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I Am Bad Ass
20 minutes | Jul 26, 2021
If vulnerability is your kryptonite listen now
I am sharing the 2 shifts you must make in order to wake up feeling fulfilled and happy. If you are the strong one who thinks… “My life is so hard. I have to do this all alone. I’m not going to let you get away with this. The world is against me.” This is for you!!! At your essence you are not this negative woman! You were NOT put here to complain and feel sorry for yourself. Let me put this into perspective… If you had 5 minutes left to live would you be feeling sorry for yourself? Would this annoy you? Would you talk about the one thing that’s negative? Absolutely not! You’d be telling your family and friends how much you love them. You’d focus on the beauty and the love and what you’re grateful for. There are 2 shifts that you must make in order to close the gap between where you are and where you want to be. You have the super power of FREE WILL! You are the author, the director, and the producer of your life. I can teach you exactly HOW to trust and be vulnerable so you finally live the happy, incredible life you were meant to live. Book in for a call with my team asap to get this party started. https://iam.laninalu.com/breakthrough
25 minutes | Jul 19, 2021
If you’ve had the same problems for 3 months listen
Title: If you’ve had the same problems for 3 months listen Are you in a victim consciousness? Yes or No? I thought the victim mentality was people who refused to get a job, refused to work hard, and people who just took energy from others. I almost killed myself to make others happy and I always said yes to everything. When you believe life is happening to you and you feel out of control… When you have the same problems you had yesterday, last week, 3 months ago, last year… When you chronically think about what went wrong from the past… You are in a victim consciousness. You can be smart, hard working, make 6 figures… AND be in victim consciousness. WHAT??? We’re always manifesting as a default. We’re either expanding or shrinking our immune system. Chronic thinking is manifesting as either a tonic or toxic chemical in the body. The most incredible, mind blowing freedom I’ve ever experienced is… The problems you have at your current vibe do NOT exist at a higher level of awareness. An insecure woman thinks it’s her husband's fault, and her team's fault for taking advantage of her. She’s obsessed with the symptoms. A confident woman doesn't have these problems. The answer: A woman who feels insecure must expand her awareness, raise her consciousness, become more confident and those problems are no longer there. Because a confident woman does not look to others for self worth. If you’re ready to have fun and enjoy your life while getting more successful in your career book in a call with my team. https://iam.laninalu.com/bookyourfreecall
21 minutes | Jul 12, 2021
How to stop seeking validation
As a high performance coach I work with successful, high achieving women. I’m talking about financially free, hard working, motivated, Bad Ass women who wake up super stressed and overwhelmed. We have not been taught how to use our masculine as a tool. Women have No clue how to be strong and vulnerable at the same time… Which creates so much stress and pressure. I’m financially free and I’m burnt out is NOT goals. Women are getting more and more masculine. Which means they’re attracting feminine as fuck men. My high achievers come to me because they are manly at work and manly at home. Since we are women we can NOT sustain masculine pushing. Our energy is drained super fast so we start giving things up in order to fulfill our work duties. The first things we let go of are pleasure and fun. No sex drive because you don’t have enough energy. No motivation to play and have fun because you “Don’t have time for that. What the actual fuck!!! When you’re ready to have fun and enjoy your life while getting more successful in your career book in a call with my team. https://iam.laninalu.com/breakthrough
23 minutes | Jul 5, 2021
More success equals more problems
The good old… “I’ll be happier when” syndrome. It’s the death of your happiness sis. Looking for salvation in the future when you don't get rejected is total bull shit because the truth is THE MORE SUCCESSFUL YOU ARE THE MORE PROBLEMS YOU HAVE. As a high performer we will always be driving forward toward more success. One of the greatest evils of the ego, is its power of persuading you that even though you’re not happy now, you will be happier when you’re more successful. Let’s get real. More success equals more pressure, more demands, more things to do, more people to oversee, and more fucking problems to solve homie. How insane is the ego’s argument? Even more insane is Whole Heartedly using your ego’s excuse to not get your shit together now… because you’ll be happier when you have more problems? It’s so dumb! And we all do it. Why do you think Chris and I have coaches bro. Because it’s the ego’s default setting to look to the future for emotional salvation. Everytime we uplevel the story of I’ll do the same thing I’m doing right now and get way more success, energy, and happiness comes up. The truth is you gotta change some shit to get something new. It’s so simple and you are very smart. No more excuses. Let’s freaking GOOOO. Join my Bad Ass community now to soak up my mind blowing energy and feel happier than you’ve ever felt right now https://www.facebook.com/groups/laninalufreegroup/
20 minutes | Jun 28, 2021
How to achieve your goals
