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Mistress Eva Oh and Dirk Hooper explore the question, "Have you ever cried during a BDSM scene?" We got some surprising responses to this topic. People inside the community and out will gain insight from this episode.

Mistress Eva Oh and Dirk Hooper explore the question, “How Does BDSM Uplift You?” with tweets from the community. This particular question got such an amazing response! Congratulations and thanks to the kink community for telling us your story. They try to cover the subject from multiple angles and also explore other things that the subject brings up. Topics on this episode include fetish smells, tolerance, diversity, the demographics of BDSM, creativity, the hero’s journey, public play, calming your mind, and much much more! This episode is also available as a video! Please Vote for Us to Win “Best Lifestyle Podcast”! https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/vote-2021 (Dirk Hooper has also been nominated for “Best Lifestyle & Adult Industry Erotic Writer”) Thank you for your help! “Safeword Podcast” Eva and Dirk are mentioned in Wired Magazine! Adaptation is now the name of the game for many creators, new and old. As global protocols have called for remote living, creators have had to adjust accordingly. On a recent episode of Safeword, a BDSM podcast hosted by Mistress Eva, she discussed, along with fetish photographer and writer Dirk Hooper, how their community is finding ways to embrace unforeseen limitations and “eroticize social distancing.” Added Hooper, “Now is the time to get creative, and try new stuff.” One example Eva shared was a virtual leather social, which is exactly what you think it is: a group video call that features bootblacking, self-flagellation, and leathercare, among other carnal releases.https://www.wired.com/story/new-erotics-coronavirus-isolation/ More Mistress Eva Eva OhMistress Eva – BDSM TrainingPleaseMeLiveTwitterInstagram Watch out for Mistress Eva’s Sunday tweets for Safeword Podcast questions! More Dirk Hooper Dirk Hooper Photography and Art WorksSexy NetworkingTwitterFacebookYouTubeKinky Art on SubscribStar Contact Please leave us a comment below or you can contact us directly at info@safewordpodcast.com. We want to hear from you! Safeword Podcast in Syndication You can now listen to the Safeword Podcast through the syndication links below or by searching for “Safeword Podcast” on your app. If we’re not on your favorite service tell us and we’ll get there! Also, your rating and review will help us immensely to find a new audience and is deeply appreciated! We both notice your reviews! Safeword Podcast on Apple Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Spotify Safeword Podcast on Google Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Stitcher Safeword Podcast on TuneIn

Mistress Eva and Dirk Hooper ask “Does love and BDSM mix? What do you think? What is your experience? What is your advice to others?” Topics on this episode include BDSM communication, trust and BDSM, falling in love as a submissive, shibari, Goddess worship, and much much more! Mistress Eva’s AVN Stars account – PleaseMeLive.com Dirk Hooper’s DommeLinx Interviews – DommeLinx.com More Mistress Eva Eva OhMistress Eva – BDSM TrainingTwitterInstagram Watch out for Mistress Eva’s Sunday tweets for Safeword Podcast questions! More Dirk Hooper Dirk Hooper Photography and Art WorksSexy NetworkingTwitterFacebookYouTubeKinky Art on SubscribStar Contact Please leave us a comment below or you can contact us directly at info@safewordpodcast.com. We want to hear from you! Safeword Podcast in Syndication You can now listen to the Safeword Podcast through the syndication links below or by searching for “Safeword Podcast” on your app. If we’re not on your favorite service tell us and we’ll get there! Also, your rating and review will help us immensely to find a new audience and is deeply appreciated! We both notice your reviews! Safeword Podcast on Apple Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Spotify Safeword Podcast on Google Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Stitcher Safeword Podcast on TuneIn

Dirk Hooper and Mistress Eva Oh ask the question, “Would you date someone who wasn’t kinky, and find out that there are a lot of people out there who struggle with this issue, or have solved it in their own unique way. Mistress Eva Oh’s Sex Work Guide: Business and Touring Strategies Sex Work Guide: Business and Touring Strategies This guide brings together Mistress Eva Oh’s decade of international experience in sex work as a Dominatrix, escort, massage parlour and brothel worker: and her 15 year history in entrepreneurship and strategic development. More Mistress Eva Eva OhMistress Eva – BDSM TrainingTwitterInstagram Watch out for Mistress Eva’s Sunday tweets for Safeword Podcast questions! More Dirk Hooper Dirk Hooper Photography and Art WorksSexy NetworkingTwitterFacebookYouTube Contact Please leave us a comment below or you can contact us directly at info@safewordpodcast.com. We want to hear from you! Safeword Podcast in Syndication You can now listen to the Safeword Podcast through the syndication links below or by searching for “Safeword Podcast” on your app. If we’re not on your favorite service tell us and we’ll get there! Also, your rating and review will help us immensely to find a new audience and is deeply appreciated! We both notice your reviews! Safeword Podcast on Apple Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Spotify Safeword Podcast on Google Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Stitcher Safeword Podcast on TuneIn

