PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW. I will be forever grateful! Follow Asti on Instagram HERE Get a free 'Activate Me' egg with any Pleasure Treasure purchase HERE Read more about The Spark HERE Doors close Friday 11/3 Questions, comments, feedback, WANT TO SHARE YOUR STORY??? - Email email@example.com
22 minutes | Mar 2, 2022
#30. Bare Minimum Men + A Lesson On What Boundaries Are Not.
Welcome back lovers! For the first part of the poddy Asti shares some of your responses to the question 'what are some bare minimum efforts you have celebrated in the past?' I don't think you're ready for this! Get ready for some serious LOLS. Celebrating 'being nice', 'saying please', 'having a shower', why are we like this ladies?! Why is the bar set so fucking low? Is he really that amazing? Is he really 'the one'? Or is he just less of an asshole than your last BF was? We break that down further.... AND THEN.. We dive into a conversation around what boundaries are NOT! Boundaries are amazing for saying 'no' to what you don't want and 'yes' to what you do. But is telling him.. 'I can't tonight, I'm tired', or giving a fake number really a boundary? Or is it just putting out the energy of 'not now, maybe try me later'? Leaving the door ajar, still making yourself available to that energy and still leaving an opportunity for him to weasel his way back in? Asti shared how to strengthen your 'no' so you can build boundaries that WORK for you and support you closing the door on the past bare minimum bullshit forever so you can open the door to a bright new future (and sexy new men). It's time to upgrade your love life babe! Get 7 workshop replays from Asti's signature program The Spark HERE - EXTENDED PAYMENT PLANS ARE AVAILABLE FOR ONE WEEK ONLY! Follow Asti on Instagram HERE Get a free 'Activate Me' egg HERE Read more about The Spark HERE Questions, comments, feedback - firstname.lastname@example.org
37 minutes | Feb 24, 2022
#29. Why Me!? Flaky Dates And Ghosting
GHOSTING: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication. Let's talk about it!!! In this episode Asti speaks on: (super quick recap) - Reasons WHY men ghost. - What this says about you and your attachment style. - How letting someone know you're NOT interested is respectful for both you and for them. (And moves you closer to the love you DO want). - How to protect yourself from this flaky, on again, off again energy. - How sex changes things and how men and women view sex differently early on in dating. Follow Asti on Instagram HERE Get a free 'Activate Me' egg HERE Read the blog 'Which Pleasure Treasure Is For Me' HERE Questions, comments, feedback or to share your 'being flaked' story - email@example.com
32 minutes | Feb 16, 2022
#28. The One Solution To All Your Dating, Relationship + Sex Life Problems
Hey lover! Feeling stuck when it comes to love? Dating life a shambles? Your relationship in a funk? Asti shares the two types of women who may find themselves unlucky in love and what you may need to do to turn that luck around. (Which one are you?) Then she dives deeper into the concept of men being mirrors, meaning that where we are being met is a reflection of our own inner world and web of conditioning, thoughts, beliefs and the stories we tell ourselves, our level of self-worth around love, our ability to surrender, be seen, be vulnerable, speak up and even offer ourselves yummy yummy orgasms. And we chat about the one thing you're doing that is giving your power away and causing your love life to come to a grinding (and not in a sexy way) halt. Hint: BLAMING MEN! And the last little nugget, she shares with you the ONE solution to anything and everything you may be facing. Can YOU guess what it is? :) .... Follow Asti on Instagram (It's so juicy over here) - https://www.instagram.com/asti.maree/ Claim your spot for THE SPARK (or get more info) HERE (WE START NEXT WEEK) Book in a CLARITY CALL for The Spark HERE Apply to work 1:1 with Asti HERE. Shop 30% off Pleasure Treasures HERE
64 minutes | Feb 9, 2022
#27. From Drowning In Shame To Being Crowned 'Miss Erotic Australia'.
In todays episode Asti Shares a piece of her own story on how she overcame body insecurities, shame, self-doubt, feeling unworthy, unloved and undesirable to becoming a stripper, dancing naked on stages all over Australia, being crowned 'Miss Erotic Australia' and finally becoming a self-loving, self validating queen!! She also shares.. - Why ANY BODY can have body insecurities and why it's important not to judge another woman's experience. - What true empowerment is and how it looks different to everyone. - How she ended up in an abusive toxic relationship. - Why she started stripping and how she became a showgirl. - What supported her overcoming body shame. - How basing all of your worth on looks alone can be deeply disempowering. - How leading with your sexuality isn't as empowering as it may look. - What makes a woman truly desirable. Claim your spot for THE SPARK (or get more info) HERE Claim your seat for the free masterclass 'Becoming Magnetic & Irresistible To Men' (or watch the replay) HERE Book in a CLARITY CALL for The Spark HERE Apply to work 1:1 with Asti HERE.
17 minutes | Feb 2, 2022
#26. Becoming Magnetic And Irresistible To Men.
Ok so more than half of you voted for this weeks ep to be on 'becoming magnetic and irresistible to men' so here it is.. Asti senses from her followers this deep, almost helpless longing to be chosen by a man, and although she's all about empowering you to choose yourself.. she fucking gets it! She wants you to honour the longing, to own the longing.. As women we want to be wanted, we loved to feel loved, we desire to feel desired and that’s ok. It’s normal. It’s a part of our human experience and all of these things add richness, depth, fullness and magic to our lives. The point she wants to make in this ep is that this is your super power. It’s not a mans desire for you that makes you desirable.. You are desirable. FULL STOP. Want to feel this, embody this, believe this and live it as your reality? tune in to find out how. Claim your spot for The Spark here - www.astimaree.com/thespark Register for the FREE workshop 'Becoming Magnetic And Irresistible To Men' here - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/61fa0fd76114df05454c4d39 Purchase a Quickie and choose a free glass pleasure wand of choice - www.pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com
30 minutes | Jan 26, 2022
#25. 5 Tangle Tips To Let More Love In NOW.
