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Misunderstandings of the Mind
66 minutes | 9 days ago
Misunderstanding of Effortless Creation | Dominic Scaffidi & Jason Shiers
This really was an eye opening conversation with Dominic who speaks so clearly to our attempts in the human experience to create in the world vs just allowing creation to flow through us. Upon listening for the 3rd time I hear new things and see things differently each time, he has a very clear way of expressing our true nature as creators. you did not come to create with action You came to create with your mind Action is involved It’s been in alignment with all that you are It’s the thing that is beating your heart The same intelligence creates solar systems It is equal for everyone It’s the knowing of who you are It is our true nature You’re already doing it The only thing you can do is realise it You are the source of it There are no exceptions to how it works The energy just flows through you By the time you perceive it in form, its done We don’t have to figure it out It is of infinite intelligence Step away when you feel resistance It continues for a life time It is why we are here All you have to do is allow it to happen Its on your side You can find Dominic at his website here The post Misunderstanding of Effortless Creation appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
52 minutes | 4 months ago
Misunderstanding of Depression
A beautiful conversation with Judy about understanding our true nature, what is beyond the psychological symptoms and psychiatric diagnosis that so many people receive, and what happens when we touch that which is already there, life changes unrecognisably. Depression is the weight of negative thinking taken seriously over time There is nothing wrong with you Digging into the past makes it worse The pilot light is always burning ready It’s not who you are If you can create it, you can solve it Diagnoses are not facts they are made up Addiction is an escape from your own thinking You can’t see it in others till you can see it in yourself You don’t need to tell your story to get well Only we, can help ourselves You have to be able to forgive yourself The answer is way too simple You can find Judith over at her website here The post Misunderstanding of Depression appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
50 minutes | 6 months ago
Misunderstanding of Listening
A powerful and insightful conversation with Dr Linda Pettit who has been influential on my own journey in so many ways. This discussion with Linda highlights the common misunderstandings about listening, highlights what we are listening for, and what is always true. It’s not active listening or listening to reply Or listening to analyse Or listening to critique Or listening to remember Or listening for answer Listening beyond the filter It’s the key to life changing insight Listening for feelings Listening with the willingness to be influenced It’s being open to something new Listening to see something new Listening to intuition Not listening for anything We are all connected We are one You can’t get it You can’t work it out Listening for love It’s always showing itself You can contact Linda at her website here The post Misunderstanding of Listening appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
40 minutes | 6 months ago
Misunderstanding of Business Mastery
A wonderful conversation with Sandra about the creation of business and what holds us up and gets in the way of our brilliance shining through. What is true for all of us and what is possible when you come from that place, how effortless life can be. It doesn’t take effort It is not a mystery The answers are inside Don’t be invested in the outcome It’s about the journey Holding it all with lightness It’s like play a game You have to get in the game You can make the whole journey step by step Creation without knowing Everyone has down points There is beyond your facebook world How we rob ourselves of our experience Trusting something deeper than thought Being pulled towards something You don’t need motivation Life takes us in many directions The gift of the pandemic How long does it take to be successful Marketing can be helpful to grow your business Be in the game of business You can contact Sandra at her website here The post Misunderstanding of Business Mastery appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
47 minutes | 7 months ago
Misunderstanding of Trauma
A fun conversation with Dr Thomas Kelley on how a simple understanding of how the mind works, free’s people from their thinking about themselves. I often get taken by the simplicity of the conversations on the podcast and this one was no different. While expecting a big complex old explanation, I was taken back by how simply Tom shares. Understanding where experience comes from is the birth of self responsibility and the absence of blame. Trauma exists while we think it does We make the connection in our own mind When we stop connecting the dots Understanding is not intellectual Whatever people think looks like the truth Everyone wants well-being Everyone has perfect well-being Children rest in well-being easier When you forgive someone you let yourself off the hook Trauma can become an important part of self image People think they are their thoughts Mental health bubbles up when your mind clears Principles are fundamental truths All answers are in simplicity Getting people to listen from not knowing Nothing happens until insight Complexity collapses into simplicity We always know when something is not right We know when someone is truly present To get in contact with Dr Kelley, you can email him here The post Misunderstanding of Trauma appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
