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Triangulation is a favorite tool of the Narcissist to manipulate their Target(s). But, why? How do they triangulate? The reasons will be discussed in this episode. Women often believe that they have one rival, another object of the Narcissist's affection(or, one that she will believe is relentlessly pursuing the Narcissist) and will, consequently, shift into "fight or flight" mode during this phase of the relationship. Is it merely, a harmless way for a New Love Interest to "test" to determine you really love, are "in love with" and/or care about him? Unfortunately, the ulterior motive is much more sinister. Moreover, inciting jealousy isn't the way one that is mature and emotionally healthy enough to be in a relationship would do that. Seemingly, there are two rivals. But, that's rarely ever the case. Listen to find out why, and how they utilize this manipulation tactic so that you can avoid being entrapped in it!!!

It's time for OPERATION #ByeBye "Warning" The Narcissist, Sociopath, Psychopath, New "Love Interest", ie., the millionth "Love Of The Lives" IS NOT a good idea. Yes, personality disordered men/Cluster B's PERIOD are (more often, then you think) of the same ILK(Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths, and Borderlines) and that includes the women the triangulate with!!! H. G. Tudor “Dark Minions” https://youtu.be/HilF1acSE4g “Whether seduction or devaluation they are coming for you.” H.G. Tudor They are there to destroy anything and everything that's LEFT, OF YOU that the Narcissist has not destroyed. The “Teachable Moment” of that whole experience, is that unfortunately, you can not take the word of other people that someone you're dating, especially, if you have just met them to be “a sign” that they genuinely love, care, respect, and are “crazy” about YOU... That is why so many targets are bewildered when the N,S, P devalues, eventually, discards the target

Taking the advice(albeit well-meaning) can and does often result in being a Target, of Narcissistic Abuse. Our culture and society has become one that values PROFIT over PEOPLE. Therefore, much of the information we received, even from TRUSTED, WORLD RENOWNED SOURCES, is often "sugar-coated", "watered-down", and in some cases blatant deception by omission of very relevant terminology/language that would make it perfectly clear, that there was a clear and present, impending DANGER. In particular, dating. Including agencies that are supposed to be protecting women, and receive millions of dollars in funding, as well as, donations. They have been painting men with the broad stroke of "Abuser" and "Batterer" when in all actuality, these men may very well be Narcissists, Sociopaths, and/or Psychopaths. And, women are dying because of it. To imply that a woman "SHOULD JUST LEAVE" when the truth is, there is no place for her to go, INCLUDING DV shelters, is a crime, in and of itself IMHO