Forgiveness Day to Day | Part Two
This is our second and final episode in our forgiveness mini series. In this episode we chat through the practicalities of everyday forgiveness and mull over Scripture that explicitly commands this type of living. This is something that all Christians could be working on. We hope you feel encouraged, yet challenged - we certainly are! Day to Day forgiveness: Reasons why we hurt other people (reasons why we sin): - as a reaction to our situation (to feel a bit of control or power?) - because we are selfish and want what we think is best for ourselves and we don’t care what it takes or who it hurts for us to get itMatthew 18:21-35 New International Version (NIV)The Parable of the Unmerciful Servant21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.[a]23 “Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. 24 As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold[b] was brought to him. 25 Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.26 “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ 27 The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go.28 “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins. He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded.29 “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’30 “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. 31 When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened.32 “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. 33 Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ 34 In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.” This passage shows us that God has shown us such a magnitude of mercy that our only reposes should be to show mercy to others. Jesus says in Luke 6, “Be merciful, just as you Father is merciful.” Yet this is not what we encounter from the forgiven slave in this parable. The debt of the second man was not insignificant, but compared to the first it is so minimal! The first man was greedy and almost unbelievably oblivious to the implications of his own forgiveness that he just received. When the fellow servant fell down and pleaded with him, it should have reminded him of his recent circumstances, but still was unmoved. Jesus is trying to make the point here that the servant who owed much did not see the weight of his debt he had against the king. Those who fail to see how much they have been forgiven, will also fail to extend forgiveness to others. He was forgiven much and the grace he received should have easily led him to extend forgiveness to his fellow servant. And so it should be with us. - The reality is that when we truly understand what it is that we have been forgiven of and from Whom we have been granted forgiveness, then day to day forgiveness should become a&