54 minutes | 7 months ago
Misunderstanding of Purpose
A rich conversation with Lili which really highlights the difference between purpose we make up in order to get somewhere in the world of form that seems somehow a representation of our created self image vs the purpose of being alive, and just being present to the moment. Is there just one purpose? Its not really an efforting practice I have as much purpose as a mountain goat Purpose is not about doing, its about being My understanding of purpose is always changing There is no before and after When our mind gets busy we have a lot of purposes The quieter I get the less purpose I have We are already everything we want to be Having purpose of doing comes from a place of lack There’s nowhere to be other than here Having a doing purpose steals my presence in now We are purpose When we’ve got something on it My best work is done when there is less of me I am not who I think I am Purpose does not develop the idea of who you are Effortless flow in life is who we are Are we operating from a misunderstanding? Its radically different to what you think Its really an unexplainable thing No words are enough, you can only touch the space It’s full of curiosity, excitement and wonder You can contact Lili via her email here firstname.lastname@example.org The post Misunderstanding of Purpose appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
49 minutes | 8 months ago
Misunderstanding of Resilience
A wonderful conversation with Cathy Casey about our innate resilience, how its always there yet we just don’t know or see it. Some of the nuggets I heard: Having certainty in resilience Why do we wake up with a clear mind The still small voice of reason Seeing resiliency in hindsight We always know its there but don’t look God is doing favours for you If you don’t see it for yourself Its inside every human being No really, its that simple! People can hear, when we’re neutral The power of seeing simplicity Seeing the resilience in chaos The psyche can only take so much Reaching out for help is it Innate resilience is always there There’s nowhere else to get to You can contact Cathy via her email email@example.com The post Misunderstanding of Resilience appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
54 minutes | 8 months ago
Misunderstanding of Parenting
This was a real eye opener for me being a parent and seeing what shows up for me on a daily basis, Erika has a real simple and powerful way of sharing and seeing the roles we take on as parents, and pointing to what is true for everyone, even our children. What stood out to me: Being the perfect parent How kids show us the way Disconnecting from a child We have a lot of ideas about life! Your job is not to control, but understand Resilience is a constant for humanity Parenting can be tough We can’t stop our kids from struggling Life will help you learn what you need to learn Insecurity makes for moments of crappy leadership When your mind calms down, you get a new outlook Our kids are not living our experience Forget about everything you think you know Let things go, unless its a problem Does your philosophy make sense? Creating things! Out of thought Addiction the path to peace of mind? You can contact Erika via her website – here The post Misunderstanding of Parenting appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
47 minutes | 10 months ago
Misunderstanding of Fear & Worry
Such a simple and peaceful conversation with the wonderful Mavis Karn, exploring the misunderstanding of fear and worry, and how it looks to most people, until you see the truth of how the mind works, and everything starts to look different. How we create our own fear We always know what to do in the moment The abnormal becoming normal Spotting the false logic We have a built in alarm system Worrying is the habit not the content Every emotion is there to guide us When our heads are clear we can achieve anything Calming down, makes you smarter When you notice, your consciousness grows Thoughts don’t do any harm What if it really is that simple? Addiction is our brain lying to us Does everyone feel the same way about this? We are addicted to complexity There is only 1 certainty – Change We get to decide how we experience things There is just now The only reality is undivided wholeness Our experience is always created inside out We are enough as we are All the information is in the feeling You can contact Mavis via email here – firstname.lastname@example.org The post Misunderstanding of Fear & Worry appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
57 minutes | a year ago
Misunderstanding of Inner Peace
