Grocery Guru Episode 13: The Basic Principles of Negotiating with Andrew Grant & Darren A. Smith
The Basic Principles of Negotiating
Join Andrew Grant and Darren A. Smith in the thirteenth episode of Grocery Guru: The Basic Principles of Negotiating and the Squredance.
You Can Read the Full Principles of Negotiating Episode Transcript Below:
Darren A. Smith:
Welcome to week 13 of the Grocery Guru, and we are with Andrew Grant. Andrew, hello.
Andrew Grant:
Good morning, Darren. How are you?
Darren A. Smith:
Hey, I'm good, I'm good. Lockdown, blah, let's not go through that. We've got a few weeks to go, vaccine. Let's talk about Grocery, what's going on in the world of Grocery this week?
Andrew Grant:
Well, it's been a quiet week, actually. You look at the news-wise, not very much has happened, actually. Nothing stands out. So I thought maybe we'd talk about, I think we did mention it last week in the end. Let's go back to basics. Let's talk about negotiation 101.
Darren A. Smith:
Oh, negotiation 101, okay. Now, recently I wrote an article in The Grocer, name-drop, about negotiation. And a couple of people wrote to me on LinkedIn and said it was very good. It was about me selling my wife's Beetle. And short story, the guy, we took it out for a spin and he said to me, while he was driving the Beetle, he said, "You know I want to negotiate." I said, "Yeah, brilliant." And we came back here, this is my house. And we're looking around the car, as two men do, and I know nothing about cars. We're kicking the tires. And he said, "Right, I'm ready to negotiate." And I said, "Cool." And I pushed the price up by 250 quid. And he said, "No, no, no, we were going to negotiate." I said, "I am."
Andrew Grant:
A little bit cheeky, a little bit cheeky. I'd suggest if you're a small supplier to a Tesco, you don't do that. But fair enough. I think in the world of cars, there are no rules.
Andrew Grant:
But no, I was reading an article in one of the Sunday papers about the Brexit deal. And they were saying that the deal was only done because the EU convinced themselves that Boris was mad enough to go through with a no-deal. So effectively, that Boris was willing to cut his nose off to spite his face. And it was only because they were convinced he was willing to do something almost illogical that they came to the party. And it just got me thinking about, I always remember being told, taught, "Never threaten something you're not willing to carry through."
Darren A. Smith:
Absolutely, yeah.
Andrew Grant:
Because if you get called out on it, that is your credibility gone forever and a day.
Darren A. Smith:
Well, and that's it. And you've lost the negotiation, but not only that, you've lost the relationship long-term. Because every time you ever bluff in the future, they'll say, "Yeah, we'll call it." Yeah, I'd agree.
Andrew Grant:
Yeah, and I think that's probably the critical thing when it comes to supermarket negotiations, hopefully, they're not just one-offs. You selling your wife's car is a one-off, clearly, you didn't mind if you upset the other guy.
Andrew Grant:
Yeah, hopefully, you'll never see him again. But yeah, if you're hoping to have a long and fruitful supply relationship with a supermarket, you really do need to get into that win-win zone. Into a lose-win, or even... Yeah, win for the supplier, lose for the supermarket, probably not a good long-term option.
Darren A. Smith:
No, no. And there's Steven Covey, in his 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, talks about in the habit win-win. A great story, where it goes through win-win, or win-lose, or lose-win. And he talks about the long-term effects of that. Because lots of people talk about win-win, but actually what they're sort of thinking is win-die, "I'm going to take as much as I can, and the rest can go poke it." But Covey puts it really, really well. So I'm going to recommend the audio version of that habit.
Andrew Grant:
Okay, yeah. Because yes, I think you're right. I