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Into The Lifestyle
19 minutes | Oct 16, 2018
Episode 57 – Picking Up Strangers At The Bar
You look down the bar and see a couple who you just know are lifestyle... how do you pick up strangers at the bar! Join us in this episode as we talk about the in's and out's of talking to people outside of the lifestyle club to see if they are open minded. We also dive into the beginning phase of developing our 10th anniversary celebration and a documentary project we have been invited into being a part of. As always we love to hear from you and to learn about your experiences so please leave us feedback here or reach out to us on ITL - intothelifestyle.com
18 minutes | Oct 2, 2018
Episode 56 – Lifestyle Hygge
Lifestyle Hygge - yes it's a thing and you will love it! Hygge (/ˈhjuːɡə/ HEW-gə or /ˈhuːɡə/ HOO-gə) is a Norwegian and Danish word for a mood of coziness and comfortable conviviality with feelings of wellness and contentment. Cindy LOVES this concept so we thought we would bring it to the podcast in the hopes that it will become part of your lifestyle as well. Hygge is all things comfort and sensory, which to us IS what the lifestyle is all about. From scents, to textures and onto warmth and sounds; if it makes you feel comfortable it's Hygge! We can imagine this would be an amazing concept to develop a themed swingers party around (hint, hint) - and one that will be a hit with all of your swinger lifestyle friends! Join us as we chat about Hygge, and as always reach out to use via the comment box on this website, on intothelifestyle.com or via mainstream social media to tell us about your Hygge experience! XOXO Cindy & James
18 minutes | Sep 24, 2018
Episode 55 – The Art of No
There is an Art to saying No and one for receiving one. After recent conversations with members of the Into The Lifestyle community we want to talk about what giving a No can look like, and how receiving one can land in a good way. When was the last time someone told you no, and left you feeling great about the ending of whatever it was that brought them to that decision? We feel that with a little practice, every No can be a positive one... so let's explore how! Join us in the chat and feel free to share your thoughts or comments below or via one of the many channels we have available to connect with us. XOXO Cindy & James
25 minutes | Sep 7, 2018
Episode 54 – Where You At?
Knowing where you are at and checking in with your partner is essential in the lifestyle. Join us as we dig into how you might be able to check in today to see if you are showing up at the right parties or events... and all of our other random thoughts like we tend to do! Also a BIG shout out to our USA based listeners for helping us climb into the #3 sexuality podcast in iTunes! We would LOVE to hear from you so please feel free to leave a comment here, reach out to us in IntoTheLifestyle or on any of the other platforms that we are on. XOXOX CIndy & James
13 minutes | Jul 14, 2018
Episode 53 – Is It a Story or Me Too?
When you have something occur in or around the lifestyle it can be easy to look at it and ask is it a Story or Me Too? Quite often the way we process and perceive an encounter or situation both in and out of the lifestyle can be filtered through all of our life experiences so it can be hard to see what truly happened. Join Cindy as she wades into this topic based on her own experiences and what she has seen while working with thousands of clients in her coaching business as they work through their own stories of experiences. Also be sure to join in on the ongoing conversation and growth on intothelifestyle.com
20 minutes | Jul 11, 2018
Episode 52 – Lifestyle Judgement
Having someone pass judgement in the Lifestyle can hurt even when it is from a place of not knowing all the facts. We recently experienced this from a group that we did not expect it from so join us as we process live what the feeling was like, how it is something that we see that we deal with all the time and what we are doing about it. Most likely if you are in the lifestyle you have a fear of judgement or you have experienced it so this is an important episode to tune in for! We also talk about the launch of Version 5 of IntoTheLifestyle.com in this episode as well so we will see you in the community soon I am sure!
20 minutes | Feb 6, 2018
Episode 51 – Forget About Valentines Day
We say Forget About Valentines Day! Hallmark has you hooked don't they??? The need to keep up with the guy in the cubicle across from you who makes sure the world knows how much money to spend to show his wife his "love". Not that there's anything wrong with that but we know your secret... Everyday is Valentine's Day at your house. You don't need flowers with a 900% price increase to show your partner how much you care. The last knowing look at the orgy you were at last weekend says it all and shows it more than you know. In this episode we also dive into some of the pillars of success in the lifestyle, what an ITLRing can do for you and our excitement for the upcoming launch of Version 5 of ITL! (and we let a few secrets out about it too) We also just realized during the recording of this show that we are only a week away from our 9th anniversary online serving the lifestyle community. How crazy awesome is that! Thanks as always for tuning in and listening! If you have comments or questions we are here to answer them! xoxo Cindy & James
22 minutes | Sep 9, 2017
Episode 50 – Communication Strategies to get you laid!
