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In this episode, Trey & Q. discuss pet peeves, those things you don't really care for but they can't seem to stop doing.  Check out a few things Q and Trey get peeved over and they give their thoughts on a couple of questions from the inner circle. If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes. This episode is sponsored by · Audible: Get your free book at hdylmbook.com Get the full show notes and transcript at https://hthdylm.com/notes/11 Leave Trey & Q. a voicemail 682-231-0848 Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcast so you don't miss the next episode! The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast) hdylm.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/support

In this episode, Trey & Q. discuss who do you put first over everyone, kids, spouse, parents?  This is Freestyle Friday sit back and enjoy. If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes. This episode is sponsored by · Audible: Get your free book at hdylmbook.com Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. Leave Trey & Q. a voicemail 682-231-0848 Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcast so you don't miss the next episode! The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast) hdylm.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/support

In this episode, Trey & Q. share the origin story of how they met and the drama behind them becoming 'The Scott's'.  Check out the video and full show notes/transcript go to https://hdylm.com/notes/9 If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes. This episode is sponsored by · Audible: Get your free book at hdylmbook.com Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. Leave Trey & Q. a voicemail 682-231-0848 Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcast so you don't miss the next episode! The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast) hdylm.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/support

In this Freestyle Friday episode, Trey & Q.  talk about a few different topics.  Q. gives a relationship tip (Qtip) on wives cooking, Quavo and Saweetie did the couples quiz with GQ, generational curses, and more. To see all the show notes go to hdylm.com Recommendations Mentioned in This Episode: Book - Kevin Hart’s I Can't Make This Up or get the hard copy here This episode is sponsored by · Audible: Get your free book at hdylmbook.com Leave Trey & Q. a voicemail 682-231-0848 Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave 5 STAR's and a REVIEW on Apple Podcast so you don't miss the next episode! The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/support

In this episode, Trey & Q. discuss the new normal after the honeymoon phase is over. They answer an email from a listener from the Inner Circle. Should couples try and model their relationships around their parent's relationships? What are some things you have to unlearn from your childhood? If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes. This episode is sponsored by · Audible: Get your free book at hdylmbook.com Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. Leave Trey & Q. a voicemail 682-231-0848 Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcast so you don't miss the next episode! The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast) hdylm.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/support

In this episode, Trey & Q. discuss a few questions that a few people had for Freestyle Friday. If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes. This episode is sponsored by · Audible: Get your free book at hdylmbook.com Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. Leave Trey & Q. a voicemail 682-231-0848 Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcast so you don't miss the next episode! The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast) hdylm.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/support

In this episode, Trey & Q. talk all about arguments. Have you ever thought about breaking up after an argument? What starts them, and tips on how to get through them. This episode is sponsored by:  · Audible: 1 FREE audiobook (p.s. You get to keep the book even if you don't decide to keep using it) hdylmbook.com · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. Leave Trey & Q. a voicemail 682-231-0848 Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcast so you don't miss the next episode! The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/support

In this episode, Trey & Q. roll through a few topics on Freestyle Friday. If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes.  Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: Key Points From This Episode: Who Raised You? [00:00:44] Information on voting Vote411.org. [00:4:04] Kanye for president? (00:6:04) Check out your neighborhood Next door App. (08:29:21) August Alsina and Jada's love triangle. (12:48:00) New On Netflix this month. (18:18:01) Netflix hack for 'Continue Watching'. (25:00:16) Small Business Shoutout Sasha Cheesecakes. (27:16:14) Birthday freebies from companies. (29:01:01) And much more! Recommendations Mentioned in This Episode: This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. Leave Trey & Q. a voicemail 682-231-0848 Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcast so you don't miss the next episode! The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/support