Right ladies, Asti is back with a powerful, powerful episode! We all want love right, that's why you're dating, in a relationship or simply here listening to this podcast. A common theme is that many women are craving M O R E love! But have you ever thought about the possible ways you might be blocking yourself from receiving M O R E ????? Asti shares 5 simple and straight forward tangle tips that you can take home and use today to begin opening yourself up and making yourself available to more love and the type of love you crave. A sneak peak: We chat.. Self worth - When you feel unworthy of love it’s not that it isn’t there you just don’t allow yourself to receive it!!!!!!!!! (WhAAAAAT?!?) Attachment styles - how your anxious attachment style may actually be causing him to pull away (and pull his love away). Emotional maturity - How to turn triggers into an opportunity to build love rather than conflict. Understanding men - How acknowledging him when he does make you feel loved inspires him to do more of it. Self pleasure - How a self-pleasure practice makes you more desirable to men and more open and able to receive. You guessed it! These are the topics of the 5 live masterclasses inside The Spark. JOIN NOW WITH $500 OFF - https://astimaree.com/thespark Check out The Spark guest speaker Justin - https://instagram.com/justin_dulihanty Buy a Quickie and get a glass wand FREE - https://pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com Claim your spot for the FREE live Q+A (Weds 2nd Feb 6pm AEDT) - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/61e6129c6758a3ddd643f9d9
25 minutes | Jan 19, 2022
#24. Loving And Trusting Again After Betrayal
Asti asked the question on her Instagram 'Do you find it hard to trust men?' and the wild thing is most of you said YES! Not trusting men can become a huge block when it comes to love. How are you going to fully open, surrender and allow love in when your underlying belief is that men are untrustworthy?... That's the thing, you're not!! Those walls you have up around your heart may be protecting you from being hurt again but they may also be keeping out the very love you crave. After all, to fall in love is to risk being hurt. After finding out how many of her followers have been betrayed by past lovers, Asti decided to open up about her own story of betrayal and share the steps she took to not only learn to trust men again but to land in a beautiful, new, loving relationship. Here's a glimpse at what she covers: - How to stop questioning where you went wrong (you're not to blame) - Self forgiveness. Stop judging yourself for not seeing 'the signs'. - Forgiving him. Free yourself! - How to ensure that this experience doesn't close you off from finding love in the future. - Understanding your new needs and boundaries to ensure you feel safe in your next relationship. - Why you can only truly trust men once you trust yourself to speak up when things feel 'off'. JOIN THE WAITLIST FOR ROUND 2 OF THE SPARK - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6170bd9174d564fa09f3ffa6 SHOP THE SECRET PLEASURE TREASURE SALE. Get a free pleasure wand with any 'Quickie' purchase - https://pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com/
27 minutes | Jan 13, 2022
#23. How I Upgraded My Love Life By Becoming A Better Lover
Too often as women we tend to push the blame on men and complain about everything they are doing wrong or what they could improve on. But it really is such a beautiful thing to take a look at yourself, question where you could improve and even better, work on it! YOUR POWER LAYS IN WHAT YOU CAN CHANGE!!!! AKA YOU! In this episode Asti asks the question 'What's one this you could change to become a better lover?' She shares why it’s important to take self responsibility and discusses the steps she took to become a better lover by learning emotional maturity. (The ability to sit with, regulate, understand and express emotions and emotional needs). KEY: It’s about reflecting before reacting. Reflecting before projecting.. So that you can communicate effectively, while staying open to your partner instead of shutting down and pushing them away. After all this is not going to support you getting the love you want and desire. JOIN THE WAITLIST FOR ROUND 2 OF THE SPARK - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6170bd9174d564fa09f3ffa6
19 minutes | Dec 6, 2021
#22. How To get Him To Plan More Sexy Dates
Want to know how to get him to plan more fun, sexy dates? (Or how to inspire him to step up and meet any of your needs for that matter) Hello, hey, Hi.. Asti is here to help :) In this episode Asti shared 3 clear and simple steps when it comes to getting you needs met in your relationship. - Know your worth girl! - Own your desires. - ASK to have them met. (The magic here is in how you ask, and that is exactly what Asti dives into in this episode). - Be vulnerable and get expressive!! Anything you wish to hear on the poddy?? email firstname.lastname@example.org and fire away! Purchase Pleasure Treasures here - www.pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com If you want to join Love Spell or Connect For Couples, email email@example.com (or DM Asti on Insta) to confirm your spot. Until next ep xx
16 minutes | Nov 30, 2021
#21. Updated Relationship Narratives. The New 'Till Death Do Us Part'.
In this episode Asti discusses the idea of 'till death do us part' love and speaks on a new narrative that says a successful relationship isn't one where two people simple just don't break up but where two people felt loved and seen and had a safe space for growth and transformation within the relationship (even if it does come to an end). In other words, what's more important.. the length of time together, or the quality of time together? She also touches on the idea of 'wasted time' while dating and other outdated narratives they may be stopping you from getting the love you want. The Pleasure Treasures - www.pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com Heal your relationship with men and open yourself to deeper love and intimacy - Join THE SPARK - www.astimaree.com/thespark
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