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This week, Dick and Lexi sat down with Feral Rose to discuss her brand of primal play, preferring bare hands and rough body play to toys, as well as (consensually) flirting with danger. They also discussed intersectionality and being a person of color in the kink community, and being a kink liaison to vanilla friends.  Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink Check out this week's sponsor: A Krows Nest More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, primal, rough, body, toys, intersectionality, poc, community

This week, Dick and max were joined by Smokey to discuss her interest and writings about Stepfordization, and how it crosses over with other kinks (such as 1950s household, bimbofication, hypnosis, ASFR, and more).  Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink Check out this week's sponsor: A Krows Nest More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, bimboification, hypnosis, asfr, stepfordization, wives, horror

In this follow-up to their recent episode together, this time, Dick put Gwen in the hot seat and asked her about erotic ASMR and other mouth-related play (including spitting, gagging, and eating pre-chewed food), as well as their recent exploration into alien/demon/creature role plays. Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink Check out this week's sponsor: darknatureaesthetics.com More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, asmr, mouth, play, spit, gag, chew, food, alien, demon, creature, roleplay

This week, we sat down with Nikki to talk about finding her place in the community as a top/sadist after starting off as a submissive, sleepover-style dollification, and all of the pervertables Dave & Buster’s has to offer.  Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, sadist, sleepover, dollification, dave, buster, games, evolution, community

This week, we sat down with Athena to discuss coming to terms with being kinky while growing up in a conservative area, as well as the practice of doing kink scenes over long periods of time as an alternative to having a 24/7 D/s dynamic.   Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

This week, we sat down with Pro-Domme Lady Lovage to talk about how she used real-life military experience to influence her role plays, as well as pushing for the acceptance of sex work in her kink community.  Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

This week, guest host Bidaily (Gwen) interviewed Dick about their recent explorations into human toilet play, and what that means for their dynamic. They also discuss ear sex, gagging/puking, sock/foot play, and what happens when you send a jar of spit in the mail.  Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, vomit, toilet, socks, feet, spit, saliva, disgusting, gross, puke, gag

This week, we sat down with author Jane Boon to talk about traveling to dungeons around the world, as well as the research that led to writing her novel, Edge Play. We also got into talking about writing smut as foreplay. Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, author, smut, erotica, travel, research, writing, writer, foreplay

This week we were joined by Danger Mittens to talk about comedic sadism, including incorporating silliness and playfulness into scenes, as well as using humor and pain to ease your partner into subspace.  Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

This week, we sat down with Roger Butler, host of the podcast Curious Conversations About Sex, to talk about the importance of safewords (in and out of kink), using percussion skills for spanking, and elaborate role plays involving 10+ people. We also talked about their business, Curious Creatures, and its services, such as consent cards, classes, and sex parties. Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

This week, Dick and Lexi were in the process of moving to Michigan, so max sat down with Mermaid Kitten to discuss being a little while living in a small town with only an online community, as well as incorporating sign language into a burlesque routine. Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink | BDSM | Fetish | Fantasy | Sex | Education | Positive | DIY | Punk | Nerds | DDLG | Little | Littlespace | Burlesque | Sign Language

This week, we sat down with Mistress Bunny to talk about her wetting fetish, including the visual appeal in certain clothing, the sound, and the vulnerability that comes with indulging in your deepest desires. Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink | BDSM | Fetish | Fantasy | Sex | Education | Positive | DIY | Punk | Nerds | Wetting | Pee | Watersports | Vulnerability | Desire | Sweatpants

This week we sat down with Thista Minai, author of Suffering for Spirit, to talk about ordeal work and rituals, needle play, and combining kink and Paganism. Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Kink | BDSM | Fetish | Fantasy | Sex | Education | Positive | DIY | Punk | Nerds | Paganism | Witch | Ordeal | Ritual | Needles | Suffering

Mud, finger paints, and cake sitting, oh my! This week, we sat down with Mudislife to discuss all things wet and messy play, such as his origins of doing barrel rolls in mud, clothing destruction, and even Alien slime fantasies.  Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink | BDSM | Fetish | Fantasy | Sex | Education | Positive | DIY Punk | Nerds | wet | messy | wam | mud | slime | food play | fluids | goo

This week, we sat down with occupational therapist Lancifolium to discuss how to better posture yourself for play so the only pain is that which is intended, as well as using sensory deprivation to amplify the effects of other forms of play.  Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink | BDSM | Fetish | Fantasy | Sex | Education | Positive | DIY | Punk | Nerds | Occupational Therapy | Pain | Rope | Sensory Deprivation | Wax | Ears | ASMR

This week, Dick and Lexi sat down with Pete, Gloriosa, and Cassidy from Glasgow Does to talk about the kink scene in Scotland, as well as starting a local power exchange group which has expanded after moving to virtual discussions. Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

This week, Dick, max, and Lexi sat down without a guest to field listener questions and give some brief life updates, such as Dick’s recent explorations into human toilet play, max’s new wrastlin’ podcast, and Lexi being gay as fuck.  Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

This week, we sat down with Johnathon Hood to dive into all things hoods and masks, puppy play, and being in a 24/7 D/s relationship that occasionally involves switching.  Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

This week, we sat down with erotic fiction narrator Katrina Medina to talk about her work, practicing kink discreetly, and how a sci-fi novel accidentally ended up with a chapter titled “My First Gangbang.”  Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

In the second part of our series on using kink to work through trauma, we sat down with Apocalyptic Tea to discuss working through internalized shame, engaging in consensual non-consent play after an assault, and learning that love doesn’t mean having to hate yourself. Twitter/Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST