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Coming out can often feel very sexualized, this week we explore exactly why it shouldn't be and how coming out and living more authentic lives has created opportunties in other parts of our lives.

What qualifies as emotional cheating? And how do you protect your relationship with your partner and prevent a friendship from evolving into something that crosses the line?

Dariella Blanco joins us to talk about Second Friday Atlanta and what it was like to grow up in Venezuela knowing she was lesbian.

Are there truly any wrong decisions? Even when it feels like a decision might be the wrong one -- in the end it's the path you're supposed to be on.

NeuroQueer coach Pasha Marlowe, MFT joins us this week to discuss the link between neurodiversity people and coming out later in life.

Alli and Melisa catch up on life and reflect on how the fear of being alone can feel so heavy. Also, the time that Melisa bought a woman red roses for Valentine's Day only to learn that woman found red roses totally lame. Cool.

Our friend Ietta joins us this week to talk Ghost Hunting, Marathon Running and her quest to find the right woman -- or not because Ietta is perfectly good going it alone!

This week we are joined by Zeno! He shares his experience as a trans man and his evolving perspective on gender and sexuality.

This week, we drop the coming out talk in favor of some financial advice. Alli shares her real estate investing knowledge and some tips to get you started on your own. (The mortgage lender mentioned in this episode is Carol Lynn Upshaw with Hyperion Mortgage)

This week we're joined by Aly to discuss how she and her husband are navigating the messy middle and how perimenopause played a role in her coming out.

Melisa and Alli share advice from listeners on what they wish they could tell their past self prior to coming out.

We're kicking off 2023 with some advice from Mental and Physical Health Coach, Jaime Filer! Hear how your mental health plays into your physical health and how Jaime's move to U-Haul was a logistical decision.

Dr. Jaime Blandino joins Alli to kick off 2023 -- chatting about how the New Year brings new opprotunities!

Melisa is solo this week -- sharing stories of how people plan to spend the holdays and also taking space for those who might be alone this season. If you're feeling really down and need someone to talk to, contact the Suicide and Crisis Hotline by calling or texting 988.

Alli and Melisa revisit the topic of love bombing -- how do you know if it's manipulative or you're just falling in love?

Julia from Bloomer's Society is back and we're diving deep into the sex talk!!

Do relationships -- gay or straight -- truly have longevity? Melisa and Alli talk about the hardships couples face and how hard it is to commit to forever -- especially later in life.

We branch off our conversation from last week about coming out to teenagers and why it's harder than coming out to the little ones.

Nikki shares her coming out story and how she told her teenage daughters about her newfound sexuality.

This week we chat with scholar, author, and activist Andrea L. Pino-Silva about her work to spread awareness about global gender based violence, working with The Curve Foundation and her own coming out journey as the daughter of Cuban refugees.