Sister I hope you are flying on this Monday because it is a beautiful time to be alive!!! I wanted to share some real shit with you today so we can move forward toward your goals. This is not about being right or wrong. This is about shining a light on the area you want to grow. It’s very common for women to say shit like … “It’s not that bad” “I’m fine” “Everything’s ok When in reality you really want more joy, peace, & fulfillment. The way you react to help is the foundation of why you are exactly where you are. Why you don’t feel confident and proud. Nothing is more annoying than a women who says she has a problem, and then shuts down and makes excuses when she’s offered THE SOLUTION. If you are a “but” chick… “But I can’t because of time or money…” Then you have a 0% of changing. And we both know change is the ONLY way to get a differ outcome than you have now. Click the link to join my Bad Ass free community to learn how to stop the “buts” and start making the changes that make you better!!! https://www.facebook.com/groups/laninalufreegroup/
23 minutes | Jun 21, 2021
This is 40
I'm getting real about the number 40. By the time you listen to this I will be 40 and I want you to know that I subconsciously feel the stigmas around women aging… same as you. We have these measurements for success that are dumb. They're not ours, they didn't come from us, yet we feel super shitty when we don't have certain things by a certain age. I felt soooo shitty at my 36th Birthday because I was at an all time low in every area of my life. I beat myself up because I should have kids, I should have a white picket fence, I should be prettier, blah blah blah. We have so many weird stories in our subconscious that we don't even know about until we get into a new situation and actually experience it. It's called growing! It's so inspiring. It's what every Bad Ass woman living her best life does. What's not awesome is staying in the same damn place, making the same damn mistakes, never shining a light on your subconscious bull shit. Time is running out to get your ticket to my live event so if you're ready to let go of the illusions that are stopping you and lean the fuck into your best life LET'S FREAKING GOOOO. https://workshops.laninalu.com/virtual-live-event
32 minutes | Jun 14, 2021
Take control of your Karma
Sisterrrrrrr I’m so freaking excited for this episode! Girl I believe in you so hard. I 100% know with conviction that you CAN feel happy! You deserve to feel 100% confident. You get to wake up with ENERGY!!! So…. first things first let’s get you supported and into my 2 Day Live Event like yesterday CLICK HERE NOW You absolutely can take control of your Karma. You get to decide what kind of life you want to live. EVERY FREAKING THING IN YOUR LIFE COMES DOWN TO 1 STARTING POINT. Your mind! At any given moment you can bring your vibe up and start radiating the energy of being supported, loved, safe, unstoppable. Or in that same moment you can bring your vibe down by remembering the bad shit you’ve gone through and start radiating the energy of guilt, fear, negativity, and anger. You don’t have to take the shitty opinions of others onboard. You don’t have to feel guilty for making mistakes. I have figured out the simple way to be in control of my Karma, create my dream life that absolutely blows my mind every day... And the best part is I’m not perfect! There is no perfection needed when it comes to learning how to manipulate energy. The foundation of the law of attraction is INTENTION. You are so worthy in your soul. Learn how to follow through and streamline that worthiness you were BORN with by choosing your intention… And you become limitless and unstoppable like me and all the beautiful women I’ve taught. My live workshop is a no brainer for career women who are ready to stop the negative, guilty loops and finally live in flow, energy, and unleash your true Bad Ass ness to make this World better! Let’s go sis YEWWWW.
21 minutes | Jun 7, 2021
How I help clients change the way they feel
Everyone wants to change their life but only a rare few want to change their thinking. Do not ask me why changing our thinking is the ONLY way to solve our problems but it is so... We accept it and use our energy to actually do it. When your foundation is not FAITH and you are not connected to the unlimited power Source… you can only believe what is right in front of your face. Just so we're clear we are not just humans limited to what other people think of us. We are literally un fucking stoppable souls who have the gift of thinking anything we want into existence. Your brain, your mind, your thinking is the problem. The way you're doing it right now is broken, so if you try to use the same thinking that created the problem to fix the problem... It's a freaking stupid idea. Pretty clear right. For some reason we can see it so easily in others but when it comes to ourselves we become blind & stupid and continue to do the same thing that created the problem in the 1st place. And then complain about why we don't feel un fucking stoppable. The most uncomfortable thing is changing the way we see the World. However, you do have the choice to make it as enjoyable as possible by going all in, having a positive attitude, and surrounding yourself with women who have the new thinking you want. If you're my kind of woman and you're ready to stop bull shitting and finally thrive in your personal relationships and your career you have to come to our Live Lani Nalu 2 Day Event. The early bird bonuses alone are worth thousands. Start doing something different right now sis. Give yourself a freaking chance to succeed. Get your ticket here https://workshops.laninalu.com/virtual-live-event
33 minutes | May 31, 2021
Is my happiness worth it?