A very calming listen to Dicken Bettinger, who talks about inner peace, where it comes from and how we experience more of it when we are not caught up in our stories about the imaginary self. What I heard: From chaos to inner peace Recognising ordinary moments We can’t get there by doing something We already have it It’s so ordinary It’s only available in the now The absence of our personal thinking Its only our own stories that cover it up Whatever we think, we feel We get caught up in thought stories Change is not complex or difficult If it feels illusive its a function of thought There is no past and future You’re not your thinking You’re not your feeling The imaginary future doesn’t exist Peace just means no story It doesn’t matter what we are feeling We can be at peace at any moment Peace is never in the future or past When energy opens thats peace of mind When we’re in the now were kinder people The now is the cure for all of our upset Pure presence is like the movie screen There is no suffering in the now Stress an tension is like an alarm clock You can find Dicken via his website Three Principles Mentoring here The post Misunderstanding of Inner Peace appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
46 minutes | a year ago
Misunderstanding of Awakening
A great episode with Maggie Gilewicz around the misunderstanding of awakening, there was so much gold in this because it really looks like if or when we get this ‘understanding’ that I talk about on this podcast, that life should be a certain way, this podcast episode is about embracing being human. Some things I heard: A journey of embracing our humanness fully Beyond the intellect Giving up – to be able to see new Living in Bliss – is it real Is it always going to be like this Now that I understand I should not feel… Fighting the human experience Pretending to be ok when you are not Making up what ‘this understanding’ means Being ok with not being ok When I tell myself, its just a thought Thinking I know stops me from seeing Being ok with doing the dance Knowing we are ok underneath it all Beyond the story of me Knowing that experience will pass Having shitty experiences and having hope When you have hope everything is always ok Why ‘why’ questions are never useful Allowing our feelings to come The ocean is always calm, below the waves When I embrace my experience the quicker it passes Just do whatever occurs to you Theres nothing to do, but you can do what occurs to you Beyond the language and words How humans relate and connect Don’t try to be someone else The post Misunderstanding of Awakening appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
52 minutes | a year ago
The Big Misunderstanding
It just made sense to call this episode with George The Big Misunderstanding, caught out by the simplicity of what we share I was reminded how simple, yet life changing the 3 principles understanding is, George has a soft, gentle and humorous way of sharing that make you really reflect on how life works. What I noticed: What sends people off the track Its not about genetics Its not about medication The real source of peoples lives is their thinking Thought is the variable that determines the experience Peoples experience of life is up for grabs Thinking is the variable, not the circumstances The link between thought and experience Being on candid camera Understanding the nature of feelings People are resilient They forget as they get older The point of life is to get over yourself Understanding helps us be graceful in life 1 to 1 what you think = what you experience No really, its that simple People are being fooled by their thoughts How to see the link between thoughts and experience Why do we pour everything into our ideas about us Do therapists really buy into the diagnosis Why psychotherapists have very high suicide rates Why that doesn’t happen in the 3p understanding The post The Big Misunderstanding appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
46 minutes | a year ago
Misunderstanding of Love
A really cool, simple conversation with Aaron Turner breaking down what look like the complexities of loving relationships, where love exists in all of us, and how to experience more of it. This was a great exploration of what is innately true for everyone, and also how we block ourselves from getting it. Some things I noticed: Love outside ourselves can never be found How we stumble upon love Love is a feeling of your own purity of mind When we are at ease, there is a richer feeling Love is so simple Its only our ideas of what love is that separate us Only my own thoughts and feelings separate me from love When people don’t feel love they don’t know it’s there Underneath all our personal thinking is that experience All conflict is created in the mind via thought There’s never anything to fix You can have a healthy relationship to unhealthy thought When we have a thought, it looks like a real thing It is important to know its just a thought When you don’t feel good pause Love is an experience of a less upset distorted mind Compatibility – Anyone can be with anyone Dating with less on your mind Once your mind is more free you can enjoy yourself Happiness come from within not another person Its actually all so simple When we get out of our own way Its about our relationship to our true self Aaron Turner, PhD Aaron has been a leader and pioneer in bringing an understanding of State of Mind to businesses and organisations over the last 20 years. Although he has worked extensively with individuals, couples and families, it was the impact he saw in organisations that he found most inspiring. He started his professional career in this area in 2000. Moving