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Have you ever just stopped calling or texting someone to break up with them?  Ever had anyone just fall off the face of the earth after going out with you?  This is known as ghosting and in this episode we talk about it and what to do instead of just disappearing when you want to end things.

Are you over looking the quiet alpha male?  So many women claim to want an alpha male, but are you overlooking them for the poser?  In this episode we talk about the traits of an alpha and how you may  be missing them.

Jodi and Steve discuss how to get the spark back in your relationship after you have kids in this MOD Love short episode.

We discuss tips for bringing a date home for the holidays.

Tonight is our final full show of the season! So make sure to tune in as we talk about why online dating is not working for so many people. We also answer a listener question about how to get your boyfriend to dress better and we talk about fears that may keep you single.

In this episode will be discussing the double standards for men and women in breakups and in relationships. (Jodi may have gotten her irish up about this one!) Steve gives his male perspective on why a guy may have bailed for a listener who wrote in and we discuss mistakes you may be making when dating.

In this episode we talk with Harris O'Malley aka Dr. Nerdlove. He chats with us about his experiences with the pick up world and how he is helping nerds get the girl. He also tells us about his latest book "New Game +". Steve and I discuss how different interests and passions work well in a relationship and if men are really threatened by intelligent and ambitious women.

Have you ever looked at an ex and thought, "OMG he/she is a psychopath?" In this episode, Dr. Robert Schug from USC Long Beach who is an expert on psychopaths discusses how to recognize psychopaths before you date them. We also chat about how adversity in a relationship can make it stronger and help a listener who has a mental illness and wants to date.

Do you keep repeating your bad dating habits? We dig into this problem on this week's show and help you figure out how to break them. We also help a listener who is confused by The Rules and discuss active and passive passions.

Are you mystified by flirting? Not sure how to do it or can't tell when someone does it to you? In this episode, we talk about the 3 kinds of flirting and how to recognize them. We also answer a listener question about how to find a woman who knows how to treat a man and we discuss some signs of compatibility.

Are you friends with an ex? Tonight we discuss the worst reasons to try and stay friends with someone you've broken up with. We also discuss 5 ways to make a long distance relationship work and help a listener who is unsure about her actions turning down a man for sex.

For this episode we had a very special guest, Dr. Charlotte Kasl author of If the Buddha Dated. We discussed how to date in a more conscious way and other concepts from the book. We also helped a listener who has given up on dating and wants her friends to leave her alone about it and 3 common relationship mistakes that couples make

In tonight's episode we talk about how your attitude affects your dating success. We also help a listener who has started a long distance relationship and is unsure of how to talk about the important things with her new boyfriend. Steve and I also discuss a play we recently saw that brought up questions about how men and women relate and how feminism plays a part in that.

Are you in a city that has a "man deficit"? Then you don't want to miss this show! Date-onomics author Jon Birger joins us on the show and shares his thoughts on why there is a man deficit and what women can do if they live in an area where there are more women than men.

 To help answer all of the questions we've been getting lately about matchmakers and what to expect from one, we had a chat with our friend Kristina Lynn of Final Match. Not only does she have a database full of matchmakers, but she knows how to vet them and what you need to consider before hiring one. We also help a listener who caught her BF on Match and we discuss The Rules and how they may no longer apply...... or do they?

Join us for this show as we talk with Dr. Hernando Chaves, therapist and sexpert, about male sexuality. We also catch up on the latest Ashley Madison drama and help a listener who is having trouble understanding how she is still attracting cheaters into her life. In addition we pay tribute to Dr. Wayne Dyer who passed away this week.

Do you know what is appropriate for approaching strangers to chat or date? Do you know what makes approaching creepy sometimes? In this week's MOD Love episode, we solve the mystery and give you some tips. Make sure you're not doing it wrong!

In this episode we talk about the reason you may want to date someone who is a good friend.  We also give a few ips from our own experience if you are thinking of dating a friend.

In this MOD Love short  we talk about vulnerability and how it will save modern independent women (and their relationships).

We discuss the top tips for getting through a difficult break up with  your dignity intact.