POP 001: Vicious Cycle of Violence: Interview with Terry Primm
Summary
Interview with Terry Primm. Commentary on a CBS.com news article about the vicious cycle of violence created by spanking children. Terry Speaks about his childhood memories and discusses his experience with being forced into a fatherly role over an ex-girlfriend's young child.
Show Links
CBS News: http://www.cbsnews.com/news/spanking-triggers-vicious-cycle-study-finds/
Aha! Parenting.com: http://www.ahaparenting.com/_blog/Parenting_Blog/post/Are_You_a_Gardener_or_a_Sculptor/
In this episode, you will learn
Statistics about spanking, child abuse, and violence
Terry speaks about his childhood, sharing stories
Our take on the CBS article about the vicious cycle of violence
What next?
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Transcript
Hi and welcome to the Parent of Podcast Progress… um Parent of Progress Podcast. Yeah, that’s the one. Where peaceful parenting strategies take a front row seat in the conversation. I’m your host, Daniel Wagner. And as a former authoritarian parent, it’s my mission to evolve parenthood four children at a time.
Today I’ll be speaking with Terry Primm, a newly reformed peaceful parenting advocate and father of none. But even though he is not yet a parent, he does intend to be some day.
Also, I’d love to hear your feedback. Please let me know what you think of the show over at parentofprogress.com/contact
Enjoy the show.
Before we get started, I just wanted to go over this news article I found in the CBS news.com website. This article, titled “Spanking Triggers Vicious Cycle, Study Finds” I just wanted to get your thoughts about a couple things here.
They mentioned that about 28% of mothers reported spanking their children during their first year of life, increasing to 57% at age three, and then hovering around 53% at age five, and 48% at age nine. Basically 49% of parents were still spanking their children as nine year olds. What do you think about that?
T: Well first of all, I want to meet these women who spank one year olds, because that is absolutely ridiculous. What can a one year old possibly do or understand that he’s getting a spanking for.
D: As if they’re cognitively developed enough to understand what’s going on. I guess all they see is “well my caretaker is whooping my ass or hitting me. This is the person I’m supposed to depend on for all my needs. And here I am getting beat and being silenced, being told I’m somehow misbehaving.”
T: It’s like,