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Season 7 might be over, but we are bringing back the Top 10 most listened-to episodes in Lifegiver Podcast History! Matt joins me again for another episode where we talk about the impact of Family Readiness on marriage. For decades, the military has told families that their support makes the mission successful. Unfortunately, families are getting tired and are wondering at what cost. In this episode, Matt and I have an honest conversation on how families indeed play a pay in mission readiness but also how we can change our perspective to a more influential one that can change the trajectory of our entire family.

Season 7 might be over, but we are bringing back the Top 10 most listened-to episodes in Lifegiver Podcast History!  We often hear from couples that the service lifestyle has made my spouse "cold, calculated, and harsh."  While this may be a nature versus nurture debate, the service lifestyle can definitely train a person to see the world differently.  In this episode, Corie and Matt talk about how this doesn't have to create more conflict in your marriage- in fact it can be a strength you lean on! Matt shares how growing up in a first responder home shaped him into the man he is today and how to understand the internal emotional world of warriors- in our community and military.  Join us in a fun and moving discussion on how you can embrace who you are as well as how life has shaped you and become a stronger team together. *** SPOILER ALERT- We talk about Avengers: Endgame in this episode, so please hold off on listening until you have seen it!

Season 7 might be over, but we are bringing back the Top 10 most listened-to episodes in Lifegiver Podcast History! Betrayal is, unfortunately, more common than you think- especially in the service culture.  In this episode, I share with you the strategy I use to help couples work through affair recovery.  There are three phases and couples will certainly stall if not fail to recover their marriage if they miss important steps throughout the phases.  Two people, if are both willing to work hard, can rebuild their marriage after an affair and go on to have a rich relationship.   Here are some of the resources mentioned throughout the episode: My interview with Dr. Mike Sytsma Here is also my podcast on "Sin in a Christian Marriage" Part 1 & Part 2  More Resources: • Torn Asunder by Dave Carder. There is also a workbook available for this book. (faith based) • Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity by Gary & Mona Shriver (faith based) • Secrets to Surviving Infidelity by Scott Haltzman • After the Affair by Janis Spring  Rebuilding Trust Video – Using the image of a “trust bucket”, Dr. Mike addresses rebuilding trust after a affair. Setbacks in Marriage- The Podcast Episode Women & the Tough Bible Verses– (Topic of Submission and gender roles in the Bible- Authentic Intimacy) People Are More Important Than Marriage– Authentic Intimacy, When you shouldn’t fight for your marriage. Sexual Intimacy and Post Affair with Mike Sytsma How do Affairs Happen? New Life Church, Brady Boyd Articles: So You’ve Hit a Marriage Setback: 3 Steps Military Marriage: When to Separate Mike Sytsma- Betrayal & Affair Recovery (articles and video) Protecting Your Marriage from an Affair  Books: Mission Ready Marriage: My Life As An Active Duty Wife Claire Wood Sacred Spaces: My Journey to the Heart of Military Marriage Corie Weathers

Season 7 might be over, but we are bringing back the Top 10 most listened-to episodes in Lifegiver Podcast History! Listen in to my premiere interview with actor, Emmy nominated director, and producer Sarah Drew as she talks about life after Grey's Anatomy, marriage, and her newest movie Indivisible that hits theaters Oct 26th. Indivisible is based on real life Army Chaplain Couple Darren & Heather Turner. Find theaters and more on INDIVISIBLE: https://indivisiblemovie.com/  

Season 7 might be over, but we are bringing back the Top 10 most listened-to episodes in Lifegiver Podcast History! I received feedback that some of you would like faith-based content AND hearing from Matt- so this episode is the both of us giving a talk at our old stomping grounds where we first met- Gardner-Webb University.  The sound on this one is a bit different because it was recorded in a different place and format, but I hope the message comes through in a way that will encourage your story. I hope that you enjoy this episode.  I personally am huge fan of Matt Weathers, so I'm happy to share the stage with him anytime. Connect with Corie Weathers!  www.life-giver.org www.corieweathers.com  Join the conversation and participate in future shows! @CorieLPC 

Season 7 might be over, but we are bringing back the Top 10 most listened-to episodes in Lifegiver Podcast History! Dr. Les Parrot joins me for an episode that is all about how couples can use a tool like the Better Love Assessment to get a healthy snapshot or check up on their marriage.  Dr. Parrott is a globally sought-after marriage psychologist along with his wife, Leslie Parrott also a marriage therapist. Together, they have written several books and speak on how to improve your marriage communication, reduce conflict, improve your sex life, and much more.  In this episode, Dr. Parrott shares more about the Better Love Assessment (found at www.betterlove.com) in pointing out the individual strengths in your marriage.  Better Love can be a great tool for date night discussions, working on your marriage during a deployment or separation, and even ways to talk through topics that are normally hot topics.  To find out more and subscribe to Dr. Parrott's resources, check out www.lesandleslie.com  

