Listen Now

This week, we're talking about the fake wealth industry. Yes, that's a thing and it also rakes in over $1 billion a year.  It's the industry that helps influencers appear rich. Wanna show off on a private jet? There's a photographic studio for that. Wanna act like you're in Bora Bora? Don't worry, there's a company that can doctor your likeness and voice into beautiful Bora Bora scenery to make it look like you're on a lavish vacation.  Do we find it all a bit cringe, or aspirational? Tune in to find out!   And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram          

This week, we're wondering if millennials are naturally pessimistic. Did the start of the internet age make us a bit more cautious than Gen Z? Whyyyy are Gen Z more driven than Millennials? So many questions, so many answers... And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram          

Hear ye! Hear ye! Gather round' all serfs and peasants. This week, we fall to our knees and humbly pledge allegiance to......OURSELVES! In honour of all things coronation we discuss if, considering the current state of England, it's a bit tone deaf. Could some of the money be used towards more immediate problems? Or should we be grateful that the British Royal Family help boost our tourism economy? So much too unpack.  On a lighter note, Amelia has a list of historic laws that she orders King Charles to abolish! And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram          

This week, we get to the bottom of why Amelia no longer leaves the house for social events. It gets deep. Like, psychoanalysis deep. Okay, maybe it's not that deep but we still uncover why Amelia has hung up her dancing shoes. Though, this isn't necessarily a good thing and Amanda explains why she wants to see Amelia stepping out into the world more.    And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we discuss the importance of financial responsibility in relationships, and ask whether it's ever really a 50/50 split. Also, can bad money management be a good reason to call off an engagement? Join us as we delve into why a higher earning spouse should support their partner--particularly if they're trying to get a career off the ground. It may be a polarising one this week, but it won't be boring! And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

If ever there was a time for a celebration it would be today! 100 fu*cking episodes...whoop! Can you believe it? Well, we can.  We want to say a big thank you to those of you who have been with us on this ride since day one and, of course, all of the newer members of our tribe. As you've probably guessed, this week we're having a good old reminisce about NTBD, and look to the future for amazing things. Love you all!  And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week is a weird one. Sexually. Okay, in an effort to not discriminate we will describe this episode as being curiously informative. We all have our own kinks but imagine not knowing about the most obscure fetishes--and missing out! So, we have curated a list of rare fetishes that may just tickle your fancy...or at least have you laughing. Can laughter be a fetish? Listen to this week's episode to find out! And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

Brace yourself, the most important day of the year is nearly upon us. Okay, that may be of bit of an overreach but we're still full of love. This week, we discuss our Valentine's Day plans (do we actually have any?). We also have a good laugh with reading romantic wedding vows.....to ourselves??? And, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we discuss toxic masculinity and Amelia questions whether some toxic male traits are actually toxic. We also get into unrealistic expectations in dating and the main reason why not everyone is going to get flown out to Fiji by their **insert dating app here** date.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

The month of Aquarius is also known as the month of 'letting go of restrictions'. This week, we discuss the ways we've restricted ourselves in the past(and maybe present!). We also wonder if putting restrictions and limitations on ourselves have any benefit? Or should we just be totally free with our actions?  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, Amelia kicks off the conversation with her cognitive dissonance around ageing. Amanda also realises that she struggles with announcing her age so, of course, a therapy session around dealing with our increasing years begins.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

Happy New Year to all of our listeners! You have officially jumped on the train for a ride through 2023. We kick off the year by discussing our vision for the podcast(to infinity and beyond!) as well as some personal goals that we're committed to this year. Change is good. Challenge equals growth.  What is your personal mantra for 2023? We'd love to know! Send us a message on Instagram... Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week?  Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we're back with our usual Christmas episode. We read about some terrible times that Christmas has gone horribly wrong. Better yet, Amanda has her own hilarious Christmas Day tale of a family meltdown.  Merry Christmas to all of our listeners and, of course, thank you all for rocking with us this year. We also wish you an amazing New Year's.  We'll be back on January 8th 2023! Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we discuss the possible end of cancel culture. Do we think that we sometimes censor ourselves for fear of being cancelled? And, would we stick by each other if either of us says something utterly heinous? Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we're making a (re)debut with some very thought provoking questions. Okay, some may be more frivolous than Freud but they still allow for you to get to know us, a bit more.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we go back into our episode vault. New for some, not for others. Still full of gems though! We discuss the art of not always leading with our emotions. Dating. Work-life. Friendships. Sometimes being emotionless can help us be a little more present.  We also chat about why rejection can only ever be a positive thing. Who doesn't love the chance to self-reflect about sh*t that may have fallen apart? Living in fear is no way to live. So, even if you're scared of rejection we divulge why you should put yourself out there anyway.  We also each share the one thing that "Grinds Our Gears" about humanity this week.... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram    

If you fail to plan, you plan to fail! This week certainly isn't a fail but we are coming to you via Zoom--cause, ya know, life happens.  It's a little bit of this and a little bit of that. We kick off with Amelia sharing that she feels used by the creator of the poignant Reddit post she read in the previous week(if you haven't listened to last week's episode, check it out).  This leads us to question whether a messenger can sometimes ruin a great message.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, Amelia reads a poignant message on how to live life, written by someone whose death is just around the corner. Continuing with the theme of the afterlife, Amelia also explains further plans for her--ever-evolving--mausoleum and wants to make sure that Amanda will ensure her vision is carried out upon her death. Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

This week, we discuss why some people(ourselves included!) struggle with saying sorry. Is it ego? Self-worth? Or just straight up asshole behaviour. We also share about Ho’oponopono, the traditional Hawaiian practice of reconciliation and forgiveness, and explain how sorry can be said in many different forms.  Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram

If we're ever given grace for a late podcast it should be this week. As we both celebrate birthdays(are all birthdays a milestone?), it's certainly a whole new chapter. And--if we must say so ourselves--we're feeling good, looking good and are ready to take on the fu*king world! So, join us this week as we discuss goals, birthday surprises and the obligatory birthday sex(or not!). Also, are we grinding OR turning our gears this week? It's all about the vibes... Hosted by Amanda Millie & Amelia Fergusson  Come gossip with us @ Twitter Instagram