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We're baaaack!  Thank you for all of your patience to our tribe.  We talk about our break in podcasting and why we decided to return.  We talk about 8 ways to weather sexual dry spells and how we got through Paul's injuries.  We recorded from our new home bar that sapped our creative energy for months.  

This episode is the first one in season 3.  Join us as we relive Jamie's costume fail with a butt plug, how she recovered and is finding her voice with other men in bed.  We also share a couple of sexy stories. 

We recap our trip to Antigua with Room77 and the few differences we found between Desire RM and Pearl.  We discuss how were in a Nojo slump and rediscovered our Mojo. 

Jamie got a new MotorBunny Buck and we share our experience with the toy and some audio from her first ride and orgasm.  This is really NSFW; it's audio porn.  We also share the story of our trip to Foamaggedon 2021 and the amazing 8 handed massage with a very happy ending.

In this episode we talk about the fun we had during 30 days of lingerie on Twitter.  Jamie did a thing.  She took a huge risk and published a novella which is collection of short BDSM stories for Paul on his birthday. (This is not a lifestyle book, please be warned).  We spend some time talking about the depression and hormone imbalance issues we have been dealing with.  But rest assured tribe, things end really well and we share some really sexy stories about Jamie finding the "black diamond" of orgasms.   The link to Kristine's Submissive Adventures; Erotic BDSM Short Stories https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B093LJ2KCZ&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_MQHYJTHQ6MXGG4KYJSPJ  

In this episode we talk about how Bernie Sanders memes brought a nation together.  We then talk about how we see a spectrum of the lifestyle and how we are similar but different from the LGBTQ community.  We wrap up by telling the sexy story of our antibodies party on NYE with two other couples.  What a night, we checked something of someone's bucket list.

Join us this month when we talk to Ed and Sarah.  They are in the lifestyle and Sarah is a model with a large social media presence.  We talk to them about all of  their sites as well as about the Ladies Love Desire Facebook page.   We also tell a sexy story about an amazing night with some tall friends where Jamie experiences #shortgirlproblems.   Sarah's social media sites include www.SarahClayton.com www.onlyfans/SarahClayton Insta- Sclaytonmodeling Twitter @sarah_clayton81  

In this month's episode we talk about the OG who fought a Gator and won, saving his puppy and his cigar.  We then we begin to explore whether Hot Wifing is a something we want add into our fluid play style, but it means changing some rules.   We asked our friends Cam and Brandy some questions to help us with our decision. Then we end with a sexy story in a cabin with friends and sharing a mountain with others we are sure were part of our tribe.   

In this episode we celebrate our 1st podcast anniversary, thank you tribe!  We add a new word to our vocabulary, ambivert as we talk about the struggles we and others in the lifestyle are having with anxiety and depression during the pandemic.  But never fear, we end with the sexy story of a MMMF play time we had at a small house party.     A special thanks to those fellow podcasters and content creators we have met and have offered us support. Our Naughty Escapades, Room77, Club Euphoria, DDN, Spiritual Swingers. 

In this episode we talk about how questions build intimacy in life and in the Lifestyle.  Jamie found swinger tik tok, and Lois and Clark join us in studio to record the segment on intimacy and we tell a sexy story of a very hot night that was all about Jamie (YAY!!)   Swinger tiktok @drunknlove_ls  

In this bonus episode we recap our July 2020 trip to Desire Pearl.  We talk about travel during the pandemic and our experience in a Mexican Hospital (or a Mexican prison according to Paul). Richard and Lauren from Room 77 provided some invaluable support to us and we traveled home and tested positive for coronavirus.  We end with a sexy story about missed opportunities and dueling vibrators.   room77life.com https://www.amazon.com/Kasey-Martin/e/B016WAICV0%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share  

We share a short episode discussing how the quarantine has impacted Jamie's body image.  We give an update on Sir Thomas Moore and tell a sexy story that followed the first recording of this podcast.  Some of the audio is a little off, we apologize in advance, but files got corrupted and we ended up buying a new PC.   Be on the lookout for a bonus episode coming soon! 

During the quarantine we had a lot of time together.   In this episode we talk about the changes we've seen on social media and laugh about a plethora of sex fails we've had over the years. We tell a sexy story about a quarantine date night.   twitter account mentioned in episode @holdmyale 

This month we start out talking about Some Good News and some good bingeable music and shows.  Then we move on to discussing our "types" in the lifestyle and how most are the anti-Paul type.  Then we dig way into the vault and talk about our first lifestyle experience. We reference on this podcast The Witcher- Netfilx The Morning Show- Apple TV Rate my room twitter account- @ratemyskpyeroom DoubleDateNation.com  

On this episode, we talk about the SARS CoV-2 (COVID-19) and how it is impacting us personally and how it is playing on social media.  Paul then shares a letter to himself about body image and we discuss how social media impacts our body image.  Then we share the story of an amazing night where we put on a show at the now closed Champagne Club. We hope everyone in our tribe stays safe and sexy through this pandemic and we look forward to getting to be our social selves again!

In this episode after starting out talking about commercials during the the "big game",  Paul and Jamie discuss the concept of sexual fluidity and erotic plasticity as they struggle with female-female play in the lifestyle.  Then, they tell a couple sexy stories about fun female-female play. #swingerpodcast #lifestyle #sybian

Paul and Jamie discuss the cuteness of Baby Yoda and his memes as well as seeing their tags on twitter.  Jamie tells her 20 year old self that sometimes you don't know 'til you know.  Jamie an Paul then share the story of an event that rocked the foundation of their swinging world and a sexy story with members of their  tribe that helped them move past it.       

It's a Christmas Bonus Episode recorded especially to share with the Ladies Love Desire Facebook Group.  In this episode Paul and Jamie talk about the woman filled with the holiday spirit at the WaWa.  Then Jamie tells herself to go find her very own happiest place on earth and then Paul and Jamie talk about Desire Pearl and share some audio of actual "yellow banders" they recorded in November.  They wrap up with a sexy story about a 2am text.   You can book photos at Pearl with Jahel by DMing her on Instagram she is   jahel_dgm_photography. You can find out more about the Art of Touch workshop at Room77life.com  

Paul and Jamie talk about the Pelton ad and their love for the Aviation Gin creative team.  Paul shares a letter to his 20 year old self and then they talk about how bad they are at recognizing the signs and closing the deal.  Luckily, they have sexy friends who do know how to move things along, and they share the sexy story of Jamie's first full swap experience.   

Paul and Jamie discuss the Lisa Ling special that aired on CNN.  Jamie's advises herself to not take herself too seriously.  A few members of the tribe give advice to themselves.  Paul shares the sexy story about some fun play at a hotel party.