Season 7 might be over, but we are bringing back the Top 10 most listened-to episodes in Lifegiver Podcast History!  Episode 2, Season 4 What happens when a veteran, a military spouse, and a first responder spouse sit down and talk about life together?   I often get asked, do we really have that much in common?  Why would I have a podcast where I address the needs of both military and first responders?  Because we have a whole lot more in common than you think. In this episode, I bring Ashley and Sarah on the podcast to talk about our different worlds and we would love for you to join us.  Sarah is a first responder spouse, whose husband is now on the local SWAT team.  She brings authenticity and humor that will brighten anyone's day.   Ashley, calling in from Italy, is a veteran herself by has retired and is now a military spouse.  For those who don't know, we call that a dual service family.  She brings a perspective that all of use should pay attention to. Grab a cup of coffee or tea and pretend you are sitting at the table with us.  You will definitely be changed by this conversation. Connect with Corie Weathers!  www.life-giver.org www.corieweathers.com  Join the conversation and participate in future shows! @CorieLPC 

Season 7 might be over, but we are bringing back the Top 10 most listened-to episodes in Lifegiver Podcast History!    Listen in to the Season 4 FINALE with a big question that likely everyone has asked... "Who is really in Charge?"  Is it man?  Is it God?  When does God get in involved?  Why doesn't he?  Perhaps you are waiting on orders to your next assignment (like we are) and wondering if the people involved are listening to God.  Or maybe you are praying for a promotion or for your spouse to turn back to God.  Some of you may have even experienced abuse at the hands of someone else and are wondering, "Why didn't God intervene?"  In this Sunday Special, I open up on my own journey to look into the Sovereignty of God and tackle these big questions by diving into what scripture says about it. Included in this episode: A portion of James Cordon's Late Night Show.  To listen to the full video, watch here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgLOv36an3s

Season 7 might be over, but we are bringing back the Top 10 most listened-to episodes in Lifegiver Podcast History!  In this episode, we are talking about the importance of Timing and Tact with our emotions and words.  Whether you are in conflict with you spouse, in a leadership position, or even a public advocate.  Especially military spouses feel at times like their voice is limited and that any complaints can come across as being a negative spouse.  The truth is, we have a right to our feelings and opinions but have great responsibility in how we express them.  Rather than become passive or perhaps worse- aggressive- we can learn to be more assertive in kindness and love.  But... also with the right timing and tact.  Listen in as I give examples and practical tips on how to be more confident with the amazing influence you have in your marriage, parenting, and in the world.

Season 7 might be over, but we are bringing back the Top 10 most listened-to episodes in Lifegiver Podcast History! In this episode from Season 4, I'll talk about the results of a spouse survey I created that went viral.  Almost 750 spouses told me how they are REALLY doing and it turns out... We have lots to talk about. I wasn't surprised that we are struggling as a community. Many of you aren't doing well and you aren't talking about it.  In fact, many are burned out, exhausted, and borderline resentful.  So in this episode, we are going to get honest about that. But there are some of you who are really doing great.  So what is the difference?  Take a listen to find out where you fall with other spouses in the community.  Perhaps you need some encouragement from others who are figuring out how to balance it all or maybe you have a lot more to offer than you thought... It's time to breathe life into our family- the community family as well.   Books mentioned in the podcast:  Leading Women Who Wound Connect with Corie Weathers!  www.life-giver.org www.corieweathers.com  Join the conversation and participate in future shows! @CorieLPC 

It’s time to wrap up Reconnect! In this season finale, Corie and Sarah sit down to revisit lessons learned while recording the podcast and their favorite parts of the season. They also dive deep into the generational influences that impact WHY we value what we value and how that can look very different from person to person. While this may be the season finale, this is not your typical surface-level wrap up- there is still MUCH to explore as we reconnect to what matters most.   Song Credits: “By Your Side” Written by Justin Prinn   Find out more about Corie here: https://linktr.ee/corieweathers   For more content and resources visit www.life-giver.org   We want to hear from you! It helps us serve you better! Send us an email at corie@corieweathers.com   Want to work with Corie? Check out https://www.corieweathers.com/ for more info.

Leaving this lifestyle can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. For many couples, crossing the finish line can bring conflict as you and your spouse bring different expectations to the transition . In this episode, Corie sits down with Jeff & Lori Hawkins who share how they navigated major decisions about where to live, what to value, and what to do next. Listen as they pass down wisdom they learned from their mentors, how they keep their marriage thriving now that they are together more than they’ve ever been and how they continue to build their identity on what really matters. Sign up for our monthly newsletter to help breathe MARGIN into your life.  For more content and resources be sure to check out our new website layout and help me with section at www.life-giver.org  We want to hear from you! It helps us serve you better! Send us an email at corie@corieweathers.com  Want to work with Corie? Check out https://www.corieweathers.com/  for more info. Song Credits: “By Your Side” written by Justin Prin 

Community. We’ve all been hurt by it, longed for it, and struggled in it. In a world that touts itself as connected more than ever, how do we reconcile the ache within us for physical presence and the need to be seen? Sit down and lean in as Corie walks Sarah through a very candid conversation about the need and the pain of community.   Sign up for our monthly newsletter to help breathe MARGIN into your life.  For more content and resources be sure to check out our new website layout and help me with section at www.life-giver.org  We want to hear from you! It helps us serve you better! Send us an email at corie@corieweathers.com  Want to work with Corie? Check out https://www.corieweathers.com/  for more info. Song Credits: “By Your Side” written by Justin Prin 

In 2017 Ken Grubbs was shot on duty responding to a call at an apartment complex. In this episode, Sarah sits down with Ken and Wende Grubbs as they share their journey of walking through a situation many hope to never face. Listen in and be encouraged by the perspective they found along the way and how one of the most difficult incidents in their life would also end up being the catalyst for deeper communication and intimacy in their marriage.    Emotional Survival For Law Enforcement by Kevin M Gilmart PHD For more info about Bless the Badge: https://blessthebadge.net/    Sign up for our monthly newsletter to help breathe MARGIN into your life.  For more content and resources visit www.life-giver.org We want to hear from you! It helps us serve you better! Send us an email at corie@corieweathers.com  Want to work with Corie? Check out https://www.corieweathers.com/ for more info. Song Credits: “By Your Side” written by Justin Prin   

In this episode, Corie sits down with Special Ops couple Mark and Caroline as they share their journey through the hardships and pain unique to a service marriage. Listen in as they recount how they were able to hold each other's experiences while also working through their own personal struggles. Be inspired as they tell of the deep joy and intimacy that only suffering can produce and find encouragement in knowing that your marriage can flourish as a result of this lifestyle.    Resources Mentioned in this Episode: The Place We Find Ourselves Podcast https://adamyoungcounseling.com/podcast/ Leading on Empty by Wayne Cordeiro Check out our Additional Resources for Personal and Marital Growth HERE   Sign up for our monthly newsletter to help breathe MARGIN into your life.  For more content and resources be sure to check out our new website layout and "help me with" section at www.life-giver.org  We want to hear from you! It helps us serve you better! Send us an email at corie@corieweathers.com  Want to work with Corie? Check out https://www.corieweathers.com/  for more info. Song Credits: “By Your Side” written by Justin Prin   

What defines a hard choice? While the hard choices in our life may seem subjective to others, the decisions we make reflect what we value. Corie and Sarah explore the process of weighing the costs of the hard choices in our life including the difficulties of the service lifestyle. Song credits: "By Your Side" written by Justin Prins Corie's Go To for Hard Choices: Giant Whiteboard We are taking a break from social media, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find us!  Sign up for our monthly newsletter to help breathe MARGIN into your life.  For more content and resources visit www.life-giver.org We want to hear from you! It helps us serve you better! Send us an email at corie@corieweathers.com  Want to work with Corie? Check out https://www.corieweathers.com/ for more info.

How do we get to a place where we are living on purpose, for a purpose? Corie sits down with her aunt and mentor, June, to discuss the journey of learning to accept things for what they are, become better for it, and help someone else through it. Listen in as they expound on what it means to realize that you simply cannot manage situations and others into place. Books recommended by June:  "It's Not Supposed to be This Way" Lisa Terkeurst "Soul Keeping: Caring for the Most Important Part of You", John Ortberg "Emotionally Healthy Spirituality" Peter Scazzero "Art of Survival in an Age of Chaos" Chip Ingram   Song credits: "By Your Side" written by Justin Prins We are taking a break from social media, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find us!  Sign up for our monthly newsletter to help breathe MARGIN into your life.  For more content and resources visit www.life-giver.org We want to hear from you! It helps us serve you better! Send us an email at corie@corieweathers.com  Want to work with Corie? Check out https://www.corieweathers.com/ for more info.

What do we do when we realize our limitations and the limitations of others? Where do we go for our source? How do we reconcile the evil a service lifestyle comes in contact with? Corie and Sarah sit down to discuss what it means to reconnect spiritually, how this lifestyle has shaped their views of faith tradition and ultimately where to go when we realize our hope has been misplaced.  To hear more on the topic of moral/soul injury and to access other previous episodes pertaining to service and faith visit our Faith and Service Page at https://www.life-giver.org/faith-service/  We are taking a break from social media, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find us!  Sign up for our monthly newsletter to help breathe MARGIN into your life.  For more content and resources visit www.life-giver.org We want to hear from you! It helps us serve you better! Send us an email at corie@corieweathers.com  Want to work with Corie? Check out https://www.corieweathers.com/ for more info. Song Credits: “By Your Side” written by Justin Prin   

Corie and Sarah sit down and discuss the differences between over reaction, under reaction and the importance of being proactive. Join the conversation as they seek to answer the question, how do we become less reactive in such a reactive lifestyle and world?   Sign up for our monthly newsletter to help breathe MARGIN into your life.    For more content and resources visit www.life-giver.org   We want to hear from you! It helps us serve you better! Send us an email at corie@corieweathers.com    Want to work with Corie? Check out https://www.corieweathers.com/ for more info.   Song Credits: “By Your Side” written by Justin Prin