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Are you second-guessing yourself – asking questions like “Can I be that bold with my goals?” “Can I really be that audacious with my goals?” … and a little bit of self-doubt creeps in. That self-doubt goes to a whole new level; where it stops you from taking action. A lot of that is driven by this phenomenon that’s been around for a long time. It’s called Imposter Syndrome. Today, I’m interviewing my longtime friend and my former colleague in the law, retired judge Sherrill Ellsworth. We’re talking about Imposter Syndrome, women needing to believe in themselves, think about those things that hold us back, and embracing those hurdles head-on. Sherrill is a past presiding judge of the Riverside County Superior Court. I think you’re really going to enjoy what Judge Ellsworth has to say because we’ve both been there and we both overcome some serious hurdles. She’s brilliant, very insightful and I know you’re going to love her.

Today, Rachael and I talk about my interview with Lori Stone. She’s running for Temecula City Council in her district. We’re talking women in leadership, and what happens when women lead.

During these times, there is something that continues to happen at home. It’s a topic a lot of people don’t want to talk about, but we need to talk about it. That is the topic of abuse and domestic violence. More than ever with people sheltering in place, many folks who are the victims of controller abusers are now isolated and completely locked into place with that abuser. In today’s episode, I’m bringing you my interview with Katie Gilbertson. Katie is phenomenal! She works within the Riverside County District Attorney’s Office in their Victim Services Unit, overseeing what we call the S.A.F.E. Family Justice Centers. S.A.F.E. is a non-profit organization here in southern California that partners with our courts. S.A.F.E. stands for Safe Alternatives For Everyone.

Today, I’m bringing you part two of my interview with District Attorney, Ivy Fitzpatrick. If you listened to the last episode, which you’ll want to do if you have not, Ivy Fitzpatrick and I were talking in detail about how to live an extraordinary life in the midst of chaos, and we certainly are in some chaotic times here dealing with this COVID-19 worldwide pandemic. Where we left off, Ivy was talking about the different tools that she used to handle a major life challenge that was as disruptive if not more, and on an ongoing basis, than what we’re dealing with this pandemic. I left off asking Ivy what kinds of people she surrounds herself with in order to successfully navigate a very serious chronic medical condition that she's got, and so you're going to hear Ivy kick that off. But the rest of the interview gets really interesting, because we are discussing the concept of redemptive pain and how to use that redemptive pain, not only to live an extraordinary life but to also serve others. Without further ado, sit back, relax, and here's part two of my interview with Ivy Fitzpatrick.

Hey there empire builders, it’s Kelly Bennett and I’m so happy to be back in what is a return after a long break from the microphone. We are in an interesting season of change and a lot of worldwide turmoil and upheaval with this COVID-19 crisis. And today’s episode and interview couldn’t come at a better time. I think you’re going to find a lot of very helpful information and inspiration as I introduce you to and you listen in on my interview with my guest, Ivy Fitzpatrick. Ivy is an exceptional career woman. If you have got some struggles going on, if your life has been put on pause or there’s a big shift or sea change that’s gone on recently – don't we all have a lot of change that’s gone on recently with our new normal as we are dealing in this nation and worldwide with COVID-19. Ivy Fitzpatrick is an attorney, of course, that’s why we get along so well, right? Well, Ivy has been in practice for 21 years and her law practice and what she does is really unique.

I’m throwin’ you into the deep end of the pool (and yes…I’m jumping in with you)… because today, we’re exploring the Power of Negative Motivation. That’s right – NEGATIVE motivation. Now I’m not a big fan of negative anything – and really…I think the phrase “negative motivation” is a bit of an oxy-moron. But I’ve discovered a few ways that negative consequences really do work to overcome procrastination. So in this show, I’ll share 3 negative motivation tools you can use today to combat procrastination…including the one that’s the most effective technique I’ve ever used! It’s my “secret weapon” when I’m REALLY feeling challenged by the procrastination monster… And you know what? I’ve battled procrastination ALL. MY. LIFE.It’s a procrastination throw-down today.Are you ready? Then gimme your hand, ‘cause we’re jumping into the deep end.

When was the last time you were bored? What is the sensation you get when you’re bored? It is unpleasant? Do you feel restless? Is it a lonely feeling? Do you feel unproductive when you're bored out of your mind?Did you know that this thing called boredom is actually a superpower of the most creative minds, the most effective problem-solvers, and the most successful business leaders?If you haven’t guessed by now BOREDOM is our topic today…and you’ll want to listen to this week’s episode because this conversation is anything but boring.

Have you ever had someone talk smack about you or your business? Was it justified? Was it just a bunch of misinformation designed to get under your skin and make you look bad?Most of the time, when someone talks smack – it doesn’t rise to the level of defamation – the type of smack talk you can sue for…but there is still something you CAN do about it. Yes, you can consider lawsuits (this is often how hear about these situations at our law firm…people want to pick my legal brain about it).But we’re not going to talk about the legal aspects of this today. We’re going to get into the real practical ways to overcome a damaged reputation (or what you THINK is a damaged reputation) – 3 ways to deal with it…which apply to every situation imaginable.

It’s been a LOOOONG hiatus since our last episode. So here we are… back for another season of On Fire Empire – and this time we have a new book to share! More on that later.It’s Thanksgiving this week and for some people, it’s a sad time of the year. This might be you. Or someone you love – if someone you know is going through something – then PLEASE share this episode. It may be exactly what they need – just in the nick of time.This might be the first holiday after any number of things that have a knack of turning the world upside down for some – a failed marriage – lost loved one or family member – financial crisis – you feel alone. When you feel hopeless your vision is clouded – and you can’t envision the future. You feel there is no future – and that feeling leads to the feeling of helplessness.Maybe it’s time you ask… a different QUESTION. Are you ready? Listen up!

Part 2 of the “Gossip” Empowerment Series. Just say NO to the drama stuff and the psst… psst… whisper… whisper… at work and at home. Have a listen as Jose and I discuss three more reasons gossip disempowers you. Then visit our episode page a cool and useful freebie The “No Gossip, Affirm Others Policy.” Show page: http://kellybennettesq.com/033.

In Part 1 of the “Gossip” Empowerment Series, we’re looking at some of the side effects of gossip to you personally, and how a little “harmless” gossip isn’t so harmless after all. Jose and I share some real-life examples of gossip undoing the “gossiper.” You might not believe what you hear. Visit our episode page a cool and useful freebie The “No Gossip, Affirm Others Policy.” Show page: http://kellybennettesq.com/032.

If you're an ambitious achiever-type, being behind can make you a little nutty. You want to do everything at the same time—like yesterday. Do you need a breather? I thought so. Just press play on this episode to see how you can pause and recalibrate. Frazzle-time over. It's a win-win.

Feeling like your mo-jo is running on empty? I’ve got the fix. It’s a simple trick that works wonders to refill your "mo-jo tank." It’s quick and easy, too. In this episode, shaking your booty is at the front and center of the podcast. Not only is it fun to have your own private dance party to your favorite songs, but it’s a proven pick-me-up. See my favorite 'booty shaking' playlist on the show page www.kellybennettesq.com/030.

In this episode, my special guest Mindy Felton and I are sharing a big secret to having an empowered and meaningful work life. We’re talking about The Upside To Becoming Personally Invested With Emotionally Charged Clients. You’ll learn a few tweaks you can make today in your work to supercharge your way to authentic empowerment. You won’t believe what a difference you’ll feel once you invoke this “secret.”

Welcome to another episode of the On Fire Empire Podcast – I’m your host, Kelly Bennett.I’m with my Producer – Mr. Jose Bono and we’re introducing our new series on Empowerment.So many of the speaking requests I get are about empowerment in one form or another.In fact, I just did a keynote a few weeks ago for a large group of business women on the topic of WOMEN’S EMPOWERMENT. It was a high energy-filled time, and so much fun to see all these boss-lady entrepreneurs engaged in some intensive lessons on this all-important subject.In this episode we’re going to share a little bit from a recent Women’s Empowerment event – where I taught on the concept of YOU GET WHAT YOU FOCUS ON – and that FOCUS can create feelings of EMPOWERMENT or DISEMPOWERMENT.

Ever get in trouble with the law? Even normal law-abiding citizens at one time or another find themselves interacting with the law. You don’t want to miss part 2 of “Everyone’s A Criminal! A Nice-Gal’s and Nice-Guy’s Guide to Run-Ins With the Law.” My guest is a leading criminal defense attorney, John Pozza. John’s been practicing the art of criminal defense for over 25 years, and he shares some interesting tidbits.

Ever get in trouble with the law? Even normal law-abiding citizens at one time or another find themselves interacting with the law. Maybe it’s being a witness to a car accident, or being pulled over for speeding. Sometimes bigger issues arise that you never thought you’d have to deal with. That’s why this week's episode, number 27, is called “Everyone’s A Criminal! A Nice-Gal’s and Nice-Guy’s Guide to Run-Ins With the Law.” My guest in this episode is a leading criminal defense attorney, John Pozza. John’s been practicing the art of criminal defense for over 25 years. Tune in to this fascinating interview.

Even if you don’t need a lawyer right now, I’ll bet you know someone who does. Or someone who has an attorney and may be in the middle of a divorce, or starting a business and working with a business attorney. You’ll be their hero when you share the insider details we’re dishing today. When you cultivate a great working relationship with a lawyer, you’ll get much better results – and save time and money too. Everyone wants that, right?

Finding the right attorney can make the difference between a good outcome, or a ridiculously bad one‍.In a sea of tv/internet ads, bad radio ads and bad recommendations, knowing what to look for and who to talk to can save you a ton of time. Depending on your situation, it can also save you many thousands of dollars. Want to know how to find and hire the right attorney? This episode is made just for you!

Let’s face it…it feels pretty crappy when someone owes us money. A debt ignored = conflict, right? Well, I’ve got some great news for you: Money matters don’t have to be a burr under your saddle. In this all-new Episode 23, I share 10 tips for collecting your dough—and some tricks to preventing the situation in the first place.