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We are back at it again with Shane Kidd and Macklyn Mosley, talking about their perspectives on being single and Christian and how that plays out in the Church. This episode the fellas get a little more comfortable and real.  We talk about navigating being friends with women and issues they have with single women in the church.  Take a listen and let us know your thoughts. Please give us a rating and a review on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on: Instagram-instagram.com/oursexualhealing Facebook-facebook.com/BlogBytheBells Twitter-twitter.com/oursexualhealin Check out our blog-oursexualhealing.co Email us at bells@oursexualhealing.co Artist: Stephen the Levite ft. Eshon Burgundy, Shaati, and S.O. Song: Dynamic Duel

We took a much-needed break to lament, but we're back in full effect.  This episode is a continuation of our Chrisitan and Single Series and we got the men's perspective on Christian Single women in the church and what the climate of the single's world is like.  Joining us is Shane Kidd and Macklyn Mosley.  Take a listen and let us know your thoughts.  Please give us a rating and a review on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on: Instagram-instagram.com/oursexualhealing Facebook-facebook.com/BlogBytheBells Twitter-twitter.com/oursexualhealin Check out our blog-oursexualhealing.co Email us at bells@oursexualhealing.co Artist: Stephen the Levite Song: 143

This episode has us talking about a plethora of things!! From porn being the reason men lack good social skills, to Singles Ministries and solutions to the single people problems we discussed.  Such a good and rich conversation with our sisters, Simone Brown and Seretha Collins. Take a listen and chime in on the convo.  We especially would love to hear from single men!  You can listen to Simone and Seretha's podcast, Clean Ears, here where they talk godly living and Christian lifestyle with a Hip-Hop soundtrack, some of our favorite topics! Please give us a rating and a review on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on: Instagram-instagram.com/oursexualhealing Facebook-facebook.com/BlogBytheBells Twitter-twitter.com/oursexualhealin Check out our blog-oursexualhealing.co Join our community and support-Patreon.com/oursexualhealing Email us at bells@oursexualhealing.co Artist: Stephen the Levite  Song: Baggage

In this episode, we're back with part 2 of our Christian & Single series with the women of the Clean Ears Podcast, Seretha Collins, and Simone Brown.  We talked about the differences in how we perceive the Church to treat Married People vs. Single People.  We also touched on what the Church could do about helping single men be more engaging with single women.  You can listen to their podcast here where they talk godly living and Christian lifestyle with a Hip-Hop soundtrack, some of our favorite topics! Please give us a rating and a review on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on: Instagram-instagram.com/oursexualhealing Facebook-facebook.com/BlogBytheBells Twitter-twitter.com/oursexualhealin Check out our blog-oursexualhealing.co Email us at bells@oursexualhealing.co Artist: Stephen the Levite (Produced by DJ Official) Song: Abbreviation

In this episode, we interviewed the women of the Clean Ears Podcast with Seretha Collins and Simone Brown, about being Christian and Single. Listen in as they share their personal experiences on what it’s like getting to know Christian men in the church and the climate around dating as a Christian woman.  You can listen to their podcast here where they talk godly living and Christian lifestyle with a Hip-Hop soundtrack, some of our favorite topics!   Please give us a rating and a review on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on: Instagram-instagram.com/oursexualhealing Facebook-facebook.com/BlogBytheBells Twitter-twitter.com/oursexualhealin Check out our blog-oursexualhealing.co Email us at bells@oursexualhealing.co Artist: Stephen the Levite Song: S.O.S

This is the third episode of our special series about Sex in The Culture. @teabells had a very honest and transparent discussion with 6 dope emcees about their experiences with sex and reflected on how it impacted their lives. Take a listen to the third part of the series, where they discuss how the Culture views sex and ways they can push God’s perspective to the world. Ladies interviewed: @Monielle, @im.mykiiie, @truevidencelife, @daarinah, @mzshakiahmc, @aasha_marie Please give us a rating and a review on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on: Instagram-instagram.com/oursexualhealing Facebook-facebook.com/BlogBytheBells Twitter-twitter.com/oursexualhealin Check out our blog-oursexualhealing.co Email us at bells@oursexualhealing.co Artist: Stephen the Levite Song: Baggage

This is the second episode of a very special series about Sex in The Culture. @teabells had a very honest and transparent discussion with 6 dope emcees about their experiences with sex and reflected on how it impacted their lives. Take a listen to the second part of the series, where they discuss what their reaction/response was when they learned of God's view and intention for sex.  Ladies interviewed: @Monielle, @im.mykiiie, @truevidencelife, @daarinah, @mzshakiahmc, @aasha_marie Please give us a rating and a review on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on: Instagram-@oursexualhealing Facebook-facebook.com/BlogBytheBells Twitter-@oursexualhealin Check out our blog-oursexualhealing.co Email us at bells@oursexualhealing.co Artist: Stephen the Levite  Song: Baggage