Words and knowing how to use them can and will get you laid. It's a fact. Join us for Episode 50 (Yes this is number 50!!!) as we dive into a topic that we feel is one that will get you where you want in life and in the orgy rooms. Communication Strategies and knowing how to deploy them is such an important part of sexuality so you know this is going to be a juicy conversation! We also streamed this recording live on Facebook and had a bunch of fun with those that joined us so be sure to watch for future ones as we get into the groove of sharing across multiple platforms :) We love all the support and comments we get with each episode so please keep them coming! As always the best and fastest way to reach us is via Into The Lifestyle - we are there all day everyday (it seems like it anyway!) XOXO Cindy & James
22 minutes | Aug 31, 2017
Episode 49 – Fantasies Fulfilled
You want your fantasies fulfilled and we want to help! Join us for episode 49 as we give you three tips to having your Fantasies Fulfilled Did you know that simply by following these three steps you can not only move towards having your fantasies fulfilled you will also help your partner move towards theirs. We also appreciate all the comments and love we are getting from the live Facebook feed of our shows; you are inspiring us to dig deeper into our show topics! If you want to catch our next live stream of our podcast follow us at: https://www.facebook.com/candj.intothelifestyle Thank you for all your support - we respond to every comment or message so please reach out and let us know what you think! Or join in the ongoing conversation on Into The Lifestyle! XOXO Cindy & James
19 minutes | Aug 25, 2017
Episode 48 – Lifestyle Travels Random Ramblings
Lifestyle Travel Random Ramblings Alright we admit - we attempted to record this podcast AND Live Stream on Facebook and we were a wee bit distracted! Lots of viewers joined us as we recorded this episode though so we are going to figure out a better way of including live streaming more often... which means we will need to be sure to be presentable lol. And Yes..... Saying Huatulco IS that fun - try it! In this episode we talk about lifestyle travels and random ramblings, our upcoming ITL Takeover of Paradise Lifestyle Villas and lots of random (some wine induced) ramblings... you can thank Cindy for these! As always keep the feedback coming! We are very active on the Into The Lifestyle community and also can be found on various social media platforms so reach out and say hi! XOXO CIndy & James
22 minutes | Aug 12, 2017
Episode 47 – Little Things Matter the Most
the Little Things Matter the Most It's so true in every aspect of your day. All of the little things matter the most when they add up to inspire a bigger outcome. In this episode we take a deep dive into the idea that an accumulation of small instances can and will add up to something bigger in your life. We also take a look at how influences, both good and bad, can affect the outcomes that you will get in every moment of your day. If you really want to see how this does change your way of being and your day start taking note of the little things that do it for you, write them down and then share them with our partner... ask them to do it as well and then compare your lists! You will then start to see the little things that work for you showing up more often in your day... (trust us this works so well, your partner just needs to be told what your little things are!) We love of the feedback we receive on the multiple platforms that we are on but truly mean it when we say that when you connect with us via ITL - Into The Lifestyle, you will get a response so much faster! Also for future episodes we would love to have a guest or two join in on the conversation so if you are in the Vancouver BC area let us know and we can see if it will work! Much Love XOXO Cindy & James
17 minutes | Jul 25, 2017
Episode 46 – More Dick Pictures Please!
No one wants More Dick Pictures... Please! We were at a party on the weekend and the conversation evolved to I wonder who is here that is on the prowl... So at the recommendation of a friend Cindy downloaded a well known app and started swiping left... and right! It was astonishing how different the approach was by single men and their need to get off. Hey Baby, how's your Monday Damn Girl, you are super fine I can't believe you are looking, it's my lucky day! And the list goes on, and on, and on! Super fast unrequested photos of dicks ensued and Cindy started categorizing these unfortunate people before they had a chance to let their personalities shine. So this is definitely not the case on Into The Lifestyle - the single males there seem to get it and have embraced what works... and what doesn't! So have a listen as CIndy tells it like a woman on the other side of the screen is thinking - guys this is an opportunity for you to learn what works and what doesn't! Cheers everyone! XOXO Cindy & James
23 minutes | Jul 21, 2017
Episode 45 – Meaning Making Machines
Meaning Making Machines We all do it but are we aware of the consequences? In this episode we talk about the meaning we make in all situations due to living in the past. The stories that we tell ourselves every second of every day based on the experiences that we have had throughout our lives brings us to a place that we are making meaning out of every encounter. But is it the right meaning? Most likely not! Every person on the planet makes their own meaning and no two will ever perfectly align. This is why recognizing this as a possibility and having the tools to have clear communication is a must; both in and out of the bedroom! Its not a bad thing to be a meaning making machine, we just need to recognize that we are doing it! When you do see the pattern it allows us to have more meaningful connections like the ones you will find on Into The Lifestyle We love hearing from you on all of our channels and we invite you to comment and leave a review if you are inspired by this subject. XOXO Cindy & James
19 minutes | Jul 17, 2017
Episode 44 – Disappointment and Heartbreak