from a research position at Brunel University to a trainee position at a counselling and consulting practice in Washington State. He worked there for 10 years rising through the ranks to become the practice’s CEO for three years. During that time, Aaron was gripped by the profound effects he saw when leaders, teams and organisations began to see, and more effectively navigate, their state of mind. He developed, ran and provided programs in executive leadership, sales and communication as well as larger-scale cultural change projects. These programs have included executive institutes for Fortune 50 corporations and executive development programs for senior Army leaders (One and two-star generals, Colonels and their civilian equivalents) in The United States. In 2010 Aaron founded One Thought to focus primarily on working with leaders and organisations. He is a published author and international public speaker. Aaron has an online course to give people access to the amazing training that he does, and there are free lessons and it is only £85/year for for full access, take a look here if you are interested One Thought Online The post Misunderstanding of Love appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
47 minutes | a year ago
Misunderstanding of Change
A conversation with a beautiful feeling with Chip Chipman, I really enjoyed this exploration of change, how change works and the illusion that we get caught up in our humanity of what looks like it needs to change. Chip was friends with Syd Banks and has been sharing this understanding for many decades, it was a lovely episode. Here is what stood out to me: How change comes about Effortless change is possible Why behavioural change doesn’t work Our innate health is before experience Your innate health cannot be damaged True change comes from quiet moments There is nothing outside of you An insight is the start of change We get a different relationship with our experience Every deep insight we have will continue to teach us There are no rules for insight How to have deep impact with clients The true self is healthy Why searching to fix yourself doesn’t work The underlying problem is always insecurity When insecurity subsides many things are resolved The effort to change, creates more insecurity How thought slows down, creating space Seeing our insecurity is enough Being kind to ourselves makes the difference Accepting our own humanity Slowing down to the speed of life The journey takes you to a better life Looking at life from a higher level of consciousness The answers are always in simplicity You can contact Chip via his website here The post Misunderstanding of Change appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
44 minutes | a year ago
Misunderstanding of Self Help
A deep dive into the misunderstanding that we call self help with Nicole Barton, who after a lifetime of struggling and trying everything discovered the simple understanding of how the mind really works, and experienced a profound sense of freedom. Some of the points that stood out are: Being somewhere other than here Constantly striving to be more We are not broken Why self help makes you feel more of a failure Theres nothing to do to overcome things that don’t exist Seeing beyond the illusion of our humanity Self help is only ever a plaster Good feelings only ever come from within The answers always come in a state of calm No effort is needed, just quiet Analysing thoughts is adding more thinking Why typical journaling keeps you stuck We are conditioned to talk about our problems The answers are not in the past The past doesn’t exist anymore How Self help innocently keeps us stuck Who we really are beyond our ideas Whats beyond our conditioning We’re always in the unknown We’ve created a solution to the problem we’ve created Everything is always going our way Principles vs self help ideas Concepts vs an explanation of how things work You can contact Nicole at her website here The post Misunderstanding of Self Help appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
42 minutes | a year ago
The Intelligence Behind Life
A cool conversation with John El-Mokadem about the misunderstanding of intelligence. How there is an intelligence behind life that is always guiding us, always taking care of us and ever present, yet we get caught up in our thinking trying to make things happen, life gets so much easier when you relax into it. Some great points I heard are: Switching off your filter to see more Allowing us to go deeper than the brain the intelligence behind life How much we live in our intellectual thinking Why thinking is not the solution How thinking gets in the way of intelligence How insights come to us When you speed up, step away Your well-being is underneath The value of seeing the mind body connection What is the intelligence behind in life How much energy does it take to be tired The only destination in life is now How we navigate life without thinking Is there really nothing to do? My well-being is not dependant on what I do Whats on offer is way beyond your imagination Your intellect only provides a limited view The benefits of seeing how the mind really works John can be found at his website here The post The Intelligence Behind Life appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
42 minutes | a year ago
Our Creative Potential
