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Love Unlimited with Hellen
13 minutes | 24 days ago
Love Unlimited with Hellen EP 64: Is your spouse your friend?
Some friends ask me what I talk about with my spouse and why we chat all the time. Well I will let you in on my secret; why I never get bored with my spouse. Please listen in...https://www.guruhellen.com/books/takes-two-to-tango-how-to-enjoy-lifelong-marriagehttps://www.facebook.com/Love-Unlimited-with-Hellen-105005514399167/
17 minutes | a month ago
Love Unnlimited with Hellen EP63: Why is it so easy to call it quits on your love?
This is me just crying for the injured souls in broken marriages. Warning: Too much emotion https://www.facebook.com/Love-Unlimited-with-Hellen-105005514399167/https://www.guruhellen.com/books/takes-two-to-tango-how-to-enjoy-lifelong-marriage
16 minutes | a month ago
Love Unlimited with Hellen EP62: Gratitude in tough times heals wounded hearts
How often do you take time to appreciate the good in your life?How often do you appreciate your spouse?It is very important to add this ingredient in your relationship. I will tell you why...https://www.facebook.com/Love-Unlimited-with-Hellen-105005514399167/https://www.guruhellen.com/books/takes-two-to-tango-how-to-enjoy-lifelong-marriage
15 minutes | 2 months ago
Love Unlimited with Hellen EP61: Indifference Kills Marriages
Apart from infidelity, drug abuse, Financial Indiscipline and physical abuse, indifference is the other silent marriage killer. It creeps in as a form of defense, or revenge or maintenance of status quo. Then the ugly seed germinates into separation.How do we know when we are approaching this culprit?Listen in...https://www.guruhellen.com/books/takes-two-to-tango-how-to-enjoy-lifelong-marriagettps://www.facebook.com/Love-Unlimited-with-Hellen-105005514399167/Takes Two To Tango Book Indifference and ignorance kills so many marriages today than ever before. Yours should not be among
10 minutes | 2 months ago
Love Unlimited with Hellen EP60: He is a Momma's boy
Is it always doom and gloom when you fall in love with a momma's boy?How do you turn that into your favour?What are the telltale signs of a bad momma's boy?How would you wish you son to be like when he grows up?Listen in...https://www.facebook.com/Love-Unlimited-with-Hellen-105005514399167/ttps://www.guruhellen.com/books/takes-two-to-tango-how-to-enjoy-lifelong-marriage
11 minutes | 3 months ago
Love Unlimited With Hellen EP 59: Marriage Challenges - Incompatible couples
What does incompatible couples mean and why do they separate?What are the common basis for incompatibility and how do we deal with them?
34 minutes | 3 months ago
Love Unlimited with Hellen EP58: Guest Speaker Jocelyne Lanovaz on Business and family
Have you ever wondered how some women thrive in business, relationships and family?The secret sauce is prepared today by Jocelyne Lanovaz (CPA) Deputy Mayor of Manville County, AB, Former President of Manville Chamber of Commerce and multiple businesses owner.Listen and learn.
16 minutes | 4 months ago
Love Unlimited With Hellen EP57: Business, Careers, Marriage and Parenting Takeaways
Communication is KeyDistinctive roles between the couple.Find easier ways of conflict resolutionMake your priorities clear.Takes Two To Tango Book Indifference and ignorance kills so many marriages today than ever before. Yours should not be among
12 minutes | 4 months ago
Love Unnlimited with Hellen EP55:Business, Marriage and Parenting Part 1
How much does running a business as a couple affect your marriage relationship, your parenting roles and social stuff?We are embarking on a journey this month to find out how these roles affect each other.
19 minutes | 5 months ago
Love Unlimited with Hellen EP54: How to speak positivity into your marriage
Have you met a couple of lovers preparing for their marriage? They are often so in love and looking forward to their moving in together (If they have not already), and to start their new adventure together.Their lives look and feel fulfilled. They are as happy as they can be and however much you try, you cannot talk any of them out of their marriage. You may try to tell them that marriage is not a smooth bed of roses, but rather a thorny rose bush, or that challenges will come their way to test their relationship, Good luck with succeeding in discouraging them.At that moment:· Love is all that matters· The future between the two of is so bright that nothing can dull it· The rest of the world is running against them, but it does not matter because they will win – together.Then, time, life, children and environment changes everything.They stop focusing on each other,They stop trusting each other and instead trust the world more. They start backbiting each other and bringing each other down.They forget the positivity they shared at the beginning of the journey.They start calling each other names that no longer portray love, trust, respect, and partnership.This needs to stop:We need to speak love into our marriage. We need to speak faith, trust and prosperity in our marriage.Just like a team: You can’t win if you are busy shooting opposite goals of bringing down your teammate.When was the last time you told you spouse:We got this together…I trust in your ability…You are awesome…You are talented and smart,You rock my world...,I like how you step up to challenges… https://www.facebook.com/Love-Unlimited-with-Hellen-105005514399167/https://www.guruhellen.com/books/takes-two-to-tango-how-to-enjoy-lifelong-marriageTakes Two To Tango Book Indifference and ignorance kills so many marriages today than ever before. Yours should not be among
12 minutes | 5 months ago
Love Unlimited with Hellen EP53: Is it okay to keep in touch with your Exes after marriage?