Disappointment and Heartbreak is everywhere but it doesn't need to be if you use a few simple tools. Join us in this episode as we talk about our experiences around dealing with disappointment and heartbreak both in and out of the lifestyle. Also in this episode we have a gift for one lucky winner, just comment on this specific post on our podcast website and one random commenter will receive a copy of one of James' favorite books; The Thank You Economy by Gary Vaynerchuk. I don't even know why I say this every time in the show notes but as always our conversation is all over the place in this episode and we cover a wide range of ideas and topics so you never know what you might pick up from this show! Thank you so much for tuning in, commenting and all of the amazing reviews! Be sure to catch us for a live chat on Into The Lifestyle :) XOXO Cindy & James
23 minutes | Jul 13, 2017
Episode 43 – Navigating the Lifestyle
Navigating the Lifestyle can have its ups and downs... But that is normal! We hear it time and again from so many people that they are not feeling the lifestyle and then a few weeks or even months later they are back 100%. Its natural to be in the feeling and out and it is perfect as it is your journey. Check out NeuropathyHelp.co's post for guidelines in taking care of oneself. In landscaping, we dig into what the ebb and flow of the lifestyle could look like for you and how we see navigating the lifestyle can be based on our experiences as a numbers game. We also dig into online communities and what can make the special for you based on keeping your needs first as a core value in their operation. Also (and this seems to be more of as an always) the conversation takes in in lots of other directions too, so tune in and listen to what falls out of our mouths lol. If you want to take advantage of the opportunities of becoming a truck driver, here is everything you need to know. For more details, My CDL Training can help you. Lots of love everyone, thank you for listening and sending in the comments and feedback! XOXO Cindy & James Want to connect with one of us real time? Join us on www.intothelifestyle.com - we are ITLJames & ITLCyn
17 minutes | Jul 8, 2017
Episode 42 – New Connections
We Are Back... And want to talk about New Connections! We took a break that ended being longer than we planned but we are back and ready to talk all things lifestyle and relationships! In this episode we go all over the place but talk to the Influence formula, asking for what you want and a whole bunch of other related subjects.Speaking of connection, if you need translation services in Brisbane check this out. If you are into vaping, use this aspire vape. Also, you can buy it for wholesale coils and tanks. So join us, listen in and comment below... we would LOVE to hear from you!
13 minutes | Sep 11, 2016
Episode 41 – ITL Upgrade v4.0
the ITL Upgrade v4.0 is ready to launch! We are beyond excited to have the latest version of the ITL Social Network finished and ready to launch. Building the ITL Upgrade v4.0 has been a labor of love and we hope you see all of the amazing details we have put into version 4.0; from the social connectivity mainstays of #hashtags and @contentnames to full mobile compliance from any device... anywhere! We are also speaking from the stage at the upcoming Sex Talks held in Vancouver on September 29th - for tickets or more information visit the Facebook Page Here
15 minutes | Jul 19, 2016
Episode 40 – Online Profiles and a Giveaway!
What makes the best Online Profiles? We decided to bring this subject back up due to an overwhelming amount of questions we have heard lately about how to write a great online profile with the use of Fast Broadband internet. Its amazing how a little bit of work on your online profile can get you so much more attention than a poorly written one! We are also excited to chat about our latest giveaway via ITLRings.com - we are giving away a pair of ITL Rings per month for the next while with no strings attached! To enter all you need to do is visit ITLRings.com/giveaway and fill out a super fast form - that's it! Lots of love all and we look forward to hearing from you! XOXO Cindy & James
12 minutes | Jul 12, 2016
Episode 39 – When Douches Attack!
Mainstream social media seems to be full of them... When Douches Attack! In the last three days Cindy has had first hand experience with the douche factor... and she wants to rant! Join us for this episode as we look at the what occurs when someone doesn't show respect for another human being and how it directly affects their success rate in and out of the lifestyle. I bet if you look at all of your life interactions you will see how this has occurred in your life; and we love to hear from you so feel free to leave feedback below or reach out to us via the various platforms we are on. Of course the quickest and most direct way to reach us is via ITL - Into The Lifestyle XOXO - Cindy & James
16 minutes | Jul 5, 2016
Episode 38 – Lifestyle Evolution
Have you experienced your Lifestyle Evolution? We all have and most of us will always be in the midst of it; seriously! Throughout our 18+ years of being in the lifestyle we have found that we have constantly in a lifestyle evolution and all those around us have had similar journeys of their own. From being an infant teething at 2 months to puberty, to becoming an adult, buying a house, completing my own remodeling projects, while using these skirting board covers. For the latest and trending lifestyle on jewelries just checkout Rings for Women for more ideas. Speaking of evolution, try this custom designs for your Home! Checkout thunderbird custom design for more design ideas. In addition, visit https://www.shoreofficewarehouse.com/product-category/new/desks-new/adjustable-height-desks-new/ for more info. And as best business gas rates continue to rise, Americans could be forced to transform how they drive, spend, and where they live. When you want to get the best loans, click here to investigate. Well, you can ask yourself, "what is the cheapest cash advance loan?" As always (beginning to sound like a broken record here!) we delve into various topics around the lifestyle and things that we are up to...you can try this out for a change in your lifestyle and to help you in financial aspects in life and pick the right loan for your needs. So join us in the conversation and feel free to leave us feedback below, via iTunes, Social Media or the ITL Network! XOXO Cindy & James
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