A real eye opener of a conversation with Jules Swales on understanding the source of, and how our creative potential shows in the world, whether its through writing or artistic talent, or just something that wants to be created in the world. This was a great exploration of what is really true for everyone. Some points that stood out to me are: When insight comes for most people Problem solving in surprising ways When we get out of the way genius appears Beyond the story of me When we give up trying… things happen The multiple forms of creativity Courage to do… How we create future catastrophe Getting out of our own way How thought looks so compelling Self conscious judgement What if it was true that…. Where does insight come from? Effortless creativity vs The Story of me The surprise of creative genius How we make thought more real You can find Jules at her website here www.julesswales.com The post Our Creative Potential appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
56 minutes | a year ago
Bringing the Best out in People
An amazing conversation with author and one of the original 3p teachers Jack Pransky about bringing the best out in people, from all types of relationships such as parenting, as a coach, in the business workplace and how we bring out the best in ourselves all ties into the misunderstanding of how the mind works, and years of installed rules and concept about what the best is, and how to get it. Listen in if you’re curious about how it all works. Some of the points that stood out to me are: the best – our spiritual essence The best is always there Thought creates the illusion that its not Bringing out our innate health If its there already, there is nothing to do to find it Its an undoing rather than a doing Doing the opposite of personal development Calmness – when we get our best ideas All we have to do is look within ourselves How we create our own bad feelings Where happiness comes from Happiness is already within us What it means to get out of own way Not taking other peoples thinking personally How we lower our own spirits Our feelings are the indicator How we get caught up in our feelings How the system works Why its never a good idea to act when troubled Allowing the space for insight to come through Wisdom is always trying to come up The only thing holding it down is our thinking Getting out of our personal thinking Leadership qualities and how we perceive them Leaders don’t want followers Seeing the best in others is the ultimate answer We need to be able to SEE to help others How to give the best environment for your kids How to bring the best out in our kids How to bring out the best in our staff in business What is it that allows connection with another The post Bringing the Best out in People appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
55 minutes | a year ago
Misunderstanding of Chronic Pain
This was an awesome conversation with Chana Studley on the misunderstanding of the source of chronic pain, we had very similar experiences of years of traumatic back pain that could flare up at any point, to both being free without any medical intervention. Have a list if you you struggle with chronic pain, migraines, skin conditions etc. The source of chronic pain The mind body connection Becoming free of pain without working on pain Understanding how the mind works The connection between chronic stress & pain How stress causes dysregulation in the body Why there’s nothing wrong Misleading traditional understandings Does your pain move around? How we make our pain worse Reliving the past can create more pain The body only knows the present There is only 1 misunderstanding Pain is a love letter from our system When your thinking slows down stress slows down A different relationship with our thinking You can find Chana at https://www.chanastudley.com/ The post Misunderstanding of Chronic Pain appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
49 minutes | a year ago
Misunderstandings of Recovery
Listen in to Christian McNeill and myself share about common misunderstandings of recovery from addiction, this was a cool conversations talking about how misunderstandings come about, and seeing beyond the diagnosis of addiction. Where misunderstandings come from Making choices in early recovery Seeing the wisdom in simplicity Getting in our own way What’s really on offer Self imposed limitations Taking on beliefs vs listening to wisdom We are not broken We don’t need to fix ourselves No substance can create inner peace Peace of mind doesn’t come from doing Its not about circumstances How people perpetuate misunderstandings Taking Responsibility We only hear when we are ready At your essence you are unbreakable The pitfalls of analysis (therapy) Experiencing consistent Peace of mind Knowing – when you find the answer There are no answers in the past Being in your own company is not a bad thing Mental filters about sobriety The value of trusting yourself Why we cannot be damaged Spontaneous spiritual experiences The value of the disease concept There is so much more on offer There is a peace of mind in all of us Life is a roller coaster Youtube channel Christian McNeill here Facebook Group 3 Principles Conversations here Christian’s website here The post Misunderstandings of Recovery appeared first on Misunderstandings of the Mind.
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