Is there too much water that has passed under your bridge and you have had enough? You divorce, separate or flee an abusive marriage, or both of you mutually agree that there is no more love to share between the two of you.You then move on and marry another person, invest your heart, time, and love on this new relationship. Why then would you keep in touch with the previous spouse – your exe...?Burning bridges: There are situations where it is obligatory to burn the bridges between you and your spouse. Especially if the relationship was extremely toxic Business Partners and property co-owners: Couples who run their businesses together find it awfully hard to avoid keeping in touch with each other after breaking up and moving on Shared responsibilities such as children: There are numerous divorces where parents are legally required to co-parent for the sake of the children (who are innocently caught between their parents’ conflicts). https://www.guruhellen.com/books/takes-two-to-tango-how-to-enjoy-lifelong-marriagehttps://www.facebook.com/Love-Unlimited-with-Hellen-105005514399167/
15 minutes | 5 months ago
Love Unlimited with Hellen EP52: Should you tone down your sexy after marriage?
When you go to a restaurant and order a gourmet meal... you expect the restaurant to serve the same quality consistently... at least. Relationships are not very different: we expect our spouses to bring their A-game in the relationship. We should also bring our best-EVERY SINGLE TIME.Letting go of ourselves physically does not help in the relationship. We should all work hard at keeping our sexy as much as possible.How is your sexy game? Listen in...Thank you to our sponsor:https://www.guruhellen.com/books/takes-two-to-tango-how-to-enjoy-lifelong-marriage
16 minutes | 5 months ago
Love Unlimited with Hellen EP51: How long should you hang out with your single friends after marriage?
I can never get my head around dumping friends just because one is married.Friends are the network which we fall under by sharing some desires, goals and aspirations. Getting married adds an extra circle to your exiting circles. it should not be an eliminator.I personally have kept my circle of friends since college and we keep in touch regularly. We are currently spread all over the world but we check on each other regularly.I enjoy those moments we share and when we go back to our home we spend at least one evening together and laughing like girls by the river (African cliché).However, when you get married, you just added another list of responsibilities to your already full list. This means that you will have to alter your priorities. Your new relationship will also interrupt the singles lifestyle momentum: It will be preposterous to leave your spouse at 8pm every Friday, go on a drinking spree and come home at 5am, and expect your spouse to smile at you in the morning.Communication is important if you want to avoid breaking up withyour friends or with your spouse. Listen in...https://www.guruhellen.com/books/takes-two-to-tango-how-to-enjoy-lifelong-marriageTakes Two To Tango Book Indifference and ignorance kills so many marriages today than ever before. Yours should not be among
16 minutes | 6 months ago
Love Unlimited EP 50: About keeping those opposite sex friends after marriage
If God wanted us not to keep in touch with the opposite sex after marriage, He would have created a separate world for married couples. But since that is not the case we must learn to live together irrespective of our marital status.We need to go out and hang out with our girlfriends and our husbands need some sanity from the chatters of the wife and children –they need to switch gears and so do women.Men/husbands need to keep their ego pumped by their fellow men. Women need to be lifted, built and encouraged by fellow sisters.However, when it comes to associating with the opposite sex, there will be some limits; flirting will be cut to the minimum possible – this applies to both married couple and vice versa. The couple should avoid any encouragements to flirt in the same way as singles do. This is a sign of commitment to the spouse and a the same time demanding the respect and treatment that comes with the new status.If a spouse cannot control the flirts that are going on around him/her, the best way is to not participate in the exchanges, maybe between colleagues or other single friends.It is important to remind your friends and colleagues that you have graduated to another level of flirting and sex talk: with your spouse exclusively; that you now get or give a VVIP treatment from one lover, your spouse.Note: This does not mean that you stop talking to the opposite sex, working with them or even teaming up for business purposes; Your integrity will dictate the extent to which you can associate with the opposite sex. Again it is important to teach your spouse to trust you even in the company of other members of the opposite sex.How do you do that? By being honest with your spouse all the time. Half-truths create a fertile ground for mistrust and strife.Don't forget to subscribe to this podcast and give it a rating :-)Get a copy of my books or visit my website:https://guruhellen.com/https://guruhellen.com/books/popstar-seize-your-lifes-center-stagehttps://guruhellen.com/books/takes-two-to-tango-how-to-enjoy-lifelong-marriage
7 minutes | 8 months ago
Love Unlimited EP 49: 5 Minutes Marriage Pods: They are not my children
After being married for over ten years, you find out that the children you called your own blood, are not really your flesh and blood. How do you deal with a cheating spouse who also lies to you?
7 minutes | 8 months ago
Love Unlimited EP48: 5 Minutes Marriage Pods: I can't get over my crush
If you are married and are still snooping around your crush, you need to listen up!!
6 minutes | 8 months ago
Love Unlimited EP 47: 5 Minutes Marriage Pods - Can marriage survive infidelity?
One of the worse scars a marriage can experience is infidelity. Spouses may feel violated and disrespected. However, a couple willing to keep their relationship thriving can survive any form of hurt and pain, if properly addressed and dealt with. Are there exceptions to this principle?
6 minutes | 8 months ago
Love Unlimited EP 46: 5 Minutes Marriage Pods - After the baby comes how do we keep the flames alive
The new baby excitement can take the centre stage of your marriage for the first few months, but that fades quickly when the baby becomes a routine duty and you have to go back to work.Between the baby or babies and your spouse, there should be a balance to make sure you do not forget your love and desire for each other. Here is how...
7 minutes | 8 months ago
Love Unlimited EP 45: 5 Minutes Marriage Pods - Sex toys in marriage
What is your thought on sex toys? Why would you need another toy when your spouse is the best toy you will ever have? I think you don't need extras when you and your spouse have a lot to learn from each other.
7 minutes | 8 months ago
Love Unlimited EP 44: 5 Minutes Marriage Pods - Happy Mother's Day
A few words of wisdom in honour of our mothers. Wisdom is referred to as feminine. Proverbs 31 Is in praise of a virtuous woman/mother.God's comfort is like that of a mother.
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