Diana reached out for help because she was hiding and her confidence was low. Diana had major reservations before because she'd tried so much before. She wondered what made Purpose different and asked herself, "Is this worth it? Is my happiness worth it... DAMN! We met in real life at a workshop I did in Perth before Covid and the energy of total confidence and Bad Assery blew her mind haha. Diana is a mum of 3, she's with the love of her life, and she was done settling for unfulfillment. Through the Purpose Program we taught Diana how to get out of her head and into her body so she could finally Unleash her full power! In Diana's words "I am literally living my dream. I get to do what I love." Diana has a deep love for herself and her body and looks in the mirror and feels so damn proud. Diana found like minded women in Purpose and finally got the support and accountability to take her confidence to the next level so she could make the positive, mind blowing impact on this World that she was put here to make.
32 minutes | May 24, 2021
My secret for receiving energy and love
I guarantee you will 100% burn out, get annoyed, feel exhausted, and want to quit if you allow yourself to be drained by others who just take from you... While at the same time using others to temporarily fill up your own soul. When it's not about you, but rather about the collective... And you have high ass standards because you don't need to be needed, you are driven by sharing... The more you serve, the more others share with you which is the recipe for continuous growth, love, wealth, strength, and impact. Most people are so in their own head, so possessed by worry and the fear of not being good enough that they're running around demanding everyone else serve them. Like a spoiled, annoying 5 year old shouting "Make me happy." It's definitely counter intuitive to the ego to have strong boundaries and put your mental health first. It feels uncomfortable but the more you do it the more incredible your life gets. Imagine being surrounded by people who always lift you up, always have your back, and who are always as eager to serve you as you are to serve them... Because you're both happy, energized, and live for sharing kindness. It's fucking bomb. If your career is solid and you make money but it's not your soul driven Purpose, and you're ready to finally unleash your full power then book a call with my team to take the first step toward living up to your full potential. https://iam.laninalu.com/breakthrough
27 minutes | May 17, 2021
You're so negative you don't even know you're negative
When you gain awareness and learn to have control over your thoughts... you realize how damn negative you used to be. But the trippiest part is when you're stuck in your head and run by ego you feel super powerless to your external circumstances and relationships and that is the most negative energy a person can send out. You can't trust your "instincts" when you're rooted in negativity because you have no awareness. It's so mind blowing that the most offensive thing to the ego is positivity. Ever been in a situation where your friend or partner was giving you advice to feel better and you got pissed haha. The problem is not that you don't have energy. You're successful. You're smart. You have energy. What you're not doing is streamlining your energy which can only happen when rooted in the body. And you're also not leading from your heart. Ego is negative, heart is truth. I inspire you to have an honest look at your interactions, messages, and conversations because when you are unfulfilled you are also sending out negative ass energy. If you're ready to take the leap of faith and let go of the old shitty stories to live out your full potential book in a call with my team. I believe in you sis.
17 minutes | May 9, 2021
How to get promoted and have more energy
Lauren got a promotion and as she climbed the corporate ladder she realized she kept getting more and more in her head. She punished her body and her personal relationships were suffering. Lauren was done controlling, done worrying, done with guilt... and she was ready to learn how to change so she could love and trust herself. Lauren came into Purpose because she was done stressing. She was done filling her plate and getting nowhere. Lauren was done feeling like "I have to do this" and she was ready to wake up feeling happy again. Today Lauren's energy and body are thriving! She feels so confident and excited and she's not fear driven anymore YEW! Lauren does shit from love now. Of course this has positively affected everything! Her marriage is thriving and they keep upleving together. Through Covid they've flipped a house, they're paying 2 mortgages, creating their dream home and creating a family together... and at the end of the day they have each other's backs. They love each other so much. We taught her how to trade perfectionism for the joy of the present moment and she feels sexier, stronger, more in love, and this Queen is powerfully leading her team.
29 minutes | May 3, 2021
I was sick of trying to do it alone
Today I'm talking to my beautiful client Nikki so get ready for all the freaking goosebumps sister! Holy shit balls Nikki's energy is gonna light a rocket of inspiration and hope up your bum and call you up to your full potential so you can make a move toward the woman you were born to be! Nikki worked at one of the biggest banks in the UK. Made great money, has a beautiful home, and a gorgeous family... yet she was deeply unfulfilled. Nikki would miss her daughter all day while at work and then when she finally got home she was so stressed out and in her head she'd get grumpy with her. Women we tell ourselves that we can do it alone and everything is OK when in all honesty we know we're being negative and we know that feeling stressed and overwhelmed all the time is not OK. Priding yourself on being strong when you can't even tell yourself the truth iis hypocritical sis. There is a big emotional problem when you chronically feel annoyed, sad, overwhelmed and tired. It takes energy to make a change. It takes energy to take ownership of your shit yes. But the payoff is a million times more energy, more joy, and more freedom so at this point how can you afford to not choose the path of happiness? Whatever you're telling yourself about who's fault it is or how hard your life is STOP because it is not serving you. If you're ready for the truth and the framework that will produce the highest version of YOU... Book in a call with my team asap to see if we are a great fit https://iam.laninalu.com/breakthrough
32 minutes | Apr 25, 2021
Making decisions to change your life
Sister I’m going to blow your freaking mind today! We’re taught to obsess over the side affects of your lack of decision making. Also, your ego will fight like hell to stay in your comfort zone. The gatherer syndrome and the number 1 characteristic of a woman is NOT living up to her full potential is... She is not willing to make decisions to get her to where she says she wants to be. Talking your problems and dreams to death is embarrassing. The only person that’s responsible for choosing greatness for you is YOU. When I was in your exact situation and I was finally done settling I made my own decision to be HREAT in my soul. I knew I was changing. I knew I was all in. Final answer. It has nothing to do with a price, time, or anything else. The way you’re thinking is your problem. Take ownership of making the decision in your soul. If you’re not ready you’re not ready but damn girl quit wasting other people’s time. If you are ready and you’ve made the decision to finally make changes then book in a call with my team ASAP. https://iam.laninalu.com/breakthrough
23 minutes | Apr 19, 2021
Perfectionism is a death sentance
Perfectionism almost freaking killed me!!! I have done some embarrassing shit. I have made some serious mistakes... Can you imagine if I let perfectionism stop me from doing what I was born to do? My gawd woman, it's time to change your thinking and Unleash your True Potential! You don't have to be perfect to help people. You don't have to be perfect to feel proud of yourself at the end of the day. We all get crazy ego urges, that's no excuse to stay on the burnout cycle. I inspire you to have an honest conversation with yourself. Will you ever live to your full potential if you keep doing what you're doing? Will you ever make an impact if you stay exhausted? I dare you to access a super power and actually do the shit you say you're going to do. We are not going to live forever, but you can make a change to access greatness right now. If you are vibing and you're an overachieving career woman and you're ready to source from that deeper well and feel confident and energized than you gotta book in a call with my team asap. Book here: http://iam.laninalu.com/breakthrough I believe in you!
26 minutes | Apr 12, 2021
How can I be a better human
First things first I feel like Stella got her groove back YEWWW!!! I finally got a quiet night's sleep because we moved back to the Airbnb while our house is undergoing a transformation and I feel so rejuvenated and energized. My intention for today's podcast is to help you take your power back by asking yourself one simple question... "How can I be a better human?" The ego will never ask this question so you know it's a good one. When you go down that rabbit hole of But how? But why? It's so hard? Poor me? Your power drains instantly and now you're fucked because when we feel exhausted we take shit personally, we get sick, and everything is negatively affected. Asking yourself how you can be better zaps your ego's power and shifts into the right thinking which you need to reach your goals. Any woman can say "I want happiness. I want to unleash my power. I want to fire on all cylinders. I want some next level shit..." However if your priorities are so out of alignment of what you say you want... You will never reach your goals. Do you think that when it comes to finding the support and framework I need to reach my goals of retiring my dad, saving 1 child's life a month from sex slavery, supporting my beautiful brother, and helping women unleash their full potential... I shop around by price and look for the cheapest option? Or do you think I shop around for what I need? Obviously the second one because a Queen thinks like a Queen, talks like a Queen, and acts like a Queen. I don't make excuses about time or money because I am so rooted in my vision, and living in Purpose is the most important thing to me so I do what needs to be done. Even when it's inconvenient. If you are vibing and you're over the snail pace and ready for some next level shit then book in for a call with my team asap. I'm calling all Bad Asses who are ready to truly make an impact. I believe in you.
25 minutes | Apr 4, 2021
The secret behind every successful woman
Ok... this thought has single handedly been and continues to be one of the most important pieces of my success. I am sharing the secret behind every successful woman. As humans we will always look for reasons why we CAN'T or DON'T have something. Staying in this way of thinking will 100% keep you in a loop of losing... because you will never learn or take on accountability for your patterns and therefore continue to do the same thing that does not work. If I had a dime for everytime I heard.... "Oh that's why you're so happy, because some external thing saved you." I'd be even richer than I am now haha. Successful women are successful because they show up every damn day. Not just the days they feel like it. First things first ... Stop dehumanizing women who have what you want. Stop acting like they don't have problems or fears. There is no woman that has not experienced hardships, loss, or been scared to death to move forward. It's part of life. Feel sorry for yourself and have regrets from the other side after you leave this Earth or... Accept you were built to handle and thrive through anything and make a positive impact on this World. Quit looking for the result without putting in the work. Join my Bad Ass Free community today to get my most powerful anchors when life throws me a curve ball. https://www.facebook.com/groups/laninalufreegroup
21 minutes | Mar 29, 2021
How to stop "perfectionism" sabotage
Girl I have some juicy nuggets for you! I know you're my kind of woman which means a perfectionist... and this really messes with your well being. I'm gonna get specific about relationships but these nuggets will help you in every area of your life sis. The perfectionist always self sabotages because she believes she has to be perfect to feel proud, to celebrate her wins, & to speak her truth... And then she judges others on that same nasty vibe and all that can come out of that is more judgment, resentment, lack of energy, and lack of excitement. I actually live by the belief that uncomfortable conversations equal love. I am so in love with my man. He turns me on, blows my mind, inspires me, and his scent just freaking rocks my World. It was not always like this. And to your surprise... it's not because we're perfect. Especially when we're growing we have super uncomfortable conversations without judgement because we believe in each other. We know what we're capable of. This is how love is experienced in our house. We don't have to be perfect. We get to show up and enjoy the ride. If you are my kind of woman and ready to stop sabotaging your happiness and projecting that crap onto your loved ones then you gotta join my FREE community today. Have an amazing week. I believe in you!
25 minutes | Mar 21, 2021
Why the masculine leads to burnout
Sister get ready for the most simple mindset shift that has completely changed my life. When all our success is based on pushing, proving, controlling and trying to be perfect... Our brain tells us if we shift into ease, play, and have fun we will lose everything. I'm here to blow your mind and tell you that learning HOW to work, write, speak, eat and make love in my Feminine... is the reason I'm so successful. Business is slaying. My body is getting sexier. My clients are getting more amazing. Confidence is lit don't take on other's BS. My brain is a freaking genius. Thriving with my King. I was so scared to let go of control and change because I didn't want to be a weak woman. I hated victims (embarrassed emoji) WTF how is a woman who is so controlling and masculine that she energetically has her sword drawn and is ready to cut throats at any minute inviting to anyone??? No wonder people living in their power ran the other way. Why would a confident, compassionate Bad Ass want to hang out with a snarling green monster. Sis, you're a woman. Pushing in your masculine is the best way to burnout and sabotage everything you love. For my epic training to help you access your Feminine and make your relationships thrive click the link now. https://iam.laninalu.com/sacred-morning-formula
25 minutes | Mar 15, 2021
Divine Feminine Wealth Energy
This is the 3rd and final part of my healing the collective Feminine series. I'm so excited to talk about Wealth Consciousness today YEW!!! First things first, you are not successful if you have a great job and make great money AND you are burnout and overwhelmed. Making money and feeling shit means you have a huge, deadly problem. The reason this is the most common problem for women is because society's definition of a "successful woman" is... A woman who pushes in the masculine. BARF! We have not been offered the opportunity to receive pleasure, put ourselves first, feel ecstacy from being present in our body AND make money and be super successful in business. If you're not having fun, burnout is right around the corner sis. Do you wait until burnout to do something about it or will you be proactive? You absolutely can be in your Feminine, flow with ease, not take shit personal, have fun, and make shit tons of money. Step 1 is get in my Free community asap. Join here... https://www.facebook.com/groups/laninalufreegroup/
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