Mistress Eva and Dirk Hooper explore their own opinions and the communities opinions on the attributes of a good submissive. Some topics include pointers for submissives to communicate better, men and sharing emotions, showing vulnerability, following orders, the connection between loyalty and security, and a challenge to submissives. The book that Dirk wrote as Asher Lake that was mentioned: Dominatrix Boss More Mistress Eva Eva OhMistress Eva – BDSM TrainingTwitterInstagram Watch out for Mistress Eva’s Sunday tweets for Safeword Podcast questions! More Dirk Hooper Dirk Hooper Photography and Art WorksSexy NetworkingTwitterFacebookYouTube Contact Please leave us a comment below or you can contact us directly at info@safewordpodcast.com. We want to hear from you! Safeword Podcast in Syndication You can now listen to the Safeword Podcast through the syndication links below or by searching for “Safeword Podcast” on your app. If we’re not on your favorite service tell us and we’ll get there! Also, your rating and review will help us immensely to find a new audience and is deeply appreciated! We both notice your reviews! Safeword Podcast on Apple Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Spotify Safeword Podcast on Google Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Stitcher Safeword Podcast on TuneIn

Mistress Eva and Dirk Hooper are joined by special guest Mistress Adreena Angela as we discuss music and BDSM. Among the topics we explore is Using music for different moods, how relationships affect your playlist (or not), how music can help you shift to inner space, how Dirk needs to get out more, how Mistress Eva has a music playlist called “Destroy” and how heavily music affects the atmosphere that Mistress Adreena Angela creates. Includes advice for professionals as well as information for lifestyle players, some support links, tips, compassion and positive advice from multiple people in the kink community that responded to this tweet by Mistress Eva: Kinky people and BDSM players,What music are you listening to in these times? What is the first thing that you’ll play when you can session again? Tell me about your kinky music playlist.Please reply below and share this post so we can learn from each other.#SafeWordPodcast— MISTRESS EVA OH (@youwillpleaseME) March 29, 2020 And this tweet by Dirk Hooper: A question for kinky scene people,What songs are on your playlist? How do you choose your music? What makes a good song to play to?Answer below and share this post, please!@youwillpleaseME and I are doing a Safeword podcast ep. on this subject w/ @AdreenaMistress soon! pic.twitter.com/o92nwzZLJJ— Dirk Hooper (@DirkHooper) March 28, 2020 Dirk’s Spotify Playlist created by his partner Purrrl: Mistress Eva Mentioned This Music Specifically [Correction: Mistress Eva mentions a different mix on the podcast, corrected here to the Nicolas Jaar Essential Mix] More Mistress Adreena Angela Website – mistressadreena.co.ukTwitter – @AdreenaMistressInstagram – @adreenaangelaOnlyFans – OnlyFans.com/adreena_angela More Mistress Eva Eva OhMistress Eva – BDSM TrainingTwitterInstagram Watch out for Mistress Eva’s Sunday tweets for Safeword Podcast questions! More Dirk Hooper Dirk Hooper Photography and Art WorksSexy NetworkingTwitterFacebookYouTube Contact Please leave us a comment below or you can contact us directly at info@safewordpodcast.com. We want to hear from you! Safeword Podcast in Syndication You can now listen to the Safeword Podcast through the syndication links below or by searching for “Safeword Podcast” on your app. If we’re not on your favorite service tell us and we’ll get there! Also, your rating and review will help us immensely to find a new audience and is deeply appreciated! We both notice your reviews! Safeword Podcast on Apple Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Spotify Safeword Podcast on Google Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Stitcher Safeword Podcast on TuneIn

Mistress Eva and Dirk Hooper discuss how the Coronavirus has affected kink play and sessions in the BDSM community. Includes advice for professionals as well as information for lifestyle players, some support links, tips, compassion and positive advice from multiple people in the kink community that responded to this tweet by Mistress Eva: How has Cornovirus changed your kink play and sessions? Are you doing anything differently? Physically? Mentally? Any tips?Please reply below and share this post so we can all learn from each other.#SafewordPodcast— MISTRESS EVA (@youwillpleaseME) March 15, 2020 Support for Sex Workers Please look to support your local sex worker organizations. Here are some resources that are being updated as things develop: Coronavirus Resource Kit Database of Localized Resources (USA) and Best Practices Navigating COVID-19, Bay Area Workers Support– Harm reduction, Diversifying your income, more. Sex Worker Therapy and Mutual Aid Resources Do you know of any funds that have been set up for sex workers during this time? Please share!At the moment I am aware of:https://t.co/JsIpNDve5Z— MISTRESS EVA (@youwillpleaseME) March 16, 2020 More on Mistress Eva Eva OhMistress Eva – BDSM TrainingTwitterInstagram Watch out for Mistress Eva’s Sunday tweets for Safeword Podcast questions! More on Dirk Hooper Dirk Hooper Photography and Art WorksSexy NetworkingTwitterFacebookYouTube Contact Please leave us a comment below or you can contact us directly at info@safewordpodcast.com. We want to hear from you! Safeword Podcast in Syndication You can now listen to the Safeword Podcast through the syndication links below or by searching for “Safeword Podcast” on your app. If we’re not on your favorite service tell us and we’ll get there! Also, your rating and review will help us immensely to find a new audience and is deeply appreciated! We both notice your reviews! Safeword Podcast on Apple Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Spotify Safeword Podcast on Google Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Stitcher Safeword Podcast on TuneIn