This is the first episode of a very special series about Sex in The Culture. @teabells had a very honest and transparent discussion with 6 dope emcees about their experiences with sex and reflected on how it impacted their lives. Take a listen as they recount their Introduction to Sex.   Ladies interviewed: @Monielle, @im.mykiiie, @truevidencelife, @daarinah, @mzshakiahmc, @aasha_marie Please give us a rating and a review on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on: Instagram-@oursexualhealing Facebook-facebook.com/BlogBytheBells Twitter-@oursexualhealin Check out our blog-oursexualhealing.co Email us at bells@oursexualhealing.co Artist: Stephen the Levite ft. Melissa T Song: Truth Is

Covid-19 has taken over the entire world and it's been pretty devastating, to say the least.  For those of you who are like us, stuck in the house with children and your spouse, we've made a list of dope things you can do together.  Check out our list and tell us what you've been doing with your time on lockdown.    Please give us a rating and a review on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on: Instagram-@oursexualhealing Facebook-facebook.com/BlogBytheBells Twitter-@oursexualhealin Check out our blog-oursexualhealing.co Email us at bells@oursexualhealing.co Artist: Stephen the Levite  Song: Herbs & Spices

In this episode, we talk about the pros and cons of the new show Love Is Blind.  We also mention the 3 C's that are important to consider in every dating relationship.  Tell us what you thought of the show.  To hear the full episode, become a patron on Patreon.   Follow us on: Instagram-@oursexualhealing Facebook-facebook.com/BlogBytheBells Twitter-@oursexualhealin Check out our blog-oursexualhealing.co Email us at bells@oursexualhealing.co Artist: Stephen the Levite ft. Christon Gray Song: Honeymoon

In this next episode, we are talking to single folks who may or may not be ready for a relationship.  We talk about people who don't ever want to be in a relationship or were meant to be single and those who desire a relationship and what it may require.  Let us know your thoughts.  To listen to the full episode, join our community on Patreon! Follow us on: Instagram-@oursexualhealing Facebook-facebook.com/BlogBytheBells Twitter-@oursexualhealin Check out our blog-oursexualhealing.co Email us at bells@oursexualhealing.co Artist: Stephen the Levite Song: Dynamic Duel 2

In this episode, we address the blog post Darrell recently wrote about, pertaining to blockers that can sometimes get in the way of intimacy with your spouse. We talk a bit about our own experience with these blockers and how to move past them.  If you're interested in joining the challenge, go to bit.ly/sexnprayerchallenge Follow us on: Instagram-@oursexualhealing  Facebook-facebook.com/BlogBytheBells Twitter-@oursexualhealind Check out our blog-oursexualhealing.co Artist: Terem Song: Warm & Fresh

Whether married, single with plans of marriage, or just having sex, we have to count the costs and consider the risks we're taking.  With sex comes a multitude of potential consequences.  In this show we talk about our personal experience and the reality of the risks in sexual activity. 

Recently Ayesha Curry admitted to some real insecurities that many women and men face.  We get real on this episode and talk about our own insecurities, needing safe spaces to express them, and challenging husbands to lead their wives in a way that allows vulnerability in communication.

Alcohol isn't the only way to induce intoxication.  In this episode we discuss the value of sobriety and what's at stake when we lose it.  Music: "Do No Harm" - Wes Pendleton

Now that we've watched the remainder of the docu-series, @findingdestiny39 is back as we conclude our conversation about "Surviving R. Kelly".  Listen in and let us know your thoughts.   Music: "Beauty & The Beast"- Stephen the Levite https://soundcloud.com/stephenthelevite

With all of the talk going on around the new documentary on R. Kelly, we felt we should share our thoughts on it as well.  We had a special guest join us, @findingdestiny39. Tune in and let us know what you think.  Music-Stephen the Levite-Baggage https://soundcloud.com/stephenthelevite

The game keeps changing, but some principles stay the same. For this show, we invited a couple single sisters, @llondon-bridgess and @nenayouinc, to discuss the way courtship/ dating looks these days. Tune in and share your thoughts. Link to the website mentioned in the podcast- https://krisvallotton.com/4-reasons-men-really-delay-marriage-and-how-to-step-it-up/?utm_source=sumome&utm_medium=sms&utm_campaign=sumome_share Music by James Gardin-Next to Me jamesgardin.com

Two major, but very different, breakups happened recently in the public eye. This episode we talk about the contrasts and what we can learn from their experiences. Music: "Never Let You Go" - Wes Pendelton

This Episode we discuss how setting limits in relationships keeps you from getting played and from playing yourself. Music: Wes Pendelton - "I'm Gonna Love You" & Stephen The Levite - "They Don't Know"