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#obsession #infidelity #socialme #spying #Gerardot #JennairGerardot #MarkGerardot #MeredithChapman #truecrime Many people have told me that they can't stop following their ex on social media, that they are obsessed with what their ex is doing or has done (cheating). There can be grave results when there is a failure to address obsessing about an ex and their new love or the person they cheated with It's important to block and move on. Obsession is a murky water that will drown you if you don't get out. It becomes a deep dark black hole of emotional despair. I use my life and the very tragic Gerardot case as examples. PLEASE GO TO YOUTUBE AND COMMENT ON THIS PODCAST AND SUBSCRIBE. https://youtu.be/iRQxSd7sRuU

A follow up to some other episodes I've done on covert narcissism. Please go to the YouTube version of the podcast to find links to articles and the MLT/GPYB Narcissism playlist. 

Many people are having a hard time this year. The pandemic makes post-breakup holidays even WORSE.  Hope this episode helps in some small way. 

A funny thing happened on the way to the word of the week. It became the YT topic of the week. Discussion of the misused word EMPATH and Empathetic and a bit about Shane Dawson (this is less about him and more about the general use of the word). The description on YouTube has links to others' videos about Shane #empath #empathic #empathetic #shanedawson #narcissist #boundaries #metaphysical #psychic #codependency #sciencefiction #grieving #identification #sensitivity

The second in a series we talk about Chris and Shanann meeting and not being honest about who they were. It wasn't straight-up dishonesty but it was more or less 2 facades meeting each other. All of the groundwork is here for what would become a troubled marriage...trouble that is unknown to everyone until the last final fatal weeks. 

 While this has been around a bit, there have been some channels reporting misinformation about this case and I needed to address some of this as well as use this as an opportunity to talk about DV, custody, boundaries & coparenting with a personality disordered ex. There is a lot of information on here, but PLEASE ask questions about leave comments about this story, domestic violence and custody, visitation, etc. #geoffreypaschel #90dayfiance #custody #domesticviolence #boundaries #coparenting #DVLiars #AmberHeard #coparenting #personalitydisorders #personalitydisorderedex #narcissist #sociopath

In this episode we talk about grief from a psychological and legal standpoint. We talk about the role of the victim in the legal system (both criminal and family) and the grief process and no contact and boundaries with coparent. Dealing with ex threatening selfharm if you breakup with them (listen to the Male Stalking podcast talking about #travisalexander and #ryanposton victims of #jodiarias and #shaynahubers and NOT being friends with the ex.) PLEASE LEAVE COMMENTS ON THE YOUTUBE VERSION OF THIS PODCAST TO LET ME KNOW IF YOU WANT MORE EPISODES ON THIS TOPIC!

Part 1 of the series: The Definitive Chris Watts where we will be talking about the legal issues the psychological issues and the relationship issues between Chris and Shanann and Nicole and his family. How did everyone miss his personality disorders? Please leave comments and questions or to suggest things for future episodes on the YouTube version: https://youtu.be/7MRAvoOpZAo

Welcome back to Season 3 of the Mean Lady Talking podcast where we will be talking mental health relationships breakups divorce children custody nocontact NC dating movingon 

Here it is the LAST episode in Season 2!!!! And as promised we are covering 3 types of addiction: internet, sex and pornography and for the last 2, the effect on partners, which can result in betrayal trauma. https://youtu.be/ud-MyavgJPc

More preview of Season 3, more loose ends tying up - talking about Chris Watts, the nitwit network, narcissism, ASPD, a discussion of troubling YT and TT personalities like Zoe Laverne and ACE Family, "Stan" behavior, recommended channels for some lulz.

99A a preview of Season 3, a return to the horrible Psychology Today debacle (for a reason), cyberbulllying, name calling, quick take on the Stauffers, and tying up loose ends in Season 2. I will link to all the channels mentioned in parts A & B as soon as I finish up with C.

In this episode we're continuing the "go round" and discussion of Antisocial Personality Disorder as well as Conduct Disorder and Oppositional Defiant Disorder in children.  This episode will give a preview of the frauditor material coming in Season 3 (the material that was pushed off).

As promised, this 2-part episode concentrates on the anger and acting out of the covert narcissist focusing on Chris Watts. We compare the covert narcissist to the overt narcissist (or vulnerable v. grandiose) and the slow burn they do which starts as sulking and can end up, as it did with Watts, in murder. 

The rest of the 2-part episode which concentrates on the anger and acting out of the covert narcissist focusing on Chris Watts. We compare the covert narcissist to the overt narcissist (or vulnerable v. grandiose) and the slow burn they do which starts as sulking and can end up, as it did with Watts, in murder and how he turned from a covert narcissist into a primary psychopath. 

We are doing a bit of a go-round for the end of Season 2 and comments on Chris Watts appeal.  More Watts material in Episode 98.

When you are in a relationship and something traumatic happens to your partner and they suddenly change into a crazy person. What do about that and how much are you responsible for.

The symptoms of codependency and narcissism are similar.  Are they the same? Can they be the same? More information about rebooting the podcast and preparing for Season 3.  

We all see the world, and other people, how we ourselves are. I have spoken of this many times but it's still a hard concept to get - that someone we cared for did not see things (the world/us) the way we thought. Then we want to tell the world how they "really" are.  Not getting these two things right can cause us so much suffering. Time to get it RIGHT!

We are coming back this week! These 2 podcasts are to let you know where we've been, what we're working on and what Season 3 will hold!  These podcasts are not numbered as they are not "true" podcasts and may be deleted in the future.