Mistress Eva and Dirk Hooper talk about many fetishes that people love, including Dirk and Eva’s own fetishes, erotic humiliation, impact play, subspace, age play, bondage, vulnerability, stockings, role play, and latex. Much of this discussion comes from Mistress Eva’s question on Twitter below. “What is your favorite fetish? Be loud and proud! No judgment here… just curiosity.” More on Mistress Eva Eva OhMistress Eva – BDSM TrainingTwitterInstagram Watch out for Mistress Eva’s Sunday tweets for Safeword Podcast questions! More on Dirk Hooper Dirk Hooper Photography and Art WorksSexy NetworkingTwitterFacebookYouTube Contact Please leave us a comment below or you can contact us directly at info@safewordpodcast.com. We want to hear from you! Safeword Podcast in Syndication You can now listen to the Safeword Podcast through the syndication links below or by searching for “Safeword Podcast” on your app. If we’re not on your favorite service tell us and we’ll get there! Also, your rating and review will help us immensely to find a new audience and is deeply appreciated! We both notice your reviews! Safeword Podcast on Apple Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Spotify Safeword Podcast on Google Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Stitcher Safeword Podcast on TuneIn

Dirk Hooper and Eva Oh discuss how being a submissive man are perceived by society versus how it is in real life. Some of the topics in this episode include how you have to be strong to kneel, how society tells men they shouldn’t be submissive, how all submissives are not into the same things, trust in a BDSM relationship, the media’s take on BDSM, and the idea that BDSM is a sexual orientation. Much of this discussion comes from Mistress Eva’s question on Twitter below. Male submissives…What do you wish the public knew about being a man and being a submissive? How are you misunderstood by society?Respond below so we can all see your responses on this thread. This is your chance to tell your side of things! #RetweetPlease— MISTRESS EVA (@youwillpleaseME) June 16, 2019 “Male submissives… What do you wish the public knew about being a man and being a submissive? How are you misunderstood by society? Respond below so we can all see your responses on this thread. This is your chance to tell your side of things!” Mentioned in this Episode Dominatrix Boss: A Femdom Tale by Asher Lake Dirk Hooper wrote this book under the pen name Asher Lake. Mistress Eva cited it as an example of the books she reads to get a peek into the submissive mind. Specific Tweets Discussed in this Episode To me, submission is more of a sexual orientation, I am probably Born This Way and I actually really like it but until society changes this stigma, I don't feel too safe revealing such an intimate fact unless it is people I choose to trust. LOVE this question btw Mistress Eva.— Kinky Boyy (@BoyyKinky) June 16, 2019 More on Mistress Eva Eva OhMistress Eva – BDSM TrainingTwitterInstagram Watch out for Mistress Eva’s Sunday tweets for Safeword Podcast questions! More on Dirk Hooper Dirk Hooper Photography and Art WorksSexy NetworkingTwitterFacebookYouTube Contact Please leave us a comment below or you can contact us directly at info@safewordpodcast.com. We want to hear from you! Safeword Podcast in Syndication You can now listen to the Safeword Podcast through the syndication links below or by searching for “Safeword Podcast” on your app. If we’re not on your favorite service tell us and we’ll get there! Also, your rating and review will help us immensely to find a new audience and is deeply appreciated! We both notice your reviews! Safeword Podcast on Apple Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Spotify Safeword Podcast on Google Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Stitcher Safeword Podcast on TuneIn

Mistress Eva and Dirk Hooper discuss the ridiculous assumptions that vanilla people make about kinky people. The discussion follows this tweet from Mistress Eva: To the BDSM community and kinky people in general…What are the most ridiculous assumptions vanilla people make about you and what you do?Please reply below so we can all follow the thread and share this tweet so we can all learn together.— MISTRESS EVA (@youwillpleaseME) June 30, 2019 More on Mistress Eva Eva OhMistress Eva – BDSM TrainingTwitterInstagram More on Dirk Hooper Dirk Hooper Photography and Art WorksSexy NetworkingTwitterFacebookYouTube Contact Please leave us a comment below or you can contact us directly at info@safewordpodcast.com. We want to hear from you! Safeword Podcast in Syndication You can now listen to the Safeword Podcast through the syndication links below or by searching for “Safeword Podcast” on your app. If we’re not on your favorite service tell us and we’ll get there! Also, your rating and review will help us immensely to find a new audience and is deeply appreciated! We both notice your reviews! Safeword Podcast on Apple Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Spotify Safeword Podcast on Google Podcasts Safeword Podcast on Stitcher Safeword Podcast on TuneIn