In this episode, Trey & Q. give a little advice to younger married couples and a few things they've learned over the last 6 years. If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes.  Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:  Key Points From This Episode:  How full is your cup? (0:00:44) Expectations of the spouse. (0:2:22)  Trey and Q. answer the question of why they got married. (0:4:23) Importance of knowing what you want in a spouse. (0:4:26)  Trey's thoughts on him preparing for marriage. (0:10:22)  Importance of premarital counseling before marriage. (0:10:39)  A few things they felt they needed to know about their spouse before they got married. (0:12:49)  Q's pressure from not growing up in church and marrying a preacher's kid. (0:15:51) A few things they would go back and tell their pre-married selves. (0:16:53)  Book recommendation. (0:18:37)  Balancing wants and needs when married. (0:18:58) Leave Trey & Q a voicemail 682-231-0848. (0:23:58)  GAME: This or That. (0:24:43) Trey's Logic. (0:26:51)  Working on yourself even after you get married. (0:28:55)  And much more!  Recommendations Mentioned in This Episode:  Book - The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts by Gary Chapman  This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast.  Leave Trey & Q. a voicemail 682-231-0848  Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcast so you don't miss the next episode! The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/support

In this episode, Trey & Q. talk about hypergamy or the tendency to fawn upon, seek and pursue partners of a higher class, income, or status than themselves. aka marrying up. If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes.  Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:  Hypergamy Youtube video:  youtu.be/yiu5h2rPsSA  Key Points From This Episode:  What is hypergamy? (0:03:10)  Is the man or the woman the prize in the relationship? (0:6:14)  The standards a great father will set for his daughter. (0:6:58)  Hot girl summer influencer mentality of some women today. (0:7:54)  The movie 'Holes' reference to a man coming to the table before taking a father's daughter in marriage. (0:9:05)  When women see wealth, sometimes it translating to stability or comfortability. (0:10:05) Some of the things Q was looking for in a guy. (0:11:32) Getting married young and growing together. (0:12:32)  Personal story on how you can feel empty when you put your value in your spouse. (0:13:14)  Discussion on who pays the bills/finances. (0:16:23) Having premarital counseling. (0:16:40)  How your parents can influence your thoughts on finances. (0:17:40)  Having joint accounts for everything, no confusion. (0:19:07)  Personal story of a friend who has separate accounts in marriage. (0:19:57)  Men who look to be supported by there women. (0:21:57) GAME: Would You Rather. (0:24:36)  Trey's Logic. (0:27:00)  Book Recommendation. (0:29:27)  And much more!  Recommendations Mentioned in This Episode:  Book - Relationship Goals by Michael Todd  This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast.  Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcasts so you don't miss the next episode!  The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/support

In this episode, Trey & Q. talk about birthdays once you get grown. How we should be intentional when we are planning it. Then they talk about how clueless we can all be in our 20's and go over a few things everyone should learn in their 20's. If you enjoy the podcast don't forget to give it a rating and review on iTunes.   Peer pressure doesn't go away  Your company doesn't care about you  Loving yourself is hard  It's really hard to save money They took some time out to check in on some personal and professional milestones they both are working on. They ended this episode talking about a place or event that transformed their ideas, thinking, perspective, and what changed about them then concluded with Trey's Logic segment.  Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:  NY Times How to Celebrate Your Birthday Article 20 Harsh Life Lessons Books Mentioned:  Relationship Goals: How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcasts so you don't miss the next episode!  The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/support

Hey y'all! The How Do You Love Me Podcast is a weekly conversation hosted by Trey & Q. Scott, a millennial married couple in DFW, Texas. They're talking about juicy current events, married life, and personal growth/development.  This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast.  Be sure to follow on Spotify, subscribe, and leave a 5 STAR REVIEW on Apple Podcasts so you don't miss the next episode! This episode is an introduction to the podcast. Q  goes through an early marriage story when she came home early to Trey doing something she couldn't believe on her new comforter! The hashtag for the podcast is #HDYLM Hang with us on IG Q. (TeachQueenQ) / Trey (DScottStyle) / Podcast (HDYLM_Podcast) Premieres June 29